New Arrival (4 months ago...)

We welcomed Skyler James Workman into the family on April 12th, 2012 at about 10:53pm. He was 21 inches long, 11lbs 3oz, and bright red hair. :) He's started giggling and laughing now and I'm loving it! He's such a sweetheart. :)
Jessica is a GREAT big sister and she loves helping Mommy. One of her favorite phrases, "I can help you with that Mommy!"

Skyler James Workman

I am 30 weeks 4 days pregnant today. We are having a little boy and we have decided to name him Skyler James Workman. I have gestational diabetes (GDM) and have been monitored closely by a wonderful doctor. Yesterday we had our 4th ultrasound to chart the growth of little Skyler since he has the potential of being a big baby (due to my GDM). So far, he is measuring about 3 weeks ahead of schedule with a huge huge head! Yes, his body is measuring at 33 weeks but his head is measuring about 36 weeks. This means a "fun" delivery for me. Plus, he is currently in the breach position, completely stretched out in my tummy. His head is pushing up into my ribs (no wonder, little chunky monkey) and his feet are continually tap-dancing on my bladder and cervix. There's still plenty of time for him to turn but I have a sneaky suspicion that he's not going to. All we can do is hope, pray, wait and see. 

The biggest (no pun intended) thing to wait for is to see how big Skyler gets. Yesterday he measured at 4lbs 8oz which puts him in the 85% right now for his developmental age in the womb. (Not surprising since Jessica was/is always in the 80-90th percentile range). If he gets to be 10lbs the doctor is going to (most likely) schedule a c-section at 39 weeks. If he is 10lbs earlier than that, they might have to schedule the c-section around the 37th week. So far, with weight gain and growth being what they have been, we are looking at a 9lb baby full-term. Unless, like Jessica, my water breaks early. He could be here in 3 weeks if he follows that plan. Hopefully that would only put him at 6 or 7lbs. :-) 

What can I do about all this? Watch my sugar levels. Now, that is easier typed than done. I have a diabetes kit and I test my sugars 6 times daily (before and after each meal). I have been working hard to be perfect on this diet but it's not always easy and, especially in this last trimester, even being perfect on the diet doesn't seem to be keeping my sugar levels down. I have a feeling that at my next appointment (March 1st) my doctor is going to kick up the GDM intervention to the next level which is to place me on insulin pills. Hopefully that will resolve it and we will not have to go to the last step which is insulin shots. (Yuck!). A friend of mine in our ward is a nurse and said that with GDM, the last trimester is always the hardest with managing sugar levels. I have been stressing about it until I got a blessing from my wonderful hubby and, long blessing short, the Lord said that everything is in His hands and all I can do is be perfect in my diet. He'll take care of the rest, whatever that "rest" may be. 

In any case, we are SUPER excited for Skyler's arrival. More and more I love him and cannot WAIT to see him on the 'other' side of the womb! :)

Scrapbooking

I have been scrapbooking semi-consistently for about 2.5 years now. I've realized a few things:

1) I'm actually not really a "scrapbooker" - I would classify myself as a "Memory Keeper"

2) There is no right or wrong way to keep memories

3) I love that I have taken over 1,000 pictures each year of Jessica's life. I hope it continues as baby #2 is on his way...

4) I love journaling with my pictures

5) I love putting a bunch of pictures on one page...

6) It's okay to have times when I am scrapbooking a lot and times when I am not

7) Some scrappers say there is no such thing as "caught up" - while I am not caught up with my scrapping, I definitely think there is nothing wrong with wanting to be caught up and with trying. So far I'm about 1/3 done with the year 2009. :)

8) Having an organized scrapbooking room is WELL WORTH the time, money, and effort to get it in that shape

9) A picture is definitely worth 1,000 words BUT the journaling helps bring out the important ones

10) I'm a better mom when I'm scrapbooking. Sounds funny, but I am. I feel better knowing that I'm doing something to document my family's life

11) I have trained my daughter to "pose" for pictures. The minute SECOND she see's me with my camera she starts smiling and saying cheese. After I take the picture she is always asking, "Let me see! Mom, let me see!" haha...

I'm Back (I think...)

