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  • 6. BE THE LIGHT. HELPING OUT IS A CALLING.

    NOT OFTEN PEOPLE WHO NEED A BREAK CAN GET A BREAK, BUT THEIR STORIES OF DEALING WITH STRUGGLE AND BEING UNSUPPORTED, HELP IDENTIFY HOW WE CAN HELP EACH OTHER.

    BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP, STAYING IN MY OWN LANE OF LIFE, BUT BEING IN SUPPORT OF IT, WHILE BRINGING DIFFERENT THINGS TO WHAT WE LACK. WE HEAL WITH REAL TALK. RECOGNIZE YOUR NEEDS. NO ASSUMPTIONS. DON’T BRING WRONG INTO EXISTENCE. BE OF LOVE, BE THE LIGHT. BRING PEACE WITH YOU WHEN YOU COME AND LEAVE FILLED WITH IT WHEN YOU GO.

    ANIMALS GET IT, DO THEY OR DON’T THEY HAVE A PROBLEM LIKE LEVELING UP. WE’RE SUPPOSED TO BE THE MOST INTELLEGENT SPECIES, BUT WE OVER THINK IT. WE DON’T WANT TO FAIL. THIS IS SOMETHING THAT HAS BEEN PASSED ON, ONE TO ANOTHER, YOU’LL NEED PERSONAL BEST TO RECIEVE IT. LET’S MOTIVATE EACH OTHER.

    @INFINITE WATERS YOU TUBE

    BRIEF WRITINGS FROM INFINITE WATERS.

  • 5. THE ACES ARE OURS. WHO WE ARE, IS NOT WHO WE USED TO BE.

    WE ARE ALWAYS PRESENTING OURSELVES; WE’VE FORGOTTEN WHO WE USED TO BE AND WHAT WE SHOULD BE DOING. IF WE PRETEND TO BE WHAT WE ARE NOT WE GET SIDETRACKED, WITH THE ISSUES WE ARE HAVING, WE HAVE TO TELL THE FAKE FROM THE REAL AND LET GO OF PRETENTIOUS BEHAVOIRS. WE DON’T COME BY IT EASILY, THOUGH FACING OUR FLATTERERS.

    THERES NO PROBLEM. THE FAMILY IN OUR LIVES AND FRIENDSHIPS WE HAVE MOVE AROUND. THOSE WHO REALLY CARE MAY PUT UP A FIT, AND THERE MAYBE RESENTMENT, BUT THEN CAME COPING SKILLS FOR OUR INSECURITIES WITH EACH OTHER. WE LEARNED THAT HAVING LOVE FOR OURSELVES SOLVES PROBLEMS. JUST KNOWING THAT IT’S NOT OKAY TO SAY THOSE RUDE THINGS WE THINK BECAUSE THAT WILL PUTUS OUT OF OUR PLACES.

    THE FEELINGS INSIDE US MAKES US NOT TRUST OURSELVES, WHICH IS THE TRUTH SOMETIMES, REALIZING WE DON’T WANT TO LOSE FRIENDS, BUT WE WILL NOT MAKE FRIENDS IF WE DON’T TRUST THE PROCESS. THERE’S INTUITION IN PLACE FOR MOST MATTERS OF THE HEART AND MIND, WE HAVE TO HAVE HOPE AND A LOT OF LUCK. NOW THAT WE ARE LEARNING TO TRUST OTHERS, AND OURSELVES, WE DON’T RELY ON ALWAYS GETTING VALIDATION FROM EVERYONE. ALL OF US DESERVES THE BEST IN RELATIONSHIPS. NOTHING IS BETTER THAN LOVING WHO YOU ARE THROUGH IT ALL.

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  • 4. Behavior, “who have “we” become”?

    WHO HAVE WE BECOME, WE KNOW BETTER THAN WE DID, THAT’S ALWAYS A PLUS. WHEN IT COMES TO FRIENDS, TRY NOT TO DEPEND ON JUST THEM, OR JUST KEEP QUIET OR WHAT WORKS, CONSIDERED THAT .

    GOOD AT MAKING OUR MINDS UP, BUT WE THROW IDEAS BACK AND FORTH LIKE, WE, NOT SURE, AND DON’T ACCEPT THOUGHTS LIKE WE SHOULD. I KNOW WHAT’S SELFISH, TO CONCLUDE THE BEST ALWAYS, WITH NO PUSHBACK.

    ALWAYS TRYING NOT TO LOSE THAT FRIENDSHIP OR LOVESHIP. NOT WANTING TO HURT. SOMETIMES WE CAN’T SEE WHAT’S IN FRONT, AND SOMETIMES WE CAN. HOW SUPERFICIAL? AS FRIENDS, THINK , DON’T KNOW, THAT’S OKAY TOO. DON’T LET SOMEONE MAKE YOU AND THEM FEEL BAD ABOUT HOW YA’LL THINK OR FEEL.

