Prayer of the Children

We just found out that Dave's nephew went in to have his wisdom teeth removed and had a seizure.  His wife, who also had her wisdom teeth removed, posted on Facebook to request prayers in his behalf.  I called all of the kids in to kneel down and say a prayer.  I showed them TJ's picture, Beau's daddy, and Shaylee's picture so they would know who they were.  Then I explained that TJ was sick and in the hospital and needed our prayers.  Of course, they ALL wanted to say it!  So we knelt in a family circle and I let each of the kids say a prayer for them.  We talked about praying for Shaylee as well that she would have peace.  Isaac asked me what peace was.  I explained that peace is happiness, when the Spirit touches you and helps you feel good and know that everything is going to be okay.

It never ceases to amaze me how mature my kids are.  That Isaac asked me what peace was and then took that prayer VERY SERIOUSLY!

Each prayer also touched me.

Isaac: Please bless that TJ will be okay and won't be sick anymore and that Shaylee will have happiness from the Spirit.

Abby: Please bless that TJ will get better and that Shaylee will be happy.  And please bless we can get in our new house and have flowers and horses.

Brianna: Please bless that TJ will get better and that Shaylee will have the peace.

Happiness from the Spirit.  That was Isaac's take-away understanding of peace. And isn't that so fitting?  And as he said it, he was sincere and focused -- no lightness or laughter in his voice like he often has when he's praying.  I guess maybe he feels like daily prayer is a dress-rehearsal or redundant.  But when it counts, he's present.

Abby remembers to ask for our new house and flowers and horses in EVERY prayer!  She is so focused on what she really wants and needs, and she takes it to Heavenly Father in faith every chance she gets.  It is no wonder that we have had miracle after miracle in the timing, signing, and closing of our new house.  Another example from my life of people saying, "It's impossible -- it probably won't happen -- be prepared," and things being POSSIBLE, HAPPENING, and getting prepared being a waste of energy and time. I am SO THANKFUL for that constant pattern in my life.  And that my kids are LEARNING it in theirs as well!

I was very touched and actually started to cry when my little 2-year-old was the only one that simply asked that they be blessed with peace.  I often think she is too little to understand and remember things.  She was the only one who didn't ask.  The only one who didn't jump in on the discussion about peace and clarifying language.  And after the discussion and two prayers from her older siblings, she still simply asked . . . for peace for them.  I don't know exactly what I'm trying to say, except that I am amazed by her love.  I am amazed by her simple understanding.  I am amazed that she remembered and . . . obeyed isn't the right word, but something along those lines.  And I was amazed at her focused, humble, quiet, reverent tone. 

I love my children.  I am so thankful I get to be their mom.

November FB Month in Review

I realized today that I update things on FB all the time but never come here to add things.  So I wanted to share some of my Facebook Posts from the last . . . little while.

Today: Isaac got the xylophone this morning - said it was his guitar. Then he said, "Actually, Mommy, I think it's a musical instrument. Yeah - it's a musical instrument, not a guitar." Then he serenaded us with original versions of Christmas and Halloween songs. He's got talent, that kid! I need to get him in some sort of lessons -- Mom at the piano just isn't the same. :-)

Even though the kids have all been sick this week - I am SOOOO looking forward to starting Thanksgiving dinner with them tonight. We're doing a pumpkin pie, a pecan pie, trying some cranberry/apple/turkey sausage quinoa (instead of stuffing), and I just might splurge and make some of my family's favorite orange rolls! I think that would be really fun for them to roll the dough and tie it in "bow knots" and then drizzle with orange icing! :-) This is a great time of year - great for passing on fun traditions.

Just when I think I am SO NOT READY to have a BABY in this Zoo - my friend Leslie Beth Twining has her precious little man and posts the most adorable pictures. Is there anything sweeter than cuddling a newborn? I mean, once you get over the fact that you just aren't going to sleep for the next 18 years . . . the rest is EASY! :-)

Tonight I get to sleep with my sick little Abby - got to hold her hand while her fever broke, melt when she told me that she loves spending time with me, cry when she said that she needed to ask Heavenly Father to make her feel better and then said such a sweet prayer for just that, and laugh after her fever broke and I heard her make up funny songs about how Mommy likes Eagles but shouldn't because they'll tear her apart - elephants are much better! Does it get any better than this? My cup runneth over!
   
