Auction: Something for your submissive on Valentine’s Day?
Posted: January 14, 2026 Filed under: Jewelry, submissive | Tags: Auction, BDSM, bracelet, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gift, Housing Works NYC, Life, padlock, Shopping, sterling silver, Symbolism, Valentine's Day Leave a comment
Sterling Silver Padlock Bracelet (BDSM)
Description
* Sterling silver
* Gold vermeil accents
* Total weight: 40.3 grams
* Marked on the heart
* Press-fit hinged clasp
* Heart with skeleton keyhole and bail, can be removed from bracelet and worn as a pendant
* In great shape with some very fine scratches
Dimensions
Bracelet 7 1/2″L x 5/8″W, Heart 1 1/4″H x 3/4″W
AUCTION ENDS on 1/22/2026 at 10:00 pm EST – click here to view and bid!
$20 well spent at Urban Outfitters
Posted: December 20, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fellatio, headband, Holidays 2025, Master, Presentation Outfit, shiny, Shopping, tinsel 2 Comments
Urban Outfitters Tinsel Headband $20
Master laughed when dievca presented in the nude with only the Urban Outfitters tinsel headband on. Apparently it made an engaging picture during fellatio.
dievca just checked – the colored version and the silver version are both sold out.
Bummer – XO

Bound to Please
Posted: December 18, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bodysuits, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fleur du Mal, flogger, Holiday 2025, impact play, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, Undergarment Leave a comment
Fleur du Mal
Cage Bodysuit $298 and Leather Flogger $198
A gift list wish from your dievča – XO
A Presentation Outfit for Tree Trimming!
Posted: December 13, 2025 Filed under: Home and Garden, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Holiday 2025, Life, Master, nightgown, Presentation Outfit, tree trimming Leave a comment
Master wants to decorate His Christmas Tree this weekend – dievca is planning on using Jayne Mansfield as inspiration! Should be fun ~ XO

Practicality – an outfit in 2025
Posted: September 24, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, Dresses, submissive | Tags: birth month, cycling, D/s, dievca, Life, lunch, Master, Metropolitan Museum, outfit, practical, simple, travel Leave a commentdievca got off the plane late in the evening. she went to sleep without unpacking and got up early to work the next morning. Midday, she planned to meet with Master at the Met Museum for her birthday.
The outfit had to be simple: easy for biking, easy for walking, semi-put-together for the museum and lunch.
How did she do?
Elegantly Framed (NSFW)
Posted: July 23, 2025 Filed under: Submission, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Hogtie, Leather, photo, Presentation, stockings 1 Comment
What a beautiful presentation of a vulva!
Taking the Flying Leap and a Thank You~
Posted: May 26, 2025 Filed under: Disasters, Discussion, submissive | Tags: acceptance, aging, BDSM, Blog, change, D/s, dievca, Grateful, heartfelt, Life, Life Changes, Master, personal, submissive, Thank you, upgrade, Wordpress 4 Comments
dievca has to take the “flying leap”, again. she’s used 96% of her storage.
she needs to upgrade.
Honestly, her storage use has had quite good longevity for a blog that started with
this post in September, 2013:
Something handsome for Master…..or Mistress

At $20,000, this gorgeous Coach-Billy Reid Warrior Tote in Alligator will hold Master’s tools of the trade. Can you see your Mistress pulling out a black silk blindfold, ball gag and shearling bondage restraints?
dievca cannot wait.
In the past 12 years, dievca has weathered:
- people moving from blogs to Instagram
- currently TikTok
- an upgrade that decimated 2/3 of her followers
- people closing down their blogs or just disappearing
- COVID
- diminishment of time available to use the Reader – dievca knows she is missing GREAT blogs
- the general public’s loss of interest in BDSM – understandable
- personal loss – that’s Life!
- personal change in shopping needs and goals
- physical changes and injuries
- aging
So, let’s ask the question Master has asked his dievca a number of times over the years,
“Do you want to keep the blog going?”
dievca’s answer at this moment?
“Yes”
The blog has always been for dievca and if people are on her ride, amazing! – that’s secondary.
So, she will be taking the LEAP a second time and will attempt another upgrade. If anyone is reading this, Thank You, for joining dievca’s ride and hopefully she will see you on the other side.
