Daddy issues will not discriminate against you whether you are a man or woman, and/or the choice of your sexuality. Implying that, as a child if your father wasn’t the man you expected or wanted him to be, this is going to affect your adult relationships. Note that your father’s behavior whatever it was, has determined your beliefs about men in general. The relationship you had or didn’t have with your father is the foundation upon which you know how to relate with your partner(s), and other people.
In these EFT series I will be using EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to resolve conflicts and negative stories reflecting on your father.
Please remember to go through this session for at least 14 days for it to be effective.
If you want more personalized sessions send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com. Or simply visit my website at http://www.tapthegood.com and follow the instructions of how to sign up for a session.
In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from love from my heart to yours.
Dark entities, negative spirits and other angry ancestral spirits can create havoc in one’s life. It takes more than wishful thinking or simple therapy to release the grip on them.
In this POWERFUL prayer, I invoke Christ Consciousness and the angelic realm to break all codes, contracts, agreements and associations plus the grip on this darkness.
Open your heart and allow the healing to take place.
If you need more work done, I specialize in helping clients release and heal from dark stuff.
It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.
Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.
In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.
The Problem:
Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.
If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men. The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.
Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.
Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:
What exactly happened?
Who was there?
What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?
Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming
Or sign up for my complimentary 30 minutes consultation session to set up counseling sessions that are guaranteed to help you take your power back from the negative past in order to live life on your terms.
Inventions are available to each of us if we open up our minds to them. It is both simple and exciting. If you want to come up with a new idea or service, begin focusing entirely on everything you do. As you go about your day, if you feel uncomfortable about anything you are doing, stop. Begin thinking about ways, means, or products that would have made your activity more comfortable or enjoyable to do.
An invention is the gap between the uncomfortable and comfortable levels. That is how cell phones were made, to bridge the gap between the discomfort of having to look for someone all over the place, and the comfort of just picking up the phone and reaching them wherever they are.
The next thing to do is search the Internet for any similar products or services that you think can bridge the identified gap. If there are none, then you have an invention. That idea right there is what you can turn into a mega product or service. The only work for you to do is to develop the confidence in the idea and pursue it limitlessly without letting anyone or anything discourage you. Remember, if you want it bad enough, you will get it.
Most people think the challenge with money is learning how to earn it.
Surprisingly, for many people the real challenge is learning how to receive it.
Yes, receive it.
You may have seen this happen before. Someone gets a compliment and immediately says, “Oh, it was nothing.” Someone is offered help and replies, “No, no, I can’t accept that.” Someone raises their prices and suddenly feels guilty.
It is almost as if the mind says, Money is welcome… but not too much.
Many people were taught, directly or indirectly, that wanting money is selfish or that receiving too much might make them appear greedy. Others fear expectations that might come with financial success.
So when money begins to flow, the subconscious sometimes reacts like a nervous host at a party.
“Oh wow… this is great… but maybe you should leave soon.”
This discomfort quietly influences decisions. People may underprice their work, decline opportunities, or hesitate to ask for fair compensation.
Yet receiving money is not selfish. In many ways, it is simply an exchange of value.
When you offer skills, creativity, solutions, or service, money becomes the way that value circulates through the world.
And when you become comfortable receiving that value, something interesting happens.
Confidence grows. Opportunities feel natural. And prosperity stops feeling like an accident.
Call to Action
If you would like to learn practical techniques for dissolving subconscious money blocks and strengthening your prosperity mindset, explore my book:
Stimulate Your Money Magnetism
Because sometimes the path to abundance is not only about earning more.
Sometimes it begins with simply learning how to say yes when prosperity knocks.
Have you ever met someone who says they want more money… but every opportunity that could bring money somehow gets rejected?
A better job appears. “Too risky.”
A new idea shows up. “Probably won’t work.”
A business opportunity knocks. “Sounds complicated.”
Before long, money starts acting like a guest who keeps hearing, “Maybe come back later.”
The truth is, people rarely repel money on purpose. It usually happens because of subtle habits and beliefs operating in the background.
