I
cannot believe how fast time flies by here. It’s July? When did that happen?
Every day is a new adventure, filled with crazy stories, experiences that make
me stronger, and just pure fun. We put up a couple of swings on the farm a few
days ago. And it amazed me how something as simple as a swing brought so much
happiness and excitement. I also had a chance to take a turn on the swing. As I
was rocking back and forth, taking in all the beauty, I started to reflect on my
time here. Starting at the airport, saying goodbye to my parents…I had NO idea
what to expect. And then when I got here, all those first impressions…haha, it
cracks me up to think about! I see things totally different now. This farm
really is another home to me. I love the jungle, the farm, and most of all the
people and it breaks my heart that I will have to leave. But I am going to
enjoy every second I have here. So let me give you a little update of my life
lately.
A
week ago (I think…my sense of time is gone) I kind of got sick. Out here I
acquired the nickname Girl with the Steel Stomach. I have been able to eat
everything, street meat, super spicy food, etc with zero problems. But one
night last week my body just refused to cooperate. Um…let’s just say it was a
very unpleasant (possibly explosive) experience. For y’alls sake I won’t share
the graphic details. Just know it was a rough night. Mai pen rai. I consider
myself very lucky for only having that one experience. So no worries.
Teaching
is going really well. I am learning a lot…about teaching, about different ways
of learning, and about myself and how I respond to different situations. This
past week I had my hardest and my best lessons. It can be so easy to get
discouraged when a concept just isn’t getting through or it doesn’t seem like
the kids have an interest in what I am trying to teach. And I become frustrated
with myself for not being a better teacher. But by looking at something through
a different light really helps. Giving different activities and trying new
things really works. Everyone here really wants to speak English, and so
together we find ways to get around our language barrier so I can teach and
they can learn in the most effective way possible. I have a greater respect for
teachers, especially the amazing ones I have had over the years.
I
ran an errand with a teacher, Doi, and one of the older students the other day.
We were driving back to the farm when Doi stopped the car, started shouting,
and jumped out. What do I do in these kinds of situations? Monkey see, monkey
do. I jump out and realize that there is a 3 foot (at least) snake slithering
across the road. And what’s the logical thing to do? Chase it of course! So
there was the three of us, chasing this monster of a snake through bushes and
trees. It slithered into a big brush pile and while Doi and Bundit were getting
sticks and trying to get it out, I started thinking about how it might not be
the best idea to go in there with my little flip flops… When the other two
finally gave up the hunt, I questioned the purpose of the pursuit. Doi replied,
“You can eat”. Logically.
This
past week I started Thai lessons. The kids and teachers have taught me phrases
or words in the past. But this week I have sat down with a teacher and
consistently tried to learn Thai. It is a very difficult language. And the
different tones are killer; I am constantly saying something very different
than what I mean. But it is very fun to learn. And since over the past month I
have really developed a love for spicy food, they say I will be able to speak
Thai better. Haha! We will see how that works out for me. But on Thursday I was
speaking with my Thai teacher and I said something with all the correct tones
and she (as well as our audience of farmers and children) got all excited and
said, “ooooh! PeeKearaww (pee means sister) you are Thai now. No farang. Just
Thai girl”. Well, as you can imagine that kind of made my day. And no, I am far
from being Thai, but it was awesome to say the least. Maybe spicy food is the
key? Speaking of spicy food, I took up a challenge this week. I really should
learn to just simply walk away from challenges, but they are too much fun. A
coworker handed me a chilli and a small chunk of pineapple, and asked, “do you
really like spicy food?”…Before I know it, I am chewing up a fireball. Holy
spicy. But I got it down just fine with no problems, like a champ :) It was a
weird sensation though as the hot chilli went down to my stomach (I felt it the
whole way down).
We
had some guests stay at our farm this week. They wanted to go to the hot
springs nearby, so after dinner one night we headed out. The last time I went
to the springs, it was in the afternoon and we just boiled up some eggs. Little
did I know it was going to be very different. We were handed giant sarongs that
were sewed in a way so it was like a big tube. I was told to put it on and then
strip. Whaaat? But like I mentioned earlier, I have learned to not question and
just follow (may or may not be a good strategy). The hot springs were…hot…and amazing! You sit on the
ground, pour the hot water on yourself, lather up with soap, and then rinse
off. It felt wonderful. In the village where the farm is, most people don’t
have warm water, so this is how they bathe, every day. And it’s a communal
thing. It is interesting how something so private back home is so open and
quite fun here. But I did feel super awkward afterwards when this very thin
sarong was soaked and clinging to every inch of my body. Let’s just say it
didn’t hide much. So yeah…mai pen rai I guess. Haha!
Friday
morning we took a small trip to BoSang. We went to this pottery place that is
super famous. Compare it like this, Ireland’s Waterford and Thailand’s Celadon.
It was awesome and I watched them make dozens of pieces right in front of me. I
could not help but think of my mom and how she would have just loved it in
there. It was way cool.
On
a random note, I love how many people I meet just by travelling. I have been
all over the states and to Ireland multiple times. Yet I never talked to other
people outside of my family. Here I am meeting some of the coolest people from
all over the world. Can I just make a suggestion? If you are travelling, step
out of your comfort zone and talk to others. You never know who you’ll meet or
what amazing stories you will hear. There are so many great people in this
world. I am so glad I have met such great people from Thailand, Australia,
Germany, France, Holland, Singapore, England. The list really just goes on and
on.
Saturday
morning I went zip lining through the jungle. It was crazy. I was so happy the
entire time. Zip lining was on my bucket list…so check! But I will have to do
it again. We did a bunch of zip lines over or through the jungle canopy, weird
rickety bridges that were fun to bounce on (only because we were connected to
the safety cables above), and went repelling. And by repelling, I mean they
dropped us straight down at high speeds. So. Much. Fun.
After
that little adventure we went as a group to see The Amazing Spiderman.
Seriously, I love the concept of superhero movies, but they all are cheesy and
overdramatic. Yet, I did enjoy this Spiderman a lot more than the others. And
there were points in the movie when I was like “I love it!” but then there were
a lot more moments when I thought it was just plain ridiculous. Haha!
The
movie ended kind of late, which means Amanda and I had to run to catch our
truck to take us home. We thought we had missed it, but we saw another truck
and the people on it said that it went to the same place (in the best English
they could). So we hopped on and before we know it we are driving somewhere
neither of us had ever seen. To make a long story short we went all over the
place, got lost, finally found the direction we needed to go, walked a bit, and
then waited to be picked up. If this would have happened to me a month ago I
would have freaked out. But it was just funny. I didn’t feel threatened, I didn’t
even feel stressed. It was no big deal. I know so many people here now that I
know there will always be someone who can help me.
As
it is July now I have been thinking a lot about my family. I have missed/am
going to miss my cousins’, my niece’s, my nephew’s, and my mom’s birthday. Oh,
and my country’s (which just happens to be one of my favorite holidays). The
only thing that would make my life over here complete is if all my family could
come and experience it with me. And while I will miss the fireworks, I will be
floating down the Mekong River in Laos. Heartbreaking I know :) Set off a
firework for me.
Well,
sorry for making y’all wait so long for the update. It happens. I am healthy,
safe, and enjoying every moment. I have one month left and I am going to live
it up!
Until
the next adventure,
Peace.