11/20: One of my favorite quotes - perfect for days when you just aren't "seeing" straight:
"To look at a thing is quite different from seeing a thing; and one does not see anything until one FIRST sees it's beauty."

Don't let another year end without accomplishing your goals for better health! My friend Kelli will NEVER have a weight loss resolution again! 2 1/2 years ago, she went from an 8/10 to a 4; today she is a svelt 2!  This is not a "fad diet"; it's solid nutrition. Expect MORE than weight loss results!  Better health, more energy, improved mental clarity and focus. Results ARE typical! And they last!
 
11/19: Went out driving and dreaming with the kids tonight - Dave had a meeting to go to. We found a gorgeous area with open fields, the mountains behind it, beautiful sunsets, horses, cows, the WORKS!!! Sometimes it's fun to just dream. :-)
  
"We must develop the capacity to see men not as they are at present but as they may become." ~ Thomas Monson
  
11/18: ♥ Story time at our house is one of my favorite things to listen to. Dave will make up a story, usually including the kids in it as the main characters. Then it is each child's turn to tell a story as well. Even Brianna - whose story is usually, "Once upon a time, there was a horsey." Abby's usually tells some wish of her heart or vision she has for the future - always happy and light, always involving animals and happy endings. Isaac's usually involve monsters and scary houses, but they rarely have any sort of ending at all. Each of their personalities come through, though. Their imaginations never cease to amaze me! David is definitely great at nurturing that! ♥

11/17: Brianna's having a hard time sleeping! She's lying in bed with Dave, patting his back and poking his eyes, and yelling, "Wake U-UP! Wake U-UP!" Dave's laughing, which is only encouraging her! This is going to be a LO-O-ONG night . . . for him! ;-)

Dave made roasted red potatoes and baked ham for dinner tonight. Our house smells HEAVENLY! Too bad my kids won't touch potatoes -- that makes them an occasional treat at our house! :-)

Brianna is so different from the twins. She HATES being naked, HAS to have underwear on, but refuses to wear a diaper. And so far, she is 2/2 this morning! SO thankful it's going SO smoothly! Countdown to ONE in diapers!!!

11/16: Going for a walk with Abby down to Target to get some "treats" to potty train Brianna. I'm thinking fruit snacks, freeze-dried fruits, raisins - and marshmallows! :-) Yay for potty training weekend!!!!   

 11/15: Whenever the kids say, "I can't!" I say, "Uh-uh! I think I can, I think I can, I think I can . . . and DO!" Today I heard Abby in the hallway, apparently trying something new, saying, "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can . . . and DO!" ♥

Though I'm thankful to have an entire day to do nothing but cuddle with my little boy, it makes my heart sad it's because he's so sick! Daddy needs to come home and rescue the girls - they are in serious need of some one-on-one time!!! ♥

11/14: SOOOOO thankful that Isaac woke up with a DRY DIAPER this morning! I cannot wait to have just ONE child in diapers - for the first time in more than 4 years! Abby's all but there - just has a few accidents at night every now and then. And we're starting to potty train Brianna this weekend. Fingers crossed she is as easy as -- or easier than -- the twins. I may just find out another twin perk, though! :-)

Best of luck to you, Elder Kameron White. Or, maybe I should say, best of luck to your Mom and Dad. You are going to have the BEST two years of your life!!!

11/13: I love how you become a little boy's hero for just doing simple things like putting parts back on his car when they fall off. What more can you hope for in life? :-)

11/12: I'm thankful that Heavenly Father loves me enough to help me keep my priorities straight. I see roads I could have traveled, experiences I could have had that would have distracted from/overshadowed/postponed the eternal ones. And I feel so blessed for the humbling moments, the very real sacrifices, the difficult obedience decisions that have created this crazy life we are living! Sometimes He's had quite a tug of war on His hands. So thankful He never stops pulling and never gives up on me!

