Thursday, September 22, 2011

September 4th Relief Society Lesson Given by Sharleen Pearson

I Will Consecrate Myself to Building the Kingdom
            A story has been told about a chicken and a pig who found themselves discussing their contributions to the farmer’s breakfast table. The hen bemoaned having to donate her eggs for the breakfast. The pig replied, “Yes, but for you, it’s just a small sacrifice. For me, it’s a total commitment!”
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            What lessons does this little anecdote contain for us as members?
Consecrate means...to set apart or dedicate something to the service of the Lord
*Quote 1: "Consecration is the giving of one's time, talents, and means to care for those in need—whether spiritually or temporally—and in building the Lord's kingdom. In Welfare Services, members consecrate as they labor on production projects, donate materials to Deseret Industries, share their professional talents, give a generous fast offering, and respond to ward and quorum service projects. They consecrate their time in their home or visiting teaching. We consecrate when we give of ourselves" (Spencer W. Kimball, in Conference Report, Oct. 1977, 124).
**During the lesson Sharleen made three headings on the chalkboard

Time               Talents                       Possessions

She asked the question "How do we consecrate our time, talents, possessions?
Stop for a moment and see what you come up with...the board was full of wonderful thoughtful responses.  Isn't it wonderful to be given opportunities to do some reflecting on our lives!
*Quote 2: "For now, consecration may not require giving up worldly possessions so much as being less possessed by them" (Neal A. Maxwell, "Settle This in Your Hearts," Ensign, Nov. 1992, 67).
What are the purposes of the law of consecration? Why not just tithing?
*Quote 3: "For Zion can only be built up by the law that God revealed for that purpose, which is the law of consecration—not the law of tithing. . . . If the law of consecration were observed, the Lord would have plenty in His storehouse and could accomplish a vast deal more, and none would lack. All the energies and power of the people would be concentrated in the direction He chose, the people giving all their labor, talent and possessions, if required, for the accomplishment of the purposes of God" (Joseph F. Smith, Millennial Star, June 18, 1894, 386).
The following scriptures you can use in a study of the law of consecration...
D&C 42:30
D&C 42:35
D&C 42:40
D&C 42:42
D&C 51:9
D&C 78:3-7
D&C 78:14
D&C 82:17-19
How can living the law of consecration help the Lord's people develop greater charity?
Wasn’t the Law of Consecration a law of the past? Why are we still talking about it? (***The command to live the United Order was repealed but the law of consecration is a Celestial Law)
            Elder Bruce R. McConkie explained: “I shall now set forth some of the principles of sacrifice and consecration to which the true saints must conform if they are ever to go where God and Christ are and have an inheritance with the faithful saints of ages past.
“. . . The law of sacrifice is a celestial law; so is the law of consecration. . . .
          “Sacrifice and consecration are inseparably intertwined. The law of consecration is that we consecrate our time, our talents, and our money and property to the cause of the Church; such are to be available to the extent they are needed to further the Lord’s interests on earth.
            “The law of sacrifice is that we are willing to sacrifice all that we have for the truth’s sake—our character and reputation; our honor and applause; our good name among men; our houses, lands, and families; all things, even our very lives if need be.
            “We are not always called upon to live the whole law of consecration and give all of our time, talents, and means to the building up of the Lord’s earthly kingdom. Few of us are called upon to sacrifice much of what we possess, and at the moment there is only an occasional martyr in the cause of revealed religion.
            (The Lord tells us in Doctrine & Covenants 88:22, “He who is not able to abide the law of a celestial kingdom cannot abide a celestial glory.”) What the scriptural account means is that to gain celestial salvation we must be able to live these laws to the full if we are called upon to do so.
            “Now I think it is perfectly clear that the Lord expects far more of us than we sometimes render in response. We are not as other men. We are the saints of God and have the revelations of heaven. Where much is given much is expected. We are to put first in our lives the things of his kingdom.” (In Conference Report, Apr. 1975, pp. 74–76; or Ensign, May 1975, pp. 50–51 .)
            About 20 years ago Neal A. Maxwell sent out a call for greater consecration to the essentially “honorable” members who he said are skimming over the surface instead of deepening their discipleship. He identified some such members as those who accept callings but not all of the accompanying responsibilities thereby leaving the work to be done by those already anxiously engaged; those who regard themselves as merely resting in between Church callings but he said we are never in between the call from Jesus “What manner of men [and women] ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am.” He said that some of these members may even pass through our holy temples, but, alas, they do not let the holy temples pass through them.”
*How are we doing in heeding his call?
*What keeps us from living a more consecrated life?
            Brigham Young counseled the Saints on this very subject. Said he: “Stop! Wait! When you get up in the morning, before you suffer yourselves to eat one mouthful of food, … bow down before the Lord, ask him to forgive your sins, and protect you through the day, to preserve you from temptation and all evil, to guide your steps aright, that you may do something that day that shall be beneficial to the kingdom of God on the earth. Have you time to do this? … This is the counsel I have for the Latter-day Saints to day. Stop, do not be in a hurry. … You are in too much of a hurry; you do not go to meeting enough, you do not pray enough, you do not read the Scriptures enough, you do not meditate enough, you are all the time on the wing, and in such a hurry that you do not know what to do first. … Let me reduce this to a simple saying—one of the most simple and homely that can be used—‘Keep your dish right side up,’ so that when the shower of porridge does come you can catch your dish full.” 1
            Neal A. Maxwell spoke concerning fear. He said: “In pondering and pursuing consecration, understandably we tremble inwardly at what may be required. Yet the Lord has said consolingly, “My grace is sufficient for you” (D&C 17:8). Do we really believe Him? He has also promised to make weak things strong (see Ether 12:27). Are we really willing to submit to that process? Yet if we desire fullness, we cannot hold back part!
            Having our wills increasingly swallowed up by the will of the Father actually means an enhanced individuality, stretched and more capable of receiving “all that [God] hath” (D&C 84:38). Besides, how could we be entrusted with His “all” until our wills are much more like His? Nor could His “all” be fully appreciated by the partially committed.
            So many of us are kept from eventual consecration because we mistakenly think that, somehow, by letting our will be swallowed up in the will of God, we lose our individuality (see Mosiah 15:7). What we are really worried about, of course, is not giving up self, but selfish things—like our roles, our time, our preeminence, and our possessions. No wonder we are instructed by the Savior to lose ourselves (see Luke 9:24). He is only asking us to lose the old self in order to find the new self. It is not a question of one’s losing identity but of finding his true identity! Ironically, so many people already lose themselves anyway in their consuming hobbies and preoccupations but with far, far lesser things.
            Consecration involves pressing forward “with a steadfastness in Christ” with a “brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men … [while] feasting upon the word of Christ” (2 Ne. 31:20). Jesus pressed forward sublimely. He did not shrink, such as by going only 60 percent of the distance toward the full atonement. Instead, He “finished [His] preparations” for all mankind, bringing a universal resurrection.”
            Sharleen closes with her testimony and final thoughts: Reflect on the story at the beginning of the lesson today much during this next month.  Decide today to take Brigham Young’s counsel and consecrate yourself to Heavenly Father in prayer each morning. Our consecration will not happen with one single act. Offering ourselves for sacred uses might simply mean maintaining a consistent attitude of meek willingness to offer all we are capable of giving at any given time while we help those about us do the same. Consecration is a day-to-day process of dedication, humility, refinement, and purification as we follow the example of the most consecrated person of all time—our Savior and Redeemer Jesus Christ.



