August 2005


Motherhood is a very challenging job. It's a very difficult task and yet very rewarding. It takes a lot of patience, love and understanding. I love my daughter very much. She is the very best thing that has happened to me. I've been through a lot before she came into our lives. Having her is the most precious gift that we have ever received. I lost my first baby and, after that, it has been very difficult and frightening for me. I was able to survive because of my faith in God and with the help of my husband and his faith in God as well. And when the time came God answered my prayer. I was pregnant with Abigail. And even then it was very emotional for me. I was scared that something was going to happen with my pregnancy. I just kept praying and praying that everything will be fine. Somewhere along the way I was able to surpass it…until one day in the eighth month of my pregnancy Abigail was born. It was another scary time for me and my husband but in the end it was a Miracle indeed. That's why and how I took the title " Abigail Faith is a Miracle" for Abby's Blog. And the name "Faith" symbolizes our faith in God for giving us a daughter.

And then another problem arose shortly after she was born. A birthmark or Hemangioma developed on her cheek. You may read her story in my previous post found in her blog. Anyway, when Abigail was born I was planning or not taking anything for granted. However I failed. I failed Abigail. She fell out of bed because I wasn't there for her. I didn't protect her from the possibility that she might fall out of our bed, when I wasn't looking. I didn't do my responsiblity as a mother. I wasn't thinking and I am so guilty.

Lesson Learned:
1. I should not have left Abby alone in our bed sleeping knowing she can roll-over and knowing that she sometimes doesn't cry out when she wakes up.

2. I should have used the monitor so that I can hear her right away but I didn't.

3. I should have thought and remembered that I've seen her on the edge of our bed before but I didn't do anything about it. I keep saying laterbut now it's too late.
Thankfully nothing happened to her but I wish she had never fallen.

Please read Abigail's First Fall story in her

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  • Thank you very much.

    Eto na po ang sagot ko tungkol sa apat na Alas na binigay ni

  • Kadyo
  • … Naku! eto ang pinakamahirap na assignment na gagawin ko. Kadyo, kung parehas tayo ng sagot it doesn't mean na nangopya ako ha! lol…

    APAT NA PINAKADAKILANG PILIPINO:
    1. Dr. Jose Rizal- National Hero
    2. Melchora Aquino- Tandang Sora and Mother of Balintawak
    3. Andres Bonifacio- The Great Plebian and Father of the Katipunan.
    4. Juan Luna- Greatest Filipino Painter

    APAT NA PILIPINONG HINAHANGAAN MO SA ANUMANG LARANGAN:
    1. Sharon Cuneta – Megastar
    2. Dr. Jose Rizal
    3. Melchora Aquino
    4. Juan Luna

    APAT NA MAGAGANDANG LUGAL SA PILIPINAS NA NARATING MO:
    1. Makati Metro Manila
    2. Davao City
    3. Sarrat, Ilocos Norte
    4. Davao Del Sur

    APAT NA LUGAL SA PILIPINAS NA GUSTO MONG MAPUNTAHAN
    1. Pearl Resort sa Davao
    2. Boracay
    3. Tagaytay
    4. Baguio

    APAT NA BAGAY NA PAG-NAKIKITA MO NAALALA MO ANG PILIPINAS:
    1. Lansones, Durian, Mangga, Langka
    2. balikbayan boxes
    3. kumain gamit ang kamay
    4. Letsong baboy

    APAT NA PUTAHENG PILIPINONG PABORITO MO:
    1. Letson
    2. Adobong baboy at manok
    3. Kilawing isda
    4. Pinakbet na Saluyot

    APAT NA SALITANG PILIPINO NA KAILANGAN MO NG TALASALITAAN PAG IYONG NARINIG:
    1. Hindi
    2. ko
    3. Alam
    4. eto

    APAT NA KANTANG PILIPINONG GUSTO MONG MARINIG:
    1. Pambansang Awit ng Pilipinas
    2. Ang Bayan Ko
    3. Kanta ni Sharon Cuneta
    4. Kahit ano

    APAT NA MATATAMIS NA SALITANG O KATAGANG PILIPINO:
    1. Mahal
    2. Ikaw
    3. Ang
    4. Bahala

    APAT NA APELYIDO NA PAG IYONG NARINIG NAKAKATIYAK KANG SILA AY PINOY:
    1. Agno
    2. Balwis
    3. Nasol
    4. Macapagal

    APAT NA PANGALANG PINOY NA AYAW MONG IPANGALAN SA IYONG ANAK:
    1. Itoy
    2. Apoy
    3. Hoy
    4. Kikoy

    APAT NA LARONG PILIPINO NA NALARO MO NA NG BATA KA PA:
    1. Bahay- Bahayan
    2. Taguan-pung
    3. Shatong
    4. Bikla- Bikla- Tagalog ba yan o Bisaya?

