Avery went to prom with a friend this Spring. It was not her high school’s prom, so she didn’t know a lot of people she went with. She’s so pretty :)
California
Rachel’s nephew got baptized! We went to the LA area to be there and went to the beach while we were there. It was drizzly and chilly, but lots of fun. We saw birds, crabs and lots of shells.
Not all of us were anxious to get in the water. The beach was still awesome.Learning to ride wavesYou guys. I discovered Kumquats. This was life changing. Okay, maybe just month changing, but still!Easter egg hunt with friends on the way back to Utah. “I don’t need a basket! I’m fine!”
Cedar City
Avery wanted to check out SUU, so we went to Red Riot, which is like an overnight open house. There was a campus tour, dance, yoga, all sorts of things! Rachel and Ivan mostly hung out with their friends that lived there, which was awesome because we hadn’t seen each other in ten years! We played games and talked about all sorts of things – Rubik’s cubes, COVID, Legoland, Pie. Life is good.
Updates:
Martin is playing soccer and we he’s trying out vaulting this Spring. He doesn’t seem to love it, but he doesn’t dislike it either, so it’s been something new. He LOVES Minecraft and also Pokemon. He’s getting bored with music class, but he only has two more classes, so he’s done amazing this year.
Hazel has had a lot of fun with her friends lately. She also loves audiobooks. She’s worried because she has to take all the state tests for school and also a Chinese test this year. She’s gonna do great, she just doesn’t know it yet.
Evelyn is playing the cello in church for Easter. She wants to be with her friends every moment. She is mad that she has to go to school, even when we point out that that is where her friends are. She also loves audiobooks – most of all Percy Jackson.
Avery is trying to balance work, school and track. She finds herself overwhelmed a lot, but she’s learning to manage. She likes cooking and being with her little cousins.
Rachel agreed to be the PTA President Elect next year. It’s going to be an adventure! She’s trying to get the yard fixed up and get some painting jobs finished.
Ivan has been working on a walking challenge. He would like to walk 50 miles in one day, so he’s been walking home from work a couple days a week. He talks to and plays games with his family a lot online.
Chicago/Boston: Avery is part of a choir that sang in Boston, and Palmyra, New York this Summer, so we all took a trip back East. We flew to Chicago, first to see Rachel’s sister. It was so much fun fishing with her, eating Chicago style pizza and hot dogs, having a movie night, visiting the aquarium and the Art Institute, and riding a river cruise. We definitely should have spent another couple days with them.
After Chicago, we flew to Boston. Avery got to film at Minuteman park, and the Boston Symphony Hall. After fliming at Minuteman Park, Avery, Rachel and Rachel’s friend from College went to the Concord Museum and drove around Concord a little.
The rest of the time we saw the Boston Common, the beach, The Boston Tea Party Museum, Paul Revere’s House, MIT, and Harvard. Avery got to tour Boston College and we ate some yummy cannoli. An unexpected treat was that our hotel was in a Polish section of Boston, so we passed by and ate at Polish shops and restaurants as we came and went every day. It was fun to see a few familiar Eastern European things (so many pickled things!) and try some Polish sausages. Also, we got donuts and Dunkin’ Donuts. They were yummy, but not anything to write home about in our opinion, but it was crazy how many Dunkin’ Donuts there were. We passed one about every block or two it felt like!
We rented a car and drove to New York from Boston. We drove through a HUGE rainstorm. Rachel could barely see the road and we nearly had to pull off to the side. But! We found a Friendly’s restaurant and had dinner and ice cream. Avery has a new favorite restaurant and is scheming how to open a franchise here already.
We saw the house Rachel lived in when she was little. Everything looked smaller, just like the desks when you go back to your Kindergarten classroom. We didn’t spend long there, but we stopped and the Dollar General and bought a couple things on our way out. The library and the park were still there, but we didn’t find the penny candy store, so that was a little sad.
