When was the last time you said “I Love You” to someone? To be frank, I can’t recall having said that to anyone before.
What is the power of “I Love You”? Actually it depends. For example: to say it in English and Indonesians will give a totally different connotation. I think it’s the culture.
As for me, to actually say “I Love You” in English will be quite easy as it does not necessarily mean romantic relationship. I dare to say “I Love You” to friends, even male friends. In Indonesian, “I Love You” can be translated differently. “Love” in Indonesian can be “Cinta” or “Kasih”. “Cinta” usually denotes romantic love, while “Kasih” sometime use when expressing love in a non romantic relationship.
Language can be fun sometime but it can also bring difficulty or misunderstanding. The blunders can be funny but it can also be fatal.
To me, what count is the motivation behind what we are saying. When I say “I Love You”, I do really mean it, even when to friends.
The next time you say “I Love You”, remember to whom you are saying it to and please do remember not to waste the phrase into just another forgettable expressions.
Friends, I Love You!