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Monday, January 19, 2026

Feeling Hot

I was up early for Ellie's drop-off. She went straight upstairs to get into bed with Nana and go back to sleep. I eventually woke her at 7:30. Once she was fed and watered, washed and dressed, we took her along to school. It was spitting with rain, and I hadn't dressed for it, so I skipped the early morning walk and went home for breakfast.

I spent most of the morning editing last year's journal. I managed to complete the period that encompassed out Canaries cruise. Taking that as a good breakpoint, I set off for my proper morning walk. By this point, it had dried up, but I took a hat and some gloves, just in case. I was out for just over an hour. Once home, I made us both some tea and prepared some lunch.

I returned to the study and resumed editing the journal. After an hour, I again bookmarked where I had reached and went to the lounge for some Kindle time. It was while I was reading that Zoe phoned Diane. "Could we step in and take Ellie to her appointment in Chichester, after school?" Of course, we could, but why? Well, it seems that an articulated lorry had pulled into the yard behind the store and its trailer had caught fire. The Fire Brigade were called, and Zoe hit the "evacuate" button for the store. The Firemen admitted that if they had been 5 minutes later, then the store itself would almost certainly have caught fire.

I collected Ellie from school, and we took her to her appointment in Chichester. While she was there, I got a call from Zoe to say that everything was under control and she was just leaving. She would be home in time for us to drop Ellie off on the way through.

We dropped Ellie off, then went home. We've just finished dinner and are planning on a quiet evening.

Sunday, January 18, 2026

Journal

It was gone seven before I pottered downstairs. I had enjoyed a wonderful night's sleep and been entertained by some bizarre dreams. They seemed important at the time, but now, when I come to write about them, they have faded from memory. We enjoyed a pleasant breakfast together as we consumed the overnight news and checked "the socials".

I headed to my study. It was time to return to the editing of last year's journal. I had become distracted by family tree stuff and lost sight of the journal. I worked on it for an hour or two and then went for my walk. As I looped by the lake, I passed Chris and Maureen chatting with John and Liz. I waved and marched on. As I started the second lap, they were still there, so I waved again and told them I had a further lap to complete before I finished. I saw them again on my final stretch, but they were out walking by then, and there was no sign of John and Liz.

It was lunchtime when I arrived home. I finished the remains of last night's curry in a wholemeal wrap, then returned to the study. I was well into September by this point, and we were about to embark on our cruise. I edited for a further hour or so, then settled in the lounge with Diane and our Kindles.

I switched off the Kindle and returned to the kitchen to finish cooking tonight's dinner (chicken, new potatoes, carrots, carrot and swede mash, and courgettes). We have finished eating, and everything is cleared away. I foresee an evening with Netflix or Amazon Prime.

Saturday, January 17, 2026

The Press

 It was a typical start to a Saturday morning. After consuming some news and some caffeine, I went to wash and dress before sitting down to breakfast while chatting with the Empson cousins on the weekly Zoom call.

After the call, I dug into some family tree research. I took the time to subscribe to "Newspapera.com", which provides a searchable archive of newspapers stretching back hundreds of years, though it isn't complete as publications are still being ingested. My first focus was on the Empsons, as they had stimulated the idea of updating the Family Book. I managed to find a couple of relevant articles very quickly. I should have been more disciplined and searched person-by-person, but I started to skip around through the families. I have found a number of press articles and downloaded them for later.

Late morning, I set off for my walk. It was dry but quite grey. It was, however, a very pleasant temperature for walking, and I enjoyed a pleasant 75 minutes marching around the neighbourhood to the accompaniment of my audiobook.

When I arrived home, Di was having a blitz in the kitchen. Old spice jars were being emptied and ditched, drawers were being reorganised, and everything was cleaned within an inch of its life.

After some lunch, we settled down for some Kindle time before I started preparing dinner. Everything is cleared away now, and we will probably watch a couple of films this evening.

Friday, January 16, 2026

Boiler

I enjoyed a lazy start, not rising until 07:00. Di was up soon after as she had a Cardiac Rehab class this morning (the first since last March). The weather forecast looked mixed, so I erred on the pessimistic side and dressed in my waterproofs before walking to Zoe's. Her heating was still not working, but she had managed to warm the house with a couple of fan heaters.