For example, some people feel guilty about wanting wealth. Others fear that success will attract criticism, jealousy, or pressure. Some believe that if they earn more, they might lose relationships or become a “different person.”
So the subconscious mind quietly protects them by pushing opportunities away.
It’s a bit like installing a security system that accidentally locks out the owner of the house.
Money is not only attracted by skills or effort. It is also influenced by confidence, openness, and the belief that prosperity is acceptable.
When your mindset welcomes opportunity instead of fearing it, your decisions begin to change. You start saying yes to growth, exploring new ideas, and recognizing value where you once saw risk.
And gradually, the financial doors that once seemed closed begin to open.
Call to Action
If you want to discover practical ways to dissolve subconscious money blocks and strengthen your prosperity mindset, explore my book:
Have you ever noticed how money problems sometimes feel… strangely familiar?
Different job, different year, different bank account, yet somehow the same financial frustrations keep showing up like an uninvited guest who forgot when the party ended.
This happens because many money struggles are not only about numbers. They are often connected to emotional patterns and inherited beliefs about money.
Some of us grew up hearing things like:
“Money is the root of all evil.” “Rich people are selfish.” “We are not the kind of people who become wealthy.”
Those ideas can quietly settle into the subconscious and influence financial decisions for years.
This is where Ho’oponopono offers a powerful and gentle path for healing.
Ho’oponopono is a Hawaiian practice of emotional cleansing that focuses on releasing negative memories, guilt, and unconscious blocks through four simple phrases:
I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.
When applied to financial beliefs, this practice helps release emotional resistance tied to money.
Imagine acknowledging old money fears and saying:
“I’m sorry for the beliefs that limited my prosperity. Please forgive me. Thank you for the lessons. I love the new possibilities now entering my life.”
It may sound simple, yet powerful emotional shifts often begin with simple practices repeated consistently.
And when emotional blocks begin to dissolve, something interesting happens.
Opportunities feel less threatening. Confidence grows. And prosperity begins to feel more natural.
Call to Action
If you would like to learn more about releasing subconscious money blocks and activating your prosperity mindset, explore my book:
Stimulate Your Money Magnetism
Because sometimes financial healing does not begin with a new strategy.
Sometimes it begins with a new conversation with yourself.
Many people say they want more money. But if we listen carefully to their thoughts, we often hear things like:
“What if I lose it?” “What if I make a mistake?” “What if I become greedy?”
Fear around money is more common than we realize. Some people fear not having enough. Others fear responsibility, criticism, or failure that might come with financial success.
So even while trying to attract wealth, the mind quietly sends the opposite message: Stay safe. Stay small.
This is where EFT tapping can be powerful.
Emotional Freedom Technique works by gently tapping on specific meridian points on the body while acknowledging emotional blocks. The process helps calm the nervous system and release emotional resistance stored in the subconscious.
Think of it as clearing static from your mental radio so a new signal can come through.
A simple example might sound like this while tapping:
“Even though I feel anxious about money, I choose to release this fear and open myself to new possibilities.”
When practiced regularly, tapping can reduce anxiety, increase emotional clarity, and allow healthier beliefs about wealth to emerge.
And once fear begins to fade, your mind becomes more open to opportunities, creativity, and confident financial decisions.
Call to Action
If you want to explore deeper EFT and mindset techniques to dissolve money fears and activate your prosperity mindset, discover more in my book:
Many of us were taught one powerful rule about money: work harder and you will earn more. It sounds logical. It even sounds noble. Yet if hard work alone created wealth, construction workers, nurses on night shifts, and parents raising three kids would all be millionaires.
Clearly, something else is involved.
Hard work matters, but alignment matters just as much. Wealth tends to grow where ideas, opportunity, confidence, and value creation meet. Sometimes the person working the hardest is simply working in the wrong direction.
Think of it like pushing a car. You can push with all your strength, sweat, and determination. But if the car is in neutral and rolling downhill, a gentle push may move it faster than ten hours of struggle.
This does not mean effort is useless. It means effort must be paired with awareness. When your mindset shifts from survival to possibility, you begin to notice opportunities you once ignored.
And suddenly, the path to abundance feels less like carrying rocks uphill and more like walking through doors that were already there.
