Even Longer Locking

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So recently we’ve recently really ramped things up with chastity. Last post showed I had been locked approx. 57% of the time and this has dramatically increased. At the start of the year Lady C stated that she was going to lock me for 70% of the year (2021).

She got off to a slow start and was a bit lazy and couldn’t be bothered to cage me and it was around 14 Jan before the cage went on. Since then I’ve been locked almost permanently, the exceptions being a 5 day business trip and a couple of hospital appointments for a few hours each.

But she has still found time to award me some “treats”. Out long enough for an orgasm and a shower, then as soon as I’m dry the cage goes back on and the security screw tightened. She is definitely gotten way more comfortable with keeping me locked and it was a lot easier during the lockdowns we had in the UK last year to do so.

So now, here in October 2021 we looked back and apart from the 19 days, she has kept me locked since the previous October. A remarkable record. We spoke about and compared it to the early days when she thought that 2 days was too much. Now she knows that I survive 100 days without being out of the cage, nothing else except almost complete chastity is going to work for her now. I’m comfortable with that, she obviously is too and therefore it looks like we have reached our chastity Utopia.

Downside to that is that its not going to leave a lot to report here. Every update is going to say “still locked”? No, I think we’ll try different cages and modifications to the Watchful Mistress and report back on that. So until the next time…

A.

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Longer Chastity

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OK, I know. Its been a long time since I posted anything here, and even though we’re in the 2nd Covid lockdown here in Scotland, life is so busy, especially work. So there’s just not enough hours in the day to keep up to date with posts. Apart from that I spend a lot of my day staring at a computer screen (or two) and the last thing I want to do when I finish for the day is to stare at any more.

So, it was last May (2020) when I work up and felt good, both mentally and physically, and whatever health condition that I had been experiencing for the last three years wasn’t as bad as it had been. Don’t know what it was, what I did differently, but certainly not any medical treatment I had been getting.

But that day we spoke about getting back onto the FLR and kink way of life again. It’s not that we stopping doing it, we were just doing small doses of it. So I went to the other room where Lady C was and told her that we should be getting back into kink. Her response was “go get the cock cage, and bring a strap too”. That was it, locked for what was to be 10 days. When we spoke later I said we should really make chastity a lot longer – not days, not weeks, but months. That’s not to say I didn’t want orgasms, or erections, but only to have them when Lady C wants. And if she doesn’t, then I don’t get.

So starting from May, I recorded every time I was released for longer than 10 minutes and it turned out by the end of the year that I was caged for 48% of the time. Would have been more, but Lady C wanted me unlocked at the end of October for a few weeks and the end of November until the end of the year.

2021 was looking like it was going to start with 100% locked, except Lady C “couldn’t be bothered” to go get the cage, the key and fiddle with the little security screw until around the 14th Jan. Since then, I’ve been locked, which as the screen shot of my tracker shows, is 57% locked.

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I told her that the previous day I had been locked 50%, so that meant that day she had locked my cock for more days than unlocked. Her reply was that its going to be a long time until its going to be unlocked, and she was thinking that the end of February would be the next time, not even out for Valentine’s day.

So there we have it. No more short chastity lock ups, just long term and come the end of the year, we’ll see where what we managed. Her goal for 2021 is 70%, mine was higher, but I suppose I need to take what I get. That’s the way a FLR goes.

A

FLR

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As I mentioned last time our FLR/FLM is back up and running.  Lady C, the Key Mistress has taken charge of almost everthing and a spanked ass is never far away, so if was inevitable that I would be getting caged again.

So after showering on Friday night before going out the cage was out and She fitted it to me. “You’ll get out once you learn to respect Me”, she says.

That’s the FLR part of things – She will decide everything, punishing when necessary, and expects total respect in all aspects.  “You have been quite disrespectful of Me recently”.

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FLR Relaunched

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Our Female Led Relationship has been relaunched.  After a bit of a quiet patch, Mistress Keyholder, has decided that She is back and with determination.  “You will do as you are told, otherwise you will spend a lot of time in that cage, maybe never get out”

We don’t have any sort of chastity contract like many.   It seemed a bit like “topping from the bottom” too much.  Instead we have a one liner which is “Lady C shall decide”.    I have expectations of Her which She is aware of, but the bottom line is She owns my cock and balls and decides on its fate – locked / unlocked, orgasm / no orgasm / spoiled.

So that’s that, Expect to be locked a lot more.

A Safe Word

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We very rarely use a safe word in our female led relationship, however we used one recently during an edging session.

“A safe word”,  I hear you ask, “for edging?”

The safe word was to be used if I was going to orgasm.  Therefore means that the spunk would remain safely inside of my body.   We’ve used many different words or phrases for this, including “Your My Goddess”, “Stop”, “Smack my balls”, “Hobbit”, “Deny me” and “Banana”.

Perhaps, next time she takes me to the edge and I use the safe word she’ll go all the way.  I can dream 😉

Control from 2800 Miles

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I travel quite a bit and we almost every night we end up sexting each other.   This usually ends up with the inevitable – an erection.  “Isn’t is nice to know that you can make my cock erect from all that distance?”.    “Yes”, she replies, “and I can make sure it doesn’t happen when your home, can’t I?”.     “Yes darling I know you can”.     And she does, she is the keyholder, masturbatrix and Mistress.

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One Ring to Rule Them All

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The KeyMistress wanted to cage me.   “Where is it?” She demanded.

“Where’s what?”

” Your cage, what did you think?”

When its not being worn it sometimes stays in my bedside table, sometimes in Hers, and sometimes also in the safe.    “Its downstairs”, I said.   “Go get, its going on”.

So downstairs I went and retrieved it from where it had been for the last few weeks.  I put it on and Lady C went about making sure it was secured.   Where was it she asks?    It was on the bookcase, behind Tolkein.   “One ring to rule them all, one ring to find them, One ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind them“.

OK, I know its more than just a cock ring.  It has a cage as well, but it definitely rules me and keeps me under control.   Mistress thought it was funny.

Locktober

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Have your cock locked for October.   Say no more.   Anyone else doing it?  If so, what’s your experiences?

For Lady C, the Keymistress, it means she gets lots of pleasuring resulting in at least a daily orgasm.  For me it means she takes every opportunity to remind me of my small caged penis and teasing it so that she can see it straining against its metal prison.  The look on her face as she relishes in the power she has over me and that the next time i orgasm will have been granted by her and all my attention will be directed to her.

A

Locked for the Festive Season

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I find myself caged and locked up for the festive season. Seemingly this ends on the the 12th night (6th Jan).

Mistress has decided that there will still be some festive treats, however she decided this morning that one of the punishment pins was required. It’s one of the shorter ones and not the nasty long crossed one. 

So far it’s quite beatable almost unnoticeable except when I get excited and try to get erect and then I feel it. By the feel I think it’s the short sharp one and not the blunt one.  

Just like the longer pins, this one has the effect of keeping my inside the cage better and therefore the whole cage sits closer to my body. Should be more visually appealing to the Key Mistress, but I’ll keep that one quiet in case she decided this will be a permanent feature.