We walked (or should I say chased) Ellie to school. She seemed to be particularly eager this morning. We dropped her off at the classroom, and I headed off for my walk. I was beginning to regret the waterproofs as it was getting quite warm under all those layers. Then, a sharp shower struck, and my choice was justified. There were several further showers before I finished my route, so I may have arrived home hot, but at least I was dry.

Just as I finished breakfast, Kim dropped in. Unfortunately, I couldn't hang about, so I left her chatting with Di. I had to get to Zoe's so that I could be there when Ross (the heating engineer) arrived to give a quote for replacing the boiler. He took a look at the installation and the flue before examining the existing boiler. He said he would be happy to change it, but didn't feel that was necessary. He diagnosed the current problem, and we managed to restart the boiler temporarily. We have agreed to have a full strip-down service and replace any parts necessary.

Back home, having explained to Di what had been agreed, I went to my study. I revisited the problem that I had experienced with FBC earlier in the week. I bit the bullet and bought a new license. Everything burst into life, and I am now ready to develop a new version of the family book I had developed for the Empson cousins. I just need to wait for the latest updates from Sam.

We had a quiet afternoon with our Kindles. I managed to finish another book (The Shadow of the Northern Lights, by Satu Rämö) and prepare the next one, ready for bedtime tonight.


Thursday, January 15, 2026

Very, Very Wet

We were delighted to be woken just after 02:00 by Jasper yowling for more food. I had put out the usual ration of supper, which he had cleared and licked the bowl clean. He was yowling, waiting for the breakfast bowl to open. In the end, I got up and circumvented the timer. As the lid opened, he dived straight in. We didn't hear another murmur from him. It didn't mean, however, that I was able to drop back off to sleep. At best, I dozed.

I was up just before 07:00. I needed coffee to kick-start the day. I was reading the overnight news when I was conscious of a lot of crashing and banging from outside. I felt quite smug as I realised it was the refuse collectors emptying our bins and I had remembered to put them out last night. The clattering from the refuse truck woke Di, and she pottered down for a cup of tea. Just as I went up for my morning ablutions, Zoe messaged us. Her heating had failed, and she had no hot water. Could she shower here after dropping Ellie at school? Of course, she could.

Waterproofs were an absolute necessity today. I sloshed my way to Zoe's to join the walk school, then continued around my usual route for the morning walk. By the time I arrived home an hour later, my outer layer was drenched, but I was dry underneath. I started a new audiobook on the walk. This is another of the Alex Delaware novels by Jonathan Kellerman. It seems intriguing so far, but there is a long way to go. (Interestingly, I received an email from Audible to reveal that I had listened to 34 books last year; in total, this consumed 268 hours).

Once home, with breakfast finished, we completed the shopping list and headed for Sainsbury's for our weekly outing. It was lunchtime by the time we had arrived home and unpacked. We had a quiet hour in the lounge before I set off through the rain to collect Ellie. Once home, Ellie and Nana sat on the floor and worked on a project for school. They are making a room in a shoe box.

With Zoe's heating failing for a 3rd time this week, I contacted Ross, the heating engineer who replaced all of our heating system. I have asked him to call and provide a quote for replacing Zoe's system, which, frankly, has caused problems since day one.

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

Very Dry

 Ellie was dropped off at her usual time. She was already dressed, and her hair had been styled for the day. After some breakfast, she settled down to do some puzzles and some colouring. At the last minute, she realised she had left her reading book at home, so we had to divert on the way to school in order to collect it. Dropping her off at the classroom, I set off for my walk. (Diane was off to Pilates for the morning).

It was a cold morning, but it was crystal clear, and it was a pleasure to be out. My walk followed the normal route, and my audiobook chatted on until the book was finished just after I arrived home. I grabbed some breakfast and then spent much of the rest of the morning working through a pile of ironing.

Di arrived home just as I was preparing some lunch. She had enjoyed a good session even if her friend Pauline seemed a little put-out by Di's ongoing knee problem. We spent a quiet afternoon with our Kindles until it was time to collect Ellie from football. Di went around to the school with Zoe, and they took Ellie home. 

We have just finished dinner and expect to have a quiet evening.