Call to Action
If you want to learn practical techniques to dissolve limiting beliefs and activate your abundance mindset, explore my book:
Many of us grew up hearing things like, “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” or “Rich people are greedy.” Over time, those ideas sneak into our subconscious and start running our financial life like an invisible boss.
So you might be working hard, dreaming big, and still wondering why money treats you like that one friend who always says they’re coming but never shows up.
The truth is, money blocks are often not about effort. They are about beliefs we inherited without questioning them.
If you were taught that money is difficult, dangerous, or reserved for “other people,” your mind may quietly push opportunities away, even while you’re trying to attract them.
The good news is that beliefs are not permanent. Once you see them clearly, you can change them.
And when those old money stories begin to dissolve, something interesting happens. Opportunities feel easier. Confidence grows. And wealth begins to feel natural instead of stressful.
Call to Action
If you want to start dissolving subconscious money blocks and activating your abundance mindset, explore the practical techniques inside my book:
For many women, life moves quickly through the years of responsibility.
There are careers to build, families to nurture, and countless expectations to meet. Days become structured around productivity, caregiving, and maintaining stability for others. In the middle of these responsibilities, many women quietly place their own needs at the bottom of the list.
Menopause often interrupts that long-standing pattern.
Not abruptly, but unmistakably.
“Every stage of a woman’s life reveals a deeper version of who she is becoming.” — Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray
Changes in sleep, energy, mood, and concentration begin to shift the rhythm of everyday life. Activities that once felt routine may suddenly require more patience. Moments of quiet reflection appear where constant movement once existed.
At first, these changes can feel frustrating or confusing.
Yet they also create space.
Space to ask questions that may not have been possible earlier in life. Questions about purpose, priorities, and the direction of the years ahead.
Without the same pressure to constantly prove productivity, a woman may begin to notice parts of herself that have been waiting for attention. Interests that were postponed. Boundaries that were never clearly defined. Dreams that were quietly set aside during earlier chapters of life.
In this way, menopause can act as a turning point.
Instead of focusing only on what the body is losing, women can begin to recognize what they are gaining: time for reflection, emotional insight, and a deeper understanding of themselves.
Of course, the emotional and physical adjustments of menopause can still create challenges. Anxiety, stress, and self-doubt may arise during the transition.
This is why supportive practices that calm the mind and restore emotional balance can be valuable during this stage.
One approach many women explore is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), a gentle practice that combines tapping with intentional statements to help release emotional tension and regulate the body’s stress response.
I introduce a thirty-day process designed to help women navigate emotional changes while reconnecting with their inner steadiness. These practices are simple, accessible, and designed to support women during a period of transformation.
Menopause is not simply a biological event.
For many women, it becomes a moment to pause, reflect, and rediscover who they are becoming in the next stage of life.
If you would like to explore these practices, you can learn more about the book here:
Menopause often introduces changes that affect more than the physical body. Many women notice shifts in mood, patience, and emotional responses that once felt predictable. Situations that previously required little effort may suddenly feel more demanding.
These experiences can be confusing, especially for women who have spent years managing responsibilities with confidence and stability. When emotional responses change unexpectedly, it is easy to question one’s sense of control or resilience.
However, these changes are not signs of weakness.
“Emotional balance in menopause begins the moment a woman treats herself with patience instead of pressure.” — Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray
Hormonal transitions influence the nervous system and the way the brain processes stress and emotion. As these internal systems adjust, emotional responses may temporarily become more sensitive or intense.
Understanding this connection is important because it allows women to approach menopause with knowledge rather than self-criticism.
Instead of interpreting emotional shifts as personal shortcomings, women can recognize them as signals that the body and mind are recalibrating.
During this stage, practices that support emotional balance become particularly valuable. Techniques that calm the nervous system and release accumulated stress can help restore a sense of steadiness.
One approach many women find helpful is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). This practice combines gentle tapping on specific points of the body with intentional statements that help interrupt cycles of stress and anxious thinking. Over time, these small daily practices can help the nervous system return to a more balanced state.
