Our Beautiful baby was due at the
end of January… but as we waited and waited I wondered if she would ever
come. I had many braxton hicks keeping
me up during the nights and at the end even waking me up every night around
3am. I would be up for an hour or two
until I could get back to sleep. Kent
was busy from early in the morning until late at night, and it seemed there
were very few days that would be good for having a baby.
As I waited and waited I decided to
try to get as much done as I could before baby arrived. I got as much ready as possible for Handsome’s
birthday and for starting cub scouts, and I made many things for our soon to
arrive baby. And I kept thinking “maybe
today?” I was also worried about going
over the due date and having another big baby, as Adorable was one week overdue
and 9 lbs. 7 oz. I didn’t want another
baby that size! So I watched what I ate
very carefully, cutting out as much sugar and starch as I could. In the end eating mostly only meat and vegetables.
Then one Thursday early in the
morning around 3:00am I woke up with the same strong pain, but felt the
difference and thought, “Oh, I remember now” and knew I was in real labor. I walked some and got in a bath. Around 4am Kent called my midwife and told
her I was in labor. She arrived at our
home around 4:30ish and checked me, I was at a 3. I was very ready to have this baby as I had
gone about one and a half weeks over my original due date (Later I figured out that
according to my 20 week ultrasound was only 3 days over). I was motivated to do what was needed to help
baby arrive quickly. So I walked around
and bounced on a birth ball. We were a
little worried about the position of the baby, because my midwife was having
difficulty getting her heartbeat. We
were thinking baby’s back may be positioned against my back (which would give
me back labor). So I went to my hands
and knees in hopes of turning the baby before birth. My midwife also gave me some homeopaths two
times to help thin out my cervix. I was
moving around as much as I could to get this baby to come quickly. The birth pool was set up in our toy room, as
it seemed to me like a little cave where I would feel secure and have more
privacy. We decided to let the kids
sleep and not wake them up as it was so early in the morning.
As the pain got more intense my
midwife said I was scrunching my face. I
didn’t even realize, but she asked me what it was. I mentioned that my back was starting to
really hurt during the contractions. So
she got her kit that attached to my back in different places and sent electric
pulses of pleasure signals up my spine.
She said that pleasure signals travel faster to the brain than pain
signals, so if the spine is flooded with pleasure signals there is not room for
the pain ones. It was set up on my back
and set on low, when I squeezed Kent’s hand to signal a contraction he would
hit the button to make it go on high. It
was wonderful and helped so much! I was
on my knees leaning on the birth ball with that for a while.
Then I was ready to hop in the warm
water in the birth pool. I loved the
feel of the warmth surrounding me and the buoyancy of the water helping relieve
the pain of the contractions. I still
got in and out a number of times, knowing that moving around helps keep the
contractions coming and brings the baby sooner.
Around 7am, at their usual time,
the kids got up. Kent called his mom to
come and pick up the kids. I didn’t want
my kids to see me in labor, so when they came out and were getting ready to go
and load up in the car I went into my bedroom and shut the door. When the kids were gone I went back to the
comfort of the warm water.
At the end the pain got intense,
during transition, as it always does. I
remember saying I wanted an epidural, a C-section, something, anything to make
this all be over. Shortly after, my water broke, and a few
contractions later I was pushing out baby’s head. Once her head was out, out slid her body. She was born at 7:57am. She was so beautiful and tiny, and it was
wonderful to have her out. She was
handed straight to me, and we cuddled together in the water.
My midwife offered to give me two
shots, one to quickly contract my uterus and the other to keep it
contracted. She said this would help
with the bleeding and the after pains.
As the midwife assistant was rubbing alcohol on my arm prior to the
shot, our little baby scrunched up her nose at the smell. It was funny to see her reactions to the
smell. Thanks to the shots the after
pains were so much less than I experienced with Adorable. I had some Ibuprofen to take, but didn’t even
need to take it as often as I was told I could.
After a while I got out of the
birth pool and went to lay in my bed.
There, baby was ready to eat and latched on right away. I feed her and feed her, she was a hungry
baby and kept on eating for quite some time.
When she was finally done eating she was weighed in at 7lbs. 14 oz. Then I dressed her in her new outfit that was
waiting for her. She was such a beautiful
baby and I was so happy to have her finally here with us. I was tired and exhausted, but oh so happy!