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            <title><![CDATA[Of Unseen Wings and Unsaid Words]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2025 11:37:22 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-06-14T11:37:22.983Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/736/0*FRYGL93rd7Z5n3I0.jpg" /></figure><p><em>During my childhood, other subjects did interest me academically, but I’ve always felt more drawn towards the beauty of literature. I can’t imagine how my life would be without my writing space. When I look back to the point where it all started, it always brings me immense joy.</em></p><p>I’d like to share the first incident — or rather what I remember as the beginning — of my poetry journey.</p><p>When I was in Class Seven, Sister Angel was my English teacher. She was well-versed in English literature and passionate about instilling that love in us. Her unique way of engaging us in classroom activities made me fall in love with the language all over again — but this time, in a deeper, more personal way.</p><p>One fine day, we were given a task: <em>write a poem about your favorite bird</em>. She gently faced us and said, <strong>“Even if you write two lines, make sure it comes from within.”</strong></p><p>After the two-day deadline, we were asked to read our poems aloud. As my fellow classmates opened their notebooks, squawking parrots flew across the class, while the dancing peacocks spread their gorgeous colors and wings in words. I became anxious — the bird I had written about didn’t have brilliant feathers or a fan-following in the animal kingdom. In fact, most people barely even noticed it — let alone adored it. My thoughts spiraled:</p><p><em>“Maybe I shouldn’t have written about it? Maybe I’m going to let down the entire species of my favorite bird with whatever I’ve scribbled? Maybe I shouldn’t have loved that bird in the first place?”.</em></p><p>Yes — overthinking has been running through my veins for ages.</p><p>When Sister Angel called me up next, the excitement I had while writing the poem vanished. My mouth dried up. I gathered every bit of courage I had and started reading. I paused after the first couple of lines — the silence grew louder. All eyes were glued on me. But as I continued, I found myself enjoying the poem again, just as I did when I wrote it.</p><p>After a round of applause from my classmates, I looked at Sister Angel. She sure was poetry herself — but I couldn’t read her that day. She glanced at me, then walked over and gently took my notebook. As she read through the poem, a curve of a smile formed on her face, growing wider with each line.</p><p><strong>Sr. Angel</strong> (looking straight into my eyes): Hmm… You wrote this?</p><p><strong>Me:</strong> Yes, sister.</p><p><strong>Sr. Angel:</strong> What made you write like this?</p><p><strong>Me:</strong> <em>(stares, wondering what does she mean by ‘this’?)</em></p><p><strong>Sr. Angel:</strong> Is it because of the love for <em>that bird</em> or poetry?</p><p><strong>Me:</strong> Both, sister.</p><p><strong>Sr. Angel:</strong> Okay, but can you tell me why you like that bird?</p><p><strong>Me:</strong> Sure, sister. Every time I’m alone in my room, I look outside the window. A carefree yet sincere bird sits there pecking on a tree. It doesn’t have a bunch of birds around to notice it. Yet, it never fails to do what it’s meant to do. I relate more to that aspect of it.</p><p><strong>Sr. Angel:</strong> <em>(smiling)</em> An unexpected answer. Keep writing, Devipriya.</p><p><strong>Even if the woodpecker flies away and you’re just left with the tree — keep writing.</strong></p><p><strong>Me:</strong> Sure, sister. Thank you!</p><p>Every time I feel like I’m hitting writer’s block, I replay this conversation in my head. Maybe her inspiration to write about a bare tree helped me evolve enough to write even about nothingness in a precise manner.</p><p>And now, here’s the very first piece that marked my beginning — the poem I nervously read that day.</p><p>(You’ll finally meet the quiet little bird that started it all.)</p><p><strong>Disclaimer:</strong></p><p>This might sound a little childish (because, well — I <em>was</em> a child). But this tiny piece carries my very first attempt at poetry, and will always remain special to me.</p><p><strong>THE WOODPECKER</strong></p><p><em>It pecks the hard teak,</em></p><p><em>With its sharp beak;</em></p><p><em>It is a colorful beauty,</em></p><p><em>Being very sincere in its duty.</em></p><p><em>Yeah, the tree’s bark, it pokes,</em></p><p><em>But like humans, not making nature a joke.</em></p><p><em>A bird, which usually people never mind,</em></p><p><em>whereas I’m here, admiring it wherever I find.</em></p><p><em>Though it is quiet, It is one of the nice creatures, right?</em></p><p><em>It has colors of blue, black and brown;</em></p><p><em>And well, I can say, among birds it should be rewarded with a crown!</em></p><p>Years later, I’m still glad that it remains my favorite bird. When I spot one, I pause and admire its beauty — its calmness, the way it minds its own business even when no one notices. Maybe, even without realizing, I’ve been a woodpecker myself all these years.</p><p><strong>The lesson I’ve learnt from my younger self is this:</strong></p><p>It’s okay to have different choices. It’s okay to follow an unpopular path, even if it gets lonely. As I grew up, I realized that herd mentality is more common among humans than it is among actual herds.</p><p>We often value others’ opinions more than our own and blindly follow the majority. It’s high time we look inward and start living our own lives — free from stereotypes.</p><p><strong>A Journaling Prompt for You</strong></p><p>As a small step, ask yourself the following questions and reflect deeply. You can write about them if you’d like.