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03
Jul
10

city of joy – shanti niketan

We left for the sacred land founded by Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore by train accompanied by Ant R, her mother and her cousin. “So near to the hustle bustle of the city, yet far from the madding crowd” is the only way I can describe Shanti Niketan, a mere 3hour journey from Calcutta. The place still feels like how it may have been during Gurudev’s times which was during the independence era. Small, quaint and charming, Shanti Niketan draws you to its fold, slowly enveloping you in its warm embrace. Dusty roads, cycle rickshaws, tiny stores selling essentials, rows of terracotta and artefact stalls and cute cottages with small gardens in front lend this place its aesthetic beauty. We stayed in once such pretty cottage called Bon Pullock which means blooming flowers.

But its identity sure comes from the Viswabharati University set up by Gurudev. Vast acres of land adorned with banyan trees are reminiscent of the time when girls studied here in open air. For those unaware, Shanti Niketan boasted of being the first open air school for girls at a time when education for women was looked down upon. A litterateur, a poet, a social worker and a Nobel Peace Prize winner, Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore was a man way ahead of his times. His contribution to Bengali literature and music is still evident when you hear strains of Rabindra Sangeet or quote verses from ‘Gitanjali’. The University has expanded from being just a school for girls. Today it has incorporated various streams of fine & performing arts like architecture, music, dance, sculpting and painting to name a few. This is visible through various sculptures installed across the university and murals & charcoal sketches on various faculty buildings all created by the students themselves.

As the University and various museums were shut due to Pujo, we didn’t get to see a lot of work that is otherwise displayed. However while taking a walk in the haloed precincts of the university, we chanced upon an art exhibition by artist Prof. Selim Munshi at Niharika Art Gallery. Prof. Selim has painted the landscapes of old Shanti Niketan on the exact spots themselves. Many of the then spots are now either modified or demolished. Apart from water and oil colour paintings, the artist had also put graphics, sketches and sculptures on display. The works displayed were simply awesome that depicted the Shanti Niketan of yore. While meandering aimlessly we also chanced upon the ancestral home of Nobel Peace Prize winner Amartya Sen apart from the house of Gurudev’s wife, which is now being used as a room for prayers and yoga to keep the mind, body and soul intact.

From here we visited Shyamolie (meaning black beauty), a cluster of houses with granite sculptures engraved on the walls. The sculptures were truly breath taking as each of them depicted figures in various dance poses. We drank in the finesse of the sculptures and marvelled at the artistic talents with hungry eyes yet we couldn’t have enough of them. A befitting gift to an Alma Mater committed to enhancing artistic pursuits. Not just the university, but even while walking, one comes across small huts that double up as art galleries probably displaying works by students or novices who may not have the means for a grand exhibition.

Another interesting place we visited was Srijani Shilpagram that hosted models of country life in the states surrounding West Bengal comprising Andaman & Nicobar, Bihar, Sikkim, Meghalaya, Manipur, Nagaland, Assam, Orissa. For someone who has visited only Sikkim out of the entire list, I was fascinated by the models. The jewelery, the pots n pans, clothes, structure of homes was so captivating that each model transported me to those states amidst the natives. Then entrance too was a huge terracotta structure with intricate carvings all over it. It was extremely painful to tear ourselves away from the place.

As with every tourist, there was a comedy of errors that happened with us too. Our return train was at 7.30am but Ant R mistook it for 19.30. We spent the whole day roaming in the lush countryside, shopping for terracotta artefacts, famed Shanti Niketan bags and batik & kanthawork sarees. Thank God for Ant R’s mother who happened to (like all mothers) goad her daughter to recheck the timings, coach number and other details that Ant R let out a gasp at the faux pas. She and her cousin hurried to the station to check for a later train or one early next morning but to no avail. Since it was past 8pm, everything was dark and it was unsafe to undertake the journey as the route was via the highway. Eventually it was decided that we leave at the crack of dawn the next day and accordingly booked a cab. In this entire milieu I was plagued by mild panic attacks as next day I was to fly back to Bombay in the afternoon and I still had some more things to do and see. Well since the damage couldn’t be undone, we passed the night and next morning set off to Calcutta reaching home by about 9am.

However something in me just didn’t want to leave as I could feel the invisible hands tugging at my heart strings beseeching me to not forsake it for the city life. Never before have I ever experienced such belonging to any place and I was shocked at my own silent tears that kept my eyes misty for the entire 3 odd hours. Never before have I turned back forlornly with a promise to return. I have to keep my promise and hopefully someday I will go back (hopefully as an accomplished Odissi dancer).

