Let’s address the issue again: Walking in NYC
Posted: February 25, 2026 Filed under: Discussion, Neighborhood Anecdotes (NYC) | Tags: BDSM, d-s, dievca, etiquettte, frustration, Life, Master, NYC, Relationships, tourists, travel Leave a commentdievca was carrying three boxes (11 lbs each) to UPS. she had a backpack, a bag hanging off her shoulder and a large box in front of her body. A family of tourists just stood in the middle of the sidewalk – no clue, not moving.
dievca ran into the same family on the way home, they were walking spread out. They took up the whole sidewalk. Absolutely no clue spatially. Annoying~
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Reblog:
OMG! You are coming to NYC — dievca is so very excited for your visit….until you walk on her sidewalk. Look, she’s in Midtown — can you avoid that section until your learn the rules of the road sidewalk, so to speak?
Here are 11 suggestions for walking effectively in New York City, follow them religiously and you will have a fabulous time!
Auction: Something for your submissive on Valentine’s Day?
Posted: January 14, 2026 Filed under: Jewelry, submissive | Tags: Auction, BDSM, bracelet, D/s, dievca, Elegant, gift, Housing Works NYC, Life, padlock, Shopping, sterling silver, Symbolism, Valentine's Day Leave a comment
Sterling Silver Padlock Bracelet (BDSM)
Description
* Sterling silver
* Gold vermeil accents
* Total weight: 40.3 grams
* Marked on the heart
* Press-fit hinged clasp
* Heart with skeleton keyhole and bail, can be removed from bracelet and worn as a pendant
* In great shape with some very fine scratches
Dimensions
Bracelet 7 1/2″L x 5/8″W, Heart 1 1/4″H x 3/4″W
AUCTION ENDS on 1/22/2026 at 10:00 pm EST – click here to view and bid!
$20 well spent at Urban Outfitters
Posted: December 20, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, submissive | Tags: BDSM, Christmas, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fellatio, headband, Holidays 2025, Master, Presentation Outfit, shiny, Shopping, tinsel 2 Comments
Urban Outfitters Tinsel Headband $20
Master laughed when dievca presented in the nude with only the Urban Outfitters tinsel headband on. Apparently it made an engaging picture during fellatio.
dievca just checked – the colored version and the silver version are both sold out.
Bummer – XO
Bound to Please
Posted: December 18, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bodysuits, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fleur du Mal, flogger, Holiday 2025, impact play, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, Undergarment Leave a comment
Fleur du Mal
Cage Bodysuit $298 and Leather Flogger $198
A gift list wish from your dievča – XO
A Presentation Outfit for Tree Trimming!
Posted: December 13, 2025 Filed under: Home and Garden, lingerie, submissive | Tags: BDSM, D/s, D/s relationships, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Holiday 2025, Life, Master, nightgown, Presentation Outfit, tree trimming Leave a comment
Master wants to decorate His Christmas Tree this weekend – dievca is planning on using Jayne Mansfield as inspiration! Should be fun ~ XO
Prepping for Thanksgiving
Posted: November 27, 2025 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden, Submission | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cooking, D/s, dievca, fun, Humor, Life, photo, ropework, Shibari, Thanksgiving 2025, trussing, Violet Lee Leave a comment
Trussing the Turkey – not quite the option we need!
But elegant to look at! A bird in bondage by Violet Lee (Violently).
Happy Thanksgiving!
May your turkey trussing be effective for evenly cooking the bird.
XO dievča
Drinks and Dinner + more
Posted: November 1, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, Clothing, lingerie, Master | Tags: BDSM, Chemise, D/s, dievca, dinner, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Life, Presentation Outfit, submissive Leave a comment
Halloween was a nice quiet evening for Master and His dievca. Wine and conversation, re-arrange the living furniture to adjust the location of the recently cleaned area rug, play, dinner, aftercare.
la fille d’O – Belgian Lingerie – Hey!