</p><ol><li>When was the last time you felt truly proud of something small and personal, even if no one else noticed or celebrated it?</li><li>Is there something you love that others find odd or uninteresting? Why does it matter to you?</li><li>What is a moment from your childhood that made you feel seen or understood? How can you recreate that feeling for yourself now?</li><li>What does “doing something from within” mean to you? Can you recall a time when you did?</li></ol><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=2d556bc833fc" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Morning Pages: Your Mind’s Warm-Up Routine]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:39:17 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-04-15T17:39:17.245Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Start Your Day the ‘Write’ Way.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/474/1*Au0A_4ODoCZT_YokZ6BDSg.jpeg" /><figcaption>source: pinterest</figcaption></figure><p>Ever woken up with a head full of noise and no place to put it? Thoughts running amok, never-ending to-do lists blending with unfinished dreams, flashes of inexplicable worries and random inspirations? It’s like your brain throws a party every morning and you didn’t even RSVP.</p><p>That’s where morning pages come in. A simple habit that feels like therapy, meditation, and creative brainstorming all rolled into one. I stumbled upon it on a random day when my internal monologue started deafening me and everything felt so chaotic. And let me tell you — these pages are absolute magic. Quite, Humble, Grounded magic.</p><p>Let’s delve into what morning pages are, why they work and how you can start this beautiful practice tomorrow morning (yes, before your phone scrolling time).</p><h3>So… What <em>Are</em> Morning Pages?</h3><p>The term “Morning Pages” was introduced by Julia Cameron in her book, <em>The Artist’s Way</em>. The idea is:</p><blockquote>Every morning, before the world gets to you, you write three pages of longhand, stream-of-consciousness thoughts.</blockquote><p>If you are someone who feels like there are multiple tabs open in your head that you have no idea how to close them without letting your mental system crash, morning pages are for you.</p><p>No prompts. No grammar restrictions. Just spill your raw, uncensored and sleepy thoughts onto paper.</p><p>Think of it as a mental detox. A brain dump. A private venting session. A scribbled self-hug.</p><p>Remember, morning pages aren’t about perfection. You don’t have to write something profound , it is to clear out the mental clutter for something profound to <em>happen</em> later.</p><h3>Why Should You Try It?</h3><p>To get rid of that pesky internal voice that follows you around saying <em>“you forgot to do your laundry”</em>, <em>“How about having pasta for tonight?”</em> or <em>“Why has my friend not replied to my texts yet?”</em> and other such thoughts that steal your focus away by making you less productive.</p><p>To clear out the space in your brain in order to approach the day with more clarity.</p><h3>My First Week with Morning Pages</h3><p>As someone who loves to write, I had what any fellow writer would experience — “writer’s block”. But then, when I learned about morning pages, I decided to give it a try. Initially, I struggled a lot because I wanted it to be nothing short of perfection. But then that contradicts the entire purpose of this exercise.</p><p>Once I realized that <strong>consistency &gt; perfection</strong> and that free flow of thoughts is all that matters here, I started writing my unfiltered thoughts:</p><blockquote>“I woke up today so that I could have my coffee.”</blockquote><blockquote>“I feel like sitting inside my washing machine and going for a spin.”</blockquote><blockquote>“I love the words that our silence speaks.”</blockquote><p>But eventually, something shifted. I caught myself writing things that weren’t very deep but honest. And that made all the difference in helping me understand my emotions and also slowly helped me get out of my “writer’s block”.</p><h3>“But I’m Not a Writer!” and Other Myths</h3><p>Time to clear out a few common misconceptions</p><p><strong>“I’m not a writer.” </strong>Great! That makes you perfect for Morning Pages.</p><p><strong>“I don’t have time.” </strong>It takes not more than 20 minutes. Less than the time you spend scrolling.</p><p><strong>“I don’t know what to write.” </strong>Start with that. Write “I don’t know what to write” on loop if needed. Trust me, words will come.</p><p><strong>“I don’t have a fancy journaling set-up.” </strong>A pen. An empty Notebook. That’s literally all that you need.</p><p><strong>“I can’t write for 3 pages in one single go.” </strong>Use a smaller notebook. As simple as that.</p><h3>How to Start Your Own Morning Pages Practice</h3><ul><li>Wake up 30 minutes earlier. Gift yourself with some unfiltered brain time.</li><li>Grab a notebook. Any kind. No fancy stationery is required unless that lifts your mood.</li><li>Write three pages. Longhand. No judgment. Before proceeding with your day, pour your thoughts onto the pages.</li><li>Don’t re-read it. Unlike a diary or a typical journal where you document the events of each day, morning pages prepare you for the day ahead. It is not meant to be read by anyone else or yourself, for that matter.</li><li>Be consistent. Keep writing.</li></ul><h3>When It Feels Pointless (But Isn’t)</h3><p>Show up even on the days when your morning pages will read like a grocery list, an unsent message, a long-lasting memory or a brilliant idea. <em>The key is to </em><strong><em>show up</em></strong><em>, not to </em><strong><em>show off.</em></strong></p><p>Who knows? Probably the most boring days might bring out the most creative ideas.</p><h3>The Beautiful Side Effects</h3><p><strong>Mental Clarity:</strong> Our mind is like a cluttered desk. Morning pages are the act of clearing out the crap by sorting, tossing and dusting. A clear mind can focus well with an evident increase in productivity.