    WHAT HAPPENED WAS LESSONS, WE LEARNED ABOUT THE LIFE CHOICES BEING MADE. WE NEEDED TO MAKE MAJOR DECISIONS AND HAVE SOME RESPONSIBILITIES IN LIFE WORKING FOR US. LISTEN TO THAT PEANUT GALLERY, AND MAKE PEOPLE AWARE THAT THE WORLD DOESN’T JUST REVOLVE AROUND THEM.

    WITH EACH COMING DECADE, WE LEARNED MANY PERSPECTIVES ABOUT SELF, BUT WE DON’T FACE IT WHEN IT’S ALWAYS BEING PRESENTED TO US. ONLY BECAUSE WE WANTED TO BE SO MUCH MORE. NO BONES ABOUT IT, THAT I CARED. THANK YOU, CREATOR, FOR BEING CONSISTANT. I AM THANKFUL, AS WE ARE THANKFUL, FOR MANY YEARS, IN RECENT YEARS I CAN SAY, IT’S ACTUALLY OKAY, PEOPLE WANT TO BE MORE, AS LONG AS THERE ARE PRIORITIES AND WORKING ATTITUDES, PEOPLE ACCEPT WHEN IT’S EASILY EXPRESSED, DON’T AVOID THE WINNING MOMENTS, AND A LITTLE OF THE SPOILS.

    WE DO EVERYTHING FOR SUCCESS, WE THINK ABOUT THINGS WE KNOW LITTLE ABOUT. NO EXCUSES, NO COMMON SENSE. AT THIS POINT, TRYING TOO HARD. FINALLY, SELF AWARENESS WOULD ARRIVE, BUT THAT’S ANOTHER STORY. OUR HEARTS FILLED WITH SELFISH AMBITION, IT WAS HURTFUL, BUT IT HEALS, IT WAS MADDENING BEING INFLUENCED BY TWO FACED EMOTIONS. WE ALL HAVE OUR SHADOWS, BUT SOONER OR LATER WE FACE THEM, TRYING TO KEEP OUR DEMONS FROM THEIR OWN DEVICES. AND NUTURE THE AMBITIONS.

    ANOTHER YEAR SAYS, HEY YOU SURVIVED, NOW WHAT? I SAY, NOW I HAVE TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE SURVIVE. THIS IS THE WHOLE POINT OF OUR CULTIVATING OUR ENERGY. THE SMART IN YOU, LETS YOU HEAR YOUR INNER VOICE SAYING; GET BACK FROM THAT LEDGE BEFORE YOU GET TOO CLOSE. THERE ARE STILL DAYS WHEN WE WANT TO LIVE OUT OUR PLANS, AND WE NEED THIS VOICE SO WE BECOME A BETTER PERSON.

    IT’S GOOD IF YOU MEET SOMEONE, THAT MAY BE YOUR LIFE LONG FRIEND, BE HONEST WITH THEM, AND TRUE TO YOURSELF, YOU LEARN ABOUT LIFE WITH EACH OTHER AND SO YOU RISE IN LOVE. IF YOU LIVE WELL, MAKE LIFELONG FRIENDS, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AND MYSTERIOUS, AND YOU CELEBRATE NOT JUST TOLERATE THE YEARS AHEAD. THIS MYSTICAL TREK ALLOWS FOR MISTAKES AND DO OVERS, IT ADDS AN EDGE, I THINK IT KEEPS US LOVING OUR LIFE, AND THE PEOPLE IN IT, YES.

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    REMEMBER THESE THINGS WHILE JOURNEY BOUND.

    IT’S HARD TO MOVE ON UNTIL YOU ACCCEPT THESE THINGS

    1. YOU WILL NOT RECIEVE CLOSURE IN EVERY SITUATION, BUT YOU CAN CREATE IT FOR YOURSELF.
    2. MOST OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO IS ABOUT THEM, NOT YOU.
    3. SOME THINGS CANNOT BE EXPLAINED.
    4. SOME PEOPLE WON’T APOLOGIZE, BECAUSE THEY CAN’T, (OR THEY WOULD).
    5. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE OTHERS, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU THINK THEY NEED CHANGE. PEOPLE CHANGE THEMSELVES. @NEDRATAWWAB

  • 3. Listening hard, say what?

    We don’t always have something to say, It lets us learn to listen better. Communication brings us closer to each other, even if it can’t be said, show us.

    I have time. My mind and my heart are busy loving the life that I want to share. It’s a battle for our hearts and mind all the time. We shall not be swayed to be one way or the other. People need time to just chill, and that’s okay. They’ll talk eventually, let them. They don’t always need an answer to their conversation. My fears are in hindsight now passing thoughts, we can’t face our fears we have to outsmart them.

    I need to not be the lone beast. Looks like I have another job, it’s to make me a happy camper by way of being fruitful. I am about like-minded people who like to celebrate each other. The rules are to have and give respect, listen well and hold dear those who hold you dear.

    My people aren’t so forgiving, but their creative, and full of spirit. Our hearts are what frees us to be who we are, it means that the ego that has you producing the position of not within rights and possession, keeps you from the heart and corrupts the message of love. With a kind spirit and gentle nature, be warriors, keep your distance from enemies. Find those who give respect.

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