He is now 29 years old, so this list will be long, I will try to keep each one short but again if you read my blog I can sometimes be long winded so.....fair warning.
1. His love for sweets, no cookie, ice cream or donut ever goes uneaten in this house.
2. He loves sports, I can understand how some men do not but I grew up with my dad loving sports so it seems so natural for me to have a basketball game on in the background.
3. He initiates FHE, family prayer, scripture study, etc... I have had to to pick it up with him being gone all the time but I love that it is his desire for his family to stay on the path of righteousness and he goes out of his way to ensure these things are being done in our home.
4. He worries obsessively about our children's safety. He won't let anybody put their car seats in the car but him, he baby proofs everything and has a hard time letting them ride in anybodies car but his own.
Example: on Thanksgiving the kids all went for a ride in the rhino at my moms house. My cousin's husband Kyle was making sure all the kids were harnessed in correctly and about two minutes passed while we were inside. I could see his mind just working overtime and before his mouth even opened I knew what was going to come out of it "I better go make sure Kyle put the boys in right".
5. We love to say phrases from sitcoms with each other, Seinfield, King of Queens and The Office are the favorites. I think he has every Seinfield made memorized and can tell from the opening scene exactly which episode it is.
6. He reads Calvin and Hobbes before bed every night. I can be sound asleep and I will look over and he is laughing hysterically with a flashlight propped up at good old Hobbes. It makes me smile every time.
7. He says the same old jokes over and over and they make me laugh every time. Another example every time we go to the Bountiful temple he makes a big production about not being able to tell which house is the temple, he thinks all the houses are huge up there. Every time he throws a different spin on it, "now wait I could have sworn it was around here somewhere, " or " wow, they restructured it, it looks completely different", such a dork so why do I laugh at every single one.
8. His arms, which may sound weird but I LOVE his arms they are so manly to me. There perfect just big enough, strong like a husband's should be, lift heavy things but yet fit so perfectly around me.
8. His chosen profession, call me fickle but I love that he is going to be a lawyer. Don't get me wrong I would love him with whatever profession he chose but for some reason I have always had a thing for lawyers, it's a big turn on for me.
9. His talent with anything musical, he sings well, can play the piano beautifully but the most amazing is his ability on the guitar, he even taught lessons for awhile. There is something about a man that can play music that makes me melt.
10. He is crazy about his Utah Jazz, the other night for his birthday we went to the Jazz Game and he is so funny to go with. Kind off embarrassing actually, he hollers ands groans and whatever else sports fans do and when I ask him a question he looks at me like I am insane how dare I speak when he is in his Jazz zone. Luckily for me I keep plenty occupied with eating food and staring at all the funny people surrounding me.
11. He has an abnormally big head he tries and tries to find the perfect hat and never can because they usually never makes sizes big enough to fit him, however it's so darn cute that he keeps trying and trying to find just the right one.
12. He knows me and I mean really knows me. He can tell from just the sound of my voice who I am talking to on the phone, the look on my face whether I am mad or happy or sad, he knows what my reactions will be to things before I even have time to react. I love being known like this by my best friend, there is such comfort in that thought that he knows me as well as he knows himself.
13. He is smart, and I mean really smart. I think you probably have to be to get through the amount of school he has done, but that's not really the kind of smart I am talking about. He knows directions in strange cities, he can always fix my computer problems even over the phone, he is always caught up on current events. The joke around my family is they ask my opinion on topics because they know my source is Eric and he always knows what he is talking about it.
14. He amazes me as a dad, he loves to play with our kids and have a good time but what I love even more is that he truly believes as a father it is his duty to take turns with late night feedings, diaper changes, bath time, it makes my job as a mother so much more enjoyable having help like this. I have been spoiled rotten by him and have greatly missed this the last few months.
15. I love how big he is I don't meant that rudely honey. I am somewhat of a petite person and he is definitely not someone you would call petite. He towers over me and it's almost impossible to hold hands comfortably as we walk because of the heigth difference, but I never feel more safe than when I am with him. He's such a manly man, love it!
16. He calls me quite literally at least ten times a day, which I admit doesn't always happen in the most convenient times and I have to call him back more often than not, but I definitely know I am missed.
17. He wears church socks after church with jeans, because he is too lazy to change, which he tells me is not a cool thing to do, but for some reason I find it so cute.
18. For as big and strong as he is I ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS win him at thumb wars and he is not just letting me win him, I really do kill him every time.
19. He genuinely loves playing with our boys, I admit sometimes when Lance wants me to play Cars with him or something most of the time I am thinking alright I will give him ten minutes and that is all I can stand but not Eric he will sit down there for hours playing silly game after silly game with them.
20. He hates hugging people, his mom, my mom, distant relatives, it's so awkward and uncomfortable for him. His mom always told me she was worried when we got married that he wouldn't hug me enough. I was so flabbergasted because there is nobody in this world that gives me better hugs than him, he saves up all those lost hugs for me and the boys. His arms are the most secure place in this world for me.
21. He tells me I am beautiful, this means the world to me. I know he loves me as his wife and mother of his children but it's wonderful knowing he still finds me attractive and as appealing as he did when we first started dating.
22. I am so proud to be his wife, I still find myself particularly when we are on a date without the kids thinking I am so proud to be on his arm and that he chose me as his wife. He is the man of my dreams...
23. I love the sound of his laugh, he has so many different ones. He has an almost roaring laugh when he plays video games or the WII with his brothers, he has a high pitched laugh when he tells a stupid joke and is waiting for me to roll my eyes or something, and my most favorite is his really deep soft laugh that he does when I have done something to make him smile.
24. I find him so incredibly good looking, I sometimes put on an act that I am upset that our boys look so much like him and really very little of me but really nothing thrills me more. He still makes my heart flip and I thrill at the thought of my boys doing the same thing to some lucky girl one day, one very long day away that is.
25. He would do anything to make me happy, and well cared for. He does so many things for me that I know I take for granted. He would never even consider letting me get the car registered, or the oil changed, he handles insurance, utilities, all the things that scare me to do he takes care of, even now being miles away he still does these things for me.
26. He watches House Hunters on HGTV with me and loves it just as much as I do, we love to make fun of the houses people pick or dream about what we would do in their position. This is one of my most favorite things to do together as a couple, it has happy memories in it.
27. He is so quick to say he is sorry, I am so stubborn sometimes but he only lasts minutes before he is apologizing and trying to make up with me, we are really never in any disagreements that last longer than a few minutes.
28. When I am getting ready for bed at night in the bathroom he will stand behind me and do silly things with my hair, pinning it up, braiding it, you name it he tries it. It's so cute and funny, I love it.
29. My most favorite thing about him is he is all mine, he is my everything and my best friend. Please don't think I am trying to brag or anything here, he has many faults as we all do but he has thousands of things that are truly wonderful and inspiring about him and being his wife I think I am entitled to write them down. I want him to know how much I love him and all of his cute little quirks that make up the wonderful person I married. Happy Birthday Eric I love you!