Posted: October 30, 2025 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Belgium, d-s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, la fille d'O, Life, Panties, Presentation Outfit, Sexy, Sheer, Shopping, submissive 1 Comment
when meeting, one doesn’t give away their secrets straight away. it takes time. HEY has some secrets. a wide opaque waistband. a very sheer Italian tulle covering your hips. the cotton lining is integrated in the triangular seam. this could be a very distinguished design. turn around and find out it is indeed. one could easily lose their style when exposing their skin. not HEY. perfectly dosed, like prescription drugs, HEY transforms the mood without losing the comfort.
About the Brand, la fille d’O
Remember – shipping to the USA from elsewhere is now going to included high tariffs if its not made in the USA. But, sometimes you just need a raw European feel. Or you need to travel for lingerie.
Agent Provocateur – Solanna
Posted: October 9, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, lingerie, Submission | Tags: Agent Provocateur, BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, harness, Lace, Presentation Outfit, Shopping, submissive, Undergarments Leave a comment
- Solanna Bra, Knickers, Suspenders (Garter Belt), Dressing Gown
- Tindra Harness
- Ora Stockings
Dressed for Success as a submissive
Simple, Clean, Elegant, Practical = BDSM
Posted: August 9, 2025 Filed under: Body Type, Clothing | Tags: BDSM, comfortable, cuffs, D/s, design, dievca, Elegant, hardware, Master, one-piece, practical, Shopping, swim, swimsuit, Tory Burch Leave a comment
dievca has very good luck with swimwear from Tory Burch. The suits have fit well and worn well. They look good and are interesting. dievca’s current Tory Burch suit is the “Clip Tank Swimsuit” It’s her second version. she wore the first clip swimsuit to the woof, because she felt so good in it.
Plus the clips at the shoulders work and helped with frozen shoulder issues.
A second, more delightful, feature of the clips is they remind dievca of Master’s cuffs and their D/s relationship.
A subtle way to show your BDSM leanings~
Elegantly Framed (NSFW)
Posted: July 23, 2025 Filed under: Submission, submissive | Tags: BDSM, bondage, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Hogtie, Leather, photo, Presentation, stockings 1 Comment
What a beautiful presentation of a vulva!
Aiming for less – any suggestions?
Posted: July 17, 2025 Filed under: Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, D/s, dievca, Leather, Life, Sandals, Shopping, Studs, Summer, tough 2 CommentsYesterday, dievca shared four pairs of sandals she was interested in buying to replace an old favorite pair.
$800-$1800 is out of her price range and as she Googled: “grommet sandals”, “eyelet sandals”, “studded sandals”, “hardware sandals” – those high-end choices kept drawing her eye + additional choices from Valentino and Prada.
No can do~ too much $.
So, here’s the affordable tier of sandals ($70-$425) with hardware:
Thoughts?
Tough Sell
Posted: July 16, 2025 Filed under: Fashion, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, bondage, buckles, D/s, dievca, grommets, Leather, Life, Sandals, Shopping, Studs, Summer, tough 2 Comments
These are dievca’s Etienne Aigner Dana Studded Sandals – they are at the finish line of Life. It’s been 20+ years of excellent service. Replacing them is going to be tough~
Here’s some of the candidates (click on the photos for detail and brand):
All with tough hardware and all out of dievca’s price range – a TOUGH sell!
Neighbors (NSFW)
Posted: July 11, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment | Tags: anal sex, BDSM, comic, D/s, dievca, Humor, lifestyle, Mistress, neighbors, submissive 2 Comments
ROTFLMAO – Iroha Midori vibrator
Posted: June 20, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, Master | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, disaster, erotic, fun, Humor, Iroha, laughter, Life, Love, Sex, submissive, vibrator Leave a comment
Master and His dievca have been re-visiting their collection of vibrators. The Iroha Midori was charged and brought back into service. Master pulled his dievca to the edge of the bed on her back with her legs up. He placed the vibrator flat between their bodies — it was amazing to share the flat vibration on both clit and cock. Hah! a move to keep in rotation.
