
I just wanted to take a minute this Father's Day to say how grateful I am for my sweet husband. After my divorce, when Coa and I were living in Utah, she often wondered about the lack of a daddy in our home. She'd ask me about it, and I'd tell her that we had to pray for a 'nice boy' to come along who would love us both and want to be part of our family. We'd go to Temple Square regularly, and we'd bring our pennies to make wishes in the reflecting pool there. I figured a wish made there had an extra good chance of coming true, so we'd always wish for our 'nice boy' to come to us.
After three years of wishing and growing and praying really hard, our 'nice boy' showed up. He was all that we had hoped for, and though the transition was a little bumpy at times (as most are), we have all learned and grown in such amazing ways. I am so impressed with the love and fairness John shows our girls. I feel so blessed that he loves Coa just like he loves Vannah. It doesn't always work that way in blended families, so it's that much sweeter.
I'm grateful that our girls have John to look to as their model of what a man should be and do. He strives everyday to infuse our lives with something spiritual, even if it's reading and discussing our nightly scripture while Vannah's laughing and jumping on our bed. I love him for not yelling at the girls for doing all the things kids do. I didn't grow up like that, so it's an extra special blessing to me for our girls to have a dad they can be themselves around.
He's so proud of their accomplishments, no matter how small. (He bragged forever about Vannah taking first place in her division at the ward Halloween party two years ago. It was so funny. What a proud papa!) He pushes them in ways that I usually wouldn't, but that need to happen. (That's why Coa learned to ride her bike in two days.) He happily sings along to the soundtracks from High School Musical, High School Musical 2, and Hairspray, and let's not forget the theme songs for Dora and the Backyardagains. He plays basketball with them on our back patio with the Little Tikes goal we have. It's pretty funny to see him and Coa out there shooting hoops on that thing.
I could go on and on about the little ways that he shows his love for our girls. It makes me feel safe and happy to know that anything less than him will feel uncomfortable to our girls. I'd say their odds of finding their own 'nice boys' are pretty good.
JohnnyBoy, I want you to know how very much we all love and appreciate you. Thank you for your sweet leadership in our home. Thank you for all the many ways in which you bless our lives. We're so glad that you are the man in our home.
I love you, baby. Tons.
Happy Father's Day!