Just Peeking

I don’t know what hit me but I thought of peeking into this blog.  Of course when I did, I could not help but reread my posts and … oh, I miss blogging and especially my blogging friends.  I remember the many many enjoyable times I spent interacting with my friends as if we all were “friends from way back.”  I learned a lot from blogging: reading other people’s blogs, reading the comments to my posts, interacting with my commenters and with the commenters in my blogging friends’ blogs.  Those were the days: it made me feel like these guys were my next door neighbors.  We “talked” about everything!

I wonder …

Till Next Time

Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.  ~William Shakespeare

Many things kept me from updating this blog.  Simply put, there were some matters that urgently required my attention and there are more I still have to fix.

I must lay down my pen today; perhaps I’ll write again at some other time, maybe never again.

But before I go, I’d like to say thank you to all the friends I’ve made through bloggingbugs; thank you for dropping by to say hello and for taking time to write your comments; thank you for coming just to read.  It was a pleasure to share my thoughts with you but it was a greater pleasure to read your comments and learn from them.

God bless you!



Hope

God puts rainbows

in the clouds

so that each of us –

in the dullest and most dreary moments-

can see

a possibility of hope.

Maya Angelou

Wishing you and all your loved ones a year filled with blessings of faith, hope and love!


Old-fashioned Values

Now that everybody – well, almost – is scrimping and saving, we’re back to old-fashioned values.  (Thank God.)

The other week, I was listening to some friends exchanging tips about how to save-more, spend-less, tighten-our-belts for the “even harder and darker days ahead.”  (And I hate it when government people keep denying that we’re already in recession.  Why, even powerful Japan and prosperous Singapore have admitted that they’re “sick”!  The sooner we admit this, the better we can brace ourselves for tougher times.)

But we’re not the only ones hanging on to our hard-earned money these days.  Here’s a survey that shows how Americans are coping with the crunch:

  • 61% Eat out less often.  [Here, many of us don’t just eat out less often … we eat less often.]
  • 50% – Buy fewer prepared meals at grocery stores. [Here, many Filipinos do not buy prepared meals.  They get these for free from garbage dumps. About 2 weeks ago, a public affairs program I regularly watch featured Filipinos who go to dump sites, garbage bins and trash cans early in the morning to “shop” for food.  Although this is a health hazard for most of us, a doctor explained these scavengers don’t get sick from what they eat because “their system is used to it … they’ve been fed this kind of stuff since they were babies.”]
  • 49% Try to make cleaning products last longer. [This is easier to do.  Many of us don’t clean at all. Dust is protective covering.]
  • 45% – Go to spas and hair salons less often. [I can’t agree more. :)]
  • 43%Buy fewer convenience foods/eat more from scratch. [As I said about “prepared meals”, we’re used to eating from scratch.]
  • 32% – Do more at-home beauty treatments.
  • 25% – Share more beauty products across household members. [e.g. shampoo, toothpaste]  Soap and toothbrush, too?  You’d be surprised but I learned many years ago that in some lower-income areas, they share even their toothbrushes.

So now it’s back to home-cooked food (lutong bahay), walk or take the jeepney if you can (I do more often now but I hate people who smoke in the jeepney so I’d rather walk to and from school!), more TV than movies … basically, we go back to old-style living.  Which I think is healthier.

One last thing.  We’ve forgotten how to plan ahead – tell each other orally where and what time we meet, what to bring, why we’re seeing each other, etc.  We’ve gotten used to saying, “I’ll just text (SMS) you later.”  This is one friend’s argument to people who insist that they can’t live without their cellphones.  He says, “…but we survived without cellphones in the past!”  Less texting, less phone bills and no more pining for that brand new iPhone.

Back to the good ‘ol days. 🙂

Going Bananas

No, I am not referring to the once popular sitcom here in the Philippines.

I read about a shortage of bananas in Japan and this Morning Banana Diet explains why.

Simply put, eat banana for breakfast if you want to lose weight.  But, of course, it is not as simple as that.  I read the fine print and, like any other diet, there were a lot of do’s and don’ts.  Nonetheless, banana is one of the cheapest fruits here in the Philippines so that should serve as an incentive to try this diet. (I remember my father admonishing me about eating bananas when we toured Japan – he said, “Why do you have to eat so much here when they’re so expensive? Eat your bananas in the Philippines!” I examined the beautiful bananas and read that they were “Imported from the Philippines”. :))

I want to give this a try – it’s time to go bananas over bananas!

Struggling

After learning a few months ago that I’m diabetic, I’ve pushed myself- like I have never pushed myself before- to exercise.  As I wrote in this previous post, one big hindrance is not my willingness to exercise but the lack of time to do 1-hour or even 30-minute sets everyday.  No, that is not an alibi.  It is a fact.

I love exercising and that does not really surprise me considering I was an athlete when I was a student.  But the many years of sitting 12 to 16 hours before a computer to do my schoolwork and surf the net has virtually deleted the words “exercise”, “fitness” and “health” from my vocabulary.  After being sedentary for nearly 30 years (after a major operation in the knee, a remembrance from my athletic days), I have forgotten the giddy, happy feeling I get after just a few minutes of exercising.

But time is my number one enemy.  In the past months that I had to put aside at least an hour for exercising (and sometimes another hour for walking to, around and from school or in the malls), I discovered that it terribly affected my teaching performance.  I lost so much time and my paperwork piled up. At other times, I was too tired to read.