</p><p><strong>Problem-solving:</strong> Free flow of writing sometimes reveals problems we had no idea that existed. And the beautiful part is that the solutions also uncover themselves, only if we permit them.</p><p><strong>Understanding your emotions:</strong> If you are someone like me who struggles to express your emotions and instead prefers bottling up (which is unhealthy), morning pages will help you manage your emotions by guiding you in figuring out how you are actually feeling. And over time, you’ll know yourself a little better — which, let’s be real, is the real glow-up.</p><p><strong>Creative Kickstart:</strong> As your thoughts flow, new ideas will eventually pop up, and you just have to pluck those ideas from the pages and pitch them in whichever art form you’re interested in. Julia Cameron calls them a way to <em>“meet your shadow and shake hands.”</em></p><h3>Final Thoughts: Your Mind Has Something to Say… Are You Listening?</h3><p>In a world which demands our constant attention, morning pages are a form of invitation to return to yourself. To meet your own thoughts and feelings before the world tells you what to think. To uncover interests, opinions and enthusiasm. To get the noise out of your mind and begin the day with clarity.</p><p>So tomorrow morning, before the coffee, before the noise — pick up a notebook and a pen. Hold yourself accountable for a 10-day challenge and see the magic unfold. Let the pages hold your thoughts.</p><p><em>They’re ready when you are.</em></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=1c3520810aaa" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[A Beginner’s Guide to Reading Books: How to Start and Stay Hooked]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2025 10:06:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-03-02T10:06:50.831Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading is one of the most enriching habits that you can cultivate. As author George R.R. Martin says, <em>“A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.” </em>Be it improving your knowledge, escaping into the worlds of fantasy or just improving your communication, this blog will serve as a guide and will facilitate you in embarking on a journey of entering into the world of books. Let’s begin!</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/474/0*aRu6lfevOk4BUFs4.jpg" /><figcaption>source: pinterest</figcaption></figure><h3><strong>Choosing the Right Genre</strong></h3><ul><li>The first and foremost step is to choose the genre that suits you the most. This can be done by exploring the various genres available based on your personal interests.</li><li>If your objective is to explore productivity, time-management, biography of pioneers or just to improve your communication skills through reading, you can go for non-fiction.</li><li>When it comes to reading fiction for fun, be it classics, crime thrillers, fantasy, sci-fi or romance, you can choose any book of your choice and just get completely lost in it.</li></ul><p>📖 <em>“Until I feared I would lose it, I never loved to read. One does not love breathing.”</em> — Harper Lee, <em>To Kill a Mockingbird</em></p><h3><strong>Start Small: Build the Habit</strong></h3><p>One mistake that many beginners tend to commit is that they start with bulky books just because they find them to be popular somewhere on the internet and end up saying that ‘Reading books is not my cup of tea’. Well, in order to rescue yourself from doing something similar, you can start with short and engaging books.</p><ul><li>Begin by reading 15–20 minutes a day.</li><li>Or set a goal of reading a few pages every day.</li><li>Prefer books with short chapters to keep up with the momentum.</li><li>Explore audiobooks and e-books to see if they fit better into your lifestyle.</li></ul><p>🕰️ <em>“Reading is essential for those who seek to rise above the ordinary.”</em> — Jim Rohn</p><h3><strong>Create a Reading Routine</strong></h3><p>In spite of our everyday hectic schedule, we somehow find time for our loved ones, don’t we? Similarly, we must allocate some time to ourselves where we do things that would help us feel happy and content.</p><ul><li>From the book called Atomic Habits by James Clear, <em>Habit Stacking</em> is a concept where we identify a current habit we already do every single day and then stack the new habit on top of it. In simple terms, you can read books right after your everyday morning coffee or just before retiring to bed. By doing so, you can start being consistent. This is not just applicable to reading, but to any new habit that you intend to build.</li><li>If you’re someone who finds it tedious to read books alone, you can join a book club or buddy-read with your friend, so that you’ll get to discuss what you’ve read which will keep you hooked.</li><li>Sign up for apps like <a href="http://goodreads.com">goodreads.com</a> or even have your own reading journals where you track your reading habit.</li></ul><p>🌟 <em>“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”</em> — Dr. Seuss</p><h3><strong>Overcoming Common Reading Struggles</strong></h3><ul><li>Shorter attention span? Begin with engaging short stories.</li><li>Too busy to read? Listen to audiobooks while doing chores or while commuting.</li><li>Does the chosen book feel boring? It’s always okay to quit and choose another book that suits you. Reading should be enjoyed, not forced.</li><li>Retain information by highlighting quotes or taking notes of key insights.</li></ul><h3><strong>Still Clueless? Start with these books.</strong></h3><h4>Non-Fiction</h4><ul><li><strong>Eat That Frog!</strong> — Brian Tracy</li><li><strong>The Compound Effect</strong> — Darren Hardy</li><li><strong>Ultralearning</strong> — Scott H. Young</li><li><strong>Atomic Habits</strong> — James Clear</li></ul><h4>Fiction</h4><ul><li><strong>Who moved my cheese?