Saturday, December 29, 2007

Merry Christmas from the Chapins

Here is a little taste of our Christmas Day. We hope you all had a wonderful Christmas as well.
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Luke loves his new Buzz costume...

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Image Jackson and his remote control boat. No, not a dachshund.
Image I love Luke's face. I'm not sure what's got him all excited, but he's happy!ImageImage Over at Aunt Donna's and Uncle David's

I had no say in the acquisition of this!

Friday, December 21, 2007

Letter to Santa

Jackson brought home from school this letter to Santa. I thought it was so cute, funny and typical of my wonderful 7 year old I wanted to share. I have corrected the spelling for your reading ease.


Dear Santa,
Merry Christmas! I have been a good boy this year. I want a few things this year. First, I want a robot dog. Next, I want a dachshund. Finally, I want a remote control boat.
P.S. Eat the cookies

Sincerely, Jackson

I was going to ask Jackson why a dachshund? Then I found this Christmas wish in his backpack and my question was answered.

My Christmas wish is to get a dachsund. One reason this is my
Christmas wish is because I like dogs. Another reason this is my wish is because some dogs are funny. Santa can make my wish come true by putting it next to my bed.

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Friday, December 7, 2007

Never Trust a Quiet Toddler!

I think these pictures say it all. I figured I could freak out like I normally do or use it as blog material, so I ran for the camera. Just so you know, I was not laughing as I went for the camera.
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Monday, December 3, 2007

How to Catch a Turkey - a story by Jackson

How do you cach a turkey?
First, you find the turkey you want. Then,
take a bow and arow. After that, showt
it in it's intestins! Yum! Yum! Yum!

(there was no editing done by a mom in this reproduction.)

Thanksgiving with the Chapins

We had a nice low key Thanksgiving this year with Mark's sister Jill and niece Amber. Here are some pictures of our festivities.


Here is Luke at the kids table. Notice the place setting cards supplied by Grandma Chapin (the kids loved them!)

Image Here we have the whole gang at out decked out table. That's my Hershey Kiss centerpiece in the middle that Jackson made for my birthday.
Image This is a video of Savanna singing a turkey song she learned in Kindergarten. If it looks like she's crying it's because there was "something in her eye." At least that's what she told me.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Great Recipe

I tried this recipe from the free Kraft Food & Family magazine I get in the mail and loved it. It tasted great and has a great presentation. Super for impressing guests. The only thing I may try next time is substituting the Ritz crackers with Italian bread crumbs but the crackers were fine. Hope you like it.

Chicken Parmesan Bundles

If you don't get this magazine in the mail I think there is a link on the web site to get it. It's free and nice to have around when writing a grocery list.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

For Grandma

I was attempting to get Liam to make some animal noises for Grandma, but as most of you know kids don't like performing on command, especially with a camera in front of them. I thought this came out pretty cute anyway so this is for you Grandma. The rest of you will just have to suffer throught it :)


Saturday, November 10, 2007

Birthday Thoughts

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First, I'd like to thank you for all the birthday wishes. It's always nice to be remembered on your birthday. I can't believe I'm 35. It just snuck right up on me. I mean really, I'm half way to 70! The good news is, as many people have reminded me, "You're only as old as you feel." And by golly, I feel pretty young. A birthday is a great time to look over your life and evaluate what you've done and accomplished, so here is a brief look at what I've done, where I've been and what I feel I have accomplished. Maybe you'll learn something about me you didn't know :)


1. I have lived in Florida (twice), Louisiana, New York, Utah and Ohio.
2. Served a mission for the Lord.
3. Climbed in a bear den with a bear hibernating inside, searched abandoned mines for endangered bats, caught and tagged migratory hawks and cuddled up to baby walruses.
4. Graduated from college. (much to the surprise of my 8th grade history teacher)
5. Married the man of my dreams.
6. Won a trip to Hawaii.
7. Climbed Mt. Timpanogos with llamas. (Not a pleasant experience)
8. Gave birth to 4 children. (also not a pleasant experience.)
9. Learned to love gardening, sewing, quilting, and being a mom.
10. I have hiked to mountain lakes, snorkeled in two oceans, and looked a moose in the eye.