The whole experience was purely magical and in every grain, every granule of mud, every drop of water and every whiff of air you find Gurudev’s presence overlooking his beautiful Shanti Niketan.

11
Feb
10

city of joy – sightseeing

SK left for Bombay on Sept 30, 09 slightly disappointed at not being able to explore more of Calcutta. We dropped her to the airport and just for a lark decided to go around the city just in case we get to visit some touristy places. Topmost on my list were traveling in the Metro and Tram (SK and I had already experienced the cycle rickshaw and we didn’t want to try the hand rickshaws on humanitarian grounds). So we first took the Metro for the Indian Museum. To all Bombayites lusting for one in our beloved city, I must tell you that the Metro is indeed worth travelling. The huge stations are somewhat similar to our New Bombay stations in size (albeit air conditioned). The trains too are air conditioned, no men women segregation in terms of compartment barring the seats reserved for women. It was an absolute delight and against my will I ended up behaving like a tourist…all wide eyed and giggly. Apparently you aren’t allowed photography inside the train. We were obviously unaware of this and happily clicked snaps. It was a scene from a busy work day. Commuters on their way to work but unlike our local trains, here they travelled comfortably in air conditioned coaches, the automatic doors having swallowed everyone in their belly so you have no one hanging by the door or even attempting to sit on top (a feat achieved by space starved Bombayites).

Built in 1814, the museum was a beautiful one storeyed structure. Ant R was anyway cribbing about having to make this trip once even suggesting (to my dismay) that I hail a cab and go myself. Those of you who know me also know about my impeccable sense of direction (pun intended) and resulting travel paranoia. Ant R was under the impression that it was a 4 storeyed structure (reason for the crib) and was pleasantly happy to be proved wrong. But what it lacked in height, it made up in length & breadth. There were so many rooms within rooms that it easily took us more than an hour to see the entire place (this after excluding the industrial & geological sections at Ant R’s protest. She is an environment consultant you see and has had enough of stones, soil, etc.). The museum is famous for a 4000 year Mummy of an Egyptian Noble Lady. Apparently there are only 3 such mummies in India’s museums (the other 2 being in Hyderabad & Baroda). The mummy was well maintained with a detailed description on the embalming process. This was part of the Egyptian wing in the Archaeological section, the other sections being Anthropological, Art, Geological, Zoological and Industrial. The Zoological section as usual had taxidermied animals, birds and marine creatures. The entrance to this section is marked by giant jaw bones (obviously belonging to a gigantic aquatic creature probably the whale family) forming an arch. The flip side were the loves notes scribbled by insensitive tourists on its white surface. It really is sad to know that 2 people decide to profess their love by desecrating public property. But the sections I loved the most were the archaeological & art sections that had sculptures in both stone & bronze depicting Indian God & Goddesses. This section seemed endless as each room opened into another one. There were statues from the times of Gautam Buddha depicting mythological lores along with Indo-Chinese artistry. The regional differences were evident as in the case of Indian craftsmanship, the structures were more voluptuous while in the case of Chinese sculptures the statues had slant eyes, high cheekbones and leaner physiques. I personally preferred the stone sculptures and as is my wont went about touching & feeling all the statues transporting myself tothat period for sometime.

From here we went to the Victoria Memorial (and also had a fight with the cab driver for cheating us with the fare as well as the route and not dropping us closer to the memorial. For the first time I saw Ant R in her angry young woman avtaar as she fought with the cabbie refusing to pay him a dime for his impudence). There was a serpentine queue at the ticket counter on an extremely hot and sunny day. On Ant R’s suggestion that there is nothing much to see inside the memorial per say we bought tickets for the garden. The Victoria Memorial lawns are a treat to sore eyes. Lush green, well manicured and interspersed with fountains and artificial streams, the garden also serves a lover’s park (you are sure to find lovebirds under trees trying to shield themselves from the harsh rays of the sun while whispering sweet nothings). The pristine white building is both majestic and impressive and you can’t help but marvel at the architecture of olden times.

A day well spent and we were to leave for Shanti Niketan the next day.