    APAT NA BAGAY NA AYAW MO SA PILIPINAS:
    1. Publik Kubeta
    2. Basura kahit saan
    3. Traffic
    4. Pulitika

    APAT NA BAGAY NA GUSTO MO SA PILIPINAS:
    1. Malalapit ang bawat isa sa pamilya at kaibigan.
    2 Kilala mo ang bo-ong baryo.
    3. Pwedeng manghingi ng asin sa kapitbahay.
    4. Maraming Dagat

    APAT NA BAGAY NA GAGAWIN MO KUNG IKAW ANG PANGULO NG PILIPINAS:
    1. Hindi
    2. 'ata
    3. ako
    4. Pwede eh!

    APAT NA ALAS NA AKING NAPILING TAGAYAN:
    Jenny, Jona, Ethel ,Ana 'n Paris

    Salamat po!

  • Kadyo from Middle East tagged me about Seven things. Thanks a lot Kadyo.

  • 1.)Seven things you like the most:
    1. I like Red roses
    2. Walking with Brad and Abby
    3. I like Picnic

    4. Swimming in the Pool
    5. Listening to music
    6. I like tea
    7. I like nature
    2.)Seven important things in your bedroom:
    1. Bed
    2. Blanket and Comforter
    3. Picture of my Family
    4. Long pillows
    5. Dresser
    6. Bedside tables
    7. lamps
    3.)Seven random facts about you:
    1. A mother, wife
    2. I am Filipino
    3. I am Bisaya
    4. I am half Ilocano
    5. I am from Davao
    6. I love God

    7. I am a strong woman
    4.)Seven things you plan to do before you die:
    1. Spend time with my family
    2. Travel around the world
    3. Visit my family in the Philippines
    4. (see # 3)
    5. (see #4)
    6. (see #5)
    7. (see#6)
    5.)Seven things you can do:
    1. Gardening
    2. Writing, Reading and Typing
    3. Ballroon Dancing
    4. Cooking
    5. Baking
    6. Blogging and surfing the net
    7. Photographing
    6.)Seven things you can't do:
    1. Skating
    2. Knitting
    3. Fly an Airplane
    4. Play a guitar
    5. I don't know how to speak French
    6. I don't know how to repair a car
    7. I can't climb on a coconut tree
    7.)Seven things that attract you to the opposite sex:
    1. Hygiene
    2. Personality
    3. Faith in God
    4. Determined
    5. Height
    6. Patience
    7. Common sense
    8.)Seven things you say the most:
    1.Honey
    2. kabaw
    3. lol
    4. Musta na
    5. Thank you
    6. Please
    7. What?
    9.)Seven celeb crushes (whether local or foreign):
    1.Brad Pitt
    2. Tom Cruise
    3. Richard Gere
    4. see # 1
    5. see #2
    6. see # 3
    7. see # 4
    10.)Seven people you want to see take this quiz:

  • Angie, Ethel, Lanie, Jona, Ana P ,Lutchi
  • : Thanks everyone…

  • Marlen from Cebu tagged me about Book Meme. Thanks a lot Marlen. Total books Owned:I never counted my books ever. I have lost some of my books from people borrowing. Some people doesn't know how to return and I'm embarrass to ask for them. I've sold some books to a second hand bookstore. Well, I owned 2 boxes of cookbooks. I have about 5 bibles in different version- it used to be more but I gave it away. I owned Spiritual books including Concordance to the Bible. Guinea Pig and Fish books, Ballroom Dancing Books, All the romance of Danielle Steele, Pregnancy and Childbirth books, and many more.

    Last Book I Bought:
    I bought 2 books from Amazon.com

    1. Baby and Toddler Cookbook- It's an organic cookbook that Brad and I use for Abigail's meal. It's really simple and easy to follow.

    2. The no-cry sleep Solution- It's a gentle ways to help your baby sleep through the night. This book is full of supportive, encouraging and sensible ideas that respect the needs of both baby and parents.

