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            <title><![CDATA[De leugen van oorzaak en gevolg]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 20 Jan 2025 12:20:45 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-01-20T12:20:45.487Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Alles heeft een oorzaak, en elke oorzaak heeft een gevolg.”</p><p>Een eenvoudige waarheid, toch? Je gooit een steen in het water en “plons” , golven verspreiden zich. Het ene leidt onvermijdelijk tot het andere.</p><p>Maar stel je dit eens voor: twee mensen staan aan de rand van een meer. Jij ziet de steen en de plons, terwijl de ander alleen de rimpelingen ziet. Wat betekent oorzaak en gevolg in dat moment? Wie heeft de waarheid in handen?</p><p><strong>Het probleem met deze manier van denken</strong></p><p>Oorzaak en gevolg lijken helder, logisch. Ze geven een gevoel van controle. Maar het is ook een beperking. Als je gelooft dat alles voortkomt uit één duidelijke reden, mis je de nuances. Je ziet het oppervlak van de gebeurtenis, maar niet de diepere lagen.</p><p>Wat we vaak vergeten, is dat jouw waarheid gekleurd wordt door wat je observeert, voelt en begrijpt. Jouw perspectief vormt de lens waarmee je de wereld bekijkt. Het ene detail springt eruit, het andere blijft onopgemerkt. Wat voor jou een oorzaak lijkt, kan voor een ander een toevallige samenloop van omstandigheden zijn.</p><p><strong>Perspectief in synchroniciteit</strong></p><p>Synchroniciteit nodigt je uit om verder te kijken dan logica. Het zijn die momenten die je niet kunt verklaren, maar die je diep raken. Een onverwachte ontmoeting. Een opmerking die je precies op het juiste moment hoort. Het gevoel dat iets niet zomaar gebeurt, maar een bijna onzichtbare samenhang heeft (tot je het ziet).</p><p>Misschien is het leven geen rechte lijn van oorzaak naar gevolg, maar een netwerk van verbindingen. Een samenspel van gebeurtenissen dat pas betekenis krijgt als je je blik verruimt en openstaat voor andere mogelijkheden.</p><p><strong>Waar je over na kunt denken</strong></p><p>Hoe vaak kijk je écht verder dan je eigen perspectief? Wat als jouw waarheid slechts een stukje van het grotere geheel is?</p><p>Misschien gaat het niet om het vinden van antwoorden, maar om het loslaten van de drang om alles te verklaren. Om je bewust te worden van hoe jouw perceptie je wereld vormgeeft en open te staan voor wat je eerder niet zag.</p><p>Laat de steen in het water vallen. Kijk verder dan de plons. Wat zie je nu?</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=abde916184f1" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[“Why  you should not succeed”]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2024 13:12:04 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-06-02T13:12:04.076Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>“Why you should not succeed”</h3><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*Ia7mj4T1gMi1rxGpDrCkqA.png" /></figure><p>You’ve heard it said: “Teachers teach but cannot do.” <br>This .. mostly rings so true.</p><p>Teachers are not doers; they are the sages of not doing. And that makes them your perfect guides.</p><p>A true teacher knows failure intimately. <br>A true teacher aims high and falls short. And there’s a profound beauty here.</p><p>Success is not life’s greatest mentor. <br>Success does not transmute knowledge to wisdom. <br>Success does not allow intention to form action.</p><p>It does not evoke the deepest emotions of your soul. <br>Only failure can do that.</p><p>Failure is our greatest teacher.</p><p>Through endless falls and rising again, you shed all that blocks your path to true success. Not by succeeding, nevertheless by failing so completely that success becomes inevitable.</p><p>When wisdom, emotion, and action align, you simply be(come). <br>And in that state, you are success itself.</p><p>Now you ask: Who is the greatest teacher? Who is my greatest teacher?</p><p>The greatest teacher is the one who has failed time and time again.<br>The one who embraces failure to grow. <br>The one who dives into the depths of failure and rises with unmatched clarity and strength, albeit not that clarity you desire.</p><p>Is it the darkness.</p><p>The deepest darkness is your guide. Explore the darkness, explore its depths.</p><p>Turn its lessons into wisdom, and you will be “success”.</p><p>Through its teachings, you rise, and you become the embodiment of success.</p><p>Just prepare to surrender and take control.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=d6d18abfd720" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Re-emergence of the light]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2024 11:42:06 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2024-05-21T13:05:55.052Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*ZCtr35rybvuClQn00Od8cg.png" /></figure><p>In a heart dyed in darkness, there will still be light, <br>A glimmer of hope in the deepest depth of the dreading night.</p><p>Though shadows may linger and despair may bite, <br>The dawn still whispers “You can reignite.”