Tuesday, December 29, 2009

CAUTION: Only look if you are prepared to handle the cuteness!!!!!!

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SERIOUSLY??? HAVE YOU EVER IN YOUR LIFE SEEN A CUTER FACE?????
This, my friends, is my freakishly adorable husband when he was 3 1/2.
I fell in love with this picture as soon as I saw it and I can't stop looking at it!!
So, I thought I'd share it with everyone so they can take part of this precious face. I love his sweet expression and how he is holding Sylvester! I wish I could go back in time and snorgle his little face to death!!!

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Christmas Day 2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE HIGHAMS

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AND FROM RICHELE....
(Hey, if she is going to take a picture like that with my camera, it's going to get posted!!)
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Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas!

We fell behind this year, so I guess this is our excuse that we are "keeping up with the times" and taking our Christmas card electronic.

Merry Christmas! We hope you are enjoying the season as much as we are. It took a while to get the Christmas lights on the house working (busted outlet outside), but once we did, the kids faces just lit up! We were under a lot of pressure, as all of the neighbors’ lights were up and running, but now we are keeping up with the Joneses.

The kids have loved the snow so far this year. Even though it’s all crusty and frozen right now, they head out every day. Last night when they came in, Samantha’s mittens were totally soaked through - you know that means they had a good time. Or we need to buy better mittens. Speaking of which, the kids’ snow outfits are hilarious. They finally outgrew their last set, though we managed to squeeze 3 good winters out of them. Trying to build on our past success, their new snow clothes are about 3 sizes too big. Snow stuff is already pretty bulky, so it’s pretty shocking that they can move.

Samantha started Kindergarten this fall, and loves it. She also loves her teacher Mrs. Lemon, and thinks that it’s hilarious that she has the same name as a piece of fruit. Her teachers say that she is a perfect angel in class. We’d be a bit suspicious about that, but Kristi was her primary teacher for a while, and she was always quiet, attentive, and did a great job at participating. It’s a lot of fun to help her with her homework. It’s marvelous to see the joy in her face as she figures out how to sound out a new word. She does get easily frustrated, especially when she’s tired, so at those times it’s best to just move on to something else, but she loves finding her sight words everywhere we go, and is obsessed with counting things. It’s amazing what kind of knowledge she can bring home from school. The other night while daddy was watching Food Network (SHOCKING), someone was making a Yule Log. “What’s that?” Samantha asked? “It’s a Yule Log,” daddy replied. Samantha then launched into a lecture about the history of the Yule Log and its German origin! She threw it out very casually. Not surprisingly, we’re probably in a lot of trouble in the future – Kristi has seen the boys on the playground absolutely mooning after Samantha as she arrives at school. “Hiiii, Samantha.”

Alex started pre-school at the same place that Samantha went last year. He already loved Teacher Nicole from having met her many times he had met her before, so he had no trouble fitting right in. He is less than an inch shorter than Samantha, and depending on the day, might outweigh her by a pound or two. With a September birthday, he’s just about the oldest kid in class, and he towers over some of the kids by a full head. (We STILL get asked if they are twins – we thought it was just the double stroller they used to ride in.) Alex will undoubtedly be a better student than Samantha. I’m sure a lot of it is the benefit that he gains from the fact that she is constantly practicing, so he can pick up that residual knowledge, but he just absorbs things faster. While Samantha was practicing her reading (most of the sentences were repetitive), she struggled to read one of the new words in each sentence. On the second try, as she was working to get it out, Alex prompted her with the right word, kindly not vocalizing the “duh” that was plain in his tone. Alex struggles to speak a bit, in terms of clarity and enunciation, so he goes to speech therapy twice a week. Once is at the public school (free – yay!), and the other time is with a local speech pathologist (pricey – boo!). After his first trip to the speech pathologist (Paige), he was talking about what he thought of paper. “Paper?” daddy asked. “Yes, Paper.” Read through that a couple of times (out loud might help), and you’ll crack up when it clicks.