So, the Midori made a 2nd appearance. Anticipation was great, but the angle of Master and dievca’s bodies wasn’t quite right. Midori, our green friend, fell onto the wood floor and bounced under the bed. She was still vibrating and moving because of the motor. Master got onto his knees to reach under the bed and grab Midori — the d*mn vibrator kept moving around. So, dievca watched Master’s ass dance in the air while he was chasing the vibrator with his long arm. she could hear the vibrator moving around under the bed. Finally, a howling dievca had to army crawl under the bed to grab the hopping vibrator and got a bit stuck because her left arm doesn’t work quite well. Master had to pull dievca out by her leg.
Master and His dievca agree that if you are not willing to be messy or laugh during sex – you’re not doing it right! 😘
Master is home~
Posted: June 12, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, lingerie, Master | Tags: BDSM, biopsy, blowjob, D/s, dievca, Life, play, Presentation Outfit, Vivienne Westwood Leave a comment
dievca had a little procedure done (biopsy) 2 days before she caught up with Master. It was still still healing, so “fun with Master” was all external 😉
After play, Master and His dievca took a moment to talk about their journey together as Dom and sub — what is powerful, what feels good or bad, what scenes they would like to revisit and what new adventures might be in the mix.
All is clear with dievca’s tissue sample and all is healed.
So Master asked for a classic to be worn tomorrow:
I am!
Posted: June 9, 2025 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee, comic, D/s, dievca, Humor, Kinky, Life, Monday, Morning Leave a comment
Could be interesting~
Posted: June 5, 2025 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, coffee table, comic, D/s, dievca, Humor, NSFW, Silly Leave a comment
the build-up with “edge o’beyond” lingerie
Posted: May 30, 2025 Filed under: Fashion, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, edge o'beyond, Elegant, erotic, Lace, Presentation Outfit, red, Shopping, submissive Leave a comment
Paola
Introducing our limited edition Paola collection, designed to celebrate the season of love + beyond…
Meticulously crafted in our Wales atelier, Paola showcases intricate corded embroidery in a rich maroon hue, framed by delicate eyelash scalloped edges + our signature noir strapping.
EDGE O’ BEYOND IS A LONDON-BASED LUXURY BRAND THAT CREATES UNIQUE LINGERIE WITH DELICATE JEWELLERY ATTACHMENTS TO HELP YOU SHINE…
Our motto is “it’s what’s underneath that counts” + I feel passionately that nobody should settle for mediocre underpinnings.
Up until now, when asked why I created a lingerie brand, I’ve always said it’s because I adore beautiful lingerie—but there’s more to it than that. After suffering multiple sexual assaults, I sought to reclaim the power of my own body + I wanted to create something that would extend that empowerment to others, helping them feel their most confident + beautiful selves.
The brand has always been super personal to me—I named it after my childhood home, each range is named after a loved family member, friend or colleague + one of my favourite things about EOB is our customers—getting to see our pieces on you, seeing how EOB makes you feel, getting the opportunity to chat with you + sometimes even meet you is incredible!
EOB is a brand designed by women, created by women, to empower women. I am incredibly proud of the EOB Team + the journey we’ve been on since 2014, + I’m excited for the future. I love the EOB lingerie community + I’m looking forward to many more years of EOB to come. Thank you for being part of this journey with us.
Naomi xxx
Taking the Flying Leap and a Thank You~
Posted: May 26, 2025 Filed under: Disasters, Discussion, submissive | Tags: acceptance, aging, BDSM, Blog, change, D/s, dievca, Grateful, heartfelt, Life, Life Changes, Master, personal, submissive, Thank you, upgrade, Wordpress 4 Comments
dievca has to take the “flying leap”, again. she’s used 96% of her storage.
she needs to upgrade.
