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Power of Gentleness: Meditations on the Risk of Living 1st Edition, Kindle Edition
Gentleness is an enigma. Taken up in a double movement of welcoming and giving, it appears on the threshold of passages signed off by birth and death. Because it has its degrees of intensity, because it is a symbolic force, and because it has a transformative ability over things and beings, it is a power.
The simplicity of gentleness is misleading. It is an active passivity that may become an extraordinary force of symbolic resistance and, as such, become central to both ethics and politics. Gentleness is a force of secret life-giving transformation linked to what the ancients called potentiality.
In our day, gentleness is sold to us under its related form of diluted mawkishness. By infantilizing it our era denies it. This is how we try to overcome the high demands of its subtlety—no longer by fighting it, but by enfeebling it. Language itself is therefore perverted: what our society intends to give the human beings that it crushes “gently,” it does in the name of the highest values: happiness, truth, security.
From listening to those who come to me and confide their despair, I have heard it expressed in every lived experience. I have felt its force of resistance and its intangible magic. In mediating its relation to the world, it appears that its intelligence carries life, saves and amplifies it.
- ISBN-13978-0823279616
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- PublisherFordham University Press
- Publication dateMarch 6, 2018
- LanguageEnglish
- File size2.7 MB
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“With rigor and charm, Anne Dufourmantelle breaks in an emergent concept--crucial yet unclassifiable--that has been overlooked by the big guns of philosophical discourse. The notion of gentleness resets the hermeneutics of affect and ontology.“---Avital Ronell, New York University
“A profound philosopher and psychoanalyst.“ ― New York Times
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“With rigor and charm, Anne Dufourmantelle breaks in an emergent concept--crucial yet unclassifiable--that has been overlooked by the big guns of philosophical discourse. The notion of gentleness resets the hermeneutics of affect and ontology.“---Avital Ronell, New York University,
“Power of Gentleness achieves [the] incredible feat of being a gentle book. . . . . One of the most surprising points of the book is the argument that the true enemy of gentleness is . . . gentleness. Fake gentleness, mawkishness, this passivity sold to us via every new age commercial technique. . . . True gentleness contains an element of negativity, . . . and therein lies the crux of the problem: gentleness has its own dialectic. . . . Power of Gentleness is an important text that teaches us, comforts us, disturbs us too, that in any case touches us, always, at every moment. From this book that is so devoted to fragility, the reader emerges―and this is incontestable―that much stronger.“---Catherine Malabou, from the Foreword,
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Winner, French Voices Award for excellence in publication and translation.
“A profound philosopher and psychoanalyst”―New York Times
"With rigor and charm, Anne Dufourmantelle breaks in an emergent concept--crucial yet unclassifiable--that has been overlooked by the big guns of philosophical discourse. The notion of gentleness resets the hermeneutics of affect and ontology."―Avital Ronell, New York University
Key moments of our lives, especially at the beginning and end, are marked by gentleness―but the simplicity of that concept is misleading. Gentleness is an active passivity that may become an extraordinary force of resistance within ethics and politics. In this powerful rethinking by a renowned philosopher and psychoanalyst, gentleness becomes a series of embodied paradoxes: power that is also soft, nobility that is also humble, sweetness that is also intelligent, subtlety that is nevertheless striking, fragility that has the potential to subvert the status quo.
Across Western and Eastern religion, philosophy, literature, and art, gentleness is marked by the complexities and ambivalences characteristic of that which we experience through the senses. Yet today, we are most familiar with a gentleness sold to us in the diluted form of mawkishness. This is how we try to evade its subtlety―no longer by fighting it, but by enfeebling it. In the name of our highest values―happiness, truth, security―we enforce “gentle” safeguards against hurt, sealing ourselves off from the life-affirming gamble that a true gentleness affords.
True gentleness entails an ethic of desire. Against a society that crushes human beings “gently,” Dufourmantelle celebrates the uncompromising gentleness discovered by Gandhi and other revolutionaries. At the same time, within the despair confided by her patients, she traces the force of resistance and intangible magic that gentleness offers in the lived experience of ordinary women and men who fully embrace the risk of living.
Anne Dufourmantelle (1964–2017), philosopher and psychoanalyst, taught at the European Graduate School and wrote monthly columns for the Paris newspaper Liberation. Her books in English include Blind Date: Sex and Philosophy, and, with Jacques Derrida, Of Hospitality.
