June 30th, 2015
Current Location: Clifton Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (work)
Current Mood:  chipper
So, I love this...
The cop's totally my type, too....
June 19th, 2015
I had an event for my students last night. I wasn't initially scheduled to attend this event -- my previous supervisor that got laid off or fired or whatever was supposed to attend. Since he's gone now, I volunteered to attend as the program representative and I had a really nice time, even though I got home rather late.
This morning I came into work and my colleague said, "Our former boss texted me asking how many students attended last night's event."
That made me feel extremely uncomfortable. He doesn't work at the school anymore. What's it to him how many students attended the event? I just think it's creepy that he's trying to find out what's going on at the school by sending text messages to my colleague. It's like, "Sir, can you just, like, move on with your life? The school decided they don't like you so they terminated your ass. Forget about us, leave us alone, and let us do our jobs. We're doing okay without you in the office."
June 6th, 2015
Current Location: Lavista Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  optimistic
My direct supervisor, who was the Associate Dean of the program I currently work for at the university I currently work at, got laid off this past Wednesday. At least I'm supposed to believe he was laid off. I think he was fired because no one at the school liked him, including me, mainly because he was a busybody. Like, the man, somehow, always found his way into getting involved in anything and everything, even if it didn't involve him or have anything to do with him. A total micromanager who needed/wanted to know everything I was doing and evesdropped on other peoples' conversations. Towards the end, I think he was becoming paranoid because his micromanagement and evesdropping became even worse. He must've had a premonition that he was going to be losing his job soon.
The weird thing is, I, too, had a premonition that morning he got laid off/fired. Something just didn't feel right when I walked into my office that morning. I couldn't concentrate on my work and I was constantly distracted by this bad feeling that something terrible or something huge or just something was going to happen. And, that something did happen at around 3pm this past Wednesday when I was suddenly called up to the Dean's Suite. That's when I was introduced to the new Senior Associate Dean and told, "Effective immediately, you'll be reporting to him. Your previous supervisor is no longer employed with the school."
My new direct supervisor is a data & results guy. He doesn't care how the work gets done, so long as the work gets done, and I'm able to provide data/results that it's done. I actually like that kind of workstyle, mainly because I'm one that HATES giving progress reports whenever I'm assigned a task/project. I like to be told, "Here. Do this," and I'm allowed to run with it and all I need to do is the final presentation. I have high hopes that I'll like this new Senior Associate Dean. And, the thing is... he's kinda hot...!
April 11th, 2015
5 AM @ 10:25 pm
Current Location: Lavista Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  groggy
I cannot remember the last time I stayed out until 5 AM, but I did last night. Definitely had a lot of fun. There was something oddly humbling about going to bed as the sun was rising!
March 2nd, 2015
Current Location: Lavista Rd NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  bitchy
Current Music: London Calling - The Clash
I'm supposed to be in London, England right now with a group of my students on a one-week study tour, but the faculty member leading the study tour dropped me from the trip -- even though the students wanted me to go on the trip with them -- because the faculty member leading the trip doesn't like me. Why this particular faculty member doesn't like me is a mystery. I really don't care for him, anyway, especially now that I know that he doesn't like me, so I couldn't care less that he doesn't like me, but am a bit bitter that I was dropped from going on this trip. Mainly because London is one of my favorite cities to visit and I would've totally added on a few extra days' stay after "chaperoning" my students on their study tour and visited steveuk during my stay there.
But maybe this was a blessing in disguise? Meaning, if the man doesn't like me, then he probably would've made the trip a hellish one for me while we were there in London.
However, still, I hear London Calling.
February 15th, 2015
Current Location: Lavista Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  sad
My body is trying to catch a cold but it won't. I know this sounds weird, but my sinuses are sort of conjested and I sort of have a cough, but my sinuses aren't fully conjested and I don't have a full cough. It's annoying, because I'm not feeling 100%. I've been, like, running on 78% of my usual energy level for the past five days but running on 78% really isn't stay-at-home-and-lie-in-bed percentage so it's been annoying. I'd rather fully catch a cold, to be honest, so I'd have a good reason to stay in bed and take some days off from work.
Anyway..... my mom's best friend passed away the other day. The really sad thing is that my mom's best friend's family refused to have a funeral or any kind of memorial service, which made my mom even more upset than she already is. The step sister woman, to be specific, said she didn't want to waste her time and money on a funeral or memorial service of any kind and just sent the body to the crematorium. I get that there's this whole she's-my-step-sister-and-not-my-real-sister thing and that may have led to the step sister deciding to I'll-just-send-my-step-sister's-corpse-to-the-crematorium-so-I-don't-have-to-spend-my-money-on-a-funeral, but my mom and I both feel that it's just real bitchy and selfish for the step sister woman to not even have any kind of memorial service. My mom, however, is making arrangements to have her own memorial service for her best friend. She feels that'll give her a sense of closure and I hope it will because they truly were best friends since high school. That's a 50+ year friendship right there.
