Poor Vivi. With Trenton and Colson both being boys, and also being very close in age, they are just the best of buds. They seriously only fight about twice a year and they are connected at the hip. They have so much fun together, which is great! Except when their little sister wants to join in the fun. They haven't always been the best about including her. They have gotten a lot better though the last little while. I think it has to do with the fact that she has gotten older and doesn't get into their stuff so much anymore.
Well, I think to cope with not having a constant best bud like the boys had, Vivi came up with an imaginary friend a few years ago. She named him Jee-Joe, and he is small enough to fit in the palm of her hand. Vivi has always said that Jee-Joe came to live with us because his family died, and he needed a new family to take care of him.
Jee-Joe has had lots of adventures. Jee-Joe always goes wherever we we go. He has an imaginary buckle right next to Vivi in the car. He has taken turns having sleepovers at the grandma's houses (My mom even found a tiny little house for him, and she and Vivi made a bed to put in the house), sometimes he has gotten left behind at a store or at home (I think we accidentally left him behind in Wyoming once. He always manages to turn back up though!), other times he has made big, huge messes (thank heavens they weren't real messes!), and he has taken many different trips. You name it, Jee-Joe has done it. The last little while, we haven't heard as much about Jee-Joe. I didn't even realize how little Vivi had talked about him until the other day when she said she couldn't find him anywhere. I asked her if Jee-Joe was at one of the grandma's? Or was he hiding in her room again? "No." she said. "I just can't find him anywhere!" Does this mean that she is growing out of needing her imaginary friend? In some ways it makes me sad because it means that she is growing up and getting older, but in other ways I am ecstatic because maybe it means that she isn't feeling as left out by the boys. ;)







