With everything we have gone through in Kaylie's five short years we decided it would be beneficial to hold her back instead of starting Kindergarten. By doing this we are hoping to have her mature as well as gain the confidence (as well as some height ) she may need to not always be chasing after the ones that are just a little bit older than her. Quite often she is being "mother henned" and not doing things for herself. These are the things we would like to have disappear before she goes off to the "big girl" school.
Once we made that decision we decided to keep her in the same preschool we had her in last year. It is two days a week which works well for our schedule. The focus for her this year will be to practice reading, writing, and growing. Her class is full of five year olds that were kept back to grow as well making this transition that much easier.
I didn't cry until she decided she was a big girl and could go into the class without me. She held my hand and then let it go so she could do it by herself....tear! I don't know if I can handle this growing up thing!