16
Oct
09

city of joy – vellagiri

Well…confession…it wasn’t like we were only participating in the Pujo activities; we did go out and have fun apart from the festivities too. One important thing to remember is that during Pujo the entire state of West Bengal comes to a standstill. From Sashtami onwards it is government holiday till Dashami (and in most cases it extends till Lakshmi Puja). So all museums, art galleries, emporiums, art & craft villages etc. were shut. Due to want of better things to do, SK & I did what we wouldn’t imagine doing in Bombay ever. From pandal hopping to mall hopping. In SK’s own words, “we visited more malls in Calcutta than we ever did in Bombay”. At one of these malls we even saw a Bangla rock band playing (and man, they were good). Not only this we also met up with Ant R’s friend, who took us to VP (Vivekanand Park) where I had my first brush with puchkas (pani puri with potato filling instead of the usual ragda) and papri chaat (sev puri). Needless to say, like all other places VP too was choc-a-bloc with families grabbing quick bites amidst pandal hopping.

Apart from malls we also visited couple of pubs like I-Bar (where I danced to my heart’s content) and Afraa (a lounge bar where we won free beers and chewing gums for participating in an on-the-spot contest). Surprisingly both of them had minimal crowd (could be due to Pujo) but what was jaw dropping was that we saw families coming to these pubs to dine…imagine grandparents, husband, wife and toddlers…wow. Now that’s a sight one doesn’t get to see in Bombay. And I found it very warm and comforting. I mean we don’t really need to be uptight about sartorial preferences, do we? Can women who are comfortable in a saree (salwar kameez is still accepted) not crave a drink? Do we need to scrutinise them like they were from outer space? No…it’s a democratic country and as long as certain club rules are maintained, anyone should have the freedom to dress comfortably.

In between the Pujo frenzy, I was slated to meet a friend of mine who was coming down all the way from Jamshedpur. Now I have known RB for about 9 months but the funniest fact was that this was to be our first meeting. How? Well it just so happens that we are SMS friends.Yeah, the world is moving at a rapid pace…from pen pals to phone pals to chat friends to Orkut/Facebook friends, we have now progressed to SMS friends. What this means is that we text more than we speak. Don’t ask me why? Not all actions have justifiable responses. In my defense I can say that after a long time I have found someone who can match my wit and intellect. Its a pleasure talking to him and I can’t seem to have enough of his repartees. How did I make an SMS friend? Well, it started with a wrong number or rather a case of mistaken identity that led to a few war of words initially only to end up as friends. And no I am not sharing any more juicy tidbits 🙂 .

So RB came down to Calcutta and met us at Adi Dhakeshwari (a well known saree shop with an amazing collection of sarees right from cotton to silk to kanthawork, etc.) since SK was shopping for sarees for her family (which my friends was quite a trying experience for Ant R and me as SK almost did not like any saree shown to her while we who were sort of saree connoisseurs couldn’t resist most of them). After some co-ordination (me being geographically challenged and his driver being a non-Bong), RB managed to located the shop. From 4th floor, I went all the way to the ground floor to greet him. And I will let you in on just one tidbit…I was freakin nervous. My legs felt heavy, there were huuugggeee butterflies in my tummy and my pulse rate was quickening. In hindsight it was very crazy the way I felt…but at that time I just felt like a giggly gaggly teenager. RB was near the lift while I had taken the stairs (just to buy some time and steady myself before I could meet him). I almost missed him as I entered the main store and realising that someone was at the lift, I came back. The first thought that crossed my mind was, “he’s so tall”. And when we greeted each other I felt like a dwarf (no actually pygmy is more like it). For sometime I really couldn’t believe that we had actually met (since this was on cards since a really long time and wasn’t materialising at all) and it took me a while to get my bearings back :-).

From here we went for lunch to 6 Ballygunge Place (6BP) for an authentic Bong cuisine (which aunty was anyway serving us everyday at home). But no…we wanted to experience old world charm and quaint eating places. And 6BP was a challenge for us. You see the last time we went there for lunch we had to wait for an hour before being told that since we hadn’t booked a table 15-20days in advance it was unlikely that there would be a vacant table for us. Even Mainland China was overcrowded and guess what we finally had lunch at a Barista…taaa daaa….Chewing on insipid quiches and sandwiches, washing them down with iced teas and evesdropping on a group of socialites discussing scandalous details of their friends was certainly not our idea of old world charm.

