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A FRESH START

SCENT OF THE YEAR 2026

White Tea + Ginger #75 offers you a world of inspiration and freedom to show the world what's on your mind. Embrace the freedom.

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Unleashed

Barbarus Returns!

Our best selling fragrance Por Homme returns to the wild.

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PAMPLEMOUSSE ROSE BODY MOISTURIZER

Clarity & confidence collide in this signature Butters scent. The perfect gift for anyone you love.

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NEW!

Our newest bath bomb!

Sparkling Plum bath bombs take your bath to nirvana. Georgeous pink color, bright fragrance, plus The Butters signature moisture. Available exclusively here!

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Taste the peaches!

BUTT STUFF PEACH

Naturally flavored for the tastiest explorations.

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    LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX

    A weekly show covering all topics sexual health and pleasure.

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    A BUTTERS LIFE

    Tips, reflections, and other musings on the ongoing project that is living better.

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    Butters Business Blog

    News & updates.

Let's Talk About Sex Blog & Podcast

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A BUTTERS LIFE

  • The Ugly Middle

    The Ugly Middle

    Every day is just a series of hurdles. Missed steps. Small losses. Minor fuckups. If you get stuck at any one of them, that’s where failure happens; not because the...

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    The Ugly Middle

    Every day is just a series of hurdles. Missed steps. Small losses. Minor fuckups. If you get stuck at any one of them, that’s where failure happens; not because the...

    2 comments
  • Maybe It's Clarity: A Report Back on Leaving, Chosen Family, and Learning When to Stop Trying

    Maybe It's Clarity: A Report Back on Leaving, C...

    I don’t write about this often. Most of what we do here is practical and topical; help you can use. But once or twice a year, it’s important to say...

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    Maybe It's Clarity: A Report Back on Leaving, C...

    I don’t write about this often. Most of what we do here is practical and topical; help you can use. But once or twice a year, it’s important to say...

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  • 2026 Numerology: Why This 1-Year Will Redefine Your Identity, Purpose, and Relationships

    2026 Numerology: Why This 1-Year Will Redefine ...

    2026 is a 1-year; the beginning of a new 9-year cycle. Expect fresh starts, identity upgrades, and bold initiations. This year wants you to lead, innovate, and assert your place...

    2026 Numerology: Why This 1-Year Will Redefine ...

    2026 is a 1-year; the beginning of a new 9-year cycle. Expect fresh starts, identity upgrades, and bold initiations. This year wants you to lead, innovate, and assert your place...

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