In Palmyra we stayed in a REALLY run-down hotel. Avery did a filming in the morning and after that we saw the Hill Cummorah, A printing museum, the sacred grove, and a thrift store. We went to a grocery store and grabbed some food for dinner before heading over to her concert, outside a church building near the Sacred Grove. They started singing and about a third of the way through her concert clouds started rolling in. Half way in it started raining, and soon the rain was really coming down. They stopped the music, covered the instruments and finally sent all the singers inside. We all got ready to go home, but then the rain stopped. After a few minutes, they got everyone back outside and finished the concert with the exception of two or so songs. It was pretty exciting. We left as soon as we could when she was done because we only had about 9 hours before our flight out of Boston and still had 6 hours of driving to do. We drove all night and got to the airport about 3:30. Rachel slept pretty much the whole flight home!
Girl Scout Camp: Evelyn and Hazel went to South Dakota with their girl scout troop. They stayed at a Girl Scout camp where they did archery and Hazel got a bullseye! They also went to Mount Rushmore, an observatory, Jewel Caves, and Mammoth archaeological site.
Swimming Lessons: Hazel and Martin took several rounds of swimming lessons this summer. Hazel and Martin had never had a swimming lesson before and they did great! Martin finished the first level and Hazel made it to the third level and can swim in the deep end now. Hooray!
Camping at Bear Lake: We went camping with Rachel’s family at a really fun campsite between Logan and Bear Lake. We rented kayaks and spent a couple hours on the lake with Grandma and Grandpa. We got a few famous raspberry shakes and they were delicious!
Cross Camp: Avery got to go to cross country camp this year. She was really excited because she had to miss it last year. They did several runs including a high altitude run and a partner run. She had a great time.
Girls’ Camp: Girls’ Camp was an extra adventure this year. Avery and Evelyn both got to go, and they did some great crafts and lessons, but their leaders also got sick and a major storm came through, drenching their camp and causing them to come home early. Evelyn seemed to be the only one upset about coming home early. The rest of them had had enough rain and sickness!
Kindergarten’s 100th Day of School happened the day before we left. We just barely made it, whew! He chose 100 stars. Easy peasy!
Catalina Island Trip
We drove to Los Angeles and took the ferry from Long Beach to Catalina Island for a quick Winter getaway. The water was cold, so we opted out of the kayaking and snorkeling, but we played on the beach, stayed in a cool early 1900 vacation home, rode a submarine, saw a botanical garden and a museum, made waffles in a cool old cast iron waffle iron (it didn’t work all that great really), had dinner on the rooftop, and had some good cousin time.
One favorite was going under water in a submarine and seeing all the fish. We paid extra to get fish food torpedos. When we pressed a button, fish food shot out of the side of the submarine and the fish went crazy! They nearly ran into the side of the submarine trying to get the food.
We found a living sea creature! While we disagree on principle with the banging by an unnamed child that knocked this little guy off the wall he was snuggled against, it was fun to see a shell with something alive still in it!
At the top of a hill in the botanical garden on Catalina Island is a memorial building decorated with the tiles the island is known for. We had a good time climbing around the building and showing off.
Valentine’s Day!
This year 4th grade got to make their own boxes and apparently frogs are very lovely.The middle and high school orchestras have an annual concert on Valentine’s Day. She rocked the cello!
Evelyn competed in the National History Day competition this month. She was super not enthused about it, but she did it anyway. Her topic was X-rays and how they changed history. She did not win, which she expected, but she was awarded a “Judge’s Recommendation” award, which she did not expect. It was funny when I told her. Her reaction was pretty clearly one of horror until she was assured that she wouldn’t have to go on to state. She was ready to be done. She knows a lot about x-rays now, though, you should ask her about them sometime.
Ivan went to a board gaming conference called Saltcon. He went with his brother, but had several friends that went too. He hung out mostly at the board games section. Heat was his favorite. Ironically he learned how to play a game he’s owned for over a year, and that was fun. It only took a weekend conference and now we can play it with our friends!