So anyway we lunched at 6BP (which by the way is really a nice warm place…an old house converted into an eating joint. It had wood panelled libraries with Bengali literature books, bamboo blinds and was done up in warm shades of ochre) and from there proceeded to a lounge bar called Starstruck (coz when out of Jamshedpur, RB only sticks to a liquid diet comprising beer and whiskey). So here we were at Starstruck having a drink bang in the middle of afternoon. The bar was nice, spacious but sadly empty (translate: no eye candy 😦 ). From here we went to Swabhumi (that houses stalls selling ethnic handicraft, jewelry, apparels and other artefacts). It was refreshing to see a guy accompany 3 gurls for shopping and that too patiently. RB sure gets full marks on that front :-). Not only that he was also good company and thankfully there was never an awkward moment where we looked at each one’s faces wondering how to keep the conversation going. It flowed as smoothly and was as varied as the whiskey and beer.

After meandering in Swabhumi, we headed to…you guessed it right another pub (time for RB’s liquid diet you see). So off we went to Afraa for a drink (this time sitting in their open air section). It was beautiful as it gave a panoramic view of the skyline and everytime vehicles would blink their lights it would reflect on the partial glass ceiling (giving an impression of a dozens planes flying one behind the other). RB exclaimed that this was just the kind of place he would like to introduce in Jamshedpur (though he wasn’t sure if his patrons would pay up for the experience). Amen to that.

Soon it was time for us to head our ways…we to Ant R’s bari and RB to the station to catch a train. Before parting we peeked into a stationery horse driven tram called ‘The Kolkata Store’. The store had lovely knick knacks and artefacts in terracotta, dokara (an alloy of copper, bronze and other metals) to name a few. I picked up a set of 3 turtles in terracotta for a colleague (who was big on amphibians), a terracotta piggy bank (for my little cousin brother) and a Maa Durga in ‘shola’ on a cane scoop (for my Bong colleague). The best part was that though they looked expensive, the prices were not at all exorbitant (ekdum paisa vasool). Happy and content, I bid adieu to RB (glad that after months of anticipation we had finally met).

It was a day well spent and will be etched in my memory for a long time to come.

PS: today is RB’s birthday…so here’s wishing him a very Happy Birthday.

12
Oct
09

city of joy – belur math & dakshineshwari temple

On one of the days, we made a trip to Belur Math, that has the shrines of Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, his wife Maa Sarada and his disciple Swami Vivekandand. Belur Math is also known as ‘Ramakrishna Mission’. It is said that Ramakrishna was the only human (amongst Hindus) to have seen God. Apparently Goddess Kali would appear in his dreams and converse with him. However most of us know of him because of his disciple, Swami Vivekanand who had given the welcome speech at The World Parliament of Religions, Chicago on September 11, 1893. You can read more about the speech here: http://hinduism.about.com/od/vivekananda/a/vivekananda_speeches.htm

Well Belur Math is really beautiful and embodies everything that Ramakrishna Paramahansa followed. Located on the banks of the river Hooghly, the shrine is a pristine white structure with serenity and calm surrounding the sanctum sanctorum. Large banyan trees provide shelter to the weary devotees while the cool river breeze gently fans the heat away. However it was slightly humid due to the heat coupled with unexpected showers and the ground was hot to the bare feet.

On the opposite side of the river is the Dakshineshwar Temple that can be reached via a boat. The boat ride was an absolute joy and thrill for both SK & I as it was one of the check list on our ‘old world charm’ to-do list. It seemed like a scene straight out of a Satyajit Roy, Bimal Roy of Shakti Samanta film with the central portion of the boat covered by an arch shaped tarpaulin to keep the sun and rains away. However SK & I wanted to rough it out and we sat on the hull watching the banks disappear from sight as the boat made way to the temple. Never mind the fact that after a while the sun shone mercilessly on us with SK going red in the face and me getting royally tanned. Still we stayed put imagining the scores of Sharmila Tagore and Rajesh Kanna scenes filmed on such boats. We sailed under bridges that gave us some respite from the harsh rays of the sun, saw localites going about their chores for the day like bathing, washing clothes and even spreading their nets to catch fish. The water sadly was muddy brown and I wondered if anybody used it for drinking. My thoughts were soon confirmed when as we reached the temple banks, I saw some people filling water bottles with the waters of Hooghly (also known as Ganga). Anybody could have said that the water was impure and unfit for driniking. But superstitious a lot as we are, we choose to ignore these glaring facts in the name of religion.

