How much does size matter?

The surprising revelation

Where’s the truth here? There are so many stereotypes about penis size you can’t even figure out what’s really true now. Just think of it: girls believe men say size doesn’t matter only because they don’t have much to show. Women, on the other hand, always say size does matter. But how do you know they’ve tried some to compare? And is there a real difference?

Yes, there is. Not because of the penis size, but because of how well a guy can use it. More experienced people, both men and women, believe what matters is how well you can please a lady, how you accept your body, and if you find yourself attractive, despite your penis size. It’s more important for a woman to see a handsome, confident, and an experienced guy by her side, that’s when all those size disputes lose their value.

Do girls care about size for real? Not much. Usually, only the girls whose boyfriends have bigger penises, believe the size does matter as they seem to know what they’re talking about. There’s a stereotypical “the bigger, the better” mindset that blocks any other thoughts on the subject as they really start to believe in this, and it doesn’t relate only to the penis thing. This conformity shapes wrong opinions and doesn’t leave a single chance for guys with small penises, although they can be even more passionate and thoughtful lovers. But in reality, such girls only want to brag about it while talking to their girlfriends at the bar or spa. As you see, it’s not that important as most people would believe.

Many girls start to wonder “Does size really matter?” only if they start thinking of it or if they heard someone talk about it. The more you hear, the more you start thinking of it and worrying about your partner’s size. So, it’s all pure psychology and has nothing to do with the size for real. Plus, there’s no scientific evidence that proves the size does matter. So, maybe it’s the way you’re using your deal?

Does size matter in a relationship?

It would only matter for those who live a free life, don’t have a serious partner, and are really eager to experiment with partners that have different sizes. This “size does matter” philosophy doesn’t work in a serious relationship. Sure, it can be pretty inconvenient at first, but if a girl really cares about your penis size and makes you feel miserable because of it, that’s a bad sign for both of you. It’s either your girlfriend who has acceptance issues or you who can’t please her with what you have.

How to make your girl (and yourself) forget about the “Does dick size matter” question?

There’s no universal recipe for that, but there are some useful tips that you can try with your girlfriend or yourself. First, accept your body and the way it looks like. It’s not your fault to have a small penis and there’s nothing to be ashamed of whatsoever. It’s just like girls have smaller or bigger vaginas and breasts which isn’t an odd thing as well.

Next, think of these figures. Women experience orgasms<a href=”https://blogs.iu.edu/kinseyinstitute/2019/01/24/how-often-do-women-orgasm-during-sex/"> 60% more often</a> during the assisted intercourse, meaning they have fewer vaginal orgasms and get to the top only if you stimulate their clitorises. Does your dick size really matter now?

Speaking of stimulation, it’s a great way to make sex last longer and more passionate. Foreplay шы an important part of intercourse and can even become a full event without the need to mix it up with sex. If you know what you’re doing, your fingers and tongue can do much more than a penis. It helps create a stronger emotional bond, heats up the mood, and makes your girl’s heart beat faster. Literally.

Think of the best foreplay combinations, techniques, and moves that turn on your partner most of all. Talk about what you can do before sex and if your partner won’t mind replacing it with sex sometimes. Just show what you can and next time, it’ll be your partner who’d initiate “full-time” foreplay first.

Don’t forget about sex toys, roleplays, and erotic massages! All these are great stimulators and help diversify your sex life a lot. Bigger dildos, aromatic oils, dressing up, and tearing down clothes are what your partner might need to forget about your penis size once and forever. You can try different toys or vibrator sizes, use special liquid oils and waxes for a spiced-up experience, and try yourself in different roles to change the scenery a little. It’s not only exciting but distracting so you both can completely relax and enjoy the process along.

Finally, your penis size gives you a great opportunity to experiment with sexual positions! Considering your penis size, not all standard poses would fit you. Get your partner a scratch-poster with extraordinary positions and techniques and try something new each day. Believe it or not, there’s the most “orgasmic” position for every penis size.

So, does size matter in bed?

Not at all! It only matters to you if you think of it all the time. This is more about the way you treat your partner and use all your experience to please them, the way you accept yourself and your body, and the way your partner treats you. For a smart and experienced woman, it’s not a big deal, so it doesn’t have to be one for you. Talk through this, experiment with plays, toys, or positions and there’ll never be “does size matter” question in your life anymore.