</strong> — Spencer Johnson</li><li><strong>The Blue Umbrella</strong> — Ruskin Bond</li><li><strong>The Alchemist</strong> — Paulo Coelho</li></ul><p>If you need more book recommendations, you can look up at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/the.page.nook?igsh=ZWwyd3JiODU0a2Jo">the.page.nook</a> where I share bits and pieces about the best books I’ve read.</p><p>Reading is not a race, it is a beautiful lifelong journey of discovery by living multiple lives through pages. As the great Roald Dahl put it, <em>“If you are going to get anywhere in life, you have to read a lot of books.”</em> So, grab a book, settle in comfortably and let the adventurous journey begin!</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=a43a98709fee" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2025 17:08:06 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-01-14T17:08:39.630Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why romance in Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell touches readers so strongly?</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/259/1*icKPngOIvTlgpdoJ4zHOGA.jpeg" /></figure><p><strong>Authenticity and relatability:</strong></p><p>Eleanor and Park’s relationship has been drafted in unvarnished truth. Park is the quiet, thoughtful boy, and Eleanor is the unconventional, self-conscious girl; they are the opposite of most archetypes. Their awkwardness and intensity represent the first experience of love, which seems chaste and messy.</p><p><strong>Slow-Burning Connection:</strong></p><p>Their shared comic books and music are the bedrock for this blossoming love. Through the slow burn, readers are allowed to witness the development of their relationship, and their love for each other rings with authenticity and merit.</p><p><strong>Vulnerability and Acceptance:</strong></p><p>The two, Park and Eleanor, fight with who they are and belong to; Eleanor more so fights with herself concerning her unstable home life and image. They create a secure environment that seems incredibly personal because they find comfort and acceptance in one another.</p><p><strong>Emotionally Rich:</strong></p><p>Rowell portrays the passion, sadness, and intensity of love during adolescence through her sensitively written work. The readers are pulled into their story and find themselves in their world.</p><p><strong>Small Acts of Meaningfulness:</strong></p><p>Holding hands, sharing mixtapes, or exchanging thoughts are examples of small acts of meaningfulness that are the backbone of a romance. These actions illustrate how love may be found in the most mundane acts of compassion and camaraderie.</p><p><strong>Themes of First Love:</strong></p><p>This novel masterly portrays the thrill and agony that first love — the kind that endures — presents. To mature readers, it is reminiscent; to youngsters, it feels real, thereby making it acceptable to all kinds of readers.</p><p>Some toxic behaviors presented as love include possessiveness, emotional manipulation, and even abuse within the fantasies of contemporary romance-the depiction of unrealistic and unhealthy dynamics. The stories have the capacity to lie to readers, making them believe that what is obsession or control must actually be love, leading them to entrust romantic ideals that many people heedlessly adore. Rainbow Rowell’s <em>Eleanor and Park</em>, however, innovates romance by taking another step forward. Above all, free from damaging clichés, it’s a sweet, genuine tale of two flawed teens who find solace and common ground in one another. Its relationship is bound by vulnerability and respect for the other, combined with simple gestures that are pregnant with meaning — acceptance, understanding, love. <em>Eleanor and Park</em> is a romance book that needs to be read for all who believe in true and deep love, as it’s a lovely reminder that love has nothing to do with power or perfection, but rather kindness and connection.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=33993bf44c3c" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Beginning Again — Thanks to Austin Kleon.]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@deviiiii/beginning-again-thanks-to-austin-kleon-af8fde079497?source=rss-aec91e2daf25------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2024 07:05:04 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-12-20T07:05:04.146Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Beginning Again — Thanks to Austin Kleon.</h3><p>Be it any form of art that we create, we sometimes tend to have this inner voice which keeps saying, “This is not worthy enough to share.” And in my case, that voice has been a little extra louder in the recent past and the worst part is, I started listening to it very attentively and took orders from it as if it’s my ultimate master.</p><p>Regret is an extreme soul sucker and it has been sucking my soul. The regret of not being able to share anything that I write gradually transitioned into the regret of not being able to write anything at all for that matter. One might call this a “writer’s block” but, unfortunately, in my case, it was my own “mental block”.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/500/0*V3ofr2Pak5ROjxgw.jpg" /><figcaption>source: pinterest.com</figcaption></figure><p>Austin Kleon, somehow read my mind and has provided solutions to all my doubts through his book, “<strong>Show Your Work</strong>”. He has provided an easily executable roadmap for people like me who create stuff but are hesitant to an extent to share it with the world.</p><p>His emphasis on “<em>being an amateur</em>” was so helpful, especially to sustain yourself in this current world where continuous learning plays a huge role, irrespective of your profession. He has quoted Steve Jobs, “<em>Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.