Wow, the Lord has been so good to me. He has blessed me beyond my wildest expectations. It makes me realize how much I need to do for the Lord. You know, 35 isn't so bad.

Saturday, November 3, 2007

Our Deepest Fear

My sister-in-law Sara put this quote on her blog recently and I wanted to share it with all my blog friends. You may have heard it quoted in Akeelah and the Bee.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

~Marianne Williamson

Lately I have heard a lot of friends talk about feelings of inadequacy and self doubt, wondering how others may perceive them. I wish we could all see ourselves as "brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous". We see each other that way, why is it so hard to see ourselves that way too? We teach our youth about individual worth and divine nature, how can we teach that when we have such a hard time embracing it as adults? I think it must be an ongoing process. One of those principles that, for most, takes a life time to reach.

What are your thoughts on this?

P.S. I was talking to Leslie after I posted this and she got me thinking. So I'm adding another quesion. After reading the quote, do you agree? Is this "our deepest fear"?

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Fun with Trick or Treating

Our neighborhood puts on a great Halloween. A lot of the houses are decorated to the nines, some even too scary for Luke. The people are great and have a good time with the kids. So here is a glimpse at our Trick or Treat adventure last night. Enjoy.
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Jackson looks a little worried about that kid behind him.
Image This is kind of dark but you can see Liam's hesitancy at going near this guy. Actually he did this with everyone. He gave himself a wide 3 feet of safety space, but always said thank you.

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I loved this! Some woman even decorated her lawn ornaments!

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Savanna found her long lost side kick...a dog dressed as a princess. People crack me up!

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This skull in someones yard shook when you'd walk by so Jackson decided to use his wand to put a spell on it.

I think what I loved most about last night is the camaraderie that was going on in the neighborhood. People that we never see during the rest of the year act like you're family. It makes you feel like you belong. I love to people watch and what a great time of year to do it! It was fun to see some houses that would get together with all their neighbors and hand out candy together in one driveway, some had fires going in fire pits, everyone was having a great time and there was a real family atmosphere. We had a great time!

Halloween and the Freedom of Choice

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Wow, what a Halloween. We haven't had this much drama in I don't know how long! It all started about the middle of September when I innocently asked, "What do you guys want to be for Halloween this year?" The responses I received were reasonable enough, Harry Potter, Ballerina, Superman and oh ya Liam didn't respond but just wait, he's got drama too. I'm thinking, great Harry Potter should be easy enough, we have a ballerina costume and Luke was Superman last year. Boy was I wrong!


Jackson - The only problem he had was that his Harry Potter glasses kept breaking. So I really can't complain. Let's move on.Image


Luke - I decided to ask a friend if we could borrow her son's Harry Potter costume and it turned out that she also had one of those muscle Superman costumes. Great, I'm thinking Luke will love that. Wrong, he wouldn't go near it, wouldn't even try it on. Even with all my cajoling and I'm a real cajoler he just kept saying "No, it's too big". So, he wore his homemade costume from last year, fine, I can handle that.
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Liam - Liam was a little tricky. I didn't think I had an old costume his size so I decided he would make the cutest little vampire. We'd slick back his hair, put a cape on him...here in lies the problem. After much searching a friend lent me the cutest little cape and I didn't' even have to make it! And of course, you guessed it, he wouldn't keep it on for anything! So he went in the skeleton costume I made for Luke when he was only 7 months old. Go figure, he was a big kid.

