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Stupid Male Gropes A Little Too Blindly

a bit obvious in his seeking of the following:

-someone who will be dependent on him for feelings of affection, security

-someone he can feel like he helps/is helping

-physical attractiveness

-makes him feel better about himself (i.e. affectionate towards him)

-*perceived* commonalities

-feels superior to/stronger than, a plus

-is physical/sexual (is comfortable being physical/sexual)

-thinks a lot/is a thinking type

-is openminded (not rigidly moral/good)

-doesn't ask questions/accepts (fulfilling own lack/need)

-begins liking him rather quickly, irrespective of potential compaitibility in terms of likes/dislikes (see previous parenthetical statement)

-proximity (so much the better!)

-perceived likelihood that she will be faithful to him




DISCLAIMER: please don't assume the above has anything to do with me, the author. it doesn't. rather, it does, in that it's the way i thought about/perceived something, but it's not supposed to be *about* me.