Abby's prayer tonight: Thank you that my book is broken but I still have it. Amen.
Brianna's prayer right after: Thank you that my book isn't. Amen.

I am so thankful for a Queen-Size bed that is big enough for Dave, me, my pregnant belly, and any stragglers that might find their way here at night to ALL still get a good night's sleep! Good sleep is priceless!

11/9: I am so thankful today for SNOW from a distance! I forgot how magical it is to drive around at night, the snow falling on your car and catching the light from the lampposts. Or sit inside a warm house and watch the snow fall out your window. I may or may not have added some festive music to complete the picture. ;-) Winter really is such a wonderful time!

This really touched my heart today! We are our own worst enemies. NOTHING is impossible if you want it badly enough and are willing to CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN to have it! You might not get it today -- some mountains are higher to climb than others, with more obstacles than you may have realized. But as long as you keep putting one foot in front of the other, you WILL reach the peak. That ability to dream and accomplish their goals is one of the MOST IMPORTANT things I want my children to carry forward from me.

11/8: I am so thankful today for a husband who knows electronics and how to learn WHATEVER he needs/wants to! (Like how to try and fix our poor broken t.v.) And for his mad cooking skills when he gets a craving for something. We're pretty blessed to have him around!

11/7: 
"Woman, how divine your mission,
Here upon our natal sod;
Keep—oh, keep the young heart open
Always to the breath of God!
All true trophies of the ages
Are from mother-love impearled,
For the hand that rocks the cradle
Is the hand that rules the world."

~ William Ross Wallace

I wrote a post last night that someone deleted, and I just want to put it out there today. Then I'll leave it all alone. I think the "politically-correct" reaction is to be positive about the election last night. You read things like, "Get over it - move on - we're all American - let go of your pessimism - where is your faith?" But I just want to put out there that . . . there is a time and a

season for everything. A time to mourn . . . AND a time to let go and rejoice. For a lot of people who supported Romney, myself included, there were some very real differences that led to offering that support; values and ideals that we hold dear - even sacred - that we feel were lost. If Romney had won, PEOPLE WOULD HAVE FELT THE SAME WHO SUPPORTED OBAMA.

I made the analogy that, when Lazarus died - even though Christ KNEW it was NOT the end, even though He KNEW that Lazarus would be a way to begin to teach people about the beauty and hope of the Resurrection - Christ still WEPT! He still FELT the pain of the moment and what it meant for HIM to lose something that he loved and valued dearly. He didn't just say to Mary and Martha - "Put your big-girl pants on! Haven't you been listening to me? Death is not the end. I'm so disappointed in you for letting this affect you like this. Where is your faith?"

YES, we will move forward as a nation! Yes, we WILL be united in the things that make us strong and the values we share. Yes, we are so blessed to have the freedoms we do. Yes, we will have more growing pains and moments where we don't agree - without allowing them to divide us. YES, our hope and faith in Christ and God's plan are SO MUCH BIGGER than an election and WILL PULL US THROUGH EVERYTHING ahead of us. YES, we will recover and pull through TOGETHER. JUST AS WE WOULD HAVE HAD THE RESULTS OF THE ELECTION BEEN DIFFERENT and had we found ourselves on the other side of the coin.

BUT . . . there's still a time and a season for everything. AND THAT'S OKAY, TOO!

11/6: This morning, I am thankful for hot water and a clean bath basin! After we had breakfast, scripture study, songs, and morning prayers, it was still early enough that I was TEMPTED to turn on the heat. But instead - welcome, welcome morning bath!