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Very Wet

I woke up to the sound of heavy rain. It had set in for much of the day. I had my usual coffee and read the news (using Apple News+) before going up for my shower. As the clock ticked by, I donned my waterproofs and made my way around to Zoe's to join the walk to school. It was a matter of weaving past the puddles and avoiding the splashes from passing cars. 

Leaving Ellie as she walked into class, I set off on my customary walk. The rain hadn't let up, and I was very glad of the waterproofs. My hat kept the rain off my glasses as I followed my usual route around the estate. Unfortunately, the hat isn't quite as waterproof as advertised, but it soon dries off in the cloak cupboard. My audiobook kept me company on the walk, and I am now about 90 minutes from the end. I stripped off as soon as I got home. The trousers were hung in the bathroom, and the jacket started in the Orangery, but I moved it to the cloak cupboard.

After having breakfast and a quick browse through social media, we went over to see Chris and Maureen for some coffee and biscuits. As usual, they were immensely hospitable, and we had a lovely couple of hours chatting about all and sundry.

Back home, we had some lunch and then settled briefly in the lounge. It was still raining, though not as heavily. I climbed back into my waterproofs and went across to collect Ellie. She stayed with us until Zoe came to collect her, which meant that we had dinner a little later than usual.

The forecast for the rest of the week is for rain, rain, and rain. I suspect my waterproofs will be getting a lot of wear.

Monday, January 12, 2026

Bits and bobs

 I was up early to greet Ellie when she was dropped off. She had only just woken up and was a bit spaced out still. After a cuddle, she went up to torment Nana. Once we had completed the normal pre-school tasks, we set off to walk Ellie to school. It was a lot milder today, and it was dry. We dropped her off, and while Di headed home, I set off for my usual walk.

After breakfast, Di took a specimen to the vet for testing, while I got on with some chores and some admin. With that cleared, I returned to the study to take another look at the issue I have with the new Family Book Creator. I wondered if my old serial number would work, and having tracked it down, I plugged it in. It just sat there and ignored me. Pah!

After lunch, we had some Kindle time before going to collect Ellie from school and take her back home. Zoe was waiting for her to whisk her off to her Monday appointment. We went home and had some time with the iPads before I prepared dinner.

Ki had a big exam today. We heard from her just before dinner. She feels pretty positive about the outcome. I guess we will hear soon.

Sunday, January 11, 2026

A Calm Day

I was up just before seven.  It was grey, but dry. The frost that we had seen last night was all gone, and the temperature had soared to a heady 5 °C. I took Diane a cup of tea in bed, and I settled down with a coffee and the overnight news. Once Di had come downstairs and settled with her iPad, I set off for my morning walk. Rain was forecast for later, so I planned to make the most of the dry morning.

An hour or so later, I was home and tucking into breakfast as I read the social media. It was while I was reading that I remembered the subscription for the Daily Telegraph, and, realising I would lose access to it this week, started thinking about alternatives. This has been a theme to which I have returned several times during the day. One solution that I found was a system called "PressReader". I can get access to this through my West Sussex Library membership. This seemed to give me access to read the paper (and indeed, many more). The interface seemed a little clunky, but I'm sure I can manage that. Later in the day, I looked at my Apple Family Plan and realised I could add News+ to the plan. This would give me access to the Telegraph, the Times, and many other papers. Better still, the articles are displayed in the News+ aggregator, and the subscription extends to Di, Zoe, and Kim.

Much of the rest of the day was spent with my Kindle until it was time to prepare dinner. We had half a side of salmon on a bed of stir-fried vegetables and egg noodles. It really was rather excellent and wasn't too filling.

Saturday, January 10, 2026

Dash dash, dash dash dash, dot dash dot, dot dot dot, dot

I had an excellent night's sleep, but I was still up early. I took Di a cup of tea and then settled downstairs with my coffee and the morning news. Once Di had come down, I went for my shower and then, having prepared breakfast, went to join the weekly Zoom call with my Empson cousins. The UK contingent exchanged cold-weather anecdotes from the week, while Simon (in Victoria) sat in his study wearing a coat, bobble hat, scarf and gloves. The temperature in Victoria was 42 °C, and he explained he was dressed in solidarity with us. Soon after the call finished, I received a message from Sam. She was interested in updating the Empson Family Tree book and inquired about creating a hardback version. I said that I was happy to make the updates, if she could provide the data, and also pointed to Lulu.com as the company I use to create the back books. I left it with her.