</p><p>Even in defeat, where the soul feels torn, <br>Amidst the rubble, a new strength is born.</p><p>For every fall, a lesson to adorn, <br>The spirit’s resilience, steadfast and sworn.</p><p>In the silence of sorrow, a seed takes root, <br>In the ashes of failure, a dream may shoot.</p><p>With each breath of courage, resolve to refute, <br>Rising anew, in pursuit of truth.</p><p>Let not the weight of the past define, <br>See the spark in the dark, emerge and shine.</p><p>For within every heart, in darkness confined, <br>Lies the promise of dawn, eternally enshrined.</p><p>So stand once more, with valor and grace, <br>Embrace the journey, at your own pace.</p><p>For even in shadows, light finds its place, <br>In a heart reborn, in this sacred space.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=fefb5217b61c" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[A letter to the traveler]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2023 09:51:06 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A letter to the traveler</p><p>Dear Traveler,</p><p>I am writing to you today as a messenger of curiosity and admiration. I have heard that you are a true adventurer, always exploring new lands and discovering new wonders. But what I find truly inspiring about you is not just your wanderlust, but also your ability to create worlds of your own.</p><p>I imagine that your creations are not just random collections of pixels or ink on paper, but rather carefully crafted universes, with their own laws of physics, ecosystems, and cultures. In these worlds, you can be a god or a mortal, a hero or a villain, and you can witness the unfolding of grand epics or the quiet moments of everyday life.</p><p>I wonder what motivates you to create these worlds. Is it a desire for escapism, a way to transcend the limitations of our own reality? Is it a need for self-expression, a way to tell stories and share your imagination with others? Is it a quest for mastery, a way to challenge yourself to design increasingly complex and believable worlds?</p><p>Whatever your reasons may be, I want to encourage you to keep exploring and creating. Your worlds may inspire others to dream, to question, to empathize, or to simply have fun. They may also teach us valuable lessons about creativity, innovation, and the human experience.</p><p>Remember to take breaks from your creations, to recharge your creativity and avoid the worry that misguides you on your path. Remember to refine your craft and connect with your audience. And most importantly, enjoy the journey, savor the moments of discovery and inspiration that come with each new world. When you move on, leave the world you discovered behind you, so you may fully immerse in the wonders you experience.</p><p>Thank you for being a traveler and creator of your world. Your passion and imagination are truly awe-inspiring.</p><p>Sincerely,</p><p>The Observer</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*pt6AGqWIWP9_vmxb7laHrg.png" /></figure><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=19a5dea2287" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Power of You]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2023 16:00:36 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-04-10T16:00:36.493Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like a painter staring at an empty canvas,</p><p>you too create images of both joy and sadness</p><p>It is the story that defines your identity,</p><p>a tale of your loved one and of your enemy</p><p>The story of your skin, your eyes and your mind,</p><p>your job, your life purpose or the one you left behind</p><p>When you explore your power of creation,</p><p>filled with your experience and expectation</p><p>A culmination of what you have been through,</p><p>from your birth until the day your time is due</p><p>Free yourself from mistaken identification,</p><p>and mobilize your power of creation</p><p>Keep exploring and see everything anew,</p><p>take the journey even when it is a taboo</p><p>Stay curious and trust the process</p><p>believe in the power providing perpetual progress.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=3cdfb2e3309a" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Freedom]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2023 15:55:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-04-10T15:55:57.543Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Freedom, heavy with weighty worth,</p><p>While taking each step, freedom brings new birth.</p><p>It feeds you power to pursue, create and dream,</p><p>A chance to thrive, to lead, to scheme.</p><p>Innovation, creativity, a fertile ground,</p><p>Where ideas sprout and success is found.</p><p>A place where ownership and pride combine,</p><p>To yield creation of the highest kind.</p><p>Freedom affects our minds in ways profound,</p><p>Empowering us, we feel more tightly bound.</p><p>A greater sense of purpose and fulfillment too,</p><p>Bringing self-confidence, a positive view.</p><p>Let us embrace freedom, and all it can bring,</p><p>The joy it provides, the song it can sing.