Kristi is happy (Alert – Extreme Understatement detected!) to have both kids in school, even if the stars only align for a couple of hours at a time a couple of times a week. She’s taken advantage of Andy’s amazing corporate discount at Gold’s Gym, you can now find her in the Cardio Cinema on Tuesday and Thursday mornings. She is currently practicing to be a taxi driver as she shuttles the kids to pre-school/school/’peech (one of Alex’s struggles is words that start with “S”)/whatever. We managed to sell our home in Pleasant Grove in October, and Andy’s parents have been kind enough to loan us their home in Orem until we can find a new home. Not knowing where we’ll end up, we’ve chosen to keep Samantha and Alex in their same schools, so Kristi’s schlepping kids around the valley a little further than you might normally expect. Too bad Orem is awful at clearing snow from the roads. To make sure that she doesn’t have too much free time, Kristi has decided to start a cookie catering business. She’s perfected her own cookie recipe, and there’s just enough action to keep her busy, between her local customers and some fans as far away as New York (it’s amazing how well those vacuum sealer things work).

Andy finished his MBA in August, and is just glad to not have to worry about it anymore. Work hasn’t changed much – he’s writing this on a flight to New York. Thank goodness for his tiny netbook and complimentary upgrades on Delta. It appears that he is in danger of beginning to refer to himself in the 3rd person – perhaps he’ll have to try to make the jump to professional sports. Andy is very grateful to have such a wonderful family, and generous parents who are letting us crash in their home until we can get a bank to finally move on a short sale. He won’t tell you too much about what he think about banks, as this isn’t really the place, and he happens to work for one, but suffice it to say we won’t be sending them any of Kristi’s cookies at Christmas. The good news is that we have a bank considering our offer on a home in American fork, and we are supposed to find out if they have accepted it in5 weeks or so. The bad news is that by writing that sentence, he has now totally jinxed the deal.

Have a Merry Christmas!

Andy, Kristi, Samantha & Alex

Monday, December 21, 2009

Yum

Saturday night we got together with friends at Forage Restaurant. Let me just say, I haven't stayed up that late in YEARS!!!!! But it was totally worth it to hang out with friends we rarely see and eat amazing food. The whole meal took us 3 1/2 hours to eat and then we hung out and chatted with the chef for a while. Lucky for us, the incredible chef, Bowman Brown is the brother-in-law of our friends and so we had around 13 courses of delicious food. It was a lot to experience and I ate many new things. I've never had rabbit before.....who knew it was so good!!??!! Brandon, Claire, Matt, and Angela were in town for their sister's wedding and their older brother Nathan also joined us. This was the first time we met Angela and we were so happy to be able to get to know her before she marries Matt in January! It's good she passed approval because we adore Matt and want the best for him!! Now we get to firm up plans to go to San Francisco for the wedding in January! Yippee! I'm not the brightest and totally forgot to take a picture of all of us, but trust me, we looked good!
Thanks for the invite Richards clan! We love you guys!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Who dat?

I'm not quite sure what has happened to me. I sometimes don't even recognize myself in the mirror. I used to be a happy and optimistic person with bright eyes and a great outlook on the future. I can't find that person anymore. She has vanished. In her place is a woman with a few gray hairs and wrinkles around the eyes and a crabby disposition. I think it's motherhood. I am, by nature, a peacemaker. I can't STAND to fight with Andy and if we do have a little fight, it is resolved very quickly. So why am I constantly yelling and fighting with my children? Why do they get on my nerves SO very quickly? Where did they learn what buttons to push with me?? Because they are the only two people on this earth who can really push me over the edge. I despise yelling at them. I despise disciplining them. Yet most of my days are filled with reprimands and punishings and a very unhappy momma.

How hard is it to get shoes on and get buckled in the car? Why must I ask 10 times?
Am I your cruise director or your mom? Why do you expect me to tap dance for you 24/7?
You make the mess - you clean it up!

Is it just me? Is it just my house that sounds like this? Will I ever get my sanity and sunny disposition back? Will Andy let me get Botox around my eyes?

I will admit though, the one shining star I have in my life is my marriage. THANKFULLY, I married a dreamboat who adores me and takes such good care of me. He understands when I need a break and is ready and willing to step in to allow me that break. When the house seems to crumble in on me I can look forward to him coming through the door and hugging me and, in that moment, all is right.

Except right now......he is in New York on business. I need a hug.

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Wherein I spew much information nobody cares about.