11/4: Dave told me that I have that pregnant waddle going on. I reminded him that not only do I NOT waddle, but I just rode 8 miles on a bike, pulling a 4-year-old behind me (thank you very much!). He said, "Yep! The only time I've ever seen someone manage to waddle on a bike!" Ha . . . Ha . . . Ha David Chaffee! ;-)

So thankful this morning that growing up is a process, full of wonder and excitement in the smallest of things - and I don't have to miss a single moment of it! At the same time, I think I'd like to have a pause button every now and then . . . Just sayin'! :-)

11/3: I am so thankful to be married to the best dad any child could ask for! This morning, he let me sleep in. And I woke up to hearing him reading through the Bob books with the kids before he would let them watch a movie. He really IS the best. dad. ever.

11/2: Things I am thankful for - Days 1 and 2 (a little behind):
1) The internet. I don't know how I would have survived the last few years of motherhood without being able to connect with good friends and not feel so isolated.

2) BIKE RIDES!!! I used to take the twins out by myself all the time - then I got outnumbered, in CA of all places (LOL!), and it has been years since we went on family rides. Definitely one of my FAVORITE things. I'm SO THANKFUL that my children get to have this be a LOVE of their lives and a memory from their earliest memories of family time.

Heading out for a family bike ride and picnic! I love Friday's!!!

Abby found the worms from fishing a few weeks ago in the back yard and kept trying to pick them up to save them. Dave told her to leave them alone. She started crying, "But Daddy! If we lose the worms, we can't go fishing any more!"

11/1: I love that Dave chose to watch "Move Over, Darling" on Netflix tonight! It's so nice to have someone who can appreciate a good old Doris Day flick with me! :-)

October FB Month in Review

10/30: As sad as it makes me to hear of so much tragedy happening all around right now, I think it's a gentle reminder from Heavenly Father to be thankful for all I have. All the other worries could not only be a lot worse, but they pale in comparison to what IS a lot worse for MILLIONS of people! There aren't enough minutes in the day to pray for those who are struggling right now ~ continuing to send mine your way!

Thoughts and prayers going out to all of those affected by the hurricane on the East Coast. There's never a good time to have something like this hit. But it definitely adds perspective to the holiday season ahead - a time for gratitude for sure!

10/28: The kids had their Primary Program today. I admit it - I cried! Isaac even had his part memorized and was so excited about it! Then they didn't want to go to Primary. Abby said, "But Mommy, I already sat and sang and sat and sang and sat and sang - now I'm done! I want to go home!" Isaac just plain snuck out of Primary and up to Nursery. There were so many kids, it took me a while to notice he was up there playing. I took him back. Then they brought him back to me. The Primary Pres. said, "We're handing out gummy bears and he says that he doesn't eat sugar, it makes him sick, and he needed to come see you." While she's explaining this to me - and I'm staring at her in awe - Isaac sneaks off again to play with the toys! How did I get him to go back? Promised him marshmallows! He had no qualms about sugar that time! I LOVE my kids!

10/27: I've been having a hard time seeing past the moment and current sacrifices/circumstances (particularly finances). So last night I took some time to zoom out on our life map, get some eternal perspective back into the picture, and today it is time to "forget myself and go to work!" There really ARE "chances to serve all around us now - opportunities RIGHT IN our way! Do not let them pass by, saying, 'Sometime, I'll try!' Just go - and do something TODAY!'" HAPPY SATURDAY!!!

10/26: Went to D.I. to buy the kids winter shoes and coats and look for pants. An hour later we went to leave to find that Isaac had ignored us and instead of putting his own shoes back on had taken them off to put the new shoes on when we weren't looking. They were nowhere to be found. We asked him why he took them off, he simply said, "I wanted to wear my new ones!" If I could bottle sheer willpower and determination . . . I'd be a millionaire! Oh, yes I would!  

One of these days, I'm going to get all of the kids ready to go somewhere, and two minutes before we leave, they aren't going to undo everything - like running into the back yard while I'm putting my shoes on and getting soaked up to their thighs in the melted snow. In their only pair of shoes. One of these days . . . .