In other news, Avery got to go on a retreat with the youth in her youth group. She got Chick Fil-A (score!), but her stomach hurt most of the time (boo!). Rachel was really involved in teacher appreciation week at the elementary school this year. Who knew teacher appreciation was such a party? Catered lunches, gifts, all sorts of stuff! It was a lot of time, but actually pretty fun. Martin and Hazel have a new hobby as well – catching chickens. They’re quite good at it, and they appear in Grandma’s kitchen with a chicken every so often when we visit. We can’t tell for sure if Grandma is amused, but she doesn’t seem too annoyed and the chicken visitors don’t stay long.
We decided it’s finally time to grow our family again, so we added a little red subaru impreza :) No, we can’t even handle pets, a car is as exciting as we get. We are now a two car family! Avery is pretty excited, and she’s already driven in it. Unfortunately, nearly as soon as we bought it the engine light went on, so we jumped right into car ownership both feet in. We’ve decided the car needs a name. Suggestions welcome. Here’s a list of the current contenders. We’ve decided, I think, that the Sienna will be called Whaleshark, due to a current obsession of Avery’s. She loves whalesharks with a passion at the moment, so the van gets to be a marine animal. We’re also taking bets on how long Avery’s current obsession lasts.
Name contenders for the new car: – Ladybug – Ladybird – Octopus – Scarlet – Carlet (you know, because it sounds like Scarlet, but means little car…)
Now that we’re not sick anymore (hallelujah!), we find ourselves dancing.
Hazel’s rehearsals after school rehearsals for the last several months paid off at her play performances. She was fabulous as a water dancer.
Avery asked a boy (!) to her high school’s girls’ choice Sweethearts dance. They did all the things: trampoline park, lunch, pictures, homemade pizzas, dance, and games afterward.
In calmer moments, we made bird feeders with some friends. Bird feeders are one of our favorite things in Winter time.
It’s been a mild Winter, and we’ve survived January, which feels like a major accomplishment every year. Some of us are definitely vocal about being ready for Spring. I’m really enjoying eating all the soups, though, so I’m okay with a couple more weeks of cold.
Random fact of the post: books we’re reading! Homeless Bird by Gloria Whelan Geronimo Stilton Winter by Marissa Meyer Cinder by Marissa Meyer The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes by Suzanne Collins Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling Blood Meridian by Cormack McCarthy The Staff Engineer’s Path by Tanya Reilly Notes from the Underground by Dostoyevsky Rabid: A Cultural History of the World’s Most Diabolical Virus by Bill Wasik and Monica Murphy
Hi everyone! Here’s what’s going on in our home lately.
Rachel got her braces taken off. They worked! Her teeth don’t wear together anymore and she has eaten so many nuts, now that she can chew them without worrying about breaking any brackets. The retainer situation is not so great, but the orthodontist says we’ll make a new one in a few weeks and maybe that will help
Avery has her learner’s permit and has started driving. It’s so exciting for her and also a little scary. She got a Garmin for Christmas and she gets a few extra intensity moments on days we go driving. She’s already planning how to raise money to buy a car. We’re pretty proud of her.
Ivan cut his hair. Shaved it all off. He gets petted on his head a lot now as it’s growing in all fuzzy and soft.
Evelyn and Hazel had a vaulting show. The theme was the Polar Express, and they were not upset at all that their costumes were pajamas. They both did really well and no one froze. It’s fun to watch them. They work so hard and it pays off at the shows.
We got a 3-D printer for Christmas. We have printed snakes, chopstick holders, an octopus, various mathematical spaces and models, fish, snowflakes, and Ivan’s head. We’re having a good time and would love ideas.
A snowstorm dropped several inches of snow. Our snowman fell over, sad day. Now we’re working on a fort or igloo, we’re not sure which yet.
We’ve played with friends, cousins, had dinner with neighbors and worked on cleaning and projects. On to the new year!
Hugs at the doctor’s officePlaygroup Christmas Party for Martin
Well, it hasn’t been that long since my last update. At least from a certain point of view.