I took the opportunity to go for a walk. Di wanted to return a parcel to Amazon, so I stopped off at the Post Office. She also had some meds to collect, so I stopped at the Chemist. I carried on with my walk, back past the Jubilee Hall, and then round the estate.

When I arrived home, I thought more about Sam's request. It was a trigger for me to install the latest updates for Family Tree Maker (FTM) and Family Book Creator (FBC). Both were downloaded and installed. There seems to be a licensing problem with FBC, so I have written to the author. In the meantime, I connected up with Ancestry and checked some of the latest hints that it has provided.

Di was pottering upstairs in her sewing room. I took the opportunity to take all of the Christmas decorations back out to the garage, where they will nestle until next Christmas. I then managed to get some Kindle time.

We ate dinner at our usual time, interrupted by a call from Ellie, who had got herself into a bit of a state. She was horrified to hear that we were going out and she couldn't come to us overnight. Di finally calmed her down.

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We set off for Chichester. We had an evening at the theatre planned.

We arrived at the Chichester Festival Theatre in plenty of time and settled down for a coffee. At the next table sat John Horne and his wife, Sheila. They live in Pagham. John and I used to play football on Sunday mornings, until I gave up. It was nice to see him and have a chat.

We had excellent seats in the theatre, which was absolutely packed. The play was an adaptation of an Inspector Morse story, "House of Ghosts", with Tom Chambers playing the lead role. I'm not really a theatre person, but I did enjoy the play and admit that I hadn't guessed the conclusion.

The theatre is putting on an adaptation of "Death on the Nile" in a couple of weeks, so we grabbed tickets for that while we were there.

The play finished at 21:50, and by 22:00 we were on our way home. We had been smart enough to park the car near the exit rather than near the theatre. This saved us considerable time. We were home soon after ten, and having set up Jasper's overnight food, came up to bed.


Friday, January 09, 2026

Helping Out

The storms that hit the country overnight (Storm Goretti) skirted our area. We had strong winds throughout the evening and a lot of rain, but when I got up this morning, the rain had stopped, and the wind had eased.  Having seen photos of the storm in the West Country, we have to be thankful.

Zoe had a 09:00 start, so there was no need to get up early. I met up with them in time to join the walk to school and then set off on my morning walk. I completed my current audiobook during the first circuit and dropped straight into another. It was a nice walk, though the wind made it a bit nippy, and there was rain in the air.

While I was walking, ~Diane went to see the nurse who runs the Cardiac Rehab sessions. As she hasn't been for a while, she wanted to check that she could restart the sessions without a referral and that they could accommodate the exercises she has been given for her knee. Fortunately, she said that it would not be a problem, and she is aiming to restart next Friday.

After some breakfast, Di started on some chores and some admin. I cleared some of my own admin, then set about a challenge posed by my school friend, Michael. I summarised the challenge as:

Michael is chairman of the residents committee for a block of apartments. He would like to set up an email account for the committee members such that there is only one address for people to contact, but any of the authorised members can access and respond to the emails. This is all voluntary work, so he needs a service that is free of charge. 

I then set about trying to help. I was looking for a free solution that would give him and the committee a common repository for them to conduct their business and for residents to contact them. After hunting about, I concluded that a solution based on Outlook or on Google Groups was probably the easiest for them to set up and use. What's more, both solutions are free. I then set up a test model for each solution. Michael plans to arrange a phonecall one evening next week for the committee to discuss this with me.

After lunch, I managed some Kindle time until it was potentially time to collect Ellie. The question was whether she had managed to get into the after-school dance class. There had been some confusion, and it was left "if you don't hear from me, she is going to the dance session".  The trouble with that is that people can get too busy and forget. Rather than take a chance, I went to the school, and she assured me she was going dancing. I went home. The joining instructions for the dance class said the class finished at 16:00, but the pickup time was 16:15. I arrived just before 16:15, and Ellie was the only child left. ll the others had been collected at 16:00.

Ellie came back to us until Zoe came by to collect her.

Thursday, January 08, 2026

Wet

Ellie was dropped off early again this morning. She was surprisingly alert, and after a quick cuddle, went upstairs to torment Nana. After she finished breakfast, and she had completed her ablutions, she announced that she needed her School Councillor badge. She and I walked back to find the badge so she could finish her school preparations. I dropped her off at the classroom and went straight home.

