I’ve spent a great deal of my life in full houses.
Only in the past 7 years have I spent any significant amount of time living alone; the rest of it has been filled with a big family and communal-living in places like Anthony Hall Dormitory (my undergrad home), The Opera House in Bardstown (not as great as it sounds), The Basement on Main (not as bad as it sounds, though one of my roommates lived in a cubicle we lovingly named “the Commodore 64”), and, of course, 820 Chipeta (much more on that in future blogs).
And now I have an empty house, and it suits me well. However, the thing that I miss the most about living with roommates is meal times – not so much lunchtime, but definitely dinner-time, and especially Saturday brunch.
A few years ago, I realized that I needed to adjust my social life a bit. It seems that when I stopped being an actor, my nights freed up exponentially, but I stopped going out. I mean other than for employment purposes, I rarely left my house. I recognized that I had become a bit of a hermit. It became obvious to me that I desired a change, so I started pushing myself out the door a bit more.
The problem was that I didn’t really want to get out that much.
You see, while living a life “upon the wicked stage” with 8-shows-a-week and only Monday nights off, I started to believe that I wouldn’t ever have much of a home life – much less that I actually wanted one. I went to work at 6 or 7 pm (if there were no rehearsal calls that day), was finished by 10 or 11pm, and then went out until 2 or 3 am only to get up around 10 am and start the day again. A glorious life, but a bit upside-down. But when academia became my principle job, I basically flipped my day right-side-up and suddenly added a great deal of nights and weekends to my free time. Essentially, I had to learn how to be “normal”. And when I did, I found that I really liked making and being in my home. The only option was finding a balance of attending social gatherings while creating social interactions at home.
Last year around this time, my friend David and I started what has become a weekly tradition of Saturday morning brunch. There are a group of people who make appearances at brunch from time to time, but David is the stalwart – always present and almost always the first to arrive. For we who attend, brunch has become a time for coming together -often after a week or more of not seeing each other – and drinking coffee, laughing, sharing, and eating great and healthy food. For me, its a time to recap the details of my week with friends, to hear about their week, to discuss different world views, and to celebrate the passing of another blessed cycle of days. Brunch is a time when everyone feels welcome, greets each other with a smile and a hug, and relaxes and enjoys a good meal.
It is essentially everything that I miss about having roommates; love, understanding, camaraderie. Only now, after brunch everyone leaves, and I am left in my peaceful home. 🙂
“A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.” – HH Dalai Lama

Caole Lowry at New Year's Eve Brunch - with frozen raspberries covered in white chocolate and fresh blackberries and oranges!
This morning I was joined by David and my dear friend Caole Lowry (who brought these delicious raspberries covered in white chocolate and these magnificent blackberries and oranges). We had such a wonderful talk about art projects and process; its always such a joy to be with Caole!
I got a hint from Clean Eating Magazine that suggested rolling your left-over dressing and frying them to make fritters. I thought they were just a decent excuse for eating left-over dressing at breakfast, but Caole and David seemed to really enjoy them as a precursor. We topped them with low-fat Greek yogurt (but you could use low-fat sour cream or plain yogurt as well) and the Cranberry-Pepper Jelly I made the other day – I must say I felt pretty ingenious!
I joined this with a frittata recipe that has become a much-loved staple on Saturdays. Frittatas sound difficult, but they are not – they are simpler than omelets in my opinion, and always turn out great. Also, you might be one of those that have a love/fear relationship with asparagus like I once did, but trust me when I say that this asparagus ALWAYS turns out great. I use my cast iron skillet (also known as my best friend), but you can use any skillet that is oven proof.
Asparagus-Mushroom Frittata
This recipe came from a calendar put out by Vitamin Cottage Natural Grocers last year, but I have adjusted it so much, that I call it mine. Enjoy 🙂
1 tsp. olive oil
1 med. onion, sliced as thinly as possible
12 oz. mushrooms, sliced
1 lb. asparagus, cleaned with ends cut off, and sliced into 1 inch segments
4 eggs
8 egg whites (or you can substitute 4 more eggs)
Salt and Pepper
Reduced-fat Feta, or any kind of shredded cheese
2 tomatoes, thinly sliced (optional)
Heat oil in cast iron skillet. Saute onions for 4 to 5 minutes. Add mushrooms until softened; 1 to 2 minutes. Add asparagus for 2 minutes. Salt and Pepper to taste. In a large bowl, beat eggs and whites until mixed. Add salt and pepper to taste and pour over asparagus, mushroom, and onions. Top with thin slices of tomatoes (try Romas) in one layer if you like. Cover and lower heat, cooking for 15 minutes. Turn on broiler and raise rack to 6 inches below burner (its the 2nd from the top in mine). Once the 15 minutes has passed, remove lid (or in my case, plate) and eggs will be a bit runny on top. Add feta (or other cheese) to top and slide under the broiler for 3 to 5 minutes; keep an eye on it until it is nicely browned on top. Carefully remove from the oven. Run a knife alone the edges of skillet. Place a plate over the top and flip frittata onto the plate – I promise it will be beautiful! Serve immediately.

