</em>” by which he encourages everyone to read obituaries because, according to him, “<em>Obituaries aren’t really about death; they’re about life.</em>”</p><p>He has also provided us with tangible ideas as to how we should focus on the process and not the end product at first. On the other hand, we can consider this entire process as a documentation of our journey which we would prefer to share with others through social media like blogs, videos, etc., by additionally developing our storytelling skills.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/473/0*_1GPhEysnY0WQEMD.jpg" /><figcaption>source: pinterest.com</figcaption></figure><p>Of all the things this book has covered, one that stood out to be very beautiful to me is, Austin Kleon has quoted several people throughout the book and this by itself proves his point of supporting the work of our fellow artists. I’ve held myself back from explicitly sharing my entire takeaway from the book so that you all (at least some of you) would actually pick it up and read it yourself.</p><p>I’d like to confess that if not for this book, I wouldn’t have started writing on the internet again. Happy that I could “Begin Again”. I look forward to hold myself accountable by sharing my work in this space.</p><p>Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. I’d really appreciate it.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=af8fde079497" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[White Nights — NOT a Book Review.]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@deviiiii/white-nights-not-a-book-review-a87c347ac9f9?source=rss-aec91e2daf25------2</link>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 11:07:10 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-12-19T11:07:10.037Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>White Nights — NOT a Book Review.</h3><p>More like a self-review!</p><p>I stumbled upon Dostoevsky’s White Nights on a rainy afternoon, when the title seemed to hold so much promise of something so fleeting and beautiful. I never knew that this thin book would change my perspective about emotions, dreams, and solitude. It was, as Dostoevsky himself wrote, “<em>a wonderful night, such a night as is only possible when we are young, dear reader.</em>” I was not just reading a book; I was entering the soul of a dreamer.</p><figure><img alt="A picture of the book ‘White Nights’ by Dostoevsky" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/474/0*Rh_klMc0_THTMr0w.jpg" /><figcaption>source: pinterest.com</figcaption></figure><p>It felt like the voice of my own hidden musings — a person who hums to herself in the light moments of life because “<em>there is no friend or acquaintance with whom to share it.</em>” His loneliness echoed my own, and in his story, I was led to wonder, Do you know what it is to be alone? There was an odd comfort in his words, as if he were a companion to my quiet moments.</p><p>What impressed me most was the depth of how much he loved-not Nastenka alone but the act of dreaming and feeling. “<em>I make up regular romances in my dreams</em>,” he confessed, and I couldn’t help but smile recognizing my own habit of spinning imaginary tales in the quiet corners of my mind. For the dreamer, life itself is a canvas of imagined moments, and Dostoevsky painted them with such aching clarity that I felt as if I, too, were standing in the pale glow of a St. Petersburg night.<br> <br>I found myself lingering over passages that had me in raptures. This caused his thoughts about life — to go by, “<em>your fantastic world will grow pale, your dreams will fade and die and will fall like the yellow leaves from the trees.</em>” His reflections made me want to take a step back from where my fleeting dreams were leading, think like him, “<em>What has one done with one’s years?</em>” No questioning it but yearning into his thought; a sense for something not to be held before it slips out.</p><p>There was something profoundly human in his vulnerability. When he said, “<em>I don’t know how to be silent when my heart is speaking</em>,” I felt his courage in laying bare his soul. And when he admitted, “<em>Surely one can’t be held responsible for every feeling</em>,” I felt the weight of unspoken emotions that we often carry, unsure whether they are ours to own or simply fleeting shadows of our hearts.</p><p>By the time I closed the book, I knew I had found a kindred spirit in Dostoevsky. His words lingered, haunting and beautiful, as I walked through my own nights — dreaming of moments, questioning life, and finding solace in the whirl and roar of existence.</p><p>I soon found myself diving into more of Dostoevsky’s works, eager to uncover the depth of his understanding of the human condition. Each book became a mirror, reflecting not only the characters’ struggles but my own hidden doubts and aspirations.</p><p>White Nights wasn’t only a narration; it was more of revelation. It showed me, that to dream is in fact to live, for however it might be as fragmented, but fragments themselves-however brief, were what would make us human beings after all, perhaps, like in the line Dostoevsky writes: This book “<em>reconciled me with myself, solved my doubts.</em>”</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=a87c347ac9f9" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Art of Writing Poems]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2024 13:25:25 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poetry, a profound art form, transcends time and space, offering an intimate exploration of emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Through its rhythmic language and evocative imagery, poetry connects us to the deeper layers of our humanity. Writing poems, however, is not merely about crafting verses — it is about channeling one’s voice and creating resonant meaning. In this blog, we will explore the essence of writing poems, the techniques that make them beautiful, and examples from celebrated poets and personal inspirations.