About the Author
Anne Dufourmantelle (1964–2017), philosopher and psychoanalyst, taught at the European Graduate School and wrote monthly columns for the Paris newspaper Libération. Her books in English include In Praise of Risk; Power of Gentleness; Blind Date; and, with Jacques Derrida, Of Hospitality.
Vincent Sallé teaches at the City University of New York.
Catherine Malabou, holder of Visiting Chairs in numerous North American universities, teaches philosophy at the CRMEP (Center for Research in Modern European Philosophy) at Kingston University (UK). The most recent of her books are, Changing Difference: The Feminine in Philosophy, and, with Judith Butler, You Will Be My Body for Me.
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- ASIN : B07BBSQPDN
- Publisher : Fordham University Press
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- Publication date : March 6, 2018
- Edition : 1st
- Language : English
- File size : 2.7 MB
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- ISBN-13 : 978-0823279616
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 15, 2020Format: KindleVerified PurchaseIn such an ironical blind assault on her life, surreal. It was a chance to remain in a suspended state of gentleness, perhaps within the eternal spectrum of cognition, conspiracy, for who sees this, who hears "gentleness? when it occurs, why is negativity so important?
The reigning symbolic order will extol what is gentleness,although we have no "hymns"no immune spheres of the womb to its substances in the current viral crisis of the globe.
You can now purchase "gentleness" on the street corners of the globe.
We are delivered from evil, because evil remains the authority of how things work, all around us; the meek did not inherit the earth, instead the meek are now mortgaged to it the debt of eternity..... an integral part of the system, for how many dead are required before the neo-liberal order acts, spends itself....? if you read Machiavelli.
Have we lost our capacity for compassion, real empathy, for today, scam and fakery markets itself, competes with what Alain Badiou refers to as Truth.
"Gentleness" is never emblazoned on a sleeve, Dufourmantelle tells us. Her work here is in written fragments,shards and splinters of time,musical miniatures of reason, and an ultimate assemblage of destiny of the spirit.It is a lattice on the experiences of power"puissance". Sold to us a stimulus check in pandemic, one payment for one life, one payment, for one time, a year or more.
She reads, Hegel, and we find his romantic "negativity" yet the plasticity resides someplace within the crevices of his work, I suppose to be operative within her work.
The impending danger is what is subtracted away from the human condition, what is hidden, shrouded-shredded mysteries, the opaque all the time, and will always remain hidden from the sufferings, the degradations within the favelas of the globe: in Mumbai,in Cape Town, in Mexico City, Nairobi and Karachi.
Dufourmantelle died while saving two children from drowning, on July 21, 2017, Pampelonne Beach, Ramatuelle, near St. Tropez. The otherness of self if given, slaughtered, the knife of Abraham was not held back this time by the Angel, not here. It was incomplete an event we will always remember, for did she complete her life?, or was there work to do.
Gentleness, she makes a veritable treatise of the the subject, interpolating the poetic, the literary narrative at times, and one can't help finding it within the corridors of art, as filmmaker Andrei Tarkovski his " durational-drones", the Un-Edited" shot, the unending seemingly frames,as the opening of his "The Sacrifice" or the light,(lumiere) within the geometric precisions in Mondrian, the "gentleness" of colour and formno atonality here, or the music, the "diamond-cuttings" of atonal composer Anton Webern, his "Six Pieces for Large Orchestra", the one that begins, one movement with a large bass drum roll, barely audible as it begins.
Beckett's generic word concoctions, his enigmatic base also falls within some realm of Dufourmantelle's "gentle regime"s of thought, of reflection. Although in Beckett there is a largesse of cognitive weight in the suggestions, the tropes, the phrases and moments of his crafted pellucid words as in "Endgame", situated in one place a stasis.
The work here is much more than this, in that it engages each and every one of us, to act, to decide, to make judgements when we engage a gentleness away from the large metaphysical systems all who have shunned yet embraced wholehearted as time progresses, or as time stops.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 16, 2023Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseThis is a woman philosopher's perspective and quite refreshing !!!
- Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2020Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseThe words in the book are dense, but they uncompact nicely in the mind.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2025Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseYuck. Not what I expected. Stream of consciousness.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2018Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseAmazing insight and nuanced understanding of risk and gentleness in a world that appears to understand neither.

