10/25: I have been thinking a lot today about faith . . . and freedom! I am so thankful to have a Savior who made both possible, from the VERY beginning, and to live in a country that makes it possible to enjoy both still! I'm thankful for dreams and hope and perseverance, and I'm thankful that when I look into the eyes of my children, I see ALL of it in their futures!

10/24: If anyone is wondering what a FANTASTIC present is for a child turning 4, FLOOR PUZZLES!!! Seriously, with both of them have LOVED their floor puzzles. They can't put them together enough times in a day. I think they actually have the piece placement memorized by now, and yet they still love to pull them out and put them together over and over and over again! SCORE!

10/23: Know what I love? I love that it stays dark longer so my kids sleep in more. I love snuggling, singing, and reading with my kids on the sofa. I love that four of the people I have most respected at different parts of my life are all celebrating a BIRTHDAY today! I love that my dear friend Leah is FINALLY expecting a baby after almost five years of trying. I love that my friends who are strugg

ling SO MUCH with things that pull on their very heartstrings have the strength and promises of the Gospel and their covenants to pull them through. I love that Dave picked up some early readers and that Isaac - who has been reading everything in sight for months now - is making connections between words and pictures. LIFE IS GOOD! I am truly, truly blessed!

10/22: Watched my first Presidential debate tonight - and then the commentaries on Fox and CNN. My conclusion? You can't draw a conclusion from the commentaries/news/reviews. You have to actually watch the debate to know if you agree or disagree with what they are saying. There were some debate conclusions stated very confidently and repeatedly that I TOTALLY and COMPLETELY disagreed with! Don't get your information from people who have a vested interest in the conclusions you draw. Then, as the moderator said, "Go VOTE!" God bless the USA, God bless this country where people have the right to a voice, and God bless us to use it wisely!

10/20: I'm pretty sure I'm married to the best dad ever! After our fruitless fishing trip yesterday (I think Dad was more disappointed than kids), he woke up at 6:00 this morning, woke Isaac up, got him dressed, and they went fishing together. They only caught two little rainbow trout. Put them back because Dave said they were so small that you'd need like 8 to make it worth eating them! :-) But Isaac was still REALLY excited! And Abby was about to cry until he promised her he would take her next week. :-)

10/17: Prayer at our house tonight:
Abby: Please bless that we can dress up for Halloween and that I can be a horse and Isaac can be a bat.
Isaac: No! - A DRAGON!
Abby: And that Isaac can be a dragon and Brianna can be a . . . a FLAMINGO!
Isaac: No! - A UNICORN!
Abby: And a Unicorn. Amen!

10/17: Disclaimers: Political rant because I care and have a voice, even when I respect that we may not agree; and I have only read about the debate on CNN and FoxNews this morning, I haven't actually watched it. But one thing hit me really strong. Calling a spade a diamond doesn't make it one. Things like attacking Romney for saying that 47% of America doesn't pay taxes, saying that he had binders full of women candidates for jobs when he solicited them, and saying that the auto industry - like everyone else - should have been responsible for saving itself instead of leaning on the backs of the American people. What is wrong with saying those things? Do they support some bias on his part and make him a horrible, heartless person? Do only 53% of the people IN FACT pay taxes? Could he have just as easily had binders full of men if he'd asked for them? Is the auto industry a select group that deserves to be bailed out while the rest of us fall AND pay for it? They blatantly point out what we are up against as a nation! If you want to candy and sugar coat things, then stop complaining about how things are. Because IF NOTHING EVER CHANGES, THINGS WILL ALWAYS STAY THE SAME!!!!

And guess what? For 29 of my 32 years, I HAVE BEEN THE 47%. But even in that category, I consistently worked three jobs a year to pay my way through school, and I complained with other friends as we watched our husbands do school full time AND work multiple jobs to support us on their own while other people's spouses didn't work at all and their families still enjoyed the luxuries of "welfare extras" we CHOSE not to enjoy but were paying for. AND I'M A WOMAN. A woman WHO CHOSE - and not at gunpoint - a field of study that left me grateful to make $13/hour, even with a Master's Degree. And I'm STILL disgusted that my taxes have gone to the bailouts while the value of our condo has depreciated $12,000 in the last two years. And my husband reminds me how lucky we are when some of his coworkers lost $50-$100,000 in value during those same two years.