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Savanna - OK, last but not least my lovely queen of drama. Savanna went through four costumes this year. The ballerina was never worn, for the church party she was Dora the Explorer, the school party got Snow White and as seen from the picture below, Trick or Treat was honored with Sleeping Beauty (all of which we already owned). Why you may ask. I believe it stems from DNA or her amazing skills of observation. Yes that's right, I take full responsibility. I was a very indecisive child and although I have learned to work with this trait it has carried over to a degree into adulthood. From the day of the church party every time I asked "What are you going to be?" I have heard," I don't knooooow, I have too many choices." I wish you could hear the voice. With every Halloween event we went through it again culminating in hysterics. On Halloween night it didn't help having Jackson screaming from the front door, "Come on, let's go!" Threatening to leave her home didn't help, it just took the hysterics to a whole new level. I finally had to say, "if you can't make your own choice I will have to make it for you." Then put the costume on her through lots of tears. She never fought me though, I wonder if she wanted me to decide for her, who knows. Anyway all's well that ends well. Once we got out the door, we had a great time and the kids got a great haul. So here's to Halloween and the freedom of choice, but maybe not too many.

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Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Sleeping Partners

I know your mind might be heading a certain direction with a title like this, reel it in we are about to go another direction. For about two weeks my three year old has been crawling into our bed every night. This is a new thing for me, none of my other kids have done this and it's kind of getting on my nerves. For one thing, we have a queen bed and it wasn't built for three. He's squishing me. Then there is the occasional kick, not to mention that he has had a cough and keeps waking me up with his hacking. You might be thinking, "Why don't you just put him back in his bed?" Well, he's real sneaky. I don't know he's there 'till he's there. The annoyances mentioned above aren't bad enough to really full on wake me up just be this thing in my subconscious that interrupts my sleep. Then I wake up and say "Okay, this has to stop." So I decided I'd tackle this head on. I'll just ask him why he's coming in and then maybe we can fix the problem. Maybe he's getting cold or having a bad dream. I asked this morning and the answer took me completely by surprise.

Me: Luke, why are you coming in mommy's bed at night?
Luke: Cause I just wuv you.

Talk about melt your heart! Now what?! I could nip this in the bud so he's not doing it at age 10 or maybe clean up my bedroom floor and put a sleeping bag down for him oooooor send him to Mark's side of the bed....I like that idea!

Friday, October 19, 2007

Anyone know a Lawyer?

I have a question and any input would be helpful. After spending 20 or so minutes waiting for someone to help me in the fabrics department at Wal-Mart...(Grrrrr), I purchased some military themed fabric I intend to make into a quilt and then hopefully, sell. I returned home and while showing it to my husband noticed on the selvage (edge of the fabric) was printed the following statement: THE LOGOS APPEARING ON THIS FABRIC ARE PROTECTED TRADEMARKS OF AIR FORCE. THIS PRODUCT IS INTENDED FOR PERSONAL USE ONLY. ANY UNAUTHORIZED USE IS PROHIBITED.


After finding the company's website I found that indeed this meant I was not to resell anything made from this fabric. So here's the question...Do they have any legal right to say this? I bought it, shouldn't I be able to do with it what I want? I'm a third party, can they tell me what I can do with my fabric? I can understand not making physical changes to the logos and then selling it, but I'm not doing that. Is this legal? I don't want to be dishonest, and won't sell it if it is. I bought another military fabric with the same logo but designed differently from another company and no such statement was on it. What do you think? Any suggestions?

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Banjo Boy

Here's Liam jamming to one of our favorites from Ryan Shupe and the RubberBand.

Monday, October 8, 2007

Conference Quotables from the Chapins

Our family thoroughly enjoyed General Conference this weekend. It's such a great time to take a break from the world and reflect on our lives, where we are and where we're going. Along with this came some great quotes from my darling family I thought I'd share.

In response to Elder Scott's comment on the speed of light Jackson said, "Wow, that's faster than a cheetah!"

After spending the Saturday afternoon session at the Merrell's, Savanna came downstairs the next morning and said, "I want a table full of snacks like at Ben's house."

As we watched the Tabernacle Choir sing Jackson mused, "I wonder why the boys sit separate from the girls." After a lengthy explanation from me about different ranges of voices and the need to sit near people that sing similar to you he exclaimed, "I know another reason. So the boys can't talk to their girlfriends."

