So I’m gonna make a list of things I wish my husband would change and I’m gonna do it here because I don’t think he wants to hear it. And if he did I think he would shut down instead of change. If I am asking too much let me know. Here we go:
1. Tell me he loves me at least once a day.
2. When he text me answer that he loves me too.
3. Give me some form of caring touch hug, kiss etc without me aniciating it first.
4. Having sex without me aniciating it first. It makes me feel so insecure specially when he tells me he’s tired or turns over without touching me.
5. Go on a date at least once every two weeks instead of once every 3 months and then try and be excited instead of being bothered that you have to leave the house.
6. Don’t tell me he’s sorry when he doesn’t give me affection.
7. Stop telling me I’m a good woman. It makes me feel like he is just saying that because He doesn’t want to say anything else.
I’m am so ready to get out of this funk we are in but I don’t know what to do. I get all crazy and have flashes of how it was before. My only comfort is that he wears his ring. He never did before and he made a promise to wear it after we got back together.
I am so hoping that this is just a low point in our roller coaster ride and we’ll be up again.
What can I do to make it better?
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