
Oh the joys of toilet training! I was very lucky with Dude in that he went to nursery full time so they did the bulk of it but obviously we started it at home when he was showing the signs at ditching nappies but this time I’m on my own, apart from the one day at nursery, it’s Squidge and I on this jolly journey.
One thing I’d say is always wait until they are ready, don’t force it. With Dude I did this and to this day we’ve only ever had one wet bed at night in the last 3 years. So always go at their pace, don’t think ok they’re the right age so let’s do it now, every child is different. Look for signs such as taking own nappy off, mimicking family members on the toilet and saying that they need or have done a wee or poo, to name a few of the signs.
Here’s some tips I’ve found invaluable. It’s hard and I’ll openly admit it reduced me to tears and don’t expect it to happen instantly, it may take a few weeks or months of failed starts as although they are ready, there is resistance and still need guidance through this adventure. The right time will come when they’re ready and when they do it may only take a few days to crack it.
TIPS
No.1 POTTY/TOILET SEAT
Let them choose and/or decorate their potty or training seat with stickers. I bought both potties at around 6months old, so that they got used to having it around and having been told what it is for, they get acquainted with it’s purpose. It seems early and be prepared for it to be used as a toy, storage or headwear! But when the time comes its not then an unfamiliar object thrust upon them.
I also took the potty into nursery for the first few days or as long as it was needed, for some familiarity in other locations outside of home.
Having more than one is a good idea also, one upstairs and one downstairs or to take out and about so there is no sense of panic that one is not around when needed.

Our travel ladybug potty
No.2 KNICKERS, PANTS, UNDERCRACKERS AND KNICKKNACKS
Take them shopping to choose there own knickers/pants. It gives them some ownership over the process. Putting them into the drawer at a level they can reach and knowing where they are. Let them choose what they want to wear, limit choice if it becomes difficult selecting a few pairs to pick from instead.
No.3 REWARDS
Offer a reward for each wee to start with and again when they are ready to do poos on the potty/toilet too. I did a treat out of a reward jar (a small chocolate) each time they did a wee/poo and then could add a sticker in a special potty book I bought to mark each occasion I.e I wore big pants today, washed my hands, asked for the potty etc… Choose something that works for you and your child, can be anything to give an incentive. Gradually they don’t even think about the reward once the process becomes second nature.
No.4 YOU LOOKING AT ME!
Distraction to start with is a good idea such as watching something or going through a book to take their minds off sitting on the potty /toilet and relaxing. Creating a zone/special area for privacy is good as well so not everyone is staring. Heard the term stage fright?!
No. 5 PEE PEE IN THE POTTY
Make it fun and don’t panic or stress (easier said than done!) Create a little song and dance if needed. We had a wee wee dance and waved saying our goodbyes when it went down the toilet. Bonkers I know but it’s all about praising, making it fun and not being scared. There will be accidents, possibly even poo on the floor as happened in my case (not me literally but Squidge on day 2 on toilet training) but need to stay calm, take them to the potty or toilet to finish if needed and remind them it’s not the right place to go, remember we do wee’s or poo’s on the potty/toilet.
No.6 NIGHT NIGHT SLEEP TIGHT
Tackle toilet training for the daytime only to start with, stick with night nappies for bed but getting them used to trying to have a wee before bedtime as part of their night time routine. Only attempt leaving nappies off at bedtime when you have a good few nights of dry nappies in the morning, maybe even a week to ensure they are ready to sleep through the night without anything.
Every child is there own person, so do what’s best for them. These tips are what worked best for me and my two scamps but hopefully they can help to make someone else’s journey from nappy to toilet.