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When was the last time you said “I Love You” to someone? To be frank, I can’t recall having said that to anyone before.

What is the power of “I Love You”? Actually it depends. For example: to say it in English and Indonesians will give a totally different connotation. I think it’s the culture.

As for me, to actually say “I Love You” in English will be quite easy as it does not necessarily mean romantic relationship. I dare to say “I Love You” to friends, even male friends. In Indonesian, “I Love You” can be translated differently. “Love” in Indonesian can be “Cinta” or “Kasih”. “Cinta” usually denotes romantic love, while “Kasih” sometime use when expressing love in a non romantic relationship.

Language can be fun sometime but it can also bring difficulty or misunderstanding. The blunders can be funny but it can also be fatal.

To me, what count is the motivation behind what we are saying. When I say “I Love You”, I do really mean it, even when to friends.

The next time you say “I Love You”, remember to whom you are saying it to and please do remember not to waste the phrase into just another forgettable expressions.

Friends, I Love You!

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When a song catches my attention, I am usually left speechless. In moment like these, I can’t help but stand in awe with what beauty can do to a person.

I always hope that I can make or produce such fine work of art (especially songs), but then I have to be realistic that somehow it is beyond my ability. I am only an admirer but seldom a creator of beauty. Beauty usually make my heart yearns for the finest but usually unreachable in life (at least for me).

I have spent some time reflecting this and perhaps there is a purpose in all these.

As a man of faith, I usually relate this to my faith experience. I want to relate my experience standing face to face with beauty with my relation to God. God’s faithfulness to us is something beyond our comprehension. We are usually left speechless at how God is faithful to us despite our misdeeds, again and again. In front of God, I am made “useless”, weak and small. Not that I am beyond salvation, but God’s greatness surpasses me. It is only in weakness and uselessness that I am made aware of my dependence on God. I can only stand in awe of God’s greatness for I can never produce such greatness, not even a fraction of that amount.

And so, be still my heart, my weakness is a mirror of God’s greatness.

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It’s amazing how technology has shaped the world today. This morning, I spent almost an hour receiving updates on my sister’s engagement ceremony through the internet. Here I am, hundreds of mile away sharing the joy of my family back home.

It cannot be denied that technology has helped human in their daily life. The quality of life has become higher. The advances in technology have helped many fields like medicine, transportation and communication in offering better services to human. What we are enjoying today better car, computers, handphones, internet and houses are results of technology. Take for example the internet and communication. These two fields have made the world “smaller”. Contact and news can be made in counts of seconds.

But despite all the good things that technology offers, we can’t deny the dark side of technology. These are very obvious, especially in wars. Moreover, there are still things that technology can’t solve like AIDS.

We accept that technology made the world “smaller”, brought people closer. But, technology also causes great distances between people. Personal contact somehow affected by the advances especially in mass communication. People seem more absorbed in their handphones and online chatting services than spending moment together like the old days.

In the end, it all depends on us on how to make use of technology. To me, technology is very neutral. It is we, human, who gives values to technology. Good or bad, it is us who decide.

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The mind is a very powerful faculty of human. Even the most advance computer may not be able to achieve half the capability of the mind.

Although we can see a person sitting in front of us, no one can be very sure where his/her mind is.

What is inside our mind? May be we can ask a mind reader. Hmm … did I say mind reader? Wishful thinking.

I don’t think anyone can read mind no matter how convincing one demonstration of mind reading is. The mind is the source of some of our undoing. It starts from one thought and then develops into another. Soon, many thoughts entangled into one lump of complex thought and then only God knows what can happen next.

As I am writing this, my mind is also somewhere, a place where my heart is. It’s kind of sad that I will not be able to be at that place at the moment. But, I guess, maybe some good words may heal my absence.

Like a bird flying, fly up high my mind. Fly to where my heart is, and just pray that it will heal the longing and sadness.

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Why ask about truth? Does truth matters?

I am tempted to say it doesn’t matter. All that is needed is whether we get to job done or not. To paraphrase Nietzsche, “The truth may be good, but why not sometimes take untruth if it gets you where you want to go?” And also, if it doesn’t cause harm, why not?

I think that is more concrete and practical. I think many people will turn more toward practicality. To many (I may be wrong here) truth is more about values and virtues. Nowadays, not so many people talk seriously about value and virtues anymore. To them, value and virtues is what bring towards the end, as long as the means doesn’t cause harm.

So, does truth matters? Well, perhaps, perhaps, perhaps …

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In Philosophy and the Mirror of Nature, Richard Rorty’s principal target is the philosophical idea of knowledge as representation, as a mental mirroring of a mind-external world. Rorty suggests that “we see knowledge as a matter of conversation and of social practice, rather than as an attempt to mirror nature.”

