Monday, November 3, 2014

Alyssa is 1!!!

Somehow my little baby turned one (over 3 weeks ago!). It's still hard for me to wrap my head around. She is a petite little thing. At her well check up she weighed 17 lbs 5 oz and was 28 inches long. Alyssa is such a sweet, happy baby. She loves being silly, playing with the kids, being outside, taking baths (or playing in water of any kind), and getting into everything. She especially loves to pull everything out of our lazy susan cupboard. She is a very curious, active little girl and it's so fun to see the wheels turning in her head (and they are ALWAYS spinning!) 

Alyssa started walking at 11 months. We didn't really work on it with her at all because the few times we tried, she would just sit down. However, we caught her walking a few times when she didn't think anyone was watching and the next thing we knew she was a full time pro-walker. And boy is she fast! She can climb our stairs just as fast as the rest of us and recently started climbing the bunk bed ladder too. She definitely keeps us on our toes!

Her vocabulary is slowly growing. She can say mom, dad, hi, bye, and night (nye nye). She loves putting anything and everything up to her ear like a phone and saying hi over and over. She also has the cutest little floppy wave that she does when she's saying bye or good night. She is a mama's girl and would be content if I just held her all day. She's been extra clingy lately (she's getting her 4th tooth and it's been a doozy) and has started screeching/screaming a lot. It is definitely not the most pleasant noise ever...hopefully it's just a phase! Her sleep has also really regressed with this most recent bout of teething. While I love cuddling her, I really hope that someday soon I can get a full night's sleep! 

Even with the long (or really short) nights, we are so grateful to have Alyssa in our family. She really has brought so much happiness into our home. We love our Lyssa Lou.

We were so blessed to have a lot of family come for Alyssa's birthday. My parents, two of my brothers, my youngest sister and her husband, and Jon's sister all came from out of town. I totally didn't expect any of them to come, but was so grateful that they did. Both of my grandmas and my Aunt LaNita and family and my cousin's family came as well. We feel so blessed to have so much family close by and were grateful that each of them came to help us celebrate Alyssa. We had a little lunch and visited before we did presents and cake. Alyssa was so expressive and happy. She loved all the attention. It was pretty darn cute.
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I was worried that she would start crying when everyone sang Happy Birthday, but she looked around and then started smiling and giggling. Cutest thing ever!
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She's got her mom's sweet tooth! She couldn't wait to dig into her cupcake.
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There was so much going on that I didn't get any other pictures during the party, but I did snap this one of Emma, Alyssa, Abby, and Ellie. Love these girls!
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Thursday, September 4, 2014

We Moved...and Other Big Life Changes

It's been awhile since I've really updated so I've got a lot of catching up to do. But, I figured I should at least share the big changes that have happened over the last few weeks (for the few people who read this that aren't on Facebook). 

So, our first big news is that Jon is going back to school. Yeah, one thing we said he would never do! He is doing an online Masters program in Interactive Design and Game Development through Savannah College of Art and Design (SCAD). While this is a road we never thought we'd travel, we felt very inspired to pursue this and are really excited about the potential for growth and the opportunities it will open up to us. School starts in a couple weeks and we are both excited (and a little nervous) about it.

Because Jon is going back to school, he is leaving Dreamworks. It is still weird to me! Even at the beginning of this year, we had no plans to leave. I figured he'd be there several more years. It's been a really great job and one that he has enjoyed (which I have been incredibly grateful for). He has worked with some amazing people and learned and grown so much over the last 6 1/2 years. But over the last few months we both felt strongly that it was time to close the Dreamworks chapter of our life. It is definitely bittersweet! 

Continuing on with our domino effect of changes, because Jon is leaving Dreamworks and going to school full time, he is venturing into the world of freelance work. While the idea of self employment is incredibly scary to me, everything just fell into place for it to happen and we both feel that this is the route we need to go right now. Jon has always wanted to own his own company, but I was always a little (or a lot) more hesitant about the idea. But here we are, much much sooner than I ever thought we would be, and I feel surprisingly calm and peaceful about it. I'm actually even excited. We know there will be some adjustments to having him work from home, but we are incredibly excited about the family time it will give us. For him to be home in the mornings, and to have the flexibility to be a part of school things for the kids, be there when they come home, and to just be a part of the little parts of our day. We think it will be a great thing for our family right now.

So, with Jon doing an online masters program, and doing freelance work from home, it made no sense to continue to live in one of the most expensive parts of the country. As much as we love the Bay Area, we knew it was time to leave. As we talked about where we could move, I jokingly suggested Boise, because we have always said we would NEVER live in Idaho. But when I said it, it just clicked for both of us. It felt so right. We tried to explore other places, but ultimately kept coming back to Boise. So, in a matter of a few short weeks (with a couple trips thrown in in the middle of it all) we packed up and the kids and I moved up to Idaho so we could get moved in before school started. Jon is finishing up at Dreamworks and will join us this weekend (and we all can't wait!). 

My mom was amazing and offered to take the 3 oldest kids as long as I needed so I could go find a house for us to rent. Thankfully it only took a week for me to find a house and get moved in. 

We ended up moving from this house in California
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to this house in Caldwell (outside of Boise)
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 It is such a great house and is so much more than I ever hoped we would get. And because I still can't get over the ridiculous Bay Area prices, here is a house comparison...this house is 57 years newer, 520 sq ft bigger, and $1100/month LESS than our last house. It is mind boggling I tell ya! Our rent here is less than the 450 sq ft studio apartment we rented in the Bay Area 7 years ago! If you can't tell, the cost of living is one thing I don't miss at all about California. That and the traffic! 

