My appetite for reading has been insatiable lately. For the last week, I've been devouring Jerry Spinelli, author of
Maniac Magee,
Loser,
Smiles To Go,
The Library Card,
Stargirl, and more. I love reading. I love reading his books in particular because of the blaring, yet, between-the-lines messages he sews in. One in particular I wanted to comment on because of the way my heart ached when I read. The main message of the entire book,
Library Card, is the magical transforming power of a book, but the additional message about mommies really struck me today.
Sonseray is a troubled teenager, destructive to property, unthankful, seemingly unwanted, wearing his uncle into the ground as they move in a broken down car from town to town in search of a new place where they can start over ... again. Anywhere they go, he is always searching. He goes to malls because he knows there he will find what he is sniffing out. Mothers. He hates the smug kids who ungratefully and unknowingly take advantage of their mothers, "Here, hold this." He has a keen ear for the scolding and reprimanding mother. He loves to hear it. It is what mothers do who love their children. He wishes he had a mother who would scold him ... and then into who's arms he could run.
I almost cried in this part of the book. Children need mommies! Adults need mommies! I know I need mine! How cold the world is becoming because moms aren't choosing to be the mom and because of those moms that aren't moms yet are refusing to become so. This may not make much sense. I'm referring to the article referenced by my friend Becca in her
blog. After referring to an article, she lovingly and boldly stands up for mothers who are choosing to sacrifice self for their children and for humanity. I applaud her and all mothers, all women. For we are all mothers; it is our divine gift as women, have we children or none.
On a lighter note, remember the all-too-true cry of little Maggie, as she's being carried by her father, Peter Pan, safely away from the dreaded pirate Captain Hook, "You need a mother very very badly!!"
We cannot abandon our children to the world's pirate cry of Save Your Self.