</p><p><strong>Understanding Poetry: The Heartbeat of Language</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/275/1*67odDjBhx6zPAysUzSnY5g.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: iStock</figcaption></figure><p>At its core, poetry is the language of emotions. It speaks to our hearts in ways that ordinary prose often cannot. Writing poems requires understanding the rhythm and flow of language. Poets manipulate sound, meaning, and structure to create patterns that stir the reader’s soul.</p><p>Take Emily Dickinson, for instance, a master of capturing profound thoughts in short, tightly woven lines. In her poem “<em>Because I Could Not Stop for Death</em>,” Dickinson writes:</p><p><em>Because I could not stop for Death –</em></p><p><em>He kindly stopped for me –</em></p><p><em>The Carriage held but just Ourselves –</em></p><p><em>And Immortality.</em></p><p>This poem elegantly explores the inevitability of death while using personification and simple language to evoke deep reflection. The ability to convey such weighty themes with minimal words is a testament to Dickinson’s understanding of poetry’s power.</p><p><strong>The Tools of Poetic Craft: Imagery, Metaphor, and Rhyme</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/276/1*-Vhx42yFi2wc5oWBXDh0dQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: GitMind</figcaption></figure><p>Poets use tools like imagery, metaphor, and rhyme to paint pictures with words. Imagery engages the senses, creating vivid scenes that allow the reader to experience the poem. Metaphors, on the other hand, establish comparisons that deepen meaning and insight.</p><p>For example, Robert Frost’s famous poem “<em>The Road Not Taken</em>” uses metaphor to explore choices in life:</p><p><em>Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,</em></p><p><em>And sorry I could not travel both</em></p><p><em>And be one traveler, long I stood</em></p><p><em>And looked down one as far as I could</em></p><p><em>To where it bent in the undergrowth.</em></p><p>The roads Frost speaks of are not just physical paths but metaphors for the decisions we face. The poem encapsulates the weight of choice and the inevitability of regret, yet leaves the final interpretation open to the reader. This ambiguity is where the beauty lies.</p><p>As a personal example, consider the following lines from a poem I wrote titled “<em>Unspoken Dreams</em>”:</p><p><em>In silence, we build castles of air,</em></p><p><em>Dreams we dare not share,</em></p><p><em>Yet in those silent worlds we roam,</em></p><p><em>Searching for a distant home.</em></p><p>Here, I use imagery to depict the fragility of dreams. The metaphor of building “castles of air” emphasizes the delicate nature of unvoiced aspirations.</p><p><strong>Rhythm and Meter: The Music of Poetry</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*fyNceMUZ13r7XDylJKMQlQ.png" /><figcaption>Source: Adobe</figcaption></figure><p>Rhythm and meter form the foundation of a poem’s structure. They guide the flow, creating musicality in the lines. Traditional forms like sonnets or villanelles often rely heavily on structured meter, while free verse poems allow for more flexibility.</p><p>One of the great examples of rhythmic poetry comes from <em>William Shakespeare’s Sonnet 18</em>:</p><p><em>Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?</em></p><p><em>Thou art more lovely and more temperate:</em></p><p><em>Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,</em></p><p><em>And summer’s lease hath all too short a date.</em></p><p>The iambic pentameter in these lines gives the poem a gentle, flowing rhythm that reflects the poem’s subject matter — an idealized and eternal beauty.</p><p><strong>The Beauty of Poetry in Dead Poets Society</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*U1AVGrFMf0Etcwd5wIWiCA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Slash Film</figcaption></figure><p>The 1989 film “<em>Dead Poets Society</em>” captures the transformative power of poetry. In one of the film’s most memorable scenes, the teacher John Keating (played by Robin Williams) introduces his students to the art of poetry with the words:</p><p>“We don’t read and write poetry because it’s cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, and engineering, are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.”</p><p>This iconic quote encapsulates the essence of why poetry matters. Poetry, as the film beautifully illustrates, is a way to break free from conformity and express the raw intensity of human experience.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*EwlqxgK_vCwbUp1Wo5crmQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Filmaffinity</figcaption></figure><p>Later in the movie, the students read “<em>O Captain! My Captain!</em>” by Walt Whitman, a tribute to Abraham Lincoln. The poem becomes a rallying cry for the students, representing their respect for Keating. Whitman’s lines:</p><p><em>O Captain! my Captain! our fearful trip is done,</em></p><p><em>The ship has weather’d every rack, the prize we sought is won.</em></p><p>In the context of the film, this poem symbolizes not only loss but also the end of an era for the students as they confront personal and societal expectations. It is a powerful reminder of how poetry can unite individuals through shared emotions and ideas.</p><p><strong>Finding Your Voice: The Personal in Poetry</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/259/1*Ss3oWZ0WebmRZrV35PpRhg.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Gobookmart</figcaption></figure><p>Every poet brings a unique perspective to their writing. Whether you’re inspired by nature, relationships, or philosophical musings, your voice will distinguish your work from others.