Sending love and good wishes. XO
your dievča
What a Treat!
Posted: May 25, 2025 Filed under: Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: dievca, erotic, Grateful, Life, Memorial Day Weekend, nude, relaxation, sleep, time off Leave a comment
An empty City and a chance to sleep!
a moment for elegance
Posted: December 19, 2024 Filed under: Dresses, Fashion, submissive | Tags: Black, clean lines, d-s, dievca, Elegant, Holidays 2024, New Year's Eve, Presentation Outfit, Rodarte, ShopBop, Shopping, silk Leave a comment
Taking a break from Ugly Christmas Sweaters to admire a dress which is on sale at ShopBop. The designer is Rodarte – a Black Silk Satin Halter Dress with a Red Silk Flower Pin. Perhaps something for New Year’s Eve~
Gorgeous for presenting to your Sir or Madame.
- Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch charmeuse
- Bias cut for slight stretch and a fluid drape
- Optional silk rosette pin
- Open back
- Halter neckline
- Hook-and-eye and hidden zip at side
- Shell: 100% silk
- Unlined
- Dry clean
- Made in the USA
Taking the edge off
Posted: December 13, 2024 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Home and Garden, Master, submissive | Tags: chores, D/s, dievca, erotic, Fantasy, masturbation, Orgasm, release, self-care, squirting, travel Leave a comment
With Master traveling, dievca is on mail/plant duty. she took the subway uptown in a heavy rain to complete her chores. dievca stripped out of her rainsuit, sweater and rainboots upon arrival. While airing out the apartment, she watered the plants, collected the mail and decided to find the good vibrator.
Master left no instructions as to self-care for His dievca and she was feeling the need for release.
Thank goodness she laid a towel on Master’s quilt – the fantasy of Master watching His dievca masturbate caused her to orgasm and squirt in a very decisive manner.
The towel came home with dievca for washing. A repeat scenario may be in the plans for the next mail/plant check. This time dievca will touch base with her Master to see if He has any instructions.
“The strongest chains are forged from trust”
Posted: October 3, 2024 Filed under: Clothing, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, chains, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Presentation, ShopBop, Shopping, skirt, submissive, subtle, top 4 CommentsAn elegant way to present your preference for bondage with the rabanne Haut top and Jupe skirt from ShopBop – on sale with 25% off using the code STYLE.
- Fabric: Lightweight, non-stretch satin
- Gold-tone chain-link shoulder straps and details
- Round neckline
- Sleeveless
- Shell: 100% polyester
- Skirt – Optional, gold-tone chain-link belt at waist
- Hook-and-eye and hidden zip at side
- Unlined
- Hand wash
- Imported, Tunisia
A bit of tea this Monday Morning!
Posted: August 26, 2024 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: caffeine, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Life, Monday, Morning, nude, tea 2 Comments
dievca has time to change it up this morning!
Do you have time for a Morning “Cuppa”?
Day dreaming
Posted: February 23, 2024 Filed under: submissive | Tags: BDSM, collar, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Master, odalisque, restraints 2 Comments
dievca needs to finish the project by Monday and she’s finding herself distracted~
Part One accepted!
Posted: January 26, 2024 Filed under: Discussion, submissive, Vintage | Tags: celebration, champagne, determination, dievca, Humor, Kate Hepburn, Life, movie clip, work Leave a comment
Part Two – “drop dead” is February 23th, dievca had started the work earlier – now it needs clarification and completion.
GIF: Kate Hepburn – Philadelphia Story
all-consuming
Posted: January 10, 2024 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: dievca, erotic, Helmut Newton, Humor, Life, New Year, nude, photo, project, work Leave a comment
How are you doing with the New Year?
dievca’s project is eating her alive~
Photo: Helmut Newton
Sassy Submissive Silk Scarf with Moschino (Housing Works Auction)
Posted: January 4, 2024 Filed under: Accessories, submissive | Tags: Auction, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, fun, Housing Works NYC, Lingerie, Moschino, Presentation Outfits, sassy, Scarf, Shopping, silk Leave a comment
Moschino
Description
* 100% Silk
* Hand-rolled edges
* Grey ground, black pattern and edges, red grid lines
* Printed logo
* Made in Italy
* 24 inches x 24 inches (60 cm x 60 cm)
Auction Ends in 11 days – check on it HERE

Looking to show your sassy side? A nod to your D/s relationship in a subtle manner. Perhaps as a blindfold during play time? Elegant, Erotic and Fun! As only vintage Moschino can be~
There are 11 days left to the auction from 01/03/2024 – click on the link above!