I introduce a structured thirty-day process designed to help women navigate emotional changes during menopause with greater calm and clarity. The practices are simple, accessible, and designed to fit naturally into daily life.
When emotional balance returns, many women rediscover something important: their confidence was never lost. It was simply waiting for the mind and body to settle into a new rhythm.
There is a subtle change that many women notice during menopause. It does not always arrive dramatically, yet its presence becomes increasingly clear over time.
A woman begins to question expectations she once accepted without hesitation.
“Menopause teaches a woman something powerful: her peace matters more than anyone’s expectations.” — Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray
Responsibilities that once felt automatic now invite reflection. Conversations that once required silence now inspire honesty. The need to please others begins to lose its urgency.
For many women, menopause coincides with a stage of life where decades of experience have accumulated. Careers have developed. Families have grown. Lessons have been learned through both success and difficulty.
The body’s changes during menopause often encourage women to conserve energy and direct attention more carefully. Time becomes more valuable. Emotional peace becomes more important than external approval.
In this way, menopause often brings an unexpected gift: the emergence of self-authority.
Self-authority does not mean becoming rigid or distant from others. Instead, it reflects the ability to recognize what truly supports well-being and what quietly drains it. Decisions begin to reflect internal wisdom rather than external pressure.
Of course, this transition is not always comfortable. Emotional fluctuations, anxiety, and fatigue can make the process feel confusing. When the nervous system feels unsettled, confidence can temporarily fade.
This is why supportive practices that calm the mind and restore balance can be so valuable during this stage.
One approach many women find helpful is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), a practice that combines gentle tapping with intentional statements to help release emotional tension and regulate stress responses.
I guide women through a structured thirty-day practice designed to help reduce anxiety, soften self-doubt, and restore a grounded sense of confidence. Each exercise is simple, practical, and designed to fit into daily life.
Confidence during menopause is rarely about becoming someone new. More often, it is about trusting the insight that years of living have already provided.
Menopause does not diminish a woman’s voice.
In many cases, it is the moment she finally learns to listen to it.
If you would like to explore these practices, you can learn more about the book here:
For many women, menopause introduces signals that feel unfamiliar. The body begins to express itself differently. Sleep may arrive later than expected. Concentration may shift throughout the day. Emotional sensitivity may increase in situations that once felt ordinary.
These changes often create frustration because they interrupt routines that have worked for years. A woman who has relied on discipline and structure may suddenly feel as though her internal rhythm has changed without warning.
Yet the body is not working against her.
Menopause often reveals a simple truth that many women have not had the opportunity to practice earlier in life: the importance of listening inwardly. For decades, many women move through responsibilities that require them to care for others, manage careers, and maintain stability for the people around them. During those years, personal signals from the body are often ignored or postponed.
Menopause alters that pattern.
“Confidence during menopause is not something you rebuild. It is something you remember.” — Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray
Instead of allowing constant outward focus, this stage gently redirects attention inward. The nervous system asks for calm. The mind asks for space. The body asks for restoration.
When women respond to these signals with curiosity rather than resistance, something interesting begins to happen. The pressure to maintain constant performance begins to soften. A new form of confidence emerges, one that is rooted less in productivity and more in self-awareness.
Practices that regulate the nervous system can be particularly helpful during this transition. Techniques that slow breathing, release tension, and interrupt cycles of anxious thinking help restore emotional balance and mental clarity.
One method many women find useful is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), a simple practice that combines gentle tapping with intentional statements. This method supports the nervous system while helping the mind release persistent patterns of worry or self-doubt.
In my book,
The Confidence Reset: 30 Days of EFT to End Self-Doubt, Calm Anxiety, and Reclaim Your Radiance in Menopause!
I guide women through a structured 30-day journey designed to help calm emotional turbulence and rebuild a steady sense of confidence. The goal is not to force change, but to create small daily shifts that help women reconnect with their natural balance.
Menopause does not require women to become someone new. Often it simply asks them to become more attentive to themselves than they have been allowed to be before.
When the body is heard, the mind often finds peace.
If you would like to explore these practices, you can learn more about the book here:
Tapthegood 