Judging by the date of the last post, it is obvious that this is LONG overdue! I will keep this short and simple but here are some bulletin updates about our lives in the past few months:

• Jer is still working at Avant Assessment full-time and the MTC part-time
• We find out at the end of this year if Jer is able to get a job full-time at the MTC
• Jer got a raise at Avant Assessment
• I was able to quit working part-time and just focus on being a stay-at-home mom
• Jessica has turned 3 years old as of the 11th of January - I can't BELIEVE she is three now!!!
• We are expecting a baby boy in April! (Hopefully he doesn't take after his sister and come the month before - we are praying for an April baby not a March baby...)
• Jer was in a car accident in November and walked away with only a broken wrist and bruised legs - it turned out to be a blessing in disguise because the totaled car allowed us to pay of our current car loan, buy another car out right (which eliminated that previous car payment), buy a new bed (which we DESPERATELY needed), and pay off some other debts. Plus, it was a blessing to see how the Lord was protecting Jer since (literally) he didn't die and was not disabled. I'll have to post pictures of the car - the Lord truly was watching out for him!
• We celebrated our 5 year anniversary last May - Jer surprised me with a trip to Disneyland! Just the two of us. It was perfect!

That's only a brief, brief, brief overview of our last few months. It's been a hectic, busy, yet wonderful ride! I hope to post more often now, especially with our growing family.

For Me

I just wanted to write a bit. 

Life has been so super busy over the past several months that it's a wonder how I've survived. Actually, I know how I've survived. The Lord has definitely been with me each step of the way. My mom told me last week that I am just like my Grandma Fullmer. I always have to be doing something. Not just something, but several somethings and usually all at once. Since I adore my Grandma and think she is an angel and just about perfect, that was one of the nicest compliments anyone has ever given me. (I am telling you, this woman runs - RUNS - circles around everyone in the family all at once! She is amazing!) Actually though, I have no idea how she does it because I have been feeling so overwhelmed the past few months. She makes it look so effortless and easy. Grandma is one of the most cheerful, kindest person in the world. 

Anyways, at one point I was wearing the following "hats" (to name only a few):

Wife

Mother

Relief Society President

Day Care Giver

Piano Teacher

Making cakes for events

Scrapbooker

Teacher p/t at residential treatment center (RTC) for at-risk youth

Couponer

Visiting Teacher

Singing in a barbershop quartet

Now, if I was only doing 3 or 4 of those that would be busy but doing all of them was causing me to go crazy! One night (after feeling like I was never going to succeed at anything I was involved in) my husband came into our office and said something to the effect of, "Amy, I think you need to ask the Bishop to be released from your calling." 

(For those of you not familiar with anything in that sentence, 'Bishop' refers to the ecclesiastical leader of the religious congregation I am a member of in the LDS faith, 'calling' is a general name for whatever service position we hold in our congregation - everything is volunteer/service oriented because no one is paid for their Church service, and being 'released' from your calling is when we are thanked for our time and someone else is given the opportunity to serve in that same position.)

I started to cry because I am a firm believer that the Lord calls the right people to serve in the right position at the right time. There is some reason why I am the RS president right now in my life and I immediately felt that being asked for release was not the answer to my hectic life. I began to pray.

Within a few days I had my answer: quit my p/t job as a teacher. 

That may sound easy but for me it wasn't. I like teaching. No. I LOVE teaching. Have you ever read about those people who find their "niche" in life? Well teaching is mine. When I taught 6th grade, while I was teaching at the RTC, I thrived on it. I was excited for work. I could never seem to turn my teacher brain off! (Which was part of the problem since I had so many different things I was doing). I was anxious to do my best so that I could continue to improve as a teacher. Working with kids and teaching them is so satisfying for me. Plus, I have always worked since the summer before my junior year in high school. And that has been since July of 1997. Almost 15 years. Plus, not working meant not financially contributing to my family's income. It meant giving up control of helping to provide for myself and my family. (Those of you who know me and the 'red personality' part of me might realize what a tough thing this was). Then I felt guilty for wanting to still work when I have a devoted husband who works so hard and needs me to fulfill my role as wife and mother as he is so carefully and diligently fulfilling his as husband and father. And why should I want to work when I have the most fantastic, amazing 2 year old daughter to play with!!! Seriously, I thought, what is wrong with me?!? Nothing, I realized. I just like to 'do it all'. 