House update:
We have 2 offers into the bank on 2 great homes. If the bank could just hurry it up then we could get working on the papers and get into a home....but that just isn't how short sales work these days!! One home is in American Fork just 1 block south of the Mt. Timpanogos Temple. It is huge and lovely! It is located in a cul-de-sac and the kitchen is RIDICULOUSLY large--which is great for us! It only has 3 bedrooms and 2.5 bath (in 5000 sq ft!), but that is enough for us for now and someday we could finish the basement. We are really hoping for this house. Overall, it is our favorite.
The other home is in Orem just off of 1600 North. It is in a great Ivory Homes subdivision. The kitchen is really weak, but the basement isn't finished and we could possibly build another kitchen downstairs for me and my cookies. We love the upstairs of this home which includes a HUGE loft, 3 bedrooms and a bathroom. It is perfect for the kids area. The master bedroom is on the main floor so the upstairs could be dedicated just to the kids!

There is good and bad to both homes and both areas, but right now I think we'd be happy with anything!! We are going through them both again tomorrow with the expert eyes of my mom and dad to help us envision things and/or point out issues etc. I am looking forward to seeing both homes again.

Kid update:
Kids are here. They are growing. They throw tantrums. They make me laugh. They make me cry. They are excited for Christmas. They talk A LOT! And they sure are learning a bunch at school. They are smart little munchkins!

Kristi update:
The cookie business is going fairly well--considering I don't advertise and haven't updated the website like I want. I just don't have the time to do any of that and I really don't want to do too much until we get into our own home and I can really set up the business. Plus, I'm wicked busy right now trying to finish up my BYU course. I really SHOULD NOT have signed up for this class. Lesson learned, now let's just get it over with!!!

Andy update:
Andy is a enjoying his shorter commute. Not that it was horrible before, but now that he lives and works in Orem it can sometimes only take him 6 minutes to get to work! I LOVE it because if I have an issue like, say, oh, a screaming tantrum little girl, I can call him and he can help me deal with it. AND he brings me lunch! What a champion! I am certain he is still enjoying his freedom from school and sits down to play video games to celebrate. He has a couple of business trips coming up and a possible trip to Israel to visit a new client in January. I wish the kids and I could come along! I love Israel!

Pet update:
I flushed Merrie the fish last week. He was looking uber sick and I didn't want him to suffer any longer. And I got sick of taking care of him. The kids waved good-bye as he swirled down the toilet. If you can't tell, we weren't too broken up about it. Phil--the free carnival fish--is alive and kicking and creates a lot of dirty water for me to clean. Chewy still keeps me happy! I love that little bird. He cracks me up and is a good little pet for me. No one else really likes him too much, but that's because he bites everyone but me. Little stink!

Life is good. We are grateful to have a nice home to live in while we house hunt. We are looking forward to Christmas and spending time with family. Andy's family won't be coming out this year but we did get to see them at Thanksgiving.
I just got a new gym membership and now I plan on working out twice a week when both kids are in school and I am very excited! I worked out for 2 hours today and it felt really good. I probably won't feel so good tonight.....but oh well!
I LOVE MY FAMILY!
(and I love this hideous picture of us on a Sunday drive!)
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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A few things I'm thankful for.....

I'm thankful for my family.....
and for the free country I live in.


More Video Silliness

The Muppets take on Bohemian Rhapsody, apparently in preparation for the new Queen album that is about to come out. Not quite sure what to make of that....

Monday, November 23, 2009

Disney Princesses on Ice

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Samantha and I went with Richele, Greg, Nicole and Grampy to Disney Barf Me on Ice. Oh....I mean, Disney Princess on Ice.
Samantha had a lovely time and was so excited about all of it. Nicole, on the other hand, was so confused by all of it! She had never been to anything like this before and she had no idea what to make of it. She had this look of, "What the hell is going on here??" the whole time. In fact, that was the same look Grampy and Greg had too!!!
Samantha and I had a great time together and Alex and Andy went to a movie and to lunch together, so it was a grand day overall!!

Monday, November 16, 2009

National Geographic

Totally not what you expect.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

October in review - not in order....cuz I'm lazy

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My 2 kids at a corn maze for a field trip....accompanied by 2 random children who wouldn't move.
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Not sure which is more frightening...the kids faces or the pumpkins?
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Proud Alex.
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The crew at the pumpkin patch.
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The last picture of us as a family in our old house!! I love this photo!

