1/26/26

用"心"来经营摄影过程

黑白美,还是颜色美?这是很多喜欢摄影的朋友常问的问题。其实对我来说,各有各的美,自己喜欢就好。

🤗我记得老师跟我说过:摄影在学会基础功后,要多拍,要揣摩和尝试各种题材,要多看别人的作品,然后决定自己想要专注的风格,最重要的是用"心"去拍。我一直记得他说的"用心"。这一路走来,就是一股对摄影的热忱和想拍的心在带领着,从来都不管结果,拍着拍着就拍出了一个舍不得的瘾(fun)啊!😁😄
照片涵盖的信息是自由的。拍的人有自己的诠释,欣赏的人也有不同的翻译本,两者之间并没有平衡点,除非用文字把摄影人想要表达的主题锁住,引领阅者走进自己所设计的想像空间。我为了要更深入了解这一点,当年大胆地利用硕士论文的平台来达到目的。原来的老教授知道我的选题后,没法指导我,说我选的题目太另类,结果她把我转给一个从来没教过我的导师(当时可冒了好多冷汗😓)。幸好指派导师是个对摄影文学有很深认识的大哥,在他的指导下,除了学术目的,能顺利毕业之余,我爱上了利用文字来表达我的照片。通过这个渠道,我把自己的照片系在"芳言芳语"里(有时不小心也会变成疯言疯语)。😝fun page 是我给自己所有照片的代号,因为这些年所拍的照片都是用"心"去拍,也是自己喜欢的扎"瘾"成果。
沿着自己的心路历程,我喜欢每个摄影朋友的作品,我相信每个摄影人都是用"心"来经营摄影过程的。黑白和颜色都是有"心"色彩,所以我爱!😚


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9/17/25

Golden Tour world Travel (GTT) to Caucasus - 12D9N

 

I've been following GTT since 2007 but I'm not a diehard fan. I tend to go with my sister's choice of travel agency. Previous trips were well-organized and enjoyable, and I appreciated the professionalism of their tour leaders until the recent Caucasus trip. We chose this tour mainly for the chance to see the Gergeti Trinity Church in Georgia, which was highly advertised. Unfortunately, a rainy day led to a landslide that blocked access to that remarkable site. Instead, we were taken to the Stalin Museum, which was decent but ultimately left us feeling disappointed. The weather forecast for Georgia was always accurate, and I believe the agency could have made necessary adjustments to the itinerary to ensure we reached that key destination, especially since the weather was favorable for two days afterward, aside from this challenging trek.

Initially we believed there must be a reason the tour agency couldn't change the itinerary. However, once we arrived in Armenia, they were able to adjust the plan even though the weather was sunny throughout our stay.

While traveling in Azerbaijan, we found it challenging to locate restrooms in the suburbs, which we understood. However, during a stop at a gas station, we decided to take a break. I was one of the first to disembark to check for a restroom, but there was only one available. Some of us overheard the tour guide and leader suggesting that if we could hold it, they would stop at the next location. So, we reboarded the bus. To our astonishment, everyone else continued to wait for the restroom while we who followed the instructions, remained seated on the bus. Eventually, we felt something was off and got off the bus again. The local tour guide signaled me with a 'no' gesture. I ignored it because I assumed there would be no further stops. Upon returning to the bus, it suddenly moved, and I nearly fell. Frustration mounted due to the inadequate guidance from the tour leader, and it seemed the bus driver neglected the safety of the passengers.

The most distressing part of the trip involved my sister, who is recovering from brain surgery and experiences various complications. She tries to lead a normal life so we kept her health issues private. Unfortunately, the tour leader instructed that only the elderly could sit at the front of the bus. My sister attempted to find a 5th seat there but still ended up facing unkind treatment from some elder members , which we couldn't control. We endured discomfort due to the cold attitudes of several members, one of whom directly approached my sister with a rude negative comment. She managed to handle the unfair treatment until one outing in Armenia when the tour leader guided everyone to the restrooms. Upon noticing us, she turned away and ignored us completely. Immediately afterwards, she assisted a senior who everyone addressed him as "datuk". I couldn't help but wonder if this person was paying more than us? This double standard was evident from the beginning, but we chose to stay silent. My sister absorbed these negative experiences over multiple days, and this last incident pushed her to her limit. Additionally, the exhaustion triggered her epilepsy, and she collapsed right after using the restroom. We were terrified that this could lead to hospitalization or worse, affecting the entire group. As the tour leader, she must have recognized the tension among the members but opted not to ease the situation, instead worsening it. She appeared to favor wealthier individuals, though I cannot comprehend her judgment based on appearances. We don't expect special treatment, but fairness is essential; poorly communicated instructions can impact everyone, especially when traveling with unkind and inconsiderate individuals that using their own judgement to punish others.

Overall, I would still rate 3 star for this trip. Most of the planned activities were satisfied. And for the Azerbaijan tour guide deserves a 5-star rating for his passion, fairness, and caring.


