The Single Woman as “Shelf Warmer”Recently, I found myself spending time with an acquaintance who has always been in the same social network as me, but for whatever reason…Nov 11, 2019A response icon1Nov 11, 2019A response icon1
Why Transwomen Have Earned Their Seat at the TableThis is not the first time I have written about PoseFx, the most significant television series to make its way into the pop culture psyche…Aug 23, 2019Aug 23, 2019
Pose: The Best Family Drama on TVI suppose I should start with the truth: I come from a fractured family. Though still in communication with every member of my immediate…Jun 4, 2019A response icon1Jun 4, 2019A response icon1
Let’s Treat Mothers Like The Mortals They AreA conversation that went real deep real quick prompted me to air the recent episode of my podcast. I spotted a young woman I had met…May 11, 2019May 11, 2019
I Wrote A Book. Now, I Have To Go Outside.As a woman of a certain age, I am pretty confident that not only do I know who I am, but I own who I am. The good, the bad and the…Apr 1, 2019Apr 1, 2019
Don’t Go. You’ll Die! (Traveling Solo While Female)My first solo trip was to Atlanta. I was recently out of college and already dissatisfied with the unfulfilled promises of adulthood my…Mar 1, 2019A response icon2Mar 1, 2019A response icon2
The Penis Doesn’t Have Limitless PowerI have featured black women who identify as polyamorous three times on my podcast. I was initially prompted to pursue the stories of the…Feb 4, 2019Feb 4, 2019
That Time My Neighbour Abandoned Her BabyI lived in the East African country of Rwanda for two years. It was my first stop on a five-year long (and counting) adventure living and…Jan 19, 2019Jan 19, 2019
When Marriage Becomes GodThis is not a take down of marriage. I am old enough to know that I know very little about almost everything. I am ill equipped to…Jan 10, 2019Jan 10, 2019
But, Aren’t Women Natural Caregivers?My good friend, Lorraine, had what I like to call a Come-to-Jesus moment. She came to the realization that the life she thought she wanted…Jan 2, 2019A response icon5Jan 2, 2019A response icon5