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Another random update

So, let's see....where to begin....Ahhhhh, yes, sickness! Samantha and Alex have been sick for like 2 weeks and we have all just about had it!! Samantha still has the annoying, lingering cough, but is feeling much better overall. Alex still had a fever this morning (his 3rd day of fever) but is napping right now and I'm fairly confident that he'll wake up feeling better. If he still has a fever tomorrow morning I am going to take him into the doctor. They are sweet little troopers though!

The house hunting is still in full swing. We have offers out on 5 homes, all of which are short sales. Of course, we haven't heard back on any of them yet, but it is comforting just to know we have some options out there trying to do something!! We are going to see 3 more homes today and the kids are dreading it!! I think they will be super excited when we finally get locked on a home. For now though we are doing well at Grandma and Grandpa's. The kids are enjoying the space and it really feels like home for now.

I just discovered that I need to take my midterm for my Independent Study course in a testing center and that angers me! It means the test is closed book and I will really have to study! What's up with that??? I am also really wanting to expand my cookie business and really go for it, but honestly, I don't have the time right now! I'm not sure why I think it's a good idea, but the "project" part of it sounds like a lot of fun! I will probably do a little here and there but not fully go for it until we are settled in the new house. Whenever that may be!!!

I'm pretty sure Andy is still basking in the wonderfulness of being out of school!! I sure love it! He is keeping busy finding homes for us to look at and playing video games when he can. And dreaming of a family vacation next year. Good luck to that!!!

That's about all I can think of right now. I am looking forward to the next week when we find out if Kami is having a boy or a girl. We keep calling the baby "she" in the hopes that if it is a boy, the penis will drop off. Not that we don't love boys, because we do, but another girl would rock! Kami needs to share in the joy of the female hormones just like me and Richele!!
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I love this picture of all of the kiddos at the pumpkin patch. Plus one extra - Corbin who is Nicole's 2nd cousin. (is that right, second cousin??)

Sunday, November 01, 2009

Halloween - Mario Brothers Style!

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Samantha as Luigi, Nicole as Snow White

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Mario and Wario - making peace for just one night of candy
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Mario and Luigi from behind.
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Mario, Luigi, Wario and Waluigi

I actually have quite a few older pictures that I need to post, but I'm still in the Halloween mood and thought I'd post these pictures now.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Helping those who help us!

I just wanted to give a quick shout out to a couple of people and their businesses who have helped us lately.......

Our realtor Chad Holmes has been fantastic so far!! He even offered to sell his body to get us into a house we wanted!! Okay, maybe I told him to do that, but he'll go just about that far! He is quick to respond, helpful, kind, knowledgeable, and easy-going! We are quite confident that he will help us find a great home at a great price! Here is a link to his site.

Also, we had the carpets cleaned in our townhome before we moved out and they looked great! The owner, Kyle Quist, even worked extra hard to get out a couple of stains FOR FREE!! One stain involving a certain sleeping husband and 2 children and a tub of vaseline! You can reach Kyle at Roswell Carpet Cleaning at 801-362-1653.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

The new temporary home

Well, I just got the kids settled into their new beds for the next few months!!  Neither was too happy about it and both have claimed so far to be scared.  I know it is tough to get used to sleeping in a new bed and a new house, but I am sure after a couple of nights they will be just fine.  It has been a rough and tumble couple of days of moving and packing and packing and moving and a fun night at Grammy and Grampys, but hopefully we can get back in the groove soon!!  Samantha sounded quite pleased that she is going to school tomorrow. I think the norm will feel good to her.  The kids really are doing as well as can be expected.  And I am too I think!  We are still on a mad hunt to find a new house and have a few homes lined up to see this week and offers in on 3 homes.  We hope something sticks soon!!  And I'm sure my in-laws do as well!!!  And a big THANK YOU to the best in-laws in the world for letting us use their house!  Love you guys!

Friday, October 23, 2009

Last Night!

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Tonight is our last night in this house!! I have mixed emotions......I'm sad because this was our first REAL family home and my kids were still very little when we moved here......but I'm also excited to see what the future holds for us! It feels right to move now, it feels like it's time. We don't have a new home yet (we are searching like crazy!!) so we will be staying at Andy's parents Orem home for now. Thank you to them for letting us stay there! Andy will be closer to work but I will be driving back and forth A LOT from Orem to Pleasant Grove in order to keep the kids in their same schools. Which, I think, is worth it. Samantha and Alex love their teachers and schools and Alex has a couple of great speech teachers that we want to keep going to.
I am trying to bribe the kids into taking a nap today so we can stay up late, eat ice cream and watch a movie for the last night in our home! We'll see if they do it or not!!!
My family is coming over tomorrow to help move the big stuff to the storage unit then we will be staying at my parents Saturday night (which the kids are over the moon about!). Sunday afternoon we'll be getting settled in the Orem home and life will resume as normal as possible on Monday!! We've been married 7 years and moved 4 times! I hope this next move will be the last for a while. Though I'm not really counting on it!! ;-)

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

I WANT THIS PUPPY!!!!!

