Testimonials from Those Distressed by Transition

Personal stories from individuals who have faced challenges with their transition and sought a different path.

“When I realized I’d spent the better part of a decade co-creating an elaborate self-escape plan under the guise of its opposite, I felt both determined to become fully informed and lonely in my pursuit. The resources for trans identified people abound, but a quick google yields scant pickings for detransitioners, and cancellation awaits many who seek to engage in open thoughtful dialogue about the topic. Having been affected by ideology to the point of medicalizing several times over, I reached out to the team to get more information on the subsidized therapy resource and am delighted I did; I worked with the best therapist I’ve ever had, at a significantly lowered cost, and it made a world of difference as I made space for the indoctrination to fall away and continued engaging with ideologically captured medical practitioners per necessity. I continue to benefit from the online support group and find the community invaluable. Stella approaches all she does with levity, compassion and an eye toward connection and it’s clear she works with others who do the same. Thank you to everyone associated with Beyond Trans–what a gift it’s been to find my footing among such warm folks.”

Calen

“In Stella's support group, I began to feel less alone and even more accepting of myself exactly where I'm at. You can't beat that, really, detransitioner or not.”

Gina

“The service helped me feel even more confident in my choice to detransition, and the lack of stigma (which is everywhere outside of communities such as this) towards my choice has enabled me to flourish.”

Jason, Beyond Trans Member

“Yes I am willing to share. Beyond Trans has been somewhere I have experienced not being so alone on this long journey out of the trans-delusion “

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Kellie-Lynn Pirie

“Beyond Trans has shown me that there is a space to exist beyond being trans, that my personality is so much more interesting than what my sex presentation is, and that I am a member of my sex regardless of my choices. It has been helpful to find a non-judgemental service that is content on holding space for ambiguity and meeting people where they are at, while also challenging folks to find a deeper sense of self. It has also been helpful that this service vets resources to prevent the further traumatization of people by those who want to solely profit from this cause. I am grateful for the hard work that Beyond Trans commits to.”

Kerry

Family Testimonials

Stories from families supporting a gender-questioning loved one

“These meetings have rapidly become a highlight of my week and I’ve found them full of useful information. Simply the chance to share and talk with a group of people who feel exactly like I do is such a relief. The facilitator is wonderful and I value the insights offered at these meetings so much.”

Parent

“The session last week was so helpful …. it is undeniably reassuring to know that we are united in our concerns when there feels such strong pressure from a range of sources. “

Parent

“A life saver, not felt this peace for a while.”

Parent

“I felt so alone before finding this group. It has been such a struggle because never in a million years would I have guessed that my daughter would identify as anything other than a girl. It came as a complete shock. I did not even realize that this was going on with so many girls. When we first visited a psychologist, I was not prepared for their response at all either. It has been very jarring. It helps immensely to know that others are going through the same thing with similar views to mine. This group is a great source of support. “

Parent

“It's been an enormous comfort for me to be able to share my grief with other parents, where we understand each others' sharp distress around our children's choices – choices I didn't even know were out there a year ago. A sympathetic therapist in a kind of "shepherding" role in my group makes me feel safer in one of the hardest times of my life (it feels similar to when my father died) and gives me the extra perspective I need to hold my little family together for the long run.”

Parent

“You are an angel for this life line!”

Parent

Therapist Testimonials

Reflections from therapists working in gender-related care.

“I am finding working with de-transitioners and desisters to be a breath of fresh air. No need to tiptoe around gender issues. In my experience, this population is very engaged in the therapeutic process.”

Psychotherapist from Canada

“Providing therapy to people who have been harmed by medical transition is certainly complex and yet it is also satisfying work.”

UK therapist

“When I first started this work I was daunted by the level of distress. However, I’m glad I stuck with it as detransitioners need help and support. “

LCSW from Arizona

“Thank you so much for the opportunity to work with this client. While her experience has been harrowing, it has also been the most rewarding work I have done to date.”

Jason, UK therapist

“As a licensed psychotherapist, it’s an honor to work with Beyond Trans helping facilitate their support groups. Beyond Trans fills a vital gap in today’s clinical landscape by offering thoughtful, compassionate support to people whose voices are too often ignored. I’m proud to contribute to a team committed to integrity, depth, and genuine human connection.”

Evelyn Ball, LMFT

Share Your Story

Your experience matters. Whether you’re an individual, a parent, or a professional, we’d love to hear how Beyond Trans has supported you. Your words could help someone else feel less alone.