Ends at Midnight: Up to 90% off at Agent Provocateur
Posted: December 25, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, lingerie, submissive | Tags: Agent Provocateur, dievca, Elegant, erotic, gift, Joy, Presentaion, sale, Sexy, Shopping, Undergarments 1 Comment
Laily
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Bra $45
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Panties $25
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Garter Belt $40
Click “Laily” to purchase
Flutter Panties – Fleur du Mal
Posted: November 21, 2023 Filed under: lingerie, submissive | Tags: dievca, erotic, Fleur du Mal, flirty, Panties, ruffle, sassy, Sexy, Shopping, silk, Undergarment, young 1 Comment
Give them cheek. Cut from our classic, luxe silk charmeuse, the Luxe Flutter Panty features an ultra flattering high leg cut that sits high at the natural waist. Flirty cheeky cut back with ruffle detailing.
Not quite for Master’s dievca, but perhaps of interest for an adorable sassy submissive. XO
Feeling guilty…
Posted: November 4, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, Clothing, submissive | Tags: body awareness, D/s relationships, dievca, expensive, Humor, Life, Master, menopause, Shopping, spending Leave a commentWe all know that dievca is short and has an athletic build – add a little menopause belly in there. Humorous, as her swim training is causing her shoulders and arms to gain muscle yet she struggles to keep the muscle on her problem knee’s quad and glute. (the leg doesn’t straighten completely – makes for a lot of work to keep muscle).
Anyways…
she’s been stripping and selling her closet. More sold to Buffalo Exchange and Crossroads this week.
At lunch, Master asked if she is refilling her closet.
dievca stuttered with her answer because – she had just paid full price for three items.
she doesn’t look anything like these models, but the items fit her well, except for the pants having to be hemmed…
Stockings for Master
Posted: October 25, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Love, Master, Presentation, restrained, Sexy, stockings, submissive Leave a comment
and cuffs for His dievca.
A D/s Match made!
XO
a Drowned Rat with no gallant Master
Posted: September 29, 2023 Filed under: Master, submissive | Tags: dievca, Life, Master, NYC, practical, Rain, Rainboots, Raincoat, travel, waterproof, Weather Leave a commentIn 2013 – dievca offered this post:
Well, Master is off to the warm delight that is Paris then heading to the Sweden and the UK. he’s currently not available to share his Burberry Trench…
dievca had to make her way to the Bowling Green station on the 4 in a torrential downpour where the deluge slowed the train – which made listening to the pontificating homeless person an exercise in not catching eyes. dievca made it to her appointment, 5 min early – a minor miracle.
Her practical outfit was:
Caffeine at the pool on a Monday morning~
Posted: May 22, 2023 Filed under: Home and Garden, submissive | Tags: apartment, BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Early Bird, Hudson River, Life, Monday, Morning, NYC, Sunrise, swimming Leave a comment
Forward Crawl and Backstroke doing well. The dolphin kick was a bit of a mess. Not using the quads enough to match the top and bottom kicks – working on it.
Today dievca’s building is shutting down the elevators from 5 am to 7 am for a full fire inspection. dievca has a plan for coffee on the sundeck to watch the sunrise and an early swim. How packed are the elevators going to be at 4:45 am? Who knows – worst case scenario, dievca has coffee at home and she cancels the swim reservation.
Good Morning! have a lovely week.
M is for Masturbation, N is for…
Posted: May 2, 2023 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, erotic, Life, Love, Master, masturbation, Orgasm, self-pleasure, travel Leave a comment
…Nipples, O is for Orgasm
Master is traveling so His dievca is flying solo. XO
Stepping Out with Rene Caovilla
Posted: April 26, 2023 Filed under: Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, crystal embellished, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, heels, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, slingbacks Leave a comment
Gorgeous and out of this submissive’s budget for 2023….ah, well.