I recently received in the mail, a new book by Youhua Li titled, “Learning Mathematics Can Be Addictive“. It’s written in Chinese so I can’t actually read it, but looking at the graphs and equations I can tell that it covers lots of interesting mathematics. It’s meant to be a popular book rather than a textbook. Most importantly, at least from the perspective of my ego, it has (a translation of) my Periodic Table of Finite Simple Groups on the inside of the dust jacket. I think it’s a really cool idea — you can pull it out and use it for reference. You know, when you’re … doing a thing … that needs a periodic table of finite simple groups. Thanks Youhua for sending me a copy!
I also neglected to mention another book with the PToFSG in it. It’s named “Algebraic Structures, Class Guide” by Águeda Mata and is written in Spanish, which I can in fact read. Unfortunately, it appears to be out of print, so you might have to attend the Universidad Politécnica de Madrid if you want to find a copy. Águeda was kind enough to send me a copy a few years ago which I greatly appreciate.
It really is about the people you meet along the way.
This year, almost in time for Father’s day, I got a metal copy of My Periodic Table of Finite Simple Groups. I was contacted recently by Carl Edman who wanted to make one for himself, and asked if I would give him permission in exchange for a free copy for myself. There has never been much interest in a commercially produced poster, but I always thought it would be neat to have something to point people to. Moreover, he was willing to donate any profit he makes from the sales to a charity, so I really couldn’t refuse. So, if you want a metal poster to hang on your wall, check it out.
It’s been just over 8 years since I finished the Period Table of Finite Simple Groups, so I thought I should take a few moments to reflect a bit. My post about the PToFSG has consistently been the most popular page on this blog (much to the consternation of my wife). Now let’s be clear, we had less than a thousand “visitors” in the entire year of 2019, so we’re not talking real popularity here, but it has been a little surprising to see some of the places it’s shown up. As my wife says, “You’re like famous and stuff.” Here are the places where I know it has appeared:
I submitted to reddit/math – Everyone was very nice.
It showed up on reddit a fewothertimes, often with some “discussion” of whether it was laid out in a sensible way. I never found out about them (I don’t read reddit much) until comments were closed—but perhaps that’s just as well. Several people want a more logical layout of the groups (for which I can’t blame them), but I’m not sure such a thing can really be done to everyone’s anyone’s satisfaction. However, I have thought of making an interactive version that could be rearranged by several different criteria. Who knows if I’ll ever get around to it.
Anyway, that’s enough bragging for now. Suffice it to say, it’s been more popular than I hoped for. It’s been wonderful to get to talk to a few practicing mathematicians who say they have used it during their research. I honestly never thought it would actually be useful!
This little guy had a birthday! He loves being one, he’s not going to lie. He’s a big boy now, and he can climb up the stairs and whine and people will bring him back down. He can stand all by himself. He sleeps all night long and he can eat peanut butter now. Life is good! Except when you try to dress him up. Nobody should have to put up with that!
Martin loved his birthday. Except for the cake. He loved the cake from a distance. Especially the candle part:
It was the eating it part that was a problem. No good:
Maybe next year we’ll put frosting on it or something. Opening presents was great. Throwing wrapping paper around is fun and he even unwrapped part of some of his presents on his own. His sisters were happy to help with the rest.
Martin is growing, growing. He’s been in 12 month clothes for probably a month or six weeks now. He’s so much fun to watch. He loves to pull things out of drawers, buckets, cabinets, between the fridge and the wall, anywhere you can put things. Occasionally he will put something back in a bucket, bin or storage space, but his favorite, by far, is pulling things out.
He’s getting his 1 year molars and those are bugging him some. He mostly sleeps alright still, but he’s a little clingy and cranky. He has learned to stand on his own and when he does, he flings his arms out wide and arches his back like it’s a total thrill to be on two limbs. Either that, or he’s trying to imitate a falling cat. He also can take a few steps. His sisters swear he took 7 once, but I’ve only seen 3 or 4. You can decide if you trust their counting…
Recently he has discovered that he can put smaller things into bigger things. He found a chapstick and was putting it into a small food container the other day. He couldn’t get it in every time and it was fun to watch his concentration as he tried to get the chapstick to go into the container.