As one of the Sunday sessions started Savanna informed us to "Let me know when Pres. Hinckley comes, he's my favorite."

And my personal favorite, from by dear husband. At the conclusion of Sister Beck's talk on the duties and responsibilities of mothers I said "Wow, that was a wake up call." and Mark replied, "Ya...it's about time the women got a talk like that!"

Hope you enjoyed the last two days as much as we did!

Monday, October 1, 2007

"Dad, are you watching Veggie Tales?"

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Does anyone but me have a hard time being consistant with Sunday rules? I'm constantly finding myself making exceptions for rules that have been set. It's got to be confusing for the kids. For the longest time our TV rules were the worst because sometimes we'd say Disney was ok and then we'd decide to have no TV then it would change again. It's the same thing with what is allowed during Sacrament meeting. Maybe my kids are just getting too smart. They are calling me on stuff now, "Mom, you let me bring Spiderman last week why can't I color in my Spiderman coloring book this week?" I just want to be consistant so I don't have to keep changing and broadening the rules. I just want a Sunday that's seperate from the world as much as possible and that's tricky.
Slowly we have set down certain non-negotiable rules, (This is just what works for us, I don't want anyone to think I would judge how their family does it. We're all different with different needs.) like we don't play with friends on Sunday, it's a family day and TV is ok as long as it's nature shows, church movies, AFV or Veggie Tales. We've been pretty good on those, we're still working on what's appropriate at church.
Yesterday I was hit over the head with how closely our kids watch us. After the kids were in bed Mark went downstairs to watch some short films he had checked out from the library. He got caught when Savanna came down and said "Dad, are you watching Veggie Tales?" Ouch! I guess that's when I realized that consistancy starts with me. We set the rules and the example. If we can't follow our our own rules how can we expect the kids to. They learn so much from us. They mimic everything we do. So where does that leave me? Still trying to come up with the perfect yet realistic Sabbath day for our family. I suppose that's what it's all about, live and learn.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

We Need Each Other

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about what these blogs have done for me. Reading your blogs and comments have given me a spiritual boost that I have been seriously lacking lately. As most of you know, being the mother of small children can leave you wanting more (spirituality, I mean) after church so I am so glad to have this supplement. It's not just the spiritual thoughts you share but the struggles and joys you find in life that boost me. So please keep it up and know that you are making a difference. Here is a quote by Sister Hinckley that expresses best what I am trying to say.

We are all in this together. We need each other, Oh, how we need each other. Those of us who are old need you who are young. And, hopefully, you who are young need some of us who are old. It is a sociological fact that women need women. We need deep and satisfying and loyal friendships with each other. These friendships are a necessary source of sustenance. We need to renew our faith every day. We need to lock arms and help build the kingdom so that it will roll forth and fill the whole earth.

~Marjorie Pay Hinckley



Friday, September 21, 2007

Favorite Things

I attended a "Time Out for Women" conference recently and Hilary Weeks did a very funny rendition of "Favorite Things" from Sound of Music with a parenting twist. Anyway, it inspired me to write a version of my own.

Before I begin, I'd like to thank all the little people, like Julie Andrews for the original version. My mom, for singing it to me at night when I was scared. My kids, for asking to have it sung to them, thus passing on the tradition. Oprah, because I love her Favorite Things show...you get the idea. So, without further ado, here are a "Few of my Favorite Things".


Summer and good books and chocolate and road trips.
Porch swings and hiking and Graeter's ice cream.
Nights full of thunder, the smell of the rain
Camping and planning don't make me complain.

When it's cold out, when I'm hungry.
When I'm feeling sad, I dance with the kids or
have dinner with friends and then I don't
feel so bad.

Fireflies and girl's night and walks in the woods.
A date with my husband sure makes me feel good.
A laugh from Savanna and Liam's smile.
Jackson's inventions and Luke's crazy style.