The temple was a pretty red & white structure with lots of Shiv Mandirs ensconsed in its compound. The ground being terribly hot we just visited 2 temples and ran back to the stalls where we had to keep our footwear. Our Gods are kind and surely they won’t mind if we took some shotcuts this way :-).

We took a boat ride back to Belur Math and this time wisely sat near the arch so as to slip under it should it get hot. Thankfully it was cloudy and we got to enjoy our ride. Embarking on the banks, we visited the hordes of stalls selling conch shells (a must have in every Bengali household. It is mostly kept near the idols and is blown everyday as part of the religious ritual. Also during marriages, Bengali women blow the conch shell in a bid to keep away evil eye). The conch shells come in different shapes and sizes and blowing them takes quite an effort but the music from it is very melodious and can be heard from a distance. Apart from conch shells, there were stalls selling, items used for religious purposes like lamps, bells along with the symbols of matrimony for a bengali women like the white and red bangles also known as shankha-poila. Along with this the married women also wear a bangle made of iron which is called ‘lohu’. One is never supposed to remove it from her wrist as long as her husband is alive and the iron is supposed to touch the wrist at all times.

Also there were stalls selling eatables and other refreshments. We tasted the famed ‘jhal muri’ (which in Bombay is ‘bhel puri)…jhal means ‘spicy’ and muri means ‘kurmura’ or ‘puffed rice’. As soon as we exited the gates, it began drizzling which soon turned into a torrential downpour forcing us to take refuge under the eatery stalls and any other place that had a tarpauling covering. Finally we managed to find Ant R’s driver (who has a knack of disappearing when most wanted) and sped away home before we got cuaght in the deluge.

09
Oct
09

city of joy – auspicious days

The most auspicious days for Bengalis during Dassera are the 6th (Sashtami), 7th (Saptami), 8th (Ashtami), 9th (Nabami) and 10th (Dashami). Of these Ashtami is the most important day. Ant R’s father enlightened us about its importance. Legend has it that before Lord Ram went to Lanka to fight the demon king Ravan and rescue Sita, he conducted a ‘sandhi puja’ offering a havan (holy fire) to Ma Durga. One of the most critical ingredients of this havan was the offering of 108 blue lotuses. So Laxman, Hanuman and their army of simians gathered 108 blue lotuses with great difficulty. However when Lord Ram counted there were only 107 lotuses. So the entire lot had to be discarded and they had to go through the entire rigmarole again. Yet again the count showed one less. This went on for some time till Lord Ram realised that there was some divine meaning to this trick and appealed to Ma Durga that in order to complete the count he would offer one of his eyes to her (as he was also called ‘kamala nayana’ or ‘lotus eyed’). Satisfied with the offering, Ma Durga accepted the 108 blue lotuses and blessed Lord Ram with victory. And the rest as they say is mythology…

On Ashtami most girls wear a saree and deck up in their finery. Aunty lent me her Bonkai Oriya Silk sari (which I draped in typical Bengali style complete with a cotton jhola and keychain) and Ant R wore a black & red batik print sari while SK who hates draping saris stuck to a loose silk black and white salwar kameez. At the risk of sounding pompous, I will say that all of us looked pretty in our Indian wear; a far cry from the usual denims we lounge around in. The cotton jhola (bag) that I carried had the message ‘save the tigers’ with saffron and bottle green stripes on an off white background. Seeing this Ant R’s dad remarked “Mamta Bannerjee will be very happy to see you”. I thought it was because of the tiger message till he clarified that these were similar to the colours of Trinamool Congress :-).

Aunty for some reason felt very happy to see us and since I kinda matched her in size (am not really thin you see), announced that she had adopted me for a day:-). Not only this she went on to add that she had titles for us to introduce to prospective grooms. Since I was the most traditionally dressed, I was titled ‘ready to serve’ (it conjured an image of me on a serving tray like a stuffed turkey taken to be carved), SK was ‘easy to handle’ (a title by which both Ant R & I disagreed…SK is anything but easy to handle and her bark is worse than her bite) and lastly Ant R was ‘handle with care’ (due to her petite frame and sharp tongue).

The entire group trooped to the Sovabazar Rajbati (or Purani Bari as it is popularly known) where Durga Puja was first celebrated in October 1757 (2 months after the battle of Plassey). Since then the Puja has been held here every year with descendents of the family coming down only for the festival. The bari which surrounds a garden area on 4 sides is in ruins with the back portion having almost caved in. Only a small part is habitable which is where the Durga Puja is held. The casts used to make the idols are the same as those used in 1757 resulting in the idols looking the same till date.

