Today was the last day of soccer. Our coach didn’t make it, this time due to an injury in the family. I actually had to be the coach for the entire day. There was also no super-uber-coach/mom in the audience that would swoop down and save me. I did it all alone. But, that is not even what I wanted to post about. Maybe another time though because it was amazing.
What I wanted to write about happened right after soccer. Today was Rylie’s turn to bring treats to her team. She was so excited. We planned all week and finally ended up with Rice Krispie treats and apples, a nice balance of nutrition and complete lack thereof.
The sad thing is that her team, in the excitement of the moment, last day of soccer and all, ran off without partaking of her goodies.
She was heartbroken.
We gathered up her uneaten bag of deliciousness and proceeded to the car. I tossed her empty water bottle, that for some reason I was carrying, in the bag to free up one of my hands so I could tuck her under my wing, pat her sweaty little head, and explain about life and the way things work. All the while reassuring her that there would surely come another day that she could share her generosity with someone.
The kiddos piled in the car and I pulled the handle on the van door to make it snap into action and close itself. Then I stuck my arm in to drop the bag of goodies into her lap so she could help herself and serve her eager sisters a Krispie treat.
As I did that the empty water bottle jumped itself right out of the bag onto my foot and tried to roll under the van. I bent to grab it and tried to throw it back in the van before the door closed, severing a much needed appendage.
It was pretty close, but I made it.
Apparently my super hero antics scared the wits out of the children.
I jumped in the driver’s seat ready to move along (completely oblivious to the trauma I had just caused the kidlets)and Paige says from behind me, “ Mom, we thought you were going to die just now.”
Just then a lovely lady with several hundred children walked past and I nonchalantly (trying to be funny and lighthearted at an inappropriate time) said, “Well, this lady looks lovely, I bet she would have taken you home with her.”
Paigie immediately replied, “But she wouldn’t know what we like!”
Light bulb moment.
Isn’t that what it boils down to, really? Moms just know what we like.
She knows the kind of blanket we need to sleep. She knows our favorite color, food, book and toy. She knows that when we wake up in the night it is that certain special song, hummed so quietly in our ear, that will lull us back to slumber.
She knows what size shoes we wear and that we like to wear them with our socks wrong side out so the seams don’t rub on our baby toes.
She knows that we like to name all our babies Apple , except for the ones named Mary and Joseph.
She knows that we don’t like sour cream on our potato, but that our sister does (and that our other sister also likes cheese on hers). She knows that we like the crusts cut off our PB&J sandwiches and that we love “wrapper cheese” on our grilled cheese even though everyone else likes “real“ cheese. She knows that we like our hot dogs plain and that our little sister likes hers without a bun. She knows that Laffy Taffy is our favorite goody, closely followed by purple Sweetarts.
She knows our favorite thing to do with our spare time and can think of alternate plans when that favorite thing seems a little less favorite, at least for right now.
She knows that we don’t like it that we can’t see the moon from our bed since we moved it to the other side of the room.
She knows that sometimes we get in a bad mood and she knows the things we like and need to hear to make us feel better. She also knows that sometimes there is nothing she can say, we just need to figure it out on our own. Luckily, she also knows that we like hugs best, while our sister prefers a little kiss on the head, when words can’t do the trick.
She knows our best friend, and also knows that friend sometimes drives us crazy. She also knows we like to talk about it but don’t always like advice.
She knows that when we are sick we like the medicine that tastes like bubble gum much better than the grape kind , and she knows that we like (okay, LOVE) being tickled on the back and arms, and that to us , that is the best thing in the world and that it will always make us feel better (no matter what).
Apparently, it was a close call today, but I am really glad the van didn’t beat me because Paige was right. That lady, as lovely as she seemed, would not have known what my kids like at all.
I do though.
I do because that is my job, and as far as I am concerned, I have the best job in the universe.