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I think there are a lot of AFAB people who genuinely aren't women - and a lot of AMAB people who genuinely aren't men - but they just go with those labels because we equate man with male and woman with female.

"No woman feels like a woman!" - But they do. A lot of women feel like women. Both cis women and trans women can feel like women. If you don't feel like a woman but still identify as female that's a valid identity

That's MY identity!!! I'm not a woman, but I'm definitely female! And I'm on HRT and I like presenting as masc, etc etc. For me, that means the trans experience is closer to how I feel about myself than the cis experience.

I really think we need to talk more about folks who feel "I am the sex I was assigned at birth but not the gender I was assigned at birth, BUT I'm also not trans, I'm a 3rd, neutral thing".

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Imagining transmasc Seven of Nine from Voyager, who, after being forced to wear a skin-tight extremely revealing uniform for several years, getting used to their body, and remembering what it is to be an individual, realizes that the reason they were so damn uncomfortable in the thing wasn't just because it was revealing, but because they're trans.

So he comes out as trans. I imagine he might not be interested in top surgery or anything like that, but he loves having a way to express himself beyond his biological sex, which was the only thing that really mattered when he was a Borg.

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Community Fandom Guide

In this day and age, it can be hard to find active fandom communities! When we lost LJ, we really lost a lot. Now we're losing Twitter too, even though Twitter wasn't exactly ideal for communities.

This is a guide to active fandom communities across Dreamwidth and Pillowfort, the two sites designed and built for hosting communities.
If a community is specifically marked as Mature, I will add the 🔞 icon next to it.

If you have a community that is currently active you want to see added to the list, let me know!

Our Flag Means Death Communities

Dreamwidth
Our Flag Means Gay - General OFMD community
Our Flag Means Kink - Kinkmeme for the OFMD community. You must send a request to join.

Pillowfort
Gentlebeard's Bar and Grill 🔞 - General OFMD themed community
Izzy Canyon 🔞 - Izzy Hands themed OFMD community


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