This is a post I have been dreading for quite some time now. In all actuality, I should have posted part of this back in February, but I was still in denial. The other part of this post really could have been posted nearly two weeks ago, but once again, I had to work through some denial before I was ready to put this in writing. So, here it is.
There is a quote floating around out there somewhere about friendship. It talks something about having such close friends that no matter how much time has gone by or how many miles are between the two parties when they get together it's as if no time has passed. Our family has been lucky enough have two families in our lives that we feel this way about. The first is the Larsen family. They moved to Arizona about 5 years ago, and we have indeed found this sentiment to be true. We can go for weeks and sometimes months without hardly any communication, but get us in the same room together and it's as if nothing has changed from five years ago when we spent at least some portion of nearly every weekend together.
When the Larsens moved to Arizona, they left us and the Starrs behind in Utah. Our three families have done quite a bit together. The Dads (Jarad, Todd & Trent) grew up together. The Moms (Jen & I) waited for Todd and Jarad while they went on LDS missions. Trent was on at least 50% of my dates with Jarad. Sometimes he had a date, more often than not he didn't. He kept Jarad and I honest during those dating years. When Trent came home from his mission, Jarad and I helped him search for the right "Brooke" to come into his life. (Trent dated about four girls named Brooke before he married his wife, also named Brooke.) When the right Brooke came along, we were thrilled! She fit right in with all of us. Brooke and I were both only girls in our families, and after she and Trent moved just a few miles away from us, we became more like sisters. Our kids know that if Brooke or Jen said it, it was just the same as Mom saying it. I could list about a thousand things that each of these two ladies has done for me over the years, but that's probably another post in and of itself, And, I'm not sure my heart can take all those memories right now.
This past couple months we've said our goodbyes to the Starr family as they headed off for a new job and new adventure in Ohio. The selfish part of me wants them to hate Ohio and come running back to Utah. The kinder, less selfish part of me is excited for them and their new adventures and maybe even a bit jealous of the new things they'll get to see and do living back east.
So, I guess this post is really just a big shout out to two of the best families in the world. Thanks Larsens and Starrs for being our framily. Thanks for being the kind of friends that time and distance can't change!