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Ridiculous Engineering Skills

I'm sure most of you will be shocked when I confess to being a total geek. Go ahead - take a minute to recover.

Back now? Ok. You have to watch this, at least the first minute or so. Even if you never played with Legos as a kid, you'll have to admit this is amazing.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

N to the J

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View off my balcony in Jersey City......that's the Statue of Liberty way in the back.
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Random picture of me on the roof of the Metropolitan Museum.

I can't believe I've been back in Utah for 3 years!! I am missing New Jersey tonight. I miss it quite often actually. Living there was a pain!! Nothing was easy....not the driving, the roads, the stores, getting to work, NOTHING!! But it sure did have a lot of character. And I miss some friends and neighbors from both Jersey City and Woodbridge. I miss my view of NYC. When I got on the airplane at midnight with my 2 kids and my parents to fly to Utah - I sobbed and sobbed. I don't miss flying in and out of JFK (what a rotten airport). I miss flying in and out of Newark (what a ghetto fabulous airport!). I am grateful to be back living near family. I especially love being near my niece and nephews. They are my favorite part of Utah! And I can't wait for another one to join us in 2010!! Abby? TB? We'll have to wait and see!

Friday, October 16, 2009

Monsters vs. Prophets

I wanted to jot this down before I forgot it, because it was funny!!!
The other night before bed Alex was praying and he blessed President Monster. Not President Monson, but Monster. There seems to never be a night where the kids pray that Andy and I don't end up cracking up and having to keep the laughing under control! I love it!

We have seen a lot of houses lately!! In fact, today is the only day in the past maybe 2 weeks that we don't have an appointment to go in a house or a plan to drive by some houses. The kids are excited!! Instead, we get to pack! Lucky us. The kids have been really good and patient with all of it though and whenever we meet a realtor at a house they don't even hesitate to say, "Hi, I'm Alex, I'm 4 years-old. Hi, I'm Samantha, I'm 5 years-old.". You can tell which questions they get asked every time!! Right now, as far as the house hunt goes, we are leaning towards having a home built for us in Lehi. We like the homes and the area and we feel good about it. We are going to their design center tomorrow to see if we can actually afford the house we want with the upgrades we'll want. I'm crossing my fingers! We'll keep you updated and I need to post pictures from our pumpkin picking as well. Sigh....too much to do!!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Some amusement for your day

From the "Way Too Much Time On Their Hands" file.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Stress comin' at ya!

Wow, I'm stressed these days! We sold the house and are in full packing mode. The house is a wreck with boxes stacked everywhere which, because I'm a bit OCD, causes me major stress. The kids are starting to show signs of stress as well as their lives are being rearranged and THAT causes ME a ton of stress. I still have my bloody Independent Study course to finish by January that is a thorn in my side. We are trying so hard to find a new home and it just isn't coming quite as easily as I had hoped. We are so lucky to have a great home to move into while we look for a new place, but it is always difficult to live in a home that isn't your own. I am going to be so paranoid about the kids ruining things and sleeping in the same room. I doubt they'll get a whole lot of sleep at first which is going to make life SO fun. I will be taking the kids to their current schools so I don't have to uproot them from that part of their life which is going to mean A LOT of back and forth travel for me!! It will be worth it to have them in their same schools, but wow, we're going to go through a lot of gas!!

My body has a terrific way of handling stress that I just love. Of course the zits pop out in generous numbers, but I can handle that. The worst part is that I get cankers in my mouth by the dozens!!! A couple of weeks before my wedding I had a canker in my mouth that was so enormous I couldn't eat or talk. It was excruciating. I ended up going to the doctor for it and he gave me some anti-viral pills and some cream. I still use the cream every time I get a canker and, thankfully, it works wonders. If only it could stop the cankers from forming....