This house is only 10 years old, but everything inside of it is brand new. I can't tell you how happy it makes me to live in a house that feels clean! Here are a few of my favorite parts of the house.

The open kitchen/living area. And the fact that you can't see the kitchen/dining room when you walk in the front door. Also, the island with a bar. I've always wanted an island in my kitchen and the bar was a bonus. I think it makes the kitchen so cozy. The kids love sitting up there and chatting or drawing. It just makes me feel so much more connected.
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A master bathroom! For the first time in our 8 years of having kids, we have our very own bathroom. It is amazing. Oh, and yes...that is a soaker tub. And I love it!

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This may seem silly, but the lazy Susan cupboard is a big hit. I put the kids' dishes down there and it is amazing how much more motivated they are to empty the dishwasher and set the table. 

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Nice, big green backyard with a little patio. Off to the right of this picture are several big trees. They work perfectly to set up Jon's slackline and to hang his hammock. 

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This picture was the kids' first day of school. They were really nervous to start at a new (much bigger) school and to have to make new friends. After the meet the teacher day though, they were excited and ready to go. They ride the bus, which they (and I) love, and everybody at the school gets free breakfast every day. Sure makes for much less stressful mornings around here! We loved their last school so much and I worried that any new school wouldn't compare. I even spent a lot of time looking into homeschooling. But it has been a great fit and they are loving it. 

The background of this picture is a huge grassy area next to our house. The neighborhood kids like to congregate there and the kids have spent countless evenings out there running around and playing hard with neighbor friends. 
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I have to laugh at the fact that we are doing pretty much everything that we have always said we would never do...going back to school, being self employed, and moving to Idaho. But it all feels so right. I think one of the biggest things that has gotten me through these last 3 1/2 weeks was the overwhelming peace I have felt that this is where we need to be right now. I'm excited for this next chapter of our lives.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Nursery with Ellie at the Temple and Saying Good Bye

The Sunday we were in Idaho Falls was a little rough. We barely made it through Sacrament with an exhausted Alyssa and several restless kids. After Sacrament meeting I took Ellie to nursery and tried to get Alyssa to sleep, but it was all just not happening. And within a few minutes the nursery leader brought a crying Ellie to me. Completely frustrated, I took the two little girls and headed back to my parents house. I figured if we weren't going to get anything out of church anyway, than Alyssa might as well get a good nap. On my way I had the thought pop into my mind that I should put Alyssa down for a nap and then take Ellie to the temple to walk around the grounds. It was divine inspiration. I dropped Alyssa off (there were people at home) and headed to the beautiful Idaho Falls temple. We went into the visitors center and Ellie was immediately drawn to the Christus statue they have there. We sat down and listened to the recording that plays Jesus talking. He had Ellie's complete attention. I don't think I have ever seen her sit so still and listen so intently. After it finished we talked about what he had said and then she asked to listen to it again. So we did. And then we listened to it two more times. We ended up spending the next hour and a half talking about Jesus, looking at the "owies" on his hands and feet, and walking around the temple grounds. It was such a sweet, special time.
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At one point Ellie went up to the statue, touched Jesus' hand, looked up at him, and then while touching one of her own owies said, "I have a owie too. It's okay. It'll go away. It will be all better".  She was really concerned about his owies, so I told her that because Jesus got owies and died, He is in Heaven and we will get to live with him there again. She thought for a second and then started going through all of her family and friends asking if they would live with Jesus in heaven. Then she asked if all her friends would live with Jesus and I said yes. She got a huge smile on her face, threw her little fists in the air, and yelled, "YES!" It was the sweetest thing and brought tears to my eyes.

I am so grateful for that small prompting I had and for the way it turned my afternoon around. I am so grateful for that time I had with Ellie to teach her and to be taught. I hope that in some small way she will remember this experience.
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Monday morning bright and early we packed up and headed home. Usually by the end of our visits we are so ready to be home, but this time Jon and I both weren't ready. I so wish we could have stayed longer. It was such a great trip and a great visit. 
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Alyssa is at a hard traveling age so we stopped a lot. We planned our first stop to be Shoshone Falls since we have never been. We had a little picnic and spent a few minutes looking at the falls before we headed on to finish our long drive. I'm so glad we were able to take this trip. It was definitely one of my favorites.
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Idaho: Rock Climbing, Squealers, and Fun with Cousins

It's been a crazy couple of months, but I'm finally making time to finish posting the pictures from our Idaho trip last month. Phew...

My brother Caleb is a rock climbing guru. He had all the equipment, so he, Jon, and Brandon took the older kids rock climbing at Heise one day. They had a blast!

Spencer braved the rock first
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Then Emma
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Kaden took his turn next
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And finally Jenna
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Matthew opted not to rock climb, but instead spent the whole time playing with rocks and rolling around the dirt in true Matthew style.
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Jon and Brandon also took turns.
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My dad's birthday is the day after Emma's and this year he turned the big 60! My mom surprised him with a day at Squealers, which has go carts, rock climbing, bumper boats, etc. All of the family that was in Idaho Falls went and we had a blast. 
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This picture cracks me up. Ellie did NOT love the go carts.
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The kids had such a fun time with all of their cousins while we were in Idaho. It was incredibly hot, so the trampoline with the sprinkler was a favorite activity. 
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They also enjoyed lots of meals out on the deck. I loved being able to watch them chatting and eating. I so wish we could all live by each other!
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This girl loves her water
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