Honestly, her storage use has had quite good longevity for a blog that started with
this post in September, 2013:
Something handsome for Master…..or Mistress
At $20,000, this gorgeous Coach-Billy Reid Warrior Tote in Alligator will hold Master’s tools of the trade. Can you see your Mistress pulling out a black silk blindfold, ball gag and shearling bondage restraints?
dievca cannot wait.
In the past 12 years, dievca has weathered:
- people moving from blogs to Instagram
- currently TikTok
- an upgrade that decimated 2/3 of her followers
- people closing down their blogs or just disappearing
- COVID
- diminishment of time available to use the Reader – dievca knows she is missing GREAT blogs
- the general public’s loss of interest in BDSM – understandable
- personal loss – that’s Life!
- personal change in shopping needs and goals
- physical changes and injuries
- aging
So, let’s ask the question Master has asked his dievca a number of times over the years,
“Do you want to keep the blog going?”
dievca’s answer at this moment?
“Yes”
The blog has always been for dievca and if people are on her ride, amazing! – that’s secondary.
So, she will be taking the LEAP a second time and will attempt another upgrade. If anyone is reading this, Thank You, for joining dievca’s ride and hopefully she will see you on the other side.
Sending love and good wishes. XO
your dievča
Missing Master
Posted: May 21, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Master, Musings | Tags: BDSM, Carole King, Communication, D/s, dievca, Life, music video, submissive, travel Leave a commentdievca is a bit tired. Granted she got away for a quick weekend jaunt – but Master has been traveling for the past four weeks to Europe and will continue to be gone for another two weeks at the minimum. E-mails and missed attempts to call don’t work really well when you could use a little touch.
April Showers with Fleur du Mal
Posted: April 24, 2025 Filed under: lingerie | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Fleur du Mal, Flowers, garter belt, Lace, Life, Presentation Outfit, Spring, submissive, thong Leave a commentBring May Flowers
Pearls are always appropriate – Jackie Kennedy
Posted: April 10, 2025 Filed under: Jewelry, lingerie | Tags: BDSM, Bluebella, Bra, cuffs, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, harness, pearls, Presentation Outfit, qyote, Shopping, submissive, thong Leave a comment
Happiness on the bottom (coffee or BDSM)
Posted: April 7, 2025 Filed under: Analysis, D/s Relationship, Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Bottom, coffee, D/s, definition, dievca, Life, Monday, Morning, Relationships, Sex, submissive Leave a comment
and for a little bit of clarification in BDSM terms of bottom:
The main difference between a submissive and a bottom is that a submissive cedes power in a power exchange dynamic. A bottom may or may not be a submissive, as power exchange does not have to be a component of their kinky play.
That said, Bottom can mean either a submissive partner in sexual play, or a partner who receives stimulation from another who may or may not be submissive.
A bottom in BDSM does not have to be the submissive; for example, a female dominant may command her bottom to penetrate her.
Desire conquers age~
Posted: March 29, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, D/s Relationship, lingerie, Master, Submission | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Dominant, Elegant, erotic, Life, Master, Orgasm, play, practical, Presentation Outfit, submissive 2 Comments
Master said He wanted to restrain His submissive. So, His sub dressed for Her Master in His favorite: stockings and collar, then added a chemise which would stretch for any position.
3 separate play times and multiple orgasms belied Master and His dievca’s ages.
A fine time was had by all.
Naughty Cookie Box: the Bald Eagle
Posted: March 19, 2025 Filed under: Entertainment, Home and Garden | Tags: BDSM, Cookies, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, fun, Life, NSFW, pussy, Sexy, Shopping, treat, vagina Leave a comment
https://naughtycookiebox.com/products/bald-eagle-vagina-cookies
1/2 Dozen Order = $19.00
Dim:3.5×2.5
Now a days, a good slapping on a bald pussy cookie is worth a thousand words! Keep it pretty ladies!