There was no time for a morning walk. We had to get Jasper back to the vet this morning.  It took a few minutes to find his latest hiding place, but we managed to drop him into his carrier without any fuss. We were back home by about 10:00, and the vet had promised to phone with the test results later in the day. (The results were fine, and he seems to have no underlying conditions other than old age).

Net on the morning's agenda was a raid on Sainsbury's. It didn't seem too busy while we were there, and we managed to complete our shopping fairly quickly. When we arrived home, Lottie was in full swing cleaning downstairs. We dumped the shopping bags in the kitchen and then got out of her way.

After a light lunch, I changed into my wet-weather gear and went out for a walk. The rain had set in and became more intense throughout the afternoon. I seemed to be the only person stupid enough to be out walking in the rain, and when I arrived home, managed a 20-minute break before going back out with ~Di to collect Ellie from school. We got a call from Zoe to say she had just arrived home, so we took Ellie straight home.

Back in the comfort of dry clothes, in our own home, we settled down for some Kindle time. I managed to finish another book before heading to the kitchen to prepare dinner.

Wednesday, January 07, 2026

Black Ice

 The temperature overnight had obviously warmed up in the light rain we had experienced. Then, before dawn, the rain died away, and the temperatures dropped. This was a very good recipe for black ice.

Ellie was dropped off at 6:35 but was still barely conscious. I sent her upstairs to get into bed with Nana, where she fell asleep. We left her until 7:30 before disturbing her. The normal morning process was followed, and Ellie and I left for school at 8:30. Ellie promptly slipped on some black ice and ended up on the pavement. From then on, she held on to my hand all the way to school. When we arrived, we saw several children who had fallen on the ice. I left Ellie as she marched into class, and I set off on my walk. I was very cautious at first, but it soon became clear that my usual route was fairly safe. 

By the time I arrived home, Diane had already left to go to Pilates in Angmering. I settled down with a bowl of porridge, a coffee, and the overnight news. With breakfast cleared away, I took some of the Christmas detritus out to the garage. The rest will have to wait until Di has finished wrapping it up and squirrelling it away in the correct boxes. I then cracked on and cleared the outstanding ironing (most of which was mine, anyway).

With chores out of the way, I returned to editing the 2025 blog entries for the journal. I managed to complete all of July by the time I stopped for lunch. Di arrived home just as I finished preparing lunch. We chatted over our snack, then I retired to the lounge with my Kindle. Di went out to the Orangery and finished squirrelling the Christmas decorations away in the storage crates. I went to collect Ellie from after-school football practice and took her home before returning to the lounge and my Kindle for 30 minutes.

Dinner is now finished, and the dishwasher is in control of the crockery.

Tuesday, January 06, 2026

Batteries

I had an early start. I was up and about, ready to greet Ellie when she was dropped off at 6:35. It had been a bitterly cold night. Marham, in Norfolk, saw temperatures of -12.5 °C; even here, near the south coast, the temperature dropped to -4 °C. Even at 8:30, when I walked Ellie to school, the temperature was still -4.

I didn't bother with an early walk. Japer was due at the vet, and I wanted to make sure Di didn't have to struggle in the ice. I drove them to the vet and carried Jasper in for his appointment. Then brought them back when it was all over.

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I finally went out for my walk. As I walked by the lake, I could see how thick the ice had become. This was probably just as well because I saw 4 or 5 kids playing on the ice at the other side of the island. (I didn't overly worry as the water is only knee deep at present, so if the ice broke they would have got wet, but were not in danger).

I didn't manage to complete my usual circuits. The coffee I had consumed had decided that it hadn't percolated through, so I cut back home. When I got in, Di was taking down more of the Christmas decorations. Once I was comfortable, I stripped the old batteries out of all the lights. We now have a huge collection of defunct batteries to take for recycling. I'll put everything else back in the garage tomorrow.

I headed out for another walk. This time, I routed along the back route to the village and then looped back past the Jubilee Hall and back around the estate.

After lunch, we sat down for some Kindle time. Just after 3, Di went to collect Ellie and take her home to Zoe. I continued with my book.

There is nothing else scheduled for today.