<![CDATA[Stories by Christina Lane on Medium]]> https://medium.com/@christinalanecoaching?source=rss-ce941da763e1------2 https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/fit/c/150/150/1*0wKeFjT-oSdHf0ipTwfh1g.jpeg Stories by Christina Lane on Medium https://medium.com/@christinalanecoaching?source=rss-ce941da763e1------2 Medium Sat, 16 May 2026 18:14:52 GMT <![CDATA[Dear Men: Is Being Positive Your Downfall?]]>

You Cannot Drag Your Life Up the Mountain and Win — You Have to Feel

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What if I was drowning my partners and calling it intimacy?

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If you don’t want his marriage, his relationship with his kids, or his nervous system, he is not your teacher.

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There Is No Middle Anymore. Being Different is a Crime.

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How self-improvement culture can keep you stuck — and what actually works.

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What happens when one person in a relationship knows every word for what’s wrong, and the other person just knows something feels bad?

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Part 2 in a series on what’s actually happening with men.

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What happens when you hit puberty and people start to fear or idolize you? Part 1 in my series on modern masculinity.

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On relating in a world you were never designed to enter.

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Three things I actually think matter — from someone who has spent years learning this the hard way.

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