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Sexual Repression and the American Dating Collapse: You Need An Intervention If You Think My Work…

Why Most of My Female Clients Aren’t a Fit for U.S. Men On Any Side of the Political Spectrum

Apr 30, 2025

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Apr 30, 2025

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Dear Men: Is Being Positive Your Downfall?

You Cannot Drag Your Life Up the Mountain and Win — You Have to Feel

2d ago

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I’m Grateful He Didn’t Feel It With Me. Thoughts On Ways I Have Crashed Men Out.

What if I was drowning my partners and calling it intimacy?

5d ago

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Dear Men: You Become Whoever You Listen To

If you don’t want his marriage, his relationship with his kids, or his nervous system, he is not your teacher.

May 8

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May 8

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A Man Wrote Down What He Really Wanted. The Women Tore Him Apart.

There Is No Middle Anymore. Being Different is a Crime.

May 3

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May 3

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Dear Men: Thinking You Can Improve Yourself Is the Problem

How self-improvement culture can keep you stuck — and what actually works.

Apr 20

Dear Men: Thinking You Can Improve Yourself Is the Problem

Apr 20

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Women Own the Language of Modern Relating. That Is a Problem.

What happens when one person in a relationship knows every word for what’s wrong, and the other person just knows something feels bad? Part…

Apr 17

Women Own the Language of Modern Relating. That Is a Problem.

Apr 17

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Dear Men: Love Is Not a Place You Arrive

Part 2 in a series on what’s actually happening with men.

Apr 12

Dear Men: Love Is Not a Place You Arrive

Apr 12

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I Don’t Think Men Are the Problem

What happens when you hit puberty and people start to fear or idolize you? Part 1 in my series on modern masculinity.

Apr 5

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Apr 5

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What If You Don’t Need Therapy. You’re Just Not Built for This Time.

On relating in a world you were never designed to enter.

Apr 1

What If You Don’t Need Therapy. You’re Just Not Built for This Time.

Apr 1

Christina Lane

Christina Lane

I write about the messy middle of love & being human. Embodiment coach: www.christinalanecoaching.com Editor: https://mutualterrain.com

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