</p><p>In business and work, it’s a powerful tool,</p><p>A chance to thrive, to grow, to rule.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=6841de520445" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Power of Time]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 05 Apr 2023 09:24:27 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-04-05T09:25:26.165Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a saying that everything happens in time, yet it is not time itself that empowers you to shine</p><p>Regaining your composure, or some kind of closure, connecting the dots or just gathering your thoughts</p><p>Thought, study or further contemplation, finding a road leading to certain salvation</p><p>To immerse into this fated universe, where your destiny lies, and you venture to traverse</p><p>By your continuous conscious attention, which is by those old tales never a mention</p><p>Which frees you from your carnage and anxiety, disperses the intoxication, and brings you back to sobriety</p><p>Hear these words aloud in your mind … So it may be that peaceful slumber, you crave, to find.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*0DJpN6RlvgqjG_N8akeexA.png" /></figure><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=34df94d57ce" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Vigor]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 05 Apr 2023 08:44:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-04-05T08:47:43.697Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vigor, a word with fire and might, a strength that makes us take flight. <br>In the abstract, it’s power within, a force that helps us start and win.</p><p>But vigor is more than just a word, it is a way of life, an outlook preferred. It’s the drive that keeps us moving ahead, when others falter, and dreams are dead.</p><p>In practical terms, vigor is energy, the fuel that powers our destiny. It’s the grit that pushes us to strive, it helps us to reach the peak of our lives.</p><p>For those over twenty, vigor’s a must, a, life-affirming, transformative trust. It’s the will to take on new challenges, rise to them, no matter how big.</p><p>So let’s embrace the power of vigor, and take charge of life with its rigor. Let’s live each day with purpose and passion, and leave behind a legacy that’s everlastin’.</p><p>With vigor, we can conquer all, rise to greatness, never to fall. So let’s harness this strength deep within, watch as our dreams take flight and begin.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*wEfp55noxuQcJi-XOqkPgQ.png" /></figure><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=19ac6294c615" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What you envision]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Dharwin Jajairam]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2023 12:12:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2023-01-23T13:08:13.954Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote>When you look at the world outside, there are many things you see. Beautiful things, less beautiful things, things that affect you deeply, and other things you do not care about. There may be things that affect you in such a way that you have a strong response to it, a fond feeling or a horrible association with something that you have endured. Or are still enduring.</blockquote><blockquote>There are also things you do not see, whereas another might. It may become clear to you when having a conversation with a colleague, friend or someone close to you. When someone touches a subject you do not concern yourself with, or shares a perspective that is not your own, there are many things you can do.</blockquote><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*zW5YMiA7nhEv28v1yIFKYA.png" /></figure><blockquote>After weighing down the options or just deciding instinctively you might choose to fight what you are hearing, ignore what someone is saying, or have a genuine interest in another vision on the subject. Either way the choice may represent a path, that you follow on several occasions. To you it may be important who that person is, or rather who you think that person is.</blockquote><blockquote>There are those who will want to learn from children and those that will want to teach children, even though both actions are interchangeable: By teaching, you are learning and when you are learning, you are teaching.</blockquote><blockquote>The point being, every social interaction shows something that happens inside of you. It is a mirror to your state of being. You take part in all stories, you are the creator, you are the writer. You are the one that gives meaning to everything that you sense. You are experiencing the world and you are the one that decides what to do with that experience.</blockquote><blockquote>What you envision, that will become. You are powerful.</blockquote><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=a2395512b5ab" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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