I'm not really trying to complain or get any sympathy (we did do this to ourselves, by the way), but I just want to have the memories of the stress so I can look back when we are settled into our new, beautiful home and say, "We did it! We made it, and it wasn't as bad as I remember! And best of all....it was worth it!!". Oh boy I hope I say those words!!!

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Thursday, October 01, 2009

Just your random update

I know that I've mentioned it on my Facebook page, but I don't think I mentioned it on the blog yet......we sold our house!! We were able to do it without the help of our realtor so he released us from our contract and now we don't have to pay commission! Yeah for us! We got a pretty decent price out of it and are still left with a good amount of equity to put towards our new home. We think we are probably going to close the end of October and move out shortly thereafter. Andy's parents have been kind enough to offer their house for us to live in while we search for a new home. Which, by the way, there are a TON of great homes out there for a great price! We have a huge list to drive by, check out the neighborhood and decide if we want to see the inside. There is one in particular right now that we fancy in Orem. It is so close to Andy's work he could WALK to work everyday!!! It's a big older (built in 1991) but the landscaping is beautiful, the neighborhood is great and the kitchen is all remodeled and lovely. We should be going to see the inside hopefully on Saturday.

Kids are doing great in school. Samantha's writing is improving and so are her pictures. She loves her teacher and has made some good friends. Alex is such a boy and just sort of shrugs his shoulders about school. He could take it or leave it. But as far as I know, he is doing well.

Andy works. And flies on airplanes.

My cookie business has decided to suddenly take off!!! Which is so terrific and great, but horrible timing! I am supposed to start packing but instead I'm always baking! (Don't let that fact deter you from making an order though, my friends!!) I really appreciate everyone who has helped support me and placed an order. It's the best way for me to perfect my recipes and get a process in place. I have so many cookies to make on Monday that I have recruited my mom to come and entertain Alex so I can spend the whole morning baking!! Bless your heart mom! I'll pay ya!

I got to spend some time with my sweet nephew Caleb today. He made my day beautiful!
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Monday, September 28, 2009

Hewwo???

I've decided that everyone has stopped reading my blog since NO ONE commented on my previous post and how dern cute my kids are!! If you aren't going to comment on that, you must not be there! Good thing this blog serves mostly as a journal for my family so I'll keep posting whether anyone else is reading or not! It's all good!

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Birthday photo shoot

Every year I have the kids birthday pictures taken in August - right between their birthdays. So, this is Samantha's 5 year pictures and Alex's 4 year pictures. My sister Richele took these pictures in Santaquin and I am very happy with how they turned out! I think I have the cutest kids in the world!!! Thanks Richele for all your hard work with these pictures. You are getting very good at this!!!
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Thursday, September 24, 2009

Saving the world

Samantha told me today, "Mom, I'm glad that we recycle.". How cute is that?? It really has cut our trash in HALF by recycling newspaper, cans, plastic, and bottles. We have a recycling dumpster right in our cul-de-sac which makes it so easy to help save the world!! And since my husband is a tree hugger from California, he feels much better now that we can recycle. It has been weighing on his mind since we stopped recycling in Jersey City.

I just got an order for 6 dozen cookies for tomorrow! AND, 3 dozen for next week to ship to New York City! My house is going to smell cookielicious.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Happy Birthday Alex!

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You turn 4 years old today Alex!!! It is really hard for me to believe! I feels like yesterday we moved back to Utah, you had just turned 1 and loved exploring our new house. The stairs were all new and after one tumble down them you quickly learned to go down backwards instead of stepping straight down. Now we are close to selling this home and it makes me sad to think that our "first home" will belong to someone else. To me, this is the home that you really grew up in. You were a tiny baby in New Jersey, but you became a toddler, and now a preschooler, in this home. I will always love this home for those memories.

Four years ago we were staying at Grammy and Grampy's house waiting for the phone call that you were born. I answered the telephone and heard you crying in the background!! What a glorious sound that was! It also made me want to throw up a little bit (bad memories of your sister as a newborn!). I was so excited to have a little boy and I felt like your mother from the moment I laid eyes on you! It took a little while to feel like Samantha's mommy since being a mom and adoption were so new to me, but having been through it once I instantly felt like YOUR mom when I saw you. You also kind of startled me!! For some reason I thought you were going to be the darkest of the bunch. I expected dark brown hair and brown eyes. Instead, this heavenly little face with blue eyes and blonde hair stared up at me!! WHAT??? Over the years your hair has gotten darker, but your eyes are still as blue and, truth be told, they MELT me! There is something special about the mommy/son relationship and ours is no exception. I know without a doubt that you adore me and I am quite certain you know how much I adore you! We are best friends! I always ask you if you are going to love me and be my best friend even when you are older and you always reply YES with a big hug around my neck! I pray that is true!