    Last Book I Read:
    1. Baby and Toddler Cookbook
    2. The no-cry Sleep Solution

    Books I like to Read:
    1. Romance
    2. Parenting and homemaking books
    3. Pet books
    4. Selp-help books
    5. Spiritual books

    Books that mean a lot to me:
    1. The Bible
    2. Concordance to the Bible
    3. Dictionary
    4. Alternative Medicine Books

  • I am tagging Ligaya ,Bless , Lynneth

    Thank you guys…

    1. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING? The no-cry sleep solution by Elizabeth Pantley
    2. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? Picture of hubby and me
    3. FAVORITE BOARD GAME? Scrabble
    4. FAVORITE MAGAZINE? Parents Today, Gardening, Alive,
    5. BABIES? Abigail Faith- 10 1/2 months
    6. FAVORITE SOUND? The birds singing
    7. WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD? Sadness
    8. HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? Usually 3
    9. FUTURE CHILD'S NAME? Alexander, Joshua
    10. WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IN YOUR LIFE? My family
    12. IF YOU COULD PLAY AN INSTRUMENT, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Piano
    13. DO YOU LIKE TO DRIVE FAST? Nope….I'd rather be careful!
    14. SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL? Hubby can sometimes be an animal, but stuffed?? Nope! LOL
    15. STORMS? I don't like lightening and thunderstorm.
    16. THE ONE PERSON FROM YOUR PAST YOU WISH YOU COULD GO BACK AND TALK TO? My Father….I never had a chance to say Goodbye.
    17. FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK? Champagne
    18. FAVORITE NON-ALCOHOLIC DRINK? Tea
    19. WHAT'S IN THE BOOT OF YOUR CAR? The boot? In my trunk I have a spare tire.
    20. DO YOU EAT THE STEMS OF BROCCOLI? Yes
    21. IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED WHAT WOULD IT BE? Wedding Consultant
    22. LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND TO THIS? Not sure
    23. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? I still am
    24. IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Half full
    25. FAVORITE MOVIE? I have so many favorites.
    26. DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Yes
    27. WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED? None
    29. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH? Ballroom Dancing and Skating
    30. SAY AT LEAST ONE NICE THING ABOUT THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU? She's a sweetheart.
    31. IF YOU COULD BUILD A HOUSE ANYWHERE WHERE WOULD IT BE? Near the Beach
    32. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE ARTICLE OF CLOTHING? Jeans
    33. BEACH, MOUNTAINS OR CITY? Beach and Mountains
    34. TECHNOLOGY OR ART? I'd have to say both!
    35. COMEDY OR HORROR? Comedy
    36. FAVORITE PHYSICAL FEATURE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX? Eyes
    37. FAVORITE TIME OF DAY? Late morning
    38. THE LAST CD YOU BOUGHT? Ballroom Dancing
    39. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO BE MASSAGED? My neck, back
    40. WHAT'S MOST IMPORTANT, STRONG IN MIND OR STRONG IN BODY? Mind
    41. WHAT TIME DO YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING? 7 AM on the weekdays
    43. WHAT MAKES YOU REALLY ANGRY? Mean and Inconsiderate people
    44.WHICH DO YOU PREFER, SPORTS CAR OR SUV? Sports car
    45. DO YOU BELIEVE IN THE AFTERLIFE? Yes! Not right now. When a person died it remains dead. The solid biblical foundation that death is the total absence of life, that there is no part of a person (either “soul” or “spirit”) that “goes to heaven” when he/she dies and that the dead are actually dead and “sleeping” in “gravedom” until Christ’s appearing.
    46.WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SEASON? Spring and Fall
    47. IF YOU COULD HAVE ONE SUPER POWER, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Power to save the world from poverty.
    48. IF YOU HAVE A TATTOO, WHAT IS IT? Tattoos???? Not me….
    49. CAN YOU JUGGLE? Nope
    50. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE DAY? TGIF
    52. FROM THE PEOPLE YOU WILL TAG THIS TO, WHO'S MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND FIRST? I don't know.
    53. WHO DID YOU RECEIVE THIS FROM? Carol
    54. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CARTOON? I don't have a favorite
    56. IF YOU COULD TAKE A VACATION ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHERE WOULD IT BE? Italy, France and Philippines
    If you are currently reading this please copy and paste it in your blog. Change all of the answers so that they apply to you. Let me know so I can visit your blog.

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