When I'm tired, stressed or cranky
When I'm feeling sad.
I chat on the phone, have a hot chocolate fix,
and then I don't feeeeeel sooo bad!!!


I hope that wasn't too awful. So, what would you put on your favorite things list?

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Summer Fun II

Here are some more Summer Fun pictures. We noticed a huge lack of Jackson in the last group so I thought I would post a few more for your viewing delight. (We wouldn't want you to think he isn't loved, he just does't stand still long enough to take a picture of!)
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Image Jackson's 7th birthday cake, I mean pie.

ImageCheck out those goggles on Luke! He wore them constantly for at least a week.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Autumn Blues

I am a scientist at heart, and like things to be explainable, but the power of the human brain continues to baffle and amaze me. I have been thinking lately about the effect that autumn has on me. Does anyone ever get the blues in autumn or is it just me? Most of my friends just looove autumn. I guess I know why, I mean the leaves are beautiful and it is nice not to have it 100 degrees outside but for some reason it always makes me melancholy, sentimental and nauseous. I looove the summer, so maybe the arrival of cool, windy weather is a bad omen of the next six gloomy months to come. Maybe that is why it feels so sad to me. Maybe the cool air of the fall causes memories to be just as clear and crisp as it is. I served a mission in New York and it may sound like a cliche but autumn in New York is amazing and the strength of this memory is seared in my brain. You may think "well, that's a nice memory, what's the problem?" The problem is that now, mixed with those sharp autumn emotions, is that (and maybe you ladies can feel my pain on this) I get phantom morning sickness in the fall. All my babies were born in the spring, so 4 out of the past 8 autumns have been mingled with nausea. A month ago, in the dead heat of August, I saw a television clip of a father and son walking in New York in the fall. I was instantly queezy. Tell me that's not weird! The smells, sounds and for some reason, even the change of temperature, now all trigger this phantom nauseous sentimental melancoly. The body is so amazing! The power of our brains to induce such emotional memories is incredible! And then, to force them into our physical senses so easily, makes me think that there is so much more to our mental capacities than we ever tap into. Too bad all this brain power can't help me find that lost pacifier that Liam has been screaming for for the last hour.

Friday, September 14, 2007

Summer Fun


Thought I'd post some pictures of what we've been up to this summer. Enjoy!

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Trip to the zoo. One of our favorite places to be.

ImageHere's the whole gang visiting Frankfort, KY. You can imagine how fun it is to get a shot of all of us. We really weren't trying to exclude Liam.



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This is one of my favorites! The kids were playing in the rain and Liam was doing this great duck walk.

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4th of July parade. It's no Provo Freedom Fest but the kids loved all the candy, someone should talk the Provo parade people about that.

ImageBottoms up! Lots of fun on the beach in California.


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Savanna's 5th birthday with her new friend Laura


Thursday, September 13, 2007

Why the Title?

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Well, here I am writing my first posting and since I'm such a novice and really don't even know what to do with this blog yet I thought I would explain the title. Hopefully the blog will evolve on it's own and take on a life of it's own. Anyway, I digress. I was looking for a title that would encompass who I am and what I am passionate about and i came up with "Looking for Space" I got it from a John Denver song who, I don't care what anyone thinks, I LOVE! There I said it! Wow this blog thing is really therapeutic...So the title, ya, I really feel like I am in constant search of space, elbow room, peace. For those of you who don't know, Mark and I have a goal to own a small hobby farm. It is why we are in Ohio, so we can get a better education, make more money and get our farm. We like to drive through the back roads of Ohio and just ooh and aah over little Victorian homes on acres of land. It's what brings me peace. When I'm out in the woods or hills or meadows I feel like I can finally breath. Not that I'm not happy where I am, It's just what keeps me going. My favorite place in my home is the back deck where I can watch the kids play, bats darting for bugs in the evening and when the fireflies come out. So why the title? Because right now it's who I am and what drives me, it's what I want for myself and my family.



So, how about you? What drives you? If you had to title your life, what would it be?