9/22/22

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这几天公司一直在强调“感恩”这个动作。

我们团队甚至要在会议上公开感谢“谁谁谁”。。。搞得没有被“感谢”的队友好像没做好事似的。其中一个没有被“感谢”的,她说她觉得好孤单。😅

个人觉得好奇怪。🤔感谢是从心出发,而不是有人“逼”了才做,而且是做show地表达,这和表演没什么分别。我不会参与。因为每三个月,跟着公司的季度,我都会给工作伙伴们一个实际的“感谢”行动 (给connection recognition--可以换成voucher去买自己喜欢的东西)。光靠嘴巴说没意思,用奖励比较实际。

像圣经上说的:当我们在施恩时,不需要敲锣打鼓,而是默默地去做。表面捞出来的东西永远属于短暂,过了之后,大家都忘了,因为那些都属于没内涵的表现。然而,在实际行动上给与别人帮助和感谢,那才是出自内心的真情。

我不苟同,所以也不会去做。

觉得有时候在职场推崇太多的表面功夫。常常想把那些爱充体面的活动弃之不顾,可偏偏一不小心就会踩入陷进而不能抽身。大家只想努力的使出浑身解数,让自己的一点点表现恨不得全盘摊在桌面,让赞美声不断涌进骨子底处,享受那不切实际的虚荣,殊不知这一刻短暂的快乐会带来未知久久不散的压力。

每个人争先恐后地往上爬,可有多少人是能坚持得住,永远领先在前头呢?龟兔赛跑。。。我宁愿做一只乌龟。慢慢地。。。悠闲地。。。总会到达终点。不求奢侈的虚名,但求问心无愧,心安理得。

9/7/22

原本今天准备回槟城了。一早起来收到信息说小舅走了。有点难过。但又感到莫大的安慰。他这一生疯癫度日,糊涂过了45年,似是真疯,可有些日子他却比任何人都清醒。每次看他,就会想到红楼梦里说的:别人笑我太疯癫,我笑别人看不穿。我们没办法理解他,也帮不上忙。外婆在的时候,他的日子还算可以,外婆离世后的这些年,我不懂他是怎么过来的。有些事情大家看在眼里不说,但都清楚明白在他身上发生了可悲的遭遇。

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人说一生由出世那一天起就注定了怎么过。我相信。
人说一生的际遇由前世所定,我也相信。
于是乎,我从努力的专研佛法到最后信基督去了,不想轮回,像小舅,太苦了。

这一天的到来,相信每个心疼小舅的都暗自替他开心,这是唯一救他的方式。也许他也希望这一天快些到来,因为他已经无力对抗那些残害折磨他的人。尤其看见他离世前的最后一张照片,心痛得不知哭了好几回。无法想象他。。。到底怎么熬的?看见照片那一刻,心寒呀!人性本善,为何有些人可以如此残忍地对待一个手无寸铁的老人?

希望他一路走好,脱离苦海。RIP。

9/4/22

2022 的9月4日

 

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又一年过去,正式进入50的第二个年头。😇 时间总是毫不留情地奔驰,无意为任何人放慢一些些。。它有它的执着,而我们只能认真的随后跟上。跟久了,发现自己和时间是分不开的朋友。😄 有时我们输了一丢丢,偶尔时间也会补一丁点的bonus ,让我们做想做的事。不管是时间的怜悯,还是自己的勤快,两者之间只存在一个真理--生命在迅速前进,终有一天到达目的地 ,那。。。上帝为我们安排的天家。🤗 在回家前,努力为生,为地球人留下美好回忆,为地上的事业打一场漂亮的战。

祝自己,生日蒙恩。感恩妈妈把我带来这美丽的世界。

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8/30/22

生日礼物

整理车子后箱,发现有人偷偷把一个生日礼物放在那里。。只有‘Happy birthday Siew’的贺卡,没有送🎁的人的名字。试着回想车子载过谁?又有谁知道我生日呀?想来想去无从着手。。到家把礼物纸给拆了,啊哈,一看见🎁内容,谜底解开,马上知道送礼之人。一本关于纳兰性德的书。。。一定是win hui了。。因为这是我们两人之间的默契--小哇曾经演过这个角色。

谢谢,谢谢,这么别有用心的特别礼物。我很喜欢。

人生若只如初见,何事秋风悲画扇。


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8/28/22

TY,生日快乐

好快的时间已走过50个年头。越来越多人加入50的行列。。。

对我来说,50,只是一个数目字,真的就只是一个什么也代表不了的数目字,没别的。只要心态保持年轻,还是可以做很多事。


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庆祝生日的朋友越来越少。有一天,照片里的影子会渐渐减去。。而这些照片会变得更珍贵。

人与人之间,且行且珍惜,谁是人生旅途里的最后一个无从知晓,唯有珍惜当下,身边留下的每个人。

祝 TY   生日快乐!