The Kamikaze
It is interesting to me that all church talks seem to start with the definition of a word or phrase that the speaker will be covering. I realized the reason that they must use this custom is so that the congregation will better understand or internalize the message. I have used this custom in my parenting. Part A: Define Child Part B: Try to understand child Part C: Learn to parent child. Step by step, parenting for me. So I have set to define one of my children so I can understand HIM and then learn how to better parent HIM.
Imagine if you will, going to an amusement park with your family. You're thrilled, sooo excited, with anticipation for the adventure (like when you are expecting your bundle of joy). As you enter the park you're a bit overwhelmed at all there is to do (like when you have more then two children). So you focus on what rides your family might enjoy the most or maybe choose a path to hit every ride thereon. In choosing each ride you might look for certain qualities; some being fast, slow, high, wet, long, short, big, fancy, colorful, etc. Also, while riding the rides you experience different emotions such as excitement, fear, exhilaration, amazement, etc. (just like the personalities and emotions you get with each new child).
On your adventure at the amusement park you experience two that are similar, possibly Ferris Wheel style. The ride has ups and downs, but it is smooth and steady, almost predictable (first two children). Then you reach the third ride (Dryan). As you approach the ride you are not at all intimidated because it is comparably small in size, yet there is something about the intensity of the design and colors that is interesting (Dryan is in the 30% for weight, yet he is incredibly strong and flexible). Upon entering at the gate you realize that all the signs are in Japanese or possibly Russian (2 year old talk), but from previous experience you can interpret the name of the ride to be"The Kamikaze." At first you think, wow this sounds fun and figure that the SMALL ride could not cause too much damage. As the line proceeds to the start, there are colorful signs, again in Japanese, giving you direction and warnings and even with your experience it does not make a whole lot of sense (favorites from the Dryan are MIMI for Jamie, unkin for pumpkin, tin for Remington, boombama for Obama, Elk for milk, and eep for sheep). You are sure that these signs are important so you try really hard to discern there meanings. Your heart jumps a beat when you read the next sign, which is German, but has an English version below.
'The Kamikaze means 'gods wind' aka this ride can be CRAZY strong and have a mind of its own. The Kamikaze were warships that were built to DESTROY. They were 'Purpose Built and DRIVEN'. They dominated the seas and could overtake ANYTHING in there path. These famous warships were loved by allies and feared by enemies. The Kamikaze also can describe units in the military that sacrificed their lives to protect their cause, often time using there weapon to destroy and their body as a sacrifice."
ARE YOU SERIOUS!?!?
It 's only a ride, right (or only a little boy, right). So you take the plunge, you climb into the cart and take off on the amazing journey. The ride makes you laugh, giggle, scream, cry, yell! Sometimes you get wet, injured, panicked, and distressed. At parts you want to jump out, but most of the time the ride is so entertaining that you endure to get to the next FUN part.
Part A: child defined, check Part B: behavior somewhat understood, check Part C: learn to parent, NOT EVEN CLOSE
Thank you to all those that love our little Kamikaze without reserve, you are a special part of lives!