He can climb up stairs, but is scared to go back down them, so he usually gets to the top and then turns around and whines or shrieks until someone goes up the stairs and brings him back down. He knows how to go down the stairs, but has fallen down them, so they scare him. And someone is almost always willing to run up the stairs and carry him down, so, why not?
Martin knows how to say one word: yeah. It’s his answer to any question. Avery in particular has a lot of fun with this. “Martin, do you have long blonde hair?” “Yeah.” “Martin, am I your favorite?” “Yeah.” He says it in different tones occasionally, but any time anyone talks to him he answers “yeah.” He understands more, though. For example, the other day Avery was telling me how well she had done on a test at school and I said “Good job!” and Martin started clapping. He loves clapping. He claps for himself all the time, and sometimes he claps for Avery when she does a good job. My favorite is when he claps for himself while he’s eating. For a week or so he would pause in the middle of eating his food to clap for himself. He has also clapped for himself for throwing my socks in the bathtub. He’s working on that self esteem.
Martin is growing, growing! He now weighs 21 pounds! He’s learned a lot of new tricks lately. His most exciting one is probably learning to crawl up the stairs. He thinks that’s pretty fun. He also knows how to pull himself up to standing now, which means anything on low tables and on the second shelf of the cabinets is within his reach. Hello baby proofing!
One funny thing he does is climb up the cabinet handles. We have one set of drawers in the kitchen cabinets that has four drawers and therefore four pull handles. He grabs one and then the next and just walks his way up the handles with his hands until he’s grabbed onto the top one. The top one is so high, though, that he can barely reach it and he stands there on his tip toes all stretched out holding onto that top drawer pull. One day the drawer started to open while he was standing there holding onto it and he started to slowly slide backward over his feet until his body was at this slant, like a slash mark on a keyboard with his feet up close to the cabinet and his head about 6 inches away from it. Luckily I was standing right there and pushed the drawer back in before he fell back on his head.
Our experiment with dairy was not very successful unfortunately. I started eating dairy on Martin’s 9 month birthday and by about a week in he was having reactions to it. It was a little hard to know for sure if it was the dairy, because our whole family seemed to be sick the three weeks after I started, but he would be sick and still have dairy reaction symptoms between being sick. So no dairy for me for a few more weeks. Which leads me to the little stinker’s next adventure… I left a cabinet open to let him play with the lunchboxes on the bottom shelf. Well, it was really quiet over there, which means trouble, so I looked over at him and he had gotten a valentine cupcake from the second shelf of the cabinet and spread it everywhere! Pink frosting and cupcake crumbs all over him and the floor. And… cupcakes, of course, have both dairy and eggs in them. So he ate I think about a third of a cupcake, dairy, egg and all. The next morning was kind of messy. But, after a week of cleaning out both of our diets, he’s starting to get back to normal, and luckily he doesn’t get cranky when I have dairy anymore, just all weird in his stomach and diapers. We’ll try eggs in a couple weeks I think.
Martin’s a happy little guy. he likes to play with toys, but his favorite thing to play with is paper. Anytime he finds a paper on the floor he tears it to shreds and eats it. He also really likes throwing things. I try to play the game where he gives me a toy and I say “Thank you!” and hand it back, but when I hold out my hand he just throws the toy. It isn’t working so well. He recently started a game where he shakes his head back and forth and then I copy. He thinks that’s really funny and repeats it over and over. He also really likes it when his sisters do silly things. His sisters really like “Pancake Robot” and have Alexa play it at dinner sometimes and then they dance. Martin thinks this is hilarious and laughs and laughs. Last night they were pretending to chomp a carrot in a really exaggerated way and he thought that was hilarious too.