I don't know what's real anymore. Do you? Does anyone? I know the sweetener in my flavored waters aren't. I know the color of most of my food isn't. I know the color of most of my home products (lotions, shampoo) sure isn't. Does plastic everything count as real, because somehow it seems like furniture should be made of wood, metal-not of plastic and sawdust.
How about the media. Are the pictures in magazines real? Are the people on tv real? I feel like we are so hammered with so many opinions and untruths out there that there's no fact anymore.
My sisters and I had a long talk about this this summer and it was the first time I really realized that we live in a world where we are bombarded with fakes, perfection. I knew logically that of course not everyone looks like the magazines show. That's unrealistic. But I never took the time to realize that those models don't even look like that. Even the clothing catalogs are tweaked with. So that's why I never look like the model wearing those cute shirts in my catalog. They probably don't look like that either!
It's really disturbing. It's no wonder my self esteem is a wild roller coaster of emotions, and that girls are having a hard time understanding what is appropriate, acceptable and realistic for their bodies. If I have a hard time understanding it all, what about the men out there? We're conditioning our boys and men to think that women should always look glamorous, thin, and yes, let's not forget big boobs. Do they know what a normal woman's body looks like-after decades of life and bearing babies? I sure don't. I'm confused, are we toys and trophies or vessels and souls?
I think we should be focusing on healthy. When it comes to weight that is different for everyone. We should focus on well kept. Do I need to be made up and dressed to the nines every day? I shouldn't. But I should be clean, well groomed, and look self respecting. These are the things Iwant my boys to learn. And while we're at it let's eat real food, shall we? Macaroni and cheese scares the bedittles out of me. Have you read the ingredient list? Yikes. Have I fed it to my boys? Of course. Is there a better option, heck ya.
So, I am going to try to look at the magazines less. Talk about what we see on tv and other media at home. Take care of myself the way I hope my boys will do themselves later. Eat real foods. Better to eat fat than chemicals I say. And get some chickens.