
Today was a busy day. I now know why "ma in her kerchief and [pa] in [his] cap had just settled down for a long winter's nap." They were exhausted from all the Christmas preparations.
The cards have been sent, the shopping done. The pies are made, the Christmas breakfast has been started, the gifts are wrapped, the house is clean. The story of the Nativity has been read and reenacted, the children have been tucked in, and the house is quiet and mostly ready for tomorrow.
I am ready for our winter's nap, which will not be as long as I'd like.
Yet in my mind, all day I have been remembering this favorite quote, by Spencer W. Kimball, who served as President of the LDS Church in the late 1970s & early 1980s:
"He [Christ] was always the giver, seldom the recipient. Never did he give shoes, hose, or a vehicle, never did he give perfume, a shirt, or a fur wrap. His gifts were of such a nature that the recipient could hardly exchange or return the value. His gifts were rare ones: eyes to the blind, ears to the deaf, and legs to the lame; cleanliness to the unclean, wholeness to the infirm, and breath to the lifeless. His gifts were opportunity to the downtrodden, freedom to the oppressed, light in the darkness, forgiveness to the repentant, hope to the despairing. His friends gave him shelter, food, and love. He gave them of himself, his love, his service, his life. The wise men brought him gold and frankincense. He gave them and all their fellow mortals resurrection, salvation, and eternal life. We should strive to give as he gave. To give of oneself is a holy gift."
This year, as in years past, Brian and I will not exchange gifts. At this point in our financial life, we deflect all holiday spending toward our children.
Yet I have been the recipient of many gifts--"holy gifts," as President Kimball calls them. Especially in 2008. So many people have offered service in my behalf, particularly around the birth of my twins last spring, and as recently as two weeks ago, after my appendectomy.
I have been given blessings at the hands of priesthood holders.
I have been given more meals than I deserve.
I have been given numerous concerned phone calls.
I have been given childcare, both in my home and in others' homes.
I have been given help with running errands.
I have been given help with responsibilities, such as teaching co-op preschool or taking my children to their lessons.
I have been given many hours of service in my home, such as help with endless laundry, cleaning, cooking, lifting babies, bathing babies, holding babies, and so on.
I have been given shoulders to lean on and lots of hugs.
Some of this service has taken place in the middle of the night or in the wee hours of the morning.
Some of this service has been spontaneous, and some has been scheduled far in advance.
Some of it has come from elderly women, and some from friends around my age.
I am overwhelmed just thinking about it all.
This year, I have been a recipient of the best gifts--holy gifts. I am mindful of each of them, and tomorrow--on Christmas Day--as I watch my children open their gifts, I will be thanking Him for sending those gifts to me, in the form of angels disguised as friends. And in coming days, I hope I can offer some holy gifts of my own.