Question from a Javascriptmoron...

I have ecards on my website, but I'm using a bravenet service. I'd rather not, as I'd rather not outsource. Problem is, I understand simple html and javascript, but when it gets to perl and cgi, I am an utter imbecile. I was hoping anyone in this community could recommend software that is easy to use and not hard to load on to yur website, as well as informational websites that explain the process in words a little kid could understand. As you can probably see from this post, I really don't even have a clue as to how to even begin with ecards, so when I say easy, I really mean it.