This implies that in the end, truth is what we agree upon. Simply said, if it is practical, then it is true. So, what we get is not the whole truth or it is not the truly true.

Actually, I still want to differentiate between truth and what is true. Is truth the same as what is true? Or is it just a matter of language. A while ago I was thinking about this same question. And I actually gave an answer. My answer sound like this: maybe I can’t tell you what is truth, but I am sure of what is true. I repeated this answer for some time and the more I gave it a thought, the more it made me bewildered.

If Rorty was right, then what we see may not the real thing. Imagine seeing your parent and asking is that really them. You do that to everything you see and I assure you that this world will be a living hell for you.

Hmm … now, remember the Disney classic Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs? In the cartoon, the stepmother asked, “Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?” Remember what was the initial answer? It was Snow White. After the mirror was “terrorized”, the mirror changed the answer. Even mirror can change answer. What more the human mind and languages.

Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all? You, my prince …  :-))


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That is the well known verse from Pontius Pilate asking Jesus. I suppose the question also applies to us all today.

What is truth anyway? Is it worth fighting for? I always remember my novice master telling, “There is a universal and absolute truth. Whether you believe it or not, fire will burn your fingers.”

Truth is such a topic which has fascinated a lot of intellectuals down the ages. And the question will continue to be asked till the end of time. No one can give a definite definition of truth.

If that the case, can truth be attained? Well, I suppose it will all depend on your stand. Some people will say the same thing but will have different understanding of what they are saying.

Take for example: There is no absolute truth, truth is always an approximation. The statement can be said in a different way: An absolute truth can be questioned, but we still need something to hold on to for the moment. To me, these two statements actually speak of the same thing but it can bring two philosophers together and we can watch a very lively debate.

Well, what is truth? You tell me.

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Memory is our very precious possession. Just imagine when suddenly the one you really love or those who are very close to you suddenly lost their memory and can never remember anything.


That’s about lost of memory. How about something not so serious first, forgetting. To forget is very human. But if it happens often, I suppose it is good to start to go to the doctor.


One of a person greatest fear is to be forgotten by those around him. To be forgotten is something like a denial of a person existence and this is real hell for those who experience it.


But, at a time when we are in dismay or sadness wondering or asking why we are forgotten, we can be rest assured there are someone out there who remembers.


Lovers forget, friends forget, but God never forgets. This, my friends, is true!

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I remember listening to “Amigos para siempre” in the early morning many years ago. It was the closing of the Barcelona Olympics. I didn’t finish listening to the song as I had to depart for school. I was still in secondary school then.


Friend for life … is there anything that will last forever? Even friendship? I’d like to think it that way. There are thing which is very easy to take care of even if it is forever. But for things like friends and love, I would consider this to be in the vulnerable category. Why?


Friendship and love are forms of relationship. Relationship is at the level of feeling and feeling is one fragile “thing”. Even the slightest unintentional comment may ruin a relationship forever. I have my fair share of experience on this.

I am in a state of life where love life is not one of the considerations. At best it is friendship that I am building. As I said many time in my various writings in this blog, I cherish friends especially my dear friend. I don’t ask anything in return, whether my dear friend would feel consider me as a close friend or not. The basic point is, the initiative is from me.


Amigos para siempre means you’ll always be my friend … and I hold it true my dear friend that I’ll build and make this friendship last forever.

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How many of us would readily be more than happy to repeat our life all over again just change a specific moment in our life? Perhaps a very large majority will.


Many people will say that they have done a lot of mistakes in their life and wish that they can do something to amend that. But if it happened in the past, what are the chances for those mistakes be amended?


There are things which can be changed and those which can’t be changed. If it can be changed, than perhaps we should think again whether changes will bring any good. As for those that can’t be changed, then we have to live with it for the rest of our life.


We tend to look at something bad we did in the past as mistakes. But is it so? How if there is no such thing as a mistake? Wouldn’t that be very good? What are mistakes anyway? I am trying to look beyond the usual meaning of the word “mistake”.


Perhaps, we should just try to move on in our life and forget those bad things that we did. If we can do this, may be our eyes will be opened to the thousands of beautiful moment ahead of us instead of crying over bad things that can’t be changed. Mistakes may not nescessarily mean bad thing that we have done. It could be some good deeds, but when we really look at it again, we will realise that we should have not done anything like that at all.


Now, how on earth should we decide what to do and what not to do? Is talking about this a mistake from the beginning? Well, you decide. As for me, there is no mistake in trying to live.

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