I was also beginning to get discouraged – I lost 8 pounds in the first month, another 7 pounds in the next month plus another 3 pounds in the next month then I got stuck – I’ve been having trouble losing more weight. It seems that I was losing more time than I was losing weight.

Tonight, I think I might have found the solution.  I was doing some schoolwork when I flicked on the TV and chanced on Oprah interviewing people who had lost weight – many of them more than a 100 pounds and one even lost 520 pounds!  Of course it told me “if they could do it, so can I!”  Oprah kept on saying “find out more on Oprah.com” so I went to check it out and found this article which, in sum, says it is the intensity of the workout and not the duration that will make one lose weight.

Yipee!  This gives me hope and renewed vigor to pursue my fitness plan.

P.S.  There are also easy 10-minute workouts there that I’ve been doing for a week.

Just A Minute Or Two

It didn’t look like it was going to be a good day when I woke up this morning.  The very first thing I remembered was the problem I went to bed with last night.  I was in the midst of finishing my students’ grades when I noticed I had committed a serious error: I failed to report a student’s name in time for the deadline to submit “failed and dropped” students.  I was worried that I would be estopped to drop the student since it was way past the deadline.  I couldn’t understand how I could have forgotten something so important so I went to sleep (and woke up) angry with myself.

I had looked forward to enjoying the last few days of the semestral break (meaning, I wanted to stay home) but because of the problem, I had to go to school to, among others, admit that I was negligent.  That wasn’t something nice to look forward to so I felt exasperated.  The cold, rainy day  also contributed to my gloom.

As I was sipping (actually, gulping down) my coffee, I heard my cellphone’s message alert tone. I was surprised to read a message from one of my former students – he was under me in financial accounting in 2004 and when I resigned from that school in 2005, I saw him just once again after he graduated in 2006 when I offered to give some students a free lecture on some topics I had expected they would encounter in the board examinations.

His message today was short and simple.  He was telling me that he had just been reassigned to our city after working in Makati City since he passed the CPA board exams in 2006.  I was sincerely happy to hear from him.  When he was reviewing for the board exams, I didn’t expect to get a message from him asking for advice about his review and when he passed, again he surprised me with a very touching thank-you message.

I was rushing to school – I knew I was going to have a long day resolving my problem – but I stopped to send him a reply saying I’m very happy he continues to keep in touch and that things have turned out well for him.  I did not expect him to text back but when he did, I was floored.  He said: “Sus! Attorney, indi ko ni ma achieve kon wala mo ko gin encourage [I would not be able to achieve this if you did not encourage me] (when I was in the) 2nd year.  I’ll always remember your note to me [n.b.: he was probably referring to the short notes I write on my students’ test papers] — ‘you have lots of potentials’.  Thanks!”

I remember this boy when he was my student.  I knew he had the “it” that accountancy students needed not only to survive the rigors and demands of the course but also to pass the board exams.  But, frankly, I could not remember writing that particular note to him.  Not that I didn’t sincerely mean it at the time I wrote it but I must have written hundreds and hundreds of notes to my students – how am I expected to remember all of them?  This morning, when I read his message, I realized what a minute or two of my time could do to change a person’s life.

I didn’t tell him … but the minute or two he spent to send me his messages also changed the rest of my day.

I have resolved that, in the future, when things get rough and I feel like throwing the towel in, I will take just a minute or two to remember my student’s message (and, for that matter, all the other messages/letters/notes I got from my students). I’m sure it’s all I need to recharge me and put me back on the right track.  Just a minute or two can indeed make a big change.

CPAs, Not Merely Computers

Today, my students finished the October, 2008 licensure examinations for Certified Public Accountants. The results will be known within 24 hours. That means by 5 or 7 p.m. tomorrow, I can add more names to my ever-growing list of CPAs.

As I have done in the past many years I have taught accountancy students, I always ask the candidates for feedback about the board examinations. I use this input to fine-tune my own teaching program, particularly what to emphasize and to de-emphasize, how they applied – if at all – what I taught them, etcetera. There are many things to learn from those who took the board exams and what I learn from the candidates benefit our future candidates.

But this year, although I was not really surprised, I was a bit disappointed to hear the feedback.
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My Nanay

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My Nanay

It was a busy week for me and next week, it will be worse because it’s final exams week. My “descent into hell”, as I call it.

Last Tuesday, I woke up with a gigantic headache and a heavy, tired feeling. I had difficulty breathing. I immediately knew it was my body’s way of sending a warning signal, like a blinking red “systems overload” signal. It was time to take a break yet I pushed myself to work. But after 3 or 4 hours of doing some papers, I knew I wasn’t getting anywhere as thoughts of Nanay kept popping up. It had been a month since my last visit to her. Why would I suddenly keep thinking about her? I was worried so I put away my papers and decided to take a day off to visit her.
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Happy Pinoys Only #38

How happy are we?

According to this survey made by the National Science Foundation, happiness increased worldwide from 1981 to 2007 but, much as we boast that we are a happy lot, we’re only number 38 in this survey.  The USA is number 16 and the Danes are number 1.

What is happiness?  Interestingly, this survey also confirmed that money has a huge impact on happiness.  Maybe this is why we Filipinos consider ourselves “the happiest”.  Because inspite of our “liquidity problems” (an accountant’s euphemism for one’s economic condition), we can still laugh and crack jokes about ourselves.  And, it seems, we never take anything seriously.  Whether that is an asset or a liability, I’ll leave it up for you to decide.

Here is the complete list.