On Dashami (the last day of Durga Puja, which is also the time for immersion), we accompanied aunty to a nearby pandal for Sindoor Khela (celebrated or rather played by married women only). In this, the women first apply sindoor (vermillion powder symbolising matrimony) to all the statues, stuff Sandesh (a traditional milk based Bengali sweet) into their mouths and wipe their faces with betel leaves. This is symbolic of wiping Ma Durga’s tears as she is supposedly headed to her in-law’s place from her maternal home.

The immersion process too is very different as compared to our Ganesh visarjan. The entire set of idols are first tied to a wooden or bamboo frame which is then tied between 2 boats that go deep into the river and gradually drift apart thereby slowly immersing the idols in the water. Since the idols are made of clay, they quickly dissolve in water unlike Ganesh idols that are washed ashore often dismembered and in pitiable conditions. The frames are retained to be recycled and reused fo Laxmi Puja or Kali Puja and in many cases even till the next Durga Puja. Those pandals that have terracota work sell the murals, panels etc. to devotees who install these in their homes.

With this the 10days of Durga Puja come to an end and the simplicity of the festival truly strikes a harmonious balance between nature & devotion.

06
Oct
09

city of joy – pujo frenzy (pandal hopping)

When we stepped out for pandal hopping it was somewhere around 5.30pm in the evening but one look outside and it felt like it was 8pm (Bombay time). Surprised we asked Ant R who reminded us that we were in the East where the Sun rose and set early. We realised this when it was broad daylight at about 6am the next morning similar to Bombay’s 10am.

Anyway we set out and were left spellbound at the sight of the festive decorations. Every nook and corner had set up pandals (aking to our Ganesh Chaturthi mandals) with the entire celestial family comprising Maa Durga (on her vehicle, the tiger), Godesses Laskshmi (wealth) and Saraswati (learning), Lord Ganesha (with a shy banana tree as his consort), Lord Kartikeya (on his vehicle, the peacock) and Mahishasur (the demon killed by Maa Durga in the form of Goddess Kali). The pandals were beautiful, each better than the other and depicting the festival in its own way. Some had terracota work on them, some had illustrations from mythology yet others depicted rustic life. But the most noteworthy feature of these pandals was its eco-friendliness. From clay, grass, hay to cane, bamboo, jute and vegetable colours, these pandals were and epitome of environment friendliness. No POP (plaster of the paris), no artificial colours, no OTT (over the top) decorations (standard trademarks of our Ganesh mandals), the pandals were elegance personified in a humble way. All the extravaganza of our Ganesh Chaturthi notwithstanding, the decorations of Durga Puja are a treat for sore eyes. Couple this with soulful Rabindra Sangeet playing in the background (unlike our remixed Bollywood Bhajans) and you truly feel closer to divinity.

As I mentioned earlier, pandal hopping is a big activity during Pujo. Families throng the pandals in droves…almost seems like they have set out to achieve a target of covering ‘x’ number of pandals. Debargha’s 50-60 pandals was probably an understatement. Some take their cars and check out pandals from out, some halt at every pandals for darshan, most go in the evenings as it is pleasant and yet other like Ant R & here friends set out at night from 11pm onwards till about 2am or so. Since there is no 10pm deadline unlike Bombay, the pandals are open all night. However SK & I managed a measly 5-6 pandals and cheated on the rest by clicking snaps from the confines of our car. However to make the number more respectable, SK decided to keep a track of all the pandals we passed on our way. Trust a Bombayite to use shortcuts :-).

Majority of these pandals serve food to the devotees. This food is known as ‘bhog’ (offering) and consists of the staple maach bhaat and tarkari (barring Ashtami or the 8th day which is strictly vegetarian, Bengalis have non-veg food all days during Pujo).

Pujo is indeed West Bengal in all its glory with streets lit up in fancy lanterns and people in their fineries. It is difficult to not be cuaght in the Pujo fever.