NO ONE is bailing me out of the consequences of MY OWN OR OTHER PEOPLE'S choices -- or even just natural economic hard knocks. So why does the President and the media paint a picture that NOT recognizing where we ARE is a better tactic for a leader than just calling a spade . . . a SPADE?

Calling a spade a diamond . . . just doesn't make it one. And I think it's a sign of a GOOD leader who can identify the issues as ISSUES without turning them into INSULTS. And the sign of a people ready for real change when they can hear the truth of how things are and not take them as categorical slams against the subjects. IF WE ARE GOING TO RISE AS A NATION, EVERYONE IS GOING TO HAVE TO MAKE SACRIFICES! Don't complain about where we are and want change at the expense of EVERYONE else. It just doesn't work that way.

When I'm balancing MY budget in a crisis, my personal and family fun money are the FIRST things to go. I wish we could find a leader who did the same . . . . Because "if you live like no one else, later you can live like no one else." But that will never happen or do us ANY good as long as we are a PEOPLE who is not prepared to do the same, a people that calls out leaders who suggest that we just might need to.

10/15: Isaac woke up throwing up this morning. So now we get to sit all together and cuddle. It seems as long as one of them is touching some part of me - my foot, my leg, holding my hand, whatever - all is good in the world. I QUITE agree! And even before he woke up I was thinking I needed a cuddle day with my kids today! Wish granted. ;-)

Okay, friends! I need to set up a training schedule for breastfeeding and completing a half marathon next year! Foot surgery kept me from completing after the twins, the lovely Antelope Valley and three kids kept me from it after Brianna. But here in Utah - no excuses!!! So I was wondering if there is anyone else who will be starting from scratch - maybe even breastfeeding - and would want to train with me next year! My goal is to do a 5K in March on the Couch to 5K program and then see how my milk supply is holding up and what my time is to go up from there. Any takers? YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO!!!! No one is starting from ground zero more than me, trust me - so let's DO THIS!

10/14: What does two full days and nights without Mom around result in? 1) Fast food both nights. 2) Dessert both nights. 3) Dad getting sick of not sleeping and moving the house around to get the twins in separate rooms and Brianna in a big-girl bed. I think I need to be away more often - he'll find the struggles I have everyday and, as long as his plan works, fix them before I get back! ;-D Next time I'll leave ready-made meals for him to grab, though. I love you, David Chaffee! Thanks for the break!

Welcome, welcome, Sabbath Morning! Definitely time to rest from every care and tap into my heart, my family, and my relationship with the One who can teach me what I'm supposed to be DOING with it all. Happy Sunday, friends! :-) 

10/13: Quick lesson during break - if you only get to teach your kids 10 things in their lives, what are they? Only 10 - no wiggle room. What are you doing TODAY to teach them that? From Jack Canfield

10/11: Off on a bike ride with my kids! This is the first time we've had the right parts to successfully attach the Tag-Along bike to the back of my bike and make it work! We're all PRETTY excited!!!

I missed the VP debate tonight - but from what Leah Sidwell posted, that's not necessarily a BAD thing! ;-) This is going to be an interesting election. And I still need to figure out what it was that happened in Libya - besides that four people were killed, including the U.S. ambassador. I am still trying to tap into what happened leading up to it that has everyone in such a rage.  

10/9: Vision. I'm honing in on my vision of ME and my marriage and my family! As I type this, Isaac is singing, "You gotta love, love, love, love, love yourself!" over and over again!

I love this from Alice in Wonderland:
Alice: Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
The Cat: That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.
Alice: I don't much care where.
The Cat: Then it doesn't much matter which way you go.
Alice: …so long as I get somewhere.
The Cat: Oh, you're sure to do that, if only you walk long enough.

If you don't know where you want to go, it doesn't really matter what road you take. But when you KNOW, the road in front of you is quite clear and the obstacles so much easier to avoid/overcome!