May you rest in peace, ゆめちゃん. Thanks for being my mom's best friend.
January 3rd, 2015
Current Location: Lavista Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  confused
So, this makes no sense to me and, frankly, makes me angry.
I don't consider myself a religious individual but my family does practice Shintoism and I do, to a certain extent, honor the traditions and believe in the teachings of Shinto. Granted, Shintoism is kind of an easy-to-follow religion. As far as I'm aware, there are no dietary restrictions and much of the teachings are based on, "Respect your elders, treat Mother Nature well, and be kind to others."
I don't like it when religion starts going into, "My religion is better than yours," and when religion has segregation policies and/or doctrines that say one person is better than another. Isn't religion, at the end of the day, supposed to teach others to be good to one another, respect each other, and become better people for each other......?
December 31st, 2014
Current Location: Lavista Rd NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  aggravated
I think it's 2015 already on the other side of the world. We've still got about 10 hours left of 2014 here on the East Coast of the United States.
Tom and I have basically ended planless for New Year's Eve, which is, frankly, very depressing. We were invited to a New Year's Eve party in the most peculiar way, which has left me in a foul mood. We were told, "We'll try and make room for you so you can come to our party." I was like, "Make room for us? What, are we being accomodated unwillingly? What kind of a shitty way is that to invite someone to your house party?"
It's been, what? 18 months since Tom and I have moved to Atlanta and we're failing to meet any decent people. Like, genuinely nice people we can confidently call our friends, and I don't know what that's about. People tell me that the South is very cliquey and people tend to just stick to their small groups of friends and they don't like letting anyone new into their cliques and don't like meeting new people. I'm beginning to think that's true. And, I don't know if this is just my paranoia, but I'm also wondering if the fact that Tom and I are an interracial couple with an age difference is a factor to us not finding anyone out there that seem to like us. Like, one of the things that was pointed out to me recently is that friendship circles here in the South are Black and White. "The Blacks have a Black circle of friends, the Whites have a White circle of friends. If you're not Black or White here in the South, then you're sort of left and it can be hard to fit in."
I guess I've been spoiled living in New York City and Los Angeles. I had various groups of friends that I "belonged" to and the various groups had various races, religions, and sexualities all mixed in together, which is what made my friendships all eccentric, unique, and fun.
Anyway, the point of this entry is: embrace differences. Differences is what makes us unique. Isn't it boring if all your friends were just like you? And have a Happy New Year.
December 19th, 2014
Current Location: Clifton Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (work)
Current Mood:  frustrated
Workplace drama exists in almost any office that exists in this world but I, somehow, always seem to get stuck in the middle of workplace drama. I can be in New York, Los Angeles, Atlanta -- it doesn't matter. Someone in the office will hate someone and I'll get pulled into all the nonsense.
I generally get along with people. The people I don't get along with are people that are bullies, people that constantly talk about what they used to be (i.e., "I used to have money, I used to live in a big house, I used to own a fancy car... but I don't anymore"), and people that purposely set me up for failure and/or embarrass me in public for their own enjoyment and/or entertainment.
An office group lunch invite was sent out and I responded that I'd like to attend. A whole group of us are going but one colleague declined. She pulled me into her office asking, "Are you going to lunch with everyone?" and I was like, "Yeah. It'll be fun," and she responded with a, "Well, I don't like the people that are going to this group lunch so I'm not going. I only eat lunch with people I like." In my mind, I'm thinking, "Okay... and this affects me how? You can choose your friends, I'll choose mine. Just because I get along with everyone in the office and you don't, that shouldn't hinder me from going out to lunch with everyone."
What's ended up happening is that the entire office is now, basically, going out to lunch in about an hour and said colleague is the only one that's declined the invite. She, then, pulled me into her office saying, "I don't want you talking behind my back and telling the people you're going out to lunch with that I don't like them," and my response was, and this is word for word, "That's stupid," and I walked out of her office.
Honestly. We're, like, in our 30s and 40s and this is the kind of high school stupidity I have to deal with in my office. And, does said colleague really think that we're going to be talking about her while we're out to lunch? Paranoid much?
November 16th, 2014
Current Location: Lavista Rd. NE, Atlanta, GA (home)
Current Mood:  curious
Ran some errands and came across what appears to be a fairly new walking trail developed in my neighborhood. I explored...... Saying that this trail was tranquil would be a lie, mainly because the majority of it is underneath the expressway overpass, as you can see from the pictures above. But, it's a pleasant trail surrounded by trees that follows a trickling creek with little bridged paths underneath all the Atlanta highway traffic flying by above. I like. I think it's become a favorite spot in my neighborhood.
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