Andelila

10 months with Ahmad Fahri

Assalamualaikum

Yesterday we went to KK Seremban for Fahri’s 10 months check up.
weight: 10.4 kgs
length: 74.5 cm

-main-main amik mood nak tidur-

in papa’s arm – demam, lembik je dia…

recovering from fever

fully recovered – playing mood!

my lil’ fella now with teeth 🙂

fahri: atatatatata… dai..dai..dai… apapapapaa..yan..yan..yan…

papa:  sejak ada gigi ni Fahri byk cakap la kan??

umi:  ha’ah…  comelkan? anak sapa?

papa and umi seremtak : anak papa! anak umi!

His BMI is still at risk of obesity eventho descending dah from 8th month check up…  hopefully he will reach his normal BMI by the time he takes his first step.. InsyaAllah…

I miss my friends a lot!  Unfortunately i was unable to join them in a small gathering last 2 weeks(tak sampai pun kot)…  It’s okay!  Looking after my baby is JIHAD!  Will bear that in mind!  I wish I could join them in next get together…  InsyaAllah…

till then!

Teething

Assalamualaikum…

It was a tiring week last 2 weeks… Fahri had a very high fever that we rushed to HTJS emergency in the middle of the night at 1.30 am. Weird thing is… sampai je kat emergency tu Ahmad Fahri senyum… seronok agaknya pergi hospital. Even though his body temp reached 39.1 deg Celcius, he’s still active and playful. very responsive too and the doctors love him.

Kesian anak umi… rupa-rupanya nak tumbuh gigi… A day before that, I could feel that his head and armpits were warm and instantly I suspect that he was down with fever. Tapi dia masih aktif mcm biasa. Siang tu pun semasa di kenduri kat Rembau mood dia tak menentu sgt… nak berkepit je dgn umi dan papa dia. but once dia dah warm up mood dia, baru la dia nak kat saudara-mara. Kesian atuk2 saudara dia. Fahri ni selalu peramah dgn atuk2 saudara. tapi hari tu, dia moody sikit. tak sedap badan. tapi bila dah ok pun, dia nak dgn atuk abah dia, uwan, acik nab dan maksu yan dia je… Memilih…
Lepas kenduri tu kami ke Seremban 2 pulak ke birthday party anak sepupu saya, Alisya Hannah di Dewan LPPKN. Masa tu mood Fahri sgt2 ok. Kami betul2 ingat dia dah sihat betul. May be the baby and children environment tu makes him comfortable and at ease. Tapi mlm tu, bila dia asyik menangis dan suhu badannya yg terlampau tinggi buat saya risau dan terus kejutkan hubby. Hubby pulak, tak fikir panjang, dia rasa panas badan Fahri terus suruh saya siap2kan apa yg patut dan terus ke HTJS.

Setelah dimasukkan ubat dan dimandikan 2 kali, body temp Fahri 37.8 deg Celcius. Doctor ada beritahu yg dia takde masalah nak benarkan Fahri admit. Tapi takpelah biar saya jaga sendiri. Doctor juga mengingatkan saya supaya sentiasa mengelap badan Fahri supaya haba keluar dan dipakaikan pakaian yg pendek dan nipis. Jadinya, ada la 3-4 mlm tu saya dan hubby jadik zombie sbb mlm2 tak cukup tidur melayankan demam Fahri…  kesian dia.  Melepek jgk la kami anak beranak.  Satu hari tu, hubby balik bwk kawan ofis dia (kira Boss hubby..)  dia suggest cuba rasa gusi Fahri kot2 Fahri tumbuh gigi ( Anak dia 5…  baik dengar nasihat dia..)  so hubby pun rasa la…  rupa2nya dah 2 btg kat gusi bwh…  aiseh…  kenapa masa menyusukan dia saya boleh tak perasan?  pelik tak?  padahal melecet dah umi ni Fahri buat…

Esoknya pulak masa Fahri meraung2 meragam tu saya perasan lagi sebatang kat gusi atas pulak!  3 batang gigi sekaligus?  Saya ingatkan Fahri demam sbb dia buat 3 kerja sekaligus, merangkak, duduk dan berdiri…  rupa2nya 3 btg gigi sekaligus…  mcm2…  tapi ni la pengalamannya menjadi ibu…  penat tapi seronok!!!  The most important thing is, listen to your child!  Jgn abaikan bila anak meragam..  memg penat!  Kadang2 saya marah jgk pada Fahri sbb saya tak faham dia nak apa… but as his mother, I have to seek out WHY he was like that and all.. LISTEN.

Lagipun saya percaya kalau nak anak kita dengar cakap kita, kita pun kena la dengar apa dia nak cakap kan?  Communication works in TWO ways, anyway…    A reminder to myself 🙂

till then!