To make an already long story shorter, I realized that it came down to a few things (for me):

Career vs Family

Job vs Calling

Obedience vs Disobedience

Selfishness vs Service

I had to ask myself, did I have a testimony of being in the home as a mother when I didn't have to work or did I not have that testimony? At the time I quit, I wished I was stronger and that this wasn't a hard decision. I felt weak for even struggling with it. 

I am happy to say that I did take that leap of faith and I did quit my job. All I began to see was President McKay's statement, "No other success can compensate for failure in the home." Then I would see, in my mind's eye, Jessica grown up and all the opportunities I missed with her. I already feel like she is getting so much older! (Side note: so interesting how I can so fiercely miss my baby but be so excited to have my toddler and eagerly waiting to see her as a child/young woman/adult, etc...) Now, I'm not trying to say that working mothers are failures in the home or that they can't be amazing and wonderful mothers. Some women have to work and they do amazing things with their families in those situations. What I am (boldly) saying is this: mothers should be in the home where ever possible. If she doesn't have to work, don't. You will be blessed.

I am loving staying at home. It is sometimes very very hard. It is sometimes very very discouraging. One of my goals this week (in addition to having a perfect Medi-fast week - for those of you who know what I'm talking about) is to work on patience at home.I love my husband and my daughter more than I ever though possible. I am so grateful for a wise, loving Heavenly Father who loves me enough to help nudge me in the right direction. Sometimes, a lot of times, I am still overwhelmed. But. Much, much less overwhelmed than I was and I can feel the Spirit in my life so much more than I did because I made the right decision for me and my family. What a beautiful thing that has been. :-)

Mommy... I Love You!

Usually, when we put Jessica to bed at night, she will sleep through the night with no problems. Every once in awhile she wakes up. When she wakes up she is crying because of a wet diaper or a nightmare. Not tonight. Tonight, about an hour and a half after Jer and I put her to bed, we thought we heard her talking in her room. She got louder and louder until we heard her calling out, "Daddy! I love you! ... Mommy! I love you! ... Daddy! I love you! ... Mommy! I love you!" Jer told me not to go in but my heart just couldn't handle it because it was just too cute! I wanted her to know that I heard her and that I loved her too. I think in his heart of hearts Jer couldn't handle it either because he went in with me. She was just laying in her bed, holding her puppies, and calling out over and over that she loved us. 

When she saw us looking over the edge of her crib (yes, she is still in her crib... big girl bed is being debated after tonight) she just gave us the biggest, best, and sweetest smile. I changed her diaper (it was wet) gave her some more milk and just rocked her for a few minutes. She may be 2.5 years old, but there is something still so sweet about rocking my little angel girl. I won't be able to do it pretty soon and I want to hold on to moments like these as long as possible. She was fine after that and said, "I love you Mommy" and let me put her back into her crib where she went right to sleep.

Ketchup....

Remember that joke about catching up spelled like ketchup? Well that has nothing to do with this post. Except for the fact that every time I think about catching up my blog I get the panicky, overwhelmed feeling as I think about all of the things we have done and all of the pictures I have taken. So. I decided I'm not going to "ketchup." I'm going to mustard which is slacker for "move on". Here's the brief run-down on what we've done in the past 3 months:

January - Happy New Years. We came home from Alaska. Jessica turned two on the 11th. My mother-in-law came to visit the last weekend so we had a Mary Poppins birthday party for Jessica.

February - Happy Valentine's Day. Yep.

March - Happy Saint Patrick's Day, Happy G.A.G. Day (we invented a new holiday involving drawing names, crazy hats, one gift, eating a smorgasboard of Gilmore Girl type foods while watching Princess Bride), and Happy March Madness. Stupid Kansas for losing to an 11 seed  team...can you guess how my bracket did this year?!? Happy competition in Colorado Springs, CO last weekend. My barbershop quartet, Lucky Penny, sang in the Sweet Adeline's Region 8 competition and placed 17th out of 21 quartets. It was TONS of fun and we're excited to sing again next year! :-) Hooray!!!

April - Not there yet so that means we're caught up! *whew*! Now I just need to stay caught up...