Can Women and Men be friends?

It was the Young Mind Conference closing ceremony this afternoon.
Me and my whole bunch of classmates went to support Jason who will be having a presentation later after celebrating a "MERDEKA" girl birthday :)

One of the presentation is about

"Can women and men be friends?"

 Well, it was quite interesting topic which drew most of the author's attention.

The speaker started off with a good beginning, explaining about girls' emotions.

There are times in every woman's life where her body wants either what her heart can't handle or her brain knows better.

You know the drill -- you want a man, but not a relationship. Or, more to the point, you want some loving, but don't want the strings attached.

Maybe you're wildly attracted to a dude physically, but find him mentally or morally lacking -- like a tanning technician or a bounty hunter.

There's no way you'd ever date him, but why should you deny yourself entirely?

well, I found the same as she said in CNN -.-


"FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS"
Two friends who have a sexual realtionship without being emotionally involved

"A friend with benefits is someone you get to have sex with, no strings attached. There’s no expensive dinners, no roses and no being home on time required. It is a mutually beneficial relationship with a friend or acquaintance where you don’t get to take them out on a date, but you do get to call them at 1 a.m. when the bar closes to see if they want to hook up."


“Men focus on the benefits, women on the friends”

 "Men and women can’t just be friends. Well, I mean that they definitely cannot just be friends if they’re actively engaging in a sexual relationship."


Men are born naturally knowing how to detract emotions from physical activity. In fact, with many of them, I think it's their default setting. They can spend the night with a woman and then meander off into the sunset without giving the assignation a second thought.

But

 Women can have a harder time of it. We worry that we're being "used" or feel like we're being promiscuous.

The one and only reason people getting involved in friends with benefits relationship due to less commitment!!

"A major reason for maintaining friendship with benefits is the fear of commitment as the boundaries of such a friendship are not clearly defined. "

Well here is a link of true life stories. If you are interested feel free to surf it.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2019124/Friends-benefits-Is-strings-sex-really-simple.html


I really do like this topic :)


Besides, I was glad that my class had won the debate competition and dear Joanne had a first runner up for poster competition.


Surprisingly, Jun Wei, Wei Ching and Brynna had won champion for poster competition o____o
Well, frankly speaking their poster is quite nice and creative.
All you did is not a waste of time :)

It's all junk food inside!?!!?

The debate team
Left to right: Mynn, Jinz, Jess

HB1 class photo

What we did on a car of my physics teacher!! As it was her birthday :P

of course, I would never forget my DESIRE &946 <3>

AND SO
my fellow team mates which encounter many ups and downs with me :)

I owe both of them a lot.
Teaching me lots of things this year. You do not know how grateful I am having you guys here!

My first satisfied family picture :)))

My first tying hair up pic xD

Well, I didn't say that others are not important. I love everyone that I care :)
 DO take more pictures with me. I SERIOUSLY MISS YOU GUYS!!!

It kills me in the inside when you did not take care of yourself properly

I care as much as you do

Again still

felt tiny when I knew that my life was not full enough

Bring me away please someone

a day

Well, I was quite down after the morning test D:
I did not managed to finish it :/

I put lots of hope in my test but in the end it sucks.

It kills me in he inside when you came and told me that you still have time to check again.
I was stunned and felt that I was like a crawling turtle.

I am quite envy of your brain which can think fast.
I don't know why I am just damn stupid.

Well, I had prepared for accepting the fact that my result is not so good.
It hurts for SAM students.
Every tests are counted unlike Alevels or others :/
It really hurts deep inside me especially you desperately need the marks to pull your grade up.

Maybe you might said that I act like I am kiasu
but this is what I really need in order to go in good university with good courses.

I felt that I had never put much effort on studies.
Anyhow disappointment always came to me.

It is not that I am not confident in myself.
Is just I really am not that good.
How I wish I can be like you all.
But eventually my marks are always stuck on that grade.

Hope so :/

This is the picture which made me non-stop LAUGHING ;D

''When the going gets tough, the tough get going"

me :(

Knowing the fact that I still have not much time left
but
I am still wondering around
FACEBOOKING

I felt lazy or tired of studying
WHAT AM I THINKING?!?!

Well just to count the days for myself
27/8 Physics Test
31/8 Anne's gathering
5/9 DI 2 SUBMISSION
6/9 Biology Test
13/9 TRIAL!!!!!!!!!!!

There are many things I still don't know

I hate myself
when time passes
I always forget what I told myself
What I need
What I want
Why?

In the end,
I just stress myself and complaining about stupid me.

Please wake me up
someone :(

LOST

I don't know what I am doing now
I felt lost in the middle of the ocean

Knowing what to do
but I just can't continue
don know why..

I know that the end will always be cruel

There will not be a happy ending 

I believe that there are still some people will appreciate 

Friends like family forever like what promised.

You are too good to be true

你

有时在想
为什么不可能？

明知道就是不可能
为什么还去想？

说真的，我想我会很羡慕她

不知道以后会怎样
但
我希望你能有你所要的

thoughts

Looking at others,
thinking of what I had done this year is not as meaningful as I was last time.

I don't know why I just like to be alone.
I would rather be alone, than pretend I feel alright.

Knowing that I had lots of things to do
but I just couldn't resist in entertainment.

I knew I had to work superb hard to gain an A+
I always give myself hope
but eventually does it really can happen?
just left some of tests and finals
Is it possible?

The part I like in SAM is it trained me to think more.
You will realise that what we learn last time is nothing.
Teachers spoon feeding you and you seldom think.

I learn a lot.
I was so naive and noob last time.
Well, I was learning to be more observant to the surroundings.

Is it good to have me becoming more and more..?
well, I couldn't describe anymore..
Is this the real me that I was always curious about? Is it?
The one that hate something the most but eventually like that the most?
The one that do not have patience in something?
The one that is selfish?
The one that should say NO
The one that...

I found myself liking things that is challenging
Although I am not good at it, i feel like trying
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you couldn't do (: 

I don't know why I just can't think so well as others.
Why people can perform so well?
WHY?
How much hard work they did?

Sometimes I think that I was being too greedy.
I was once thought that I was perfect in..
well, came to know that all those are nonsense.

We should be more than what we are now.

If you can't explain it simply you don't understand it well enough- Einstein