Tag Archives: Mental Health

Dare to be dependent?

Posted on November 5, 2012 by mainbean

I almost fell off my chair.  I am watching an innocent program about a middle-aged woman looking for love.  She wants a man to love, she is tired of lavishing her affections on her cat.  We follow her to many … Continue reading →

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Help is not always helpful

Posted on November 3, 2012 by mainbean

Yes we have covered this subject before but I have just been given a new perspective.  Maybe I have never thought about this sort of help being harmful but I guess it can be – I have recently been to … Continue reading →

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Fill up the hole

Posted on October 8, 2012 by mainbean

What hole?  Not the hole in your wallet, head or stomach.  Not the hole in your jeans, sock, or shoe.  The hole in you. An amazing KBT therapist I have had the opportunity to listening to and study with  shared something … Continue reading →

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How much of a second chance

Posted on March 25, 2012 by mainbean

Second chance.  New leaf.  We have all heard them and probably used these and many other expressions ourselves.  But my question is how much? How much change is expected and for how long before we give or receive that second … Continue reading →

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She wants to be upper class :Step 10

Posted on January 27, 2012 by mainbean

That is what the young lady on the news program said.  She wants to be upper class that is her goal.  She makes quite good money but it is new money and she feels that old money can be judgemental. … Continue reading →

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