05
Oct
09

city of joy – enroute to Ant R’s bari

From Dumdum, we proceeded to Ant R’s bari (bari means home in bengali) at Tollygunge, South Calcutta. The whole city seemed to have come to a standstill as we could hardly see any crowd on the streets save an odd traffic jam resulting from the lack of traffic signals (yeah strange but true…Cal doesn’t have very many traffic signals). Passing through Salt Lake (the new business destination of Calcutta akin to Bombay’s Bandra-Kurla Complex), we saw the Golf Park and the Royal Calcutta Turf Club (RCTC) both rightly labelled the ‘lungs’ of the city due to its lush greenery. But what caught our eye were 2 distinct things unseen in Bombay – vast open spaces replete with water bodies and clean roads). Yeas you read that right. Calcutta is clean. In my 10 days I have travelled quite the length and breadth of Calcutta from the new city to the old but everywhere I found the roads clean. Well not spic and span but keeping Bombay as the yardstick, it is much cleaner. And relatively free of potholes. Also no unnecessary digging. For this my thumbs up goes to KMC (Kolkata Municipal Corporation). As Ant R said, “am glad you found it clean, at least it justifies my paying taxes”. Wish Bombayites could say that.

As I mentioned before Calcutta has an abundance of individual houses – row houses and bungalows as against buildings and residential complexes (the newer parts of the city are however going the concrete structure way). One thing that struck us as curious was the lack of a garden area between the houses and the main gates. Now in Bombay even the most cloistered buildings, row houses, bungalows have an open space from the main entrance to the structure. This was evidently not so here. The entrance almost immediately led to the doors of the house as though the owners / builders were particular about conserving space. Be it individual houses or buildings, there was no concept of a parking area (barring the new constructions). Some homes did have a garage, but most hardly had space to move about forget manouvering a vehicle. And since most lanes were narrow it was surprising how & where people parked their vehicles. SK & I concluded that perhaps they had no vehicles of their own and hence need not bother.

After travelling about an hour or so, we reached Ant R’s home (which is located in a maze of narrow lanes and bylanes). Hat’s off to her…with my sense of direction I would have needed a GPS to locate my own home :-). Ant R’s mother received us and we saw aunty after almost 14 years. Aunty wa sthe same even after all these years…pretty as most Bengali women. What surprised us though was her vivcaity and chirpiness. Now when we met aunty (for the first and last time), we were in Std. X way back in 1995. at that time aunty came across as someone very strict and after all these years to see a different avtaar of hers was mind boggling. SK & I exchanges numerous quizzical glances and concluded that probably we hadn’t gotten to know her better then and hence the misconception.

Anyway after a scrumtious Bengali lunch of fried karela, tarkari (dry vegetable dish), dal and maach bhaat (fish & rice) and a short nap later, we set out for ‘the’ Pujo activity – Pandal Hopping.

05
Oct
09

city of joy – airborne to calcutta

SK & I checked in at the Chhatrapati Shivaji International Airport at Bombay where we bumped into a colleague of mine, Debargha, also headed to Calcutta by the same flight. He gave us some insight into the fervour of ‘Pujo’ (as Bengalis call it) and said that ‘pandal hopping’ formed a major portion of the festive revelry. When asked how many pandals did he see on an average, he stunned us by casually mentioning at least 50-60 pandals. Wow…both SK and I looked at each other…we haven’t visited that many Ganesh mandals in our lifetime.

We boarded the flight and as the preparation for take off began, SK started to feel a sense of claustrophobia resulting from an acute fear of flying. She started perspiring profusely, heart palpitating, palms sweaty and fingers cold. Shutting her eyes she tried to push the fear in the abyss of her mind hoping that the 2.5hour ordeal would end soon.

Meanwhile I was enjoying every minute of it. Peeping out of the window, I saw the plane rising high till the famous landmark of Bombay, our ‘slums’ were just a speck of blue & black tarpaulin. Bombay looks every bit the commercial capital of the nation even from top. Tall skyscrapers dotting the coastline, the Arabian Sea a wide expanse giving the island city a majestic feel. Up and away we flew above the clouds and through them…the clouds looking like balls of cotton disintegrating and changing every moment. The sky itself was a hue of varying shades of blue from light to azzure covered with the yellow golden rays from the sun. It seemed that one could find heaven if only one looked closely amidst the clouds.

Slowly the plane started its downward descent and the aerial view of West Bengal was breath taking. Paddy fields alternating between dark and light green lay in horizontal and vertical patterns with the irrigation canals running through them. It looked as though someone had deliberately placed these grassy mats this way. As we crossed water bodies, gushing rivers and lush fields, I spotted the yellow ambassador taxis (or ‘ambys’ as they are popularly known).