</p><p>To develop your voice as a poet, try writing about familiar experiences but experimenting with form and language. For instance, if you often write about love, challenge yourself to use unconventional metaphors or focus on a different aspect of love — perhaps the small, quiet moments rather than grand declarations.</p><p>As an exercise, I once wrote about the fleeting nature of joy in “<em>Echoes of Laughter</em>”:</p><p><em>Laughter fades like echoes in the hills,</em></p><p><em>A memory that dances in the stills.</em></p><p><em>We chase it, grasping for its sound,</em></p><p><em>Only to find silence all around.</em></p><p>Here, the theme of ephemerality is reflected in the structure and repetition, a reminder that poetry can encapsulate not just emotion, but also the passage of time.</p><p><strong>Conclusion: Embrace the Journey of Writing</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/346/1*Jae0-eHQOKOXRCXm92YdeA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Early Bird Books</figcaption></figure><p>Writing poetry is a journey of self-discovery and expression. It requires patience, practice, and an openness to experimentation. As you begin or continue your journey as a poet, remember that poetry is not about perfection but about capturing a moment, a feeling, or an idea in a way that resonates with others.</p><p>Whether you draw inspiration from classic poets like Dickinson, Frost, and Whitman, or you find your voice through personal experiences, poetry remains one of the most powerful forms of art. So, embrace the process, let your emotions guide you, and, most importantly, keep writing.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=aa019e9e5235" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Mental Health and Wellness in the Digital Age: Navigating the Challenges of Constant Connectivity]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Devipriya G]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 15 Sep 2024 16:08:39 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today’s hyper-connected world, technology plays a pivotal role in our daily lives. From social media and online workspaces to instant messaging and streaming services, the digital age has transformed how we live, work, and communicate. However, this transformation comes with its own set of challenges, particularly in the realm of mental health. While technology has enabled greater convenience and access, it has also created an environment where constant connectivity can lead to mental fatigue, anxiety, and burnout. In this blog, we explore the intricate relationship between mental health and the digital age, the consequences of digital overload, and strategies for maintaining mental wellness in an increasingly connected world.</p><p><strong>The Impact of Technology on Mental Health</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Social Media and Comparison Culture</strong></li></ol><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/266/1*bvoB95xu_jcaGVAJaqI6lA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Adobe Stock</figcaption></figure><p>Social media platforms have revolutionized communication, but they’ve also introduced a pervasive culture of comparison. Constant exposure to curated versions of others’ lives can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and social anxiety. A 2021 study from the University of Pennsylvania found that limiting social media usage to just 30 minutes a day can significantly reduce feelings of loneliness and depression. The pressure to maintain a certain image or standard of success on these platforms can exacerbate feelings of self-doubt, particularly among younger generations.</p><p><strong>2. Digital Overload and Burnout</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/181/1*bRAA8KPhWT9pgI3m3n_mLQ.png" /><figcaption>Source: Shutterstock</figcaption></figure><p>The digital age has blurred the boundaries between work and personal life. With emails, notifications, and messages accessible at any time, employees often feel compelled to be “always on.” This leads to a state of digital overload, where the sheer volume of digital interactions overwhelms the mind. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), burnout, characterized by emotional exhaustion and reduced performance, is increasingly prevalent in the digital workplace. The constant barrage of information and tasks without adequate downtime can disrupt mental peace, making it difficult to maintain a work-life balance.</p><p><strong>3. The Effects of Screen Time on Mental Well-being</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/179/1*AUX4Ef8-YyUH9oQe1czhRQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: OnlyMyHealth</figcaption></figure><p>Excessive screen time, especially before bed, can interfere with sleep quality. The blue light emitted from devices affects the body’s circadian rhythm, leading to sleep disorders like insomnia. Poor sleep has a direct impact on mental health, contributing to anxiety, depression, and cognitive impairments. A survey conducted by the National Sleep Foundation revealed that 90% of Americans use some form of electronic device before going to bed, often leading to delayed and disturbed sleep patterns.</p><p><strong>Recognizing the Signs of Digital Fatigue</strong></p><p>Digital fatigue manifests itself in various ways, and recognizing the symptoms is crucial for preventing long-term mental health consequences. Some common signs include:</p><p><strong>Increased Irritability:</strong> Constant digital interaction can lead to irritability, as the brain struggles to process endless streams of information.</p><p><strong>Difficulty Concentrating:</strong> The frequent switching between tasks (emails, social media, work) diminishes focus and reduces cognitive efficiency.