📍 Dresden, DE studying computer stuff 🎓 software dev, sysadmin, local server maid 🔧 queer as in polyam transbian demi cuddleslut Relationship Anarchy AuDHD 24y/o
May post in German or English or beides.
- Follow requests of personal accounts are welcome! Please have a bio and some toots at least for a basic vibe check. Also, I appreciate any prior interactions (favorite/comment/...) so I have an idea why you're interested :) - DMs are open, especially for any trans siblings! - flirting with me is welcome! - going through my post history and liking a bunch of them is completely fine with me, in fact it makes me happy ^-^
sexual orientation labels, attraction, selfI label myself lesbian or sapphic because that's what I vibe the most with atm, but tbh I don't view that in a very strict way. It's more about the interpersonal vibe I associate with that, and I tend to find feminine features attractive and masculine features not. I can also find a non-feminine guy hot, and I find myself attracted to people for reasons detached from physical appearance as well, regardless of their (perceived) gender. When I started to discover my queerness I used to label myself bi, and I'd consider pan if I ever come across a guy I find myself attracted to personality wise who doesn't start transitioning after xD /hj (not that I have anything at all against more femmes :3 )
tl;dr: the universe is a hologram, attraction is a fuck, abolish categories and celebrate the wide spectrum of individual expression and so on
[read before following] meta, giving benefit of doubt, playing devils advocate, etcI do not want to associate with people who'd directly assume the worst possible intentions in others, even if they disagree hard on something the other one is talking about.
Neither do I want to associate with people who play devils advocate for others who show time and time again that they don't act in good faith, or "centrists" about uncompromisable issues like human rights.
And I especially don't want to have anything to do with anyone who'd find it acceptable to publicly slander others. (slander, not reasonably calling out bad behavior when that would benefit others.)
If we can't agree that that kind of conduct is bad, I don't think we'll get along, so please don't follow me in that case, thanks.
(This was prompted by several unrelated things, please don't assume knowing what or who this might be about. I won't comment about any specifics here either.)
BahnCard 25 RabattaktionEs gibt im September (also ab morgen) die BahnCard 25 vergünstigt für 30€. Das sind 50% weniger als der Normalpreis und immerhin ein 10er weniger zum ermäßigten Preis. Falls es wem was nützt. ^^
fedi is the first and only social media I actively participate in, and the reason is that it feels more like a (public) group chat or something like that, instead of typical social media. I don't want to have lots of followers, or have a bigger reach than my comfy little bubble, or feel like I'm speaking on a stage instead of chatting on a hallway. Because that's what makes it enjoyable for me, it would suck otherwise.
@raketenlurch Das ist mir sehr bewusst, ich hätte klarer ausdrücken sollen dass ich eben nicht das meine sondern Rücksichtslosigkeit. Mir ging es darum, dass man wenn man eh die ganze Zeit auf sein Handy schaut und hörbar (typing sounds) mit irgendwem chatted nicht minütlich einen Notification Sound braucht.
I don't edit myself in any photos btw, ever (whether posted here or shared personally). Only thing I edit about them at all is redacting any PII and sometimes very basic overall adjustments using the sliders in the photos app. Keep in mind tho, that posing and lighting does a lot. (and cherry picking too of course)
hab ich jetzt wirklich den frisch gekauften Regenschirm im Zug liegen lassen, ufff... war nicht so teuer zum Glück. Vielleicht freut sich wer anderes drüber..
ventI personally don't get why one (apart from accessibility needs in that regard) would even have their notifications not on silent all the time, it'd feel annoying af to myself and everyone around too 😵💫 Even the default vibration pattern is too annoying for me, I have it set to a tiny dit and for me that's plenty for noticing it.
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