Calcutta has a quaint feel to it even from up above. Unlike Bombay, you don’t see skyscrapers but individual houses in various shades of white, blue, pink yellow. Temples in saffron, open fields, small ponds as against the gigantic Arabian Sea. Felt like the city had fought commercialisation in a bid to retain its sanity.

Down and down we went, till we reached the Netaji Subash Chandra Bose International Airport at Dumdum. Ant R was waiting for us outside. We stepped out of the airport on to the ‘city of joy’. Everything felt just right. I knew this trip would be cherishable for me for more reasons than one.

30
Sep
09

break toh banta hai – City of Joy

Disclaimer: All the characters in my ‘City of Joy’ series will have only initials to keep them anonymous as SK has threatened to murder me should her name appear anywhere :-)…

After slogging my butt out and reports pinning my hypertension on 9 out of 10, my boss Ashish suggested that I go on a break. well, I thought, sometime or the other I had to take a break, so why not now. So as usual confused me sat scratching my head wondering where to go. My recent past experiences at planning a break were a complete washout – couldn’t go to Greece (because as my travel agent said, “you are single, young, with no loans on your head, never travelled abroad before and hence could be a potential threat” 😦 ). Also out went Dubai, Egypt and Sri Lanka (folks couldn’t understand why SL of all places). Was suggested to visit South East Asia, get a couple of visas on my passport and be eligible for my ‘big’ trip.

While discussing my plight with my friend, Ant R, she  suggested I visit Calcutta. “Come during Durga Pooja”, she said, “and you’ll kill two birds with one stone…watch the famed Pujo and also destress”. Sounded like a perfect recipe for recreation & rejuvenation. I agreed pronto and the date was set to September 24. Since Ant R was a school friend (we studied together from Std. VIII to X), I decided to ask 2 other friends from our group – PS & SK. PS is suffering from severe backache and has been advised to refrain from travelling; SK (surprise surprise) readily agreed. Her immediate ‘yes’ shocked me as I had mentally prepared myself for much persuasion and cajoling.

Well to cut a long story short,  SK & I left for Calcutta on Sept 24 morning looking forward to having some fun in the ‘City of Joy’.

25
Aug
09

no easy task

This Sunday my governess decided to take an off. JLT (just like that). So obviously mommy dearest hoped that her children will help her in house work. Bro quickly buried his nose inside his thick accountancy books under the pretext of studying for his forthcoming CA exams (me thinks its Complete Aaram). So yours truly was left to do ‘household chores’.

Washing utensils was the easiest task. What took its toll on me were the sweeping and swabbing. It was nothing but sheer hell. Bending on your knees trying to get the dust out of nooks and cranies. The broom seemed heavy to hold albeit to me it resembled a hockey stick that I couldn’t for the life of mine manoeuvre. All this under the watchful gaze of mom who could spot dust in places I couldn’t. And they say eyesight fails with age :-(. To top it all you have a cheeky younger bro who in a very sadistic straght faced manner tells you that sweeping is good for your abs. At least this way you’ll get some exercise. Imagine the results…do it daily and soon you’ll have a swelte figure. Grrrrrrr…I am happy being healthy and lazy.

With great heaving and hoing and standing under the fan to cool off, I managed to sweep our 2 BHK flat (wow am I glad it’s not bigger than this). Then there was the swabbing where I cheated. I mopped partly standing and leisurely pushing the mop from one end to the other. My funda being if the floor is wet it means its mopped. Why take so much of trouble? After all this I plonked myself under the fan making a great show of all the back breaking, sweat trickling work I had done.

But this entire  rigmarole got me thinking about my mother, governess and all the women for whom this is not a one off choice but a daily chore. Cook, clean, wash, wipe the routine doesn’t change ever. The place may vary from parent’s home to in-laws’ home (and in some pathetic cases even children’s homes). But the nature of the job doesn’t. Be it the mistress of the house or the maid…it’s hard work all the same. Standing in the sweltering kitchen, slaving over the gas all day all this while catering to numerous requests from family members, taking care of children, etc. etc. Phew..that’s some task… And still we look down upon home makers with a disdain that wants to put them to shame for being at home and not being career women. For not contributing financially…for choosing the home and hearth over a plum job.

So hat’s off to all the home makers. For doing what they do, day in and day out. For giving us spic n span homes, hot meals, washed and ironed clothes. And most importantly for giving us a home we look forward to coming back to every day. Thanks ladies. Thanks mom and Ratna Aunty.




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