You are also a pretty stubborn little stink sometimes! You like to be dramatic (shocker, I know) and throw yourself on the ground when you don't get what you want, but once you've settled down and ask me to sit on the couch with you, I forget all about the tantrum as you snuggle into my arm and I kiss the top of your head. I like to call you Dennis the Menace sometimes because you just CAN NOT resist touching things you shouldn't and tearing things apart!! Just this morning I spent about 30 minutes putting together your Hot Wheels Shark Park toy only to have you tear it all apart after about an hour. I'm hoping that your fascination with tearing things apart will lead you to wondering how they get put back together and you have a successful, great career as an engineer or something!!! A mother's dream I suppose! I think you are such a smart little fella and I know that you will do well in whatever interests you. You are not a quitter and that will take you a long way in this life!!!

I just love you to pieces, Alex!!! I am so proud of you and so happy that we are blessed to be your parents! You have challenged us in so many ways and yet brought us so much happiness. Happy Birthday Baby!
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Monday, September 21, 2009

Busted!

Andy just caught Samantha laying flat on her back in the bathtub swishing her body back and forth singing, "I am a mermaid, I am a mermaid, I am a mermaid!". She had her eyes closed so she didn't see him there for a while until he kicked the tub and she opened her eyes and screamed. Love that kid!

Thank ya Brooke!

My very first shout out for krandy's sweet co. occurred right HERE!! Thank you Brooke for trying the cookies and posting about them. Let's hope it drums up a bit of business!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

I miss these little faces SO badly some days.

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Samantha - 18 months, Alex - 4 months

Monday, September 14, 2009

Attempting smooth speech

Alex started a new speech class today at Samantha's elementary school. He has been in a different speech class for about 5 months now, but now that it is the start of the school year he is beginning class through the school district. I like this one because it is free, but it is also only 20 minutes instead of 30. I think I am going to double up for a while and see how it goes. I think the poor guy is always going to struggle with some stuttering, but he really does a good job of controlling it when he thinks about it. He's just so dang cute and so willing to try and he never gives up! I ADORE him for that. We also are working on his th sounds and his s sounds, but he is still a little young for those so I think they will come to him later. He really is a champ and has improved greatly in the past few months so I am not too worried.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

List of things that tick me off......

1. The idiotic mothers and all their giant Mormon Assault Vehicles attempting to drop their kids off at Kindergarten. You just open the door, shove the kid out, and drive off!! It's that simple ladies!!!!

2. How difficult is it to wipe off the gym equipment when you use it?? No one wants their sweat mingling with your sweat! Grab a paper towel, spray it with disinfectant, and wipe!!

3. Why do I have such wonderfully wide child baring hips when I can't even bare children??? What a waste!

4. Bad breath

5. Children who have to be told 10 times to do something.

6. People trying to get me to play Mafia Wars on Facebook. STOP!!!!

7. Pizza with hardly any cheese.

8. Pizza with too much red sauce.

9. The wind ruining a perfectly good hair day.

10. Food commercials when you are trying NOT to think about food. OR, food commercials when you are deathly ill and want to puke.

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

Randomness

I just haven't been able to think of anything good or interesting to blog about lately! Not that my usual posts are super stimulating, but there just hasn't been a lot going on. I take that back.....there HAS been a lot going on, in fact, I've never been busier!! It's all been mundane stuff, but I'm going to blog about it anyways!

Andy and I are in a weight loss challenge with each other for the month of September. Whoever has the highest percentage of weight loss will be the winner and receive a FREE Saturday to do whatever they choose!! It could be time alone, spa appointment, out to lunch, time with family, whatever!! And I'm quite certain I am going to win, so I see a massage in my future!!

Samantha and Alex are doing fantastic at school. They both love their teachers but don't talk too much about friends.....not sure why since they are usually first at making friends, but I'm not worried. They probably just don't know the kids' names!!