Ducks in a Row
Posted: April 8, 2023 Filed under: Body Type, submissive | Tags: aging, BDSM, body awareness, D/s, dievca, Health, hormone replacement therapy, Life, Master, menopause, Science, testing Leave a commentGentlemen – this post is going to talk about Women’s Health, Menopause, Hormones, etc. If you are not curious, dievca completely understands. she would suggest if you have a Lady or female submissive in your life – consider her age and what she might be dealing with via aging and read on.

Photo: of Maggie Patterson (at 20) matched up with her Grandmothers photo - Reddit 10 years ago.
So, dievca is getting her “ducks in a row”. she gone to the GYN, has a mammogram scheduled for next week. she’s written down the cancer history of her family, spoken to her female cousins (as she has no sisters and her Aunts are dead), read the research on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), had a discussion with three Doctors, spoken with Master (he knows her body best), her periods have been gone for a year.
Her hot flashes are not bad, she sleeps reasonably well (wakes 6 times), her brain fog is minimal, her build doesn’t lean towards osteoporosis, sexual libido is good, she has almost no vaginal dryness.
Yet, dievca is going to try Hormone Replacement Therapy.
Why?
Master suggested that she needs to have goals with the Therapy otherwise, doing it to just do it is ridiculous. dievca has two goals in mind and the therapy might help or not.
- Better sleep – may assist with belly weight loss.
- Less body aching – which may help with loss of muscle and flexibility
- dievca’s Mom was on hormones for 20+ years and was very active and “young”.
So, dievca is waiting until after the mammogram to begin her regimen. she wants a current baseline for what her breasts look like pre-hormones. dievca is writing down her current body state, so that she can document the changes as the “team” figures out the best dosage for her – and as a reality check if the whole process is worthless or not worth it.
dievca’s process begins with estrogen alone for a month to determine what changes occur – she is starting with a “middle” dose level, so that it can go up or down. Progesterone begins the following month.
Let’s see where this goes!
If anyone has any feedback about HRT or anything to share – please do. dievca is collecting as much information as possible to stay safe and to offer to other Women who may go on this journey in the future.
Killed it!
Posted: April 7, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, submissive | Tags: BDSM, celebration, D/s, dievca, Grateful, Joy, Life, relief, submissive, Wine, work Leave a comment
dievca had a project and it blew up larger than expected!
She hit it out of the ballpark.
That doesn’t always happen.
Shazam!
Enjoying a glass of wine to celebrate.
dievca hopes you have had something good happen, too. XO

Sorry – a bit out of it.
Posted: March 9, 2023 Filed under: Master, Relationships, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Illness, lay low, Life, Master, sick Leave a commentMaster and His dievca shared the wealth and both are under the weather at the moment.
Back in action soon.
d~
Waking up at 5 am to remember you missed something.
Posted: March 2, 2023 Filed under: Analysis, submissive | Tags: Age, Annoyed, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Edward Hopper, forgot, Life, messy, perimenopause, Whitney Museum Leave a comment
dievca had tickets scheduled to the Edward Hopper showing at the Whitney Museum, last evening. she completely forgot. she’s just hoping that she can use them before the event closes or just use them for the museum. she’ll be stopping by today…
Old Favorites
Posted: February 25, 2023 Filed under: Collars, Dresses, Shoes, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Ease, Elegant, erotic, Go-Bag, Life, Master, practical, Presentation Outfit, Salvatore Ferragamo, Vivienne Westwood, Wolford Leave a commentWhen the schedule is packed and you are rushing around –
it helps to know that you have the “old favorites” in a Go-bag.
All readily available to make an elegant Presentation for Master:
- Vivienne Westwood “Orgie” Dress in Orange
- Salvatore Ferragamo Black Leather Heels
- Wolford black Thigh-Hi Stay-up stockings
- Hartman Rose Collar and Lead in Gold Lether
- Chanel Red Allure Lipstick
Happy early Valentine’s Day
Posted: February 13, 2023 Filed under: Entertainment, Relationships, submissive | Tags: BDSM, coffee, D/s, dievca, Love, Monday, Morning, share, sincerity, Valentine's Day Leave a comment