</p><p><strong>Emotional Exhaustion:</strong> Feeling drained, both mentally and emotionally, after long periods of screen exposure is a key indicator of digital fatigue.</p><p>Understanding these signs is the first step toward addressing the root causes and seeking balance in a digital-heavy lifestyle.</p><p><strong>Practical Strategies for Maintaining Mental Health in the Digital Age</strong></p><p>While technology is an integral part of modern life, adopting mindful practices can help mitigate its adverse effects on mental health. Here are several effective strategies for maintaining mental well-being:</p><p><strong>1. Set Boundaries for Digital Use</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/270/1*pALN_w67CpM8Nqf-7MV4qA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Psych Central</figcaption></figure><p>One of the most effective ways to prevent digital burnout is to set clear boundaries between work and personal time. Establish “tech-free” zones, such as not using your phone during meals or before bed. Implementing daily breaks, where you disconnect from devices for 10–15 minutes, can help recharge the mind and reduce screen-induced stress. Tools like “Do Not Disturb” mode and screen time limits are useful in ensuring these boundaries are upheld.</p><p><strong>2. Engage in Digital Detox</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/178/1*2wKeg4jVkL5VumoH_s846Q.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Stay Safe Online</figcaption></figure><p>A digital detox involves taking a break from all devices for a certain period of time to reset your mental and emotional state. This could be as simple as dedicating a few hours each weekend to disconnect from all technology or going on a retreat where you leave your devices behind. Studies have shown that digital detoxes can improve attention span, increase face-to-face social interactions, and alleviate symptoms of stress and anxiety.</p><p><strong>3. Prioritize Sleep Hygiene</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/612/1*OFRPsMxlWfnhXSDotF6utw.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Istock</figcaption></figure><p>As screen time is closely linked to sleep disturbances, prioritizing sleep hygiene is essential for maintaining mental health. This includes limiting screen exposure, particularly two hours before bedtime, and creating a calming bedtime routine. Using night mode or blue-light filters on devices can also help mitigate the impact of screen light on your sleep cycle. Quality sleep is fundamental to mental well-being and enhances cognitive function, emotional resilience, and overall mood stability.</p><p><strong>4. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/193/1*N7P3SeVYI1UBL8Q8N8PIVA.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Vecteezy</figcaption></figure><p>Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help combat the negative mental effects of constant digital exposure. These practices focus on being present in the moment, reducing anxiety, and promoting emotional balance. Mindfulness apps like Headspace or Calm provide guided meditations that can be a valuable resource for those looking to reduce stress and improve mental clarity.</p><p><strong>Creating a Balanced Relationship with Technology</strong></p><p>The key to maintaining mental wellness in the digital age is not to completely disconnect but to find a healthy balance. Technology offers incredible benefits, such as access to information, virtual socialization, and professional flexibility, but it should be used with mindfulness and purpose. By being intentional with our digital habits and prioritizing self-care, we can mitigate the negative impacts of constant connectivity.</p><p><strong>1. Digital Minimalism</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/331/1*D6DWw2zzBa33nzcS5hkG2g.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Goodreads</figcaption></figure><p>Digital minimalism advocates for a more focused, intentional use of technology, allowing individuals to engage only with digital content that truly adds value to their lives. Instead of scrolling mindlessly through social media or responding to every notification, digital minimalists curate their digital environments to be more meaningful. This not only reduces time spent online but also enhances overall mental clarity and focus.</p><p><strong>2. Fostering In-person Connections</strong></p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/194/1*BKSlk3lHGao2mAgIwtAlZQ.jpeg" /><figcaption>Source: Freepik</figcaption></figure><p>Despite the convenience of digital communication, in-person interactions remain crucial for emotional well-being. Fostering face-to-face connections, whether through social gatherings, community events, or family time, helps strengthen relationships and provides emotional support that screens cannot replicate. Research shows that people who maintain strong social connections tend to have lower rates of depression and anxiety.</p><p><strong>Conclusion: Embracing Wellness in a Digital World</strong></p><p>Mental health and wellness in the digital age require a delicate balance between embracing the benefits of technology and protecting oneself from its potential harms. By recognizing the impact of digital overload and implementing strategies such as setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in digital detoxes, individuals can safeguard their mental well-being. The future of wellness lies not in abandoning technology but in fostering a mindful and intentional relationship with it, ensuring that we remain in control of our mental health amidst an ever-connected world.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=01574227bd92" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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