10/8: I have a 2-year-old with a new-found freedom in being able to get out of bed, open doors, and reach light switches ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!! (Just found her sitting very quietly in the bathtub with all the toys, completely naked and just sitting there . . . at 9:30 at night.) And a 4-year-old who is so exhausted all she can do is sit and cry. Oh, the life of a mother! ;-)

Isaac: Abby, Abby! Daddy's making MUFFINS!!!
Abby: For BREAKFAST?
Isaac: No. Muffins aren't breakfast. Muffins are a special treat. Mommy? When we finish our breakfast, can we have some of Daddy's muffins, like cookies?

10/7: I LOVE GENERAL CONFERENCE! Yesterday was FULL of revelations and loving reminders! President Eyring's remarks this morning about turning your heart over to the Lord and allowing Him to direct and shape your life were SO TIMELY! I am so t

hankful that we have this amazing weekend to be instructed, uplifted, strengthened, challenged to do better, and lifted higher than we are on our own. Now to get the kids a few more coloring pages so we can keep the Spirit here for the rest of it! LOL! ;-)

10/6: Just did the math on our Family Missionary Lineup! As of now, we could have all of our children HOME from missions in the next 20 years! And we could leave to serve our first mission 8 years later. That's a LOT of planning and preparing to do between now and then to be spiritually, physically, and financially self-reliant and teach them to be the same. We're up for the challenge! Here we GOOOOOO!!!!

"You mean to tell me that you actually believe there is a prophet of God on the earth today, just as there was in ancient times?" --- YES! ---
"Well, what is he saying to you?" --- He testifies of Christ and how to follow in His ways, just as prophets of old. Come, listen and see for yourself! ---

10/5: Abby: Mommy, I can't wait for Daddy to come back! I'm just in his heart because . . . because I'm his pretty Princess!
Me: Yes you are, Abby - yes you are!
He's forming some pretty big shoes for some man to fill someday. I'm so thankful for that!

10/4: I am so tired of hashing things out with the HOA and upstairs tenants for damage to our condo that happened OVER a year ago! The HOA wants to pass blame to the upstairs tenant so they aren't responsible. The upstairs tenant wants to blame the construction worker and HOA so she isn't responsible. And both are telling me it isn't THEIR problem and they won't do anything to amend it. So here we are, left with the damage and responsible parties totally avoiding it. The HOA manager told me all I can do is go to Small Claims Court with it. REALLY?!?!?! And Dave says that's too expensive, so a cost-benefit analysis says that we'll just pay for it and get it taken care of. OY! Liberty and JUSTICE for all, right? Right . . . .

On a positive note, this all means that our condo is the most full-proof for ANY damage to ANY of those areas occurring in the future. All the faulty construction from the original build has been upgraded and replaced to be up to current codes and standards. The majority of the beams and sheet rock have been replaced as well. No other unit can say that when they sell! :-) There is a silver lining to every cloud after all!

Abby, laughing hysterically as she jumps from bed to bed, asks me, "Mommy, why can't I stop laughing?" Um - I think someone is OVER tired! I LOVE little girls! :-)

10/2: Driving home from my sister's tonight, I was taken back by the beauty of the moments: the trees changing colors on the mountains, my three treasures asleep in the back seat, the reds and pinks of the setting sun, Soul Sister and This One's For the Girls playing on the radio, the wind blowing loudly through the car (because I don't have air conditioning - LOL!), memories of college day road trips, the hard college years. And I was overcome with gratitude that I am so incredibly, incredibly blessed. Life is good. And it just keeps getting better.

My friends Wendy Spinelli and her husband Nate ran the Tough Mudder! And I have to say - that looks like a lot of fun! I think I'm going to add it to my list of things to do - in addition to the midnight run here in the Farmington area with glowsticks, the Disneyland Half Marathon, the Nike Women's Half Marathon in San Francisco, and someday . . . just maybe the Boston Marathon! Baby steps!