All orders REQUIRE A 2 WEEK LEAD TIME for production before shipment as each item is handcrafted and baked to order with lots of care. Rush Orders may possibly be accommodated with prior approval from an associate and will incur a Rush Order Fee.
ALL COOKIES ARRIVE INDIVIDUALLY HEAT SEALED. THEY DO NOT COME WITH A TIE OF ANY SORT FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE.
Bringing a new meaning to eating pussy!
Chefs, Tattoo Artists, Sommeliers, Bartenders – BDSM Aprons
Posted: February 19, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, Fashion | Tags: apron, BDSM, D/s, Eskandur, expensive, Leather, practical, Sexy, Shopping, sustainable 2 Comments
Eskandur Leather BDSM Apron $4186 sale $2512 Wolf Badger
What is an Apron used for?
Aprons have been an essential garment for centuries, serving as a practical shield against stains, spills, and splatters. From humble beginnings as a simple protective layer, aprons have evolved into a fashion statement, a canvas for creativity, and a symbol of one’s passion and expertise. Eskandur embraces this evolution, transforming aprons into extraordinary works of art that fuse functionality with aesthetic allure.
Who are the users?
Chefs, Tattoo Artists, Sommeliers, Bartenders, Waiter/Waitress, Sir/Madame
Why Leather?
Sustainability is a key consideration in today’s fashion landscape. When it comes to aprons, leather emerges as a sustainable choice compared to its cotton counterparts. Leather is a durable material that stands the test of time, reducing the need for frequent replacements. This longevity not only minimizes waste but also lowers the environmental impact associated with mass production and disposal of cotton aprons. Eskandur’s decision to prioritize meticulous stitching and layered construction is a deliberate choice to maintain the integrity and longevity of our leather goods. It is a testament to Eskandur’s philosophy of true luxury, where quality and craftsmanship reign supreme. While shortcuts may yield short-term gains for others, painting the edges, no matter if it will deteriorate eventually revealing unsightly radial cracks, Eskandur remains resolute in the pursuit of excellence. By opting for a high-quality leather apron like those crafted by Eskandur, you contribute to a more sustainable fashion ecosystem while enjoying the enduring elegance and functionality that leather offers.
a little BDSM humor for a rainy day
Posted: February 13, 2025 Filed under: D/s Relationship, Entertainment | Tags: BDSM, comic, D/s, dievca, dog, Humor Leave a comment
the tie that binds: bondage bangle
Posted: January 10, 2025 Filed under: Jewelry | Tags: 18K, BDSM, bondage, Boochier, bracelet, D/s, dievca, Elegant, Gold, restraints, Shopping, tied Leave a comment
Description
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- Boochier bangle
- 18-karat yellow gold
- Slip-on style
- Imported
- $6760
- One available at Bergdorf Goodman
Presenting Bluette with Maria La Rosa
Posted: January 7, 2025 Filed under: Accessories, Collars, Shoes | Tags: BDSM, D/s, dievca, Elegant, erotic, Maria La Rosa, Presentation Outfit, Sexy, Shoe fetishism, Shopping, socks, submissive Leave a comment
dievca finally opened her Christmas gifts. she received a lovely item from a close friend.
Silk socks from Milan, Italy
Maria La Rosa foil laminated silk socks.
Ideal for all seasons. Despite its thinness, the silk yarn is extraordinarily insulating, making it very cool in summer and warm in winter. The socks are dipped in a metallic foil, which, after multiple washes, tends to fade, allowing the brilliance of the underlying silk to emerge. The shine of the foil makes it the perfect accessory for parties and occasions where you don’t want to go unnoticed.
Hand wash inside out to maintain the laminated look for longer.
One Size.
Might be fun to present just wearing the socks with Vivienne Westwood, Moschino or John Paul Gautier heels and one of Master’s collars!
dievca 