I am about at my midterm for my independent study course and I extended the class for another 3 months which should give Andy and I plenty of time to finish. That's right, I said Andy and I. I am doing most of the work, he is just here to make sure I do it correctly! I can't wait to have this class over with!!!

We have had 2 people come and look at the house, but no one seems to be serious about it. We aren't in any rush so it really isn't a big deal. We still have no idea what direction we are going to take for our future, so we are just living day by day for now.

The novelty of Andy being out of school STILL hasn't worn off!! Woo hoo!!

Fall shows are starting this week and I am SO happy about that!!!

This Saturday I am supposed to go boating with Richele and Greg for the last time this summer (sniff, sniff). Next Saturday the whole fam damily is going to the State Fair for Alex's birthday. I can't wait to scarf down a deep fried PB&J!! I'll have to exercise super long to burn that one off! On Alex's birthday (the 22nd) we are going to see the movie "Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs". I think it looks super cute!

The kids only have 2 more soccer games and I am fairly happy about that. Mostly because I love the last game where they get their medals. I teared up last year when Samantha got hers! I'm a wuss, I know!!

Andy and I already have plans for our anniversary in October......we are dropping the kids off at Grammy's for the day and then coming back home to eat horribly, watch really loud movies and chill at home all day!!! It should be very relaxing and cheap! I am looking forward to it!

Are you all sufficiently bored yet????

Friday, September 04, 2009

Sweet baby and Stinky Animals

Last night I was able to enjoy the weather and peaceful night holding my sweet baby Caleb at the Red Barn in Santaquin, and I realized I haven't posted a picture of him lately!! (We were at the Red Barn having Richele take birthday pictures of my kids and eating ice cream.) Not that most of you care about my adorable nephew, but I do and I enjoy looking at his pictures!!

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ImageWe took these pictures one day when Richele and I braved Thanksgiving Point with the kids. We have never done the petting zoo there and I think the kids liked it. Alex loved feeding the animals and we even got scaredy cat Nicole to feed some and pet some. It was a fun morning.

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Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Alex's first day of Preschool

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Alex had his first day of preschool today and it was a piece of cake! He is attending the same preschool Samantha went to so he is very comfortable with the teacher and the surroundings. He did look slightly nervous as we were saying goodbye, but Teacher Nicole brought out some orange playdoh and Alex was pleased as punch! He was so casual about the whole thing even when I picked him up. What's the big deal, mom? It's just school!! Which, he has corrected me a couple of times....it is school, not preschool!!! Got it? He is such a handsome little man and I can't wait to see how much he grows and what he learns!

Oh, and by the way, my 2 hours of freedom were FREAKIN' AWESOME!!!!!!! I am LOVING my life right now!!!!

Monday, August 31, 2009

Serious fun on a Sunday

ImageAndy found this little tomato in my garden and I thought he looked like a little man with a tie or something. Yes, it's true, the two tomatoes are stuck together. All I did was add the little tepanyaki hat, Ginsu knife, and of course his winning smile!! THIS is the fun we have on Sundays in the Higham home. Now if he could just make me some sushi, we'd be in business!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Samantha's first day of Kindergarten!

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ImageWalking into class with her friend Karlee in front.

Today was Samantha's first day of Kindergarten and she was both excited and nervous! She was excited until we got there and she had to line up for class.......she wasn't quite sure where to go or what to do. Thank goodness I got to be right there and her dear teacher was also telling the kids what to do and where to go. I didn't cry when dropping her off because I knew she would have a great time and I was excited for the time with just Alex. We went swimming!! I could tell he was very much enjoying time with just mommy and, man, it was a lot easier with just one kid!!! I was excited to go pick her up from school though and hear how her day went. She had a lovely time and was excited to be a member of the "green table". Her friend Karlee is in the same class and I think that really helped with her first-day jitters. As soon as she saw Karlee she grabbed her hand and held it until it was time to go into class. Sweet little girls!!! I am so proud of Samantha and I know that she will be the queen of that class in no time!!!! Just remember to learn along with your socializing please, Samantha!!!

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

So artistic!

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Samantha took these 2 pictures (Hello Kitty and Spiderman) and I actually really like them!! I am going to have them printed out and frame them for the kids rooms. I know they are a little blurry, but I'll just print them small and so you hopefully won't be able to notice. Talented little mite!