Thursday, September 8, 2011

By ANDRA STEFANONI The Morning Sun Posted May 25, 2008

Loved this...thought you young Mom's would enjoy the read...it is so beautifully written!

On a day when I was wondering why no one had nominated me for a major award because I was able to get three beds stripped and cleaned and remade, a colorful and balanced supper on the table, a toddler entertained on my own from 7:30 a.m. to 5 p.m., an entertaining column written and submitted, and a first grader taken to school with everything he needed and brought home with nothing that he didn't, I received this in my inbox.

I am grateful to Mother-in-Law for passing it along. I can give no credit to the author, because I don't know who wrote it, but from the sound of things she seeks none.

Religious or not, an at-home-mom or professional mom, read it and take from it what you need.

Invisible Mother

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I'm thinking, “Can't you see I'm on the phone?' Obviously not; no one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all. I'm invisible. The Invisible Mom.

Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this? Can you tie this?
Can you open this??

Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer, “What number is the Disney Channel?' I'm a car to order, “Right around 5:30, please.”

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going, she's going, she's gone!?

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England. Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in.

I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, “I brought you this.' It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe. I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription:

To Charlotte, with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees.

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names.

These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, “Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof, no one will ever see it.” And the workman replied, “Because God sees.”

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, “I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become.”

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction. But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, '”My Mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table.” That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, “You're gonna love it there.”

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.



Wednesday, September 7, 2011

August 16 Relief Society Garden Party

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We had such a wonderful evening.  As always, fabulous company and good food! We had over 50 sisters attend, we even had to put up an extra table, how GREAT is that?!  I had a brief thought that I shared while we enjoyed our appetizers. I started out with the song "Pure Imagination"...performed by the group from Glee.


Come with me and you'll be In a world of (Your) imagination
Take a look and you'll see into your imagination

We'll begin with a spin traveling in the world of (His) creation
What we'll see will defy explanation

If you want to view paradise simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it...Wanta change the world?
There's nothing to it

There is no life I know to compare with (Your) imagination
 Living there you'll be free if you truly wish to be

If you want to view paradise simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it,,,Wanta change the world?
There's nothing to it

There is no life I know to compare with (Your) imagination
Living there You'll be free If you truly wish to be........

This song had been in my head for about a week.  I just kept thinking about how great our lives are.  What a beautiful paradise that has been created for us to explore our imaginations.  How, as a RS if we joined our strengths together and imagined...we could be a true Zion society...as the city of Enoch...anything would be possible!  We could change our world...if we truly wished to and acted upon those desires!  As RS Meeting Coordinator...I hoped you would share your desires and needs with us so we could take our journey together learning and being uplifted together.  I would still love to hear what kinds of things you need in your life to be uplifted and strengthened and taught!  Together...We can truly change the world!

The rest of the evening was spent visiting and enjoying!  I think we all would have stayed till midnight...I